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Re: The Father Of My 2 Kids Took Them Away From Me Unlawfully, Deceitfully by Prettychild(f): 3:51pm On Apr 25, 2022 |
Movingon5:Go to the nearest FIDA Office in Kogi State |
Re: The Father Of My 2 Kids Took Them Away From Me Unlawfully, Deceitfully by Movingon5: 3:53pm On Apr 25, 2022 |
Prettychild: We residing and still working in lagos state. |
Re: The Father Of My 2 Kids Took Them Away From Me Unlawfully, Deceitfully by rickpat(m): 3:54pm On Apr 25, 2022 |
ivolt:what's your argument about please?... common-law is the term for people living together without being legally married...I don't really get what your issue is at all...do you think in court the judge would be interested in whether they are married or not?...the argument would be on how the kids would be taken care of... whether sole custody (either the man or the woman) or co-parenting...I don't get you though... so you as a custodian of Nigerian Constitution...give a verdict or advise on the issue |
Re: The Father Of My 2 Kids Took Them Away From Me Unlawfully, Deceitfully by Prettychild(f): 3:55pm On Apr 25, 2022 |
Movingon5:Then go to FIDA Office in Lagos. I would prefer you go to FIDA Office in Kogi State since the subject matter ( the kids) and the event took place in Kogi State 1 Like |
Re: The Father Of My 2 Kids Took Them Away From Me Unlawfully, Deceitfully by Prettychild(f): 3:56pm On Apr 25, 2022 |
RedCentaur:Since she is not married to the man, in law, she has the right to keep the children |
Re: The Father Of My 2 Kids Took Them Away From Me Unlawfully, Deceitfully by Movingon5: 4:01pm On Apr 25, 2022 |
rickpat: Thanks ... am not depriving him of having access to d kids, but he just showed world dat he is not to be trusted with the kids. D children spends much and their better time with me cos he is a cso and always on d field working. He forcefully took d kids from me and he his making decisions for them without me.. he is trying to get dem a nanny when have vehemently stated am not parting with d kids. Is isn't influent... and r... like u guys are thinking to be able to fight me... none of us is going to take sole responsibility of d kids but joint one cos am sure they are his kids. 1 Like |
Re: The Father Of My 2 Kids Took Them Away From Me Unlawfully, Deceitfully by Movingon5: 4:02pm On Apr 25, 2022 |
Prettychild: Thank you 1 Like |
Re: The Father Of My 2 Kids Took Them Away From Me Unlawfully, Deceitfully by Movingon5: 4:03pm On Apr 25, 2022 |
Prettychild: Thanks so much. 1 Like |
Re: The Father Of My 2 Kids Took Them Away From Me Unlawfully, Deceitfully by rickpat(m): 4:07pm On Apr 25, 2022 |
Movingon5:...you see...it's even co-parenting you want...that's okay...at age 3 and 5years they really need their mum..just take it easy and go through the right channel...you will get what you want...the kids are quite young.. co-parenting is a good idea as well...the matter is easier since you two were not legally married ( hence you won't go through any divorce process)..so it's a little easier since it's just parenting of the kids you are going for...I wish you the best 1 Like |
Re: The Father Of My 2 Kids Took Them Away From Me Unlawfully, Deceitfully by missyojo(f): 4:14pm On Apr 25, 2022 |
RedCentaur: As in ehennnnnnnnn. Was just angry reading the post. Her best bet is to go to FIDA. |
Re: The Father Of My 2 Kids Took Them Away From Me Unlawfully, Deceitfully by Movingon5: 4:16pm On Apr 25, 2022 |
rickpat: God almighty will bless u for ur consistent positive advice.. u are 1 out of d people here who really keep me going... ur rightfully possessions won't be taken away from u. ... amen WHAT GET U HERE MAY NOT GET U BEYOND...... SO EVOLVE. |
Re: The Father Of My 2 Kids Took Them Away From Me Unlawfully, Deceitfully by missyojo(f): 4:28pm On Apr 25, 2022 |
Gospel367: Chaii.... You have bad mouth oo, see me laughing out loud with this your comment |
Re: The Father Of My 2 Kids Took Them Away From Me Unlawfully, Deceitfully by revolt(m): 4:29pm On Apr 25, 2022 |
