LollySeaSide:


Polygamy is not legal in Nigeria.
It might interest you to know that even though polygamy is neither legal nor illegal, it is unlawful in Nigeria.
No marriage registry will issue a certificate of marriage to a man who is already married and has an existing marriage certificate.
That is why people go through divorce and settlements before taking another wife.
States governed by sharia law allow polygamy within the context of their local laws. Still, they can not issue more than one marriage certificate to a man at any given time.

I knew the the person who own this thread just want to rubbish women... No be man wey him manhood dey stand naim go fit marry second wife�����.

When we are done asking this question. Please don't forget to ask the men if they will accept being a second husband.

When we start having second and third husbands, there won't be any problems.

Prettygirl200:
Godforbid that I will ever be a second wife to any man. And no man born of a woman will bring in another woman into my house. The day I discover my husband is cheating, from that day he stops touching cux I will not Bleep a dick that is being shared with another woman. Peace!!!!

Your mouth is damn sweet, you are leaking sugar right!

Dear woman...Be an empowered woman..!!!

Premiumwriter:

Polygamy is better than adultery.
Instead of cheating marry a second wife.
One man. One wife is not bad too.

Yet majority of those who marry n wives do so to cover for adultery. So how is polygamy much better than adultery in that case?

I had a muslim girl , very pretty and young and she told me she don't mind her husband having a second wife . Why? She explained many girls are single not married so why not let her husband marry the single lady.

She is very educated , from the SW and serious Muslim

Truvelisback:
My Children would be fine as long as i take care of them and their needs.

Their relationship matter

taleetah:
When we are done asking this question. Please don't forget to ask the men if they will accept being a second husband.

When we start having second and third husbands, there won't be any problems.

Another question that needs to asked of women is why any one of them would choose to submit to traditional marriage rules designed by men to the benefit of men alone, and then cry foul when this reality sets in?

Women, nobody is stopping you from marrying more than one husband, just make sure you can provide a comfortable home for them with peace.

Provide for them like a man would

Drefaithful:



That is the dream and prayer of every lady, event and time eventually decides when, how and where.

Above all, destiny takes charge. Because all those that became 2nd wives today once said more than what you posted above.

Not me, I will just be a baby mama

Idaytesj29:


You, Uniquetani1, Chibabe005 make una Dey deceive unaself

Never never never
Unless he sent his first wife away

blackboy:
I had a muslim girl , very pretty and young and she told me she don't mind her husband having a second wife . Why? She explained many girls are single not married so why not let her husband marry the single lady.

She is very educated , from the SW and serious Muslim

I met a Muslim woman some time back who was a fourth wife to a man, and she, in what seemed nothