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Gents, between going with your girlfriend for shopping or to the salon.. Which one do you prefer?

shopping....gonna get bored in a saloon and seeing too many women go tire me

there is no logical reason for a man to go to a salon with a woman and wait for her....

I've done both on several occasions and I can confidently tell you that I hate that shît. Both of em.

I can't even allow my man to follow me to any of the two places. He will just look like a SIMP to people around

haha Why do you think so? the man who asked the question may have a logical reason to ask since he put that as an option.

MrBrownJay1:
there is no logical reason for a man to go to a salon with a woman and wait for her....

None.. why should i even be there

Sixfiguresmart:
haha Why do you think so? the man who asked the question may have a logical reason to ask since he put that as an option.

the above is as illogical as putting a cake in the oven and waiting in front of the oven for hours until it is done...

MrBrownJay1:
there is no logical reason for a man to go to a salon with a woman and wait for her....

oga rest

Shopping is cool
Salon cool only if I'll be cutting my hair or having either manicure and pedicure

None of the above.

MrBrownJay1:
the above is as illogical as putting a cake in the oven and waiting in front of the oven for hours until it is done...

Well, I am not opposed to your point. I thought it wasn't an impressive question to ask. However, to give him a nod for an attempy is why I asked to see how you can logically explain why you thought that it was illogical.

I appreciate your response and love that you are passionately stuck on your POV. Nevertheless, in life, I have discovered that most people cannot logically explain their base of reasoning. They stick to a pattern passed on to them by some people who imagine to be extremely brilliant and wise.

The reality is that we see things from different angles and that man might surprisingly have presented sound and logical reasons had he the chance to explain his choice of words.

Sixfiguresmart:
Well, I am not opposed to your point. I thought it wasn't an impressive question to ask. However, to give him a nod for an attempy is why I asked to see how you can logically explain why you thought that it was illogical.

I appreciate your response and love that you are passionately stuck on your POV. Nevertheless, in life, I have discovered that most people cannot logically explain their base of reasoning. They stick to a pattern passed on to them by some people who imagine to be extremely brilliant and wise.

The reality is that we see things from different angles and that man might surprisingly have presented sound and logical reasons had he the chance to explain his choice of words.

please, i am all ears to listen to what plausible reason a man would have to go to a salon with a woman and wait for her hours...

MrBrownJay1:
please, i am all ears to listen to what plausible reason a man would have to go to a salon with a woman and wait for her hours...

He may have. People have preferences. If that is what glues his relationship, it might be reasonable. Love can make you slap another man during a worldwide telecast.

U really find out odd like you do but I see so many opting for it and I wonder if I could have omitted something.

I am just saying, not that I oppose your POV but things happen and I am learning to be open to preferences and choice as long as they are not spiritual aberrations.

Sixfiguresmart:
He may have. People have preferences. If that is what glues his relationship, it might be reasonable. Love can make you slap another man during a worldwide telecast.

U really find out odd like you do but I see so many opting for it and I wonder if I could have omitted something.

I am just saying, not that I oppose your POV but things happen and I am learning to be open to preferences and choice as long as they are not spiritual aberrations.

we all have to bring logical meaning to what we do, and as much as i understand why many jealous husband/bf (or one who doesnt trust their woman) would do that, i dont see any logic to it.

MrBrownJay1:
we all have to bring logical meaning to what we do, and as much as i understand why many jealous husband/bf (or one who doesnt trust their woman) would do that, i dont see any logic to it.

what if his wife demanded that he went with her?

Holly Gram Shopping own, Na normal PAROLE for MUMU MEN!


But u see that SALON own!


I SWEAR DOWN


Any MANCHI wey I SEE or CATCH and I hear sey em they SALON de wait make em GF do hair..


I SWEAR DOWN


Na my old KALA I go use BLAST BLAST d useless MANCHI left leg DROP 4 GROUND b4 people go begin ask us waiting happen!


LITE UP my WEED in peace


WTF MAN!

Sixfiguresmart:
what if his wife demanded that he went with her?

shiiiiiiiiiiit, some wives also demand that you handwash their dirty panties. does that mean it should be right for husbands to do it?!'

MrBrownJay1:
shiiiiiiiiiiit, some wives also demand that you handwash their dirty panties. does that mean it should be right for husbands to do it?!'

Bro, I understand you but our cultures have destroyed many lives too. I know a friend who does his wife's undies and he sees nothing wrong with it. He is happily married and they have amazing and respectful children. The wife respects him and treats him like a king. Not washing undies does not mean that you are an alpha male. I visited an old mate who is now into laundry business. He told me how the women drop their panties too, and he does it for the money. What is the difference between laundering MANY strangers' undies (some have infections) and doing your wife's laundry? I see nothing wrong with that.

I see hypocrisy with some Nigerian men who refuse to perform cunnilingus on their black chicks but gladly give it to white women. I see hypocrisy with a man acting subserviently to a little girl that he is trying to have sex with but acting all tough and beastly to his wife.

Your preference is someone's distaste. I want you to see the hypocrisy in our pattern of reasoning. Many men are polyandrous but remain monogamous BECAUSE of their wives. The influence of the woman on them. Many men quit their jobs and many travel abroad because of their wives' influence. If someone says, "this is what makes me happy", let them.

We care less about the people suiciding. Many are dying in silence because of what people like you will say. Just live and let live. If you asked the man caught yesterday raping a little girl his disposition on homosexuality, you would have found him vehemently condemning it. But, what he does, the sin in his heart is worse than what he condemns.

Imposing our self-righteous beliefs on others is not the way. See, if that man comes around you to see how you treat your parents or how you treat your siblings, he might scream for you to be arrested. People have tastes and I vow to respect them for their decisions. I was like you but no more. It makes me a devil to condemn others when my sins are overshadowing.