peepydelano: Don't mind her. She wants to use the kids as pay cheque. What's wrong with him having his kids if they're better taken care of woth him. Truth is their welfare really doesn't matter to her. She's more interested in herself and how she feels about them. 1 Like |
Re: The Father Of My 2 Kids Took Them Away From Me Unlawfully, Deceitfully by rickpat(m): 4:30pm On Apr 25, 2022 |
Movingon5:amen....God bless you too...and bless your two lovely kids even more... Amen 2 Likes |
Re: The Father Of My 2 Kids Took Them Away From Me Unlawfully, Deceitfully by revolt(m): 4:31pm On Apr 25, 2022 |
Prettychild: Stupidity... and what about the children's rights ?!!!! Oh I forgot ... its only mama that has rights. That's why you don't create children out of a marriage. It complicates everything. |
Re: The Father Of My 2 Kids Took Them Away From Me Unlawfully, Deceitfully by aminusodiq(m): 4:46pm On Apr 25, 2022 |
Movingon5:you dated a 61 year old man while you are 25? Wow! Just Wow! |
Re: The Father Of My 2 Kids Took Them Away From Me Unlawfully, Deceitfully by boldsleek: 4:48pm On Apr 25, 2022 |
RedCentaur:why are you having migraine? must everyone do this marriage thing? I as a woman, I want only kids from a man and no marriage, shikena. 1 Like |
Re: The Father Of My 2 Kids Took Them Away From Me Unlawfully, Deceitfully by Prettychild(f): 4:52pm On Apr 25, 2022 |
revolt:That’s not stupidity, it’s the law. Learn to remove emotions from your comments |
Re: The Father Of My 2 Kids Took Them Away From Me Unlawfully, Deceitfully by missyojo(f): 5:08pm On Apr 25, 2022 |
Having read all the comments from page 1-7 here's what I have to say. Poster, you have done a grave mistake of your life by co-habiting with a man that hasn't paid your bride price and who even doubles as your father. It's VERY VERY WRONG. Didn't your parents/uncle's/aunty's/friends talked you out when you were living with the man Prolly they did you didn't listen because you were beclouded with all the goodies you were enjoying back then. Be that as it may, firstly accept all the bashes/insults you will see on your post. Filter the good advice and let it be your action points. You will have to go back to your family and beg them to forgive you by not listening to them that's if paragraph 2 in my comment took place, because you need them now. Your family are your pillars now. Kindly go to FIDA in your state of residence and lay your complaints to them, I'm sure they will help you or better still if you can come to Abuja and go to brekete radio (Human Rights Radio and Television). I know you have made the worst mistake of your life and regretting bitterly now. I won't judge you because I'm ain't God. I wish you the very best in your pursuit and please let us know how it's going. Cheers!!!! 1 Like |
Re: The Father Of My 2 Kids Took Them Away From Me Unlawfully, Deceitfully by BRATISLAVA: 5:11pm On Apr 25, 2022 |
Exodora: They are more interested in playing the equality card, arguing how she called them her children. But they are okay with the man taking away her children still, as if they belong to him alone. 2 Likes |
Re: The Father Of My 2 Kids Took Them Away From Me Unlawfully, Deceitfully by maxist2020(m): 5:14pm On Apr 25, 2022 |
But women, that gender is so notorious with unimaginable behaviours. At the age of 23 years you went to cohabit with a man of 56 with 3 wife's already. Are you not even ashamed saying this? You loved money so much that you went and open your leg for a man older than your father and after they man have laboured very hard thrusting you probably with wick erection and his money is no longer flowing as before, you now here shouting my children my children. Cant you remember how hard it was for that man to get erection and produce those children, madam you better respect yourself. You think money will last for ever, if you had followed your mate by now both of u will be in ur prime and cruising life, now dem don leave, you are a mumu woman. Next topic please. 1 Like |
Re: The Father Of My 2 Kids Took Them Away From Me Unlawfully, Deceitfully by BRATISLAVA: 5:17pm On Apr 25, 2022 |
Proudlyomonna: Whether married or not, she still has rights and responsibilities to her children. Your thoughts about what she did with her legs are insignificant compared to the facts in her case. 2 Likes |
Re: The Father Of My 2 Kids Took Them Away From Me Unlawfully, Deceitfully by djon78(m): 5:23pm On Apr 25, 2022 |
rickpat: I like your reply You are well knowledgeable concerning laws of the Land Are you a lawyer? |
Re: The Father Of My 2 Kids Took Them Away From Me Unlawfully, Deceitfully by revolt(m): 5:23pm On Apr 25, 2022 |
Prettychild:Which stupid law... The law didn't give rights to only mothers duhh? The kids, the father and all parties involved have rights. Infact in cases like nigeria. ... there are 3 tiers to jurispudence.. Sharia law Common law Customary law. None of these tiers gives the mother sole rights in nigeria. The kids ate even told to choose whom they'd wanna stay with in certain cases. |
Re: The Father Of My 2 Kids Took Them Away From Me Unlawfully, Deceitfully by Prettychild(f): 5:29pm On Apr 25, 2022 |
revolt:lol! Bros I no get strength to argue with you, because this argument no go fetch me money. But if you want me to enlighten you on this, you can pay me consultation fee and I will throw more light on this and even give you plethora of cases where the courts have ruled on this issue. |
Re: The Father Of My 2 Kids Took Them Away From Me Unlawfully, Deceitfully by rickpat(m): 5:31pm On Apr 25, 2022 |
djon78:no..i am not...just from studying and experience...thanks |
Re: The Father Of My 2 Kids Took Them Away From Me Unlawfully, Deceitfully by djon78(m): 5:38pm On Apr 25, 2022 |
rickpat: Wow that's awesome You are really knowledgeable Keep it up � |
Re: The Father Of My 2 Kids Took Them Away From Me Unlawfully, Deceitfully by Lama70(m): 5:43pm On Apr 25, 2022 |
You can also visit FEDERATION OF WOMEN LAWYERS. Hope I got the name correctly. It's opposite Marda Barracks along Funsho Williams Avenue. Just around the vicinity of Jibowu/ Empire axis. Na dis kind case Dem dey like for there. You no go pay shishi. My wife showed me pepper there one year like dat. But I trounced them later. |
Re: The Father Of My 2 Kids Took Them Away From Me Unlawfully, Deceitfully by Pimine: 5:49pm On Apr 25, 2022 |
Justkatty:Aswearugaaad I'm not shocked by you women anymore. Just imagine. Your kids. So the man na wetin, their Uncle? |
Re: The Father Of My 2 Kids Took Them Away From Me Unlawfully, Deceitfully by Olumaeme: 6:09pm On Apr 25, 2022 |
aribisala0: No, If both are capable and the man is more capable than the other and he can successfully prove it, He will win. If for example, the kids attends a school that pays 2m per term, lives in Maitama in a palatial mansion, go on holidays outside the country twice a year aside other luxuries afforded them by their father, it will be practically impossible for the woman to be able to afford that lifestyle assuming she earns 80k per month. No judge will grant custody to the woman! Never! It will adversely affect the psychology of the kids as they are used to luxury if they will now be subjected to one room self contain in Mararaba and will be exposed to other risks also. The Father will be granted custody and the mother will be able to see them. Let me tell you, in law, nothing, i mean nothing is cast in stone and two similar cases can get different judgement depending on how the lawyers are able to proof their cases and also present cogent and cogent evidences. |
Re: The Father Of My 2 Kids Took Them Away From Me Unlawfully, Deceitfully by demoBaba: 6:12pm On Apr 25, 2022 |
Movingon5: Small small girls and their are greed and love for money, how can you married someone that senior your father because of money, even when you see red flag in his attitude when you are enjoying during that 7 years you didn't disturb us...each family have they're issues please manage your grandfather attitude. |
Re: The Father Of My 2 Kids Took Them Away From Me Unlawfully, Deceitfully by yuping(m): 6:24pm On Apr 25, 2022 |
both of you have right to the kids so what's the problem? This one na fight of the richest, which I see you loosing cus he is rich. |
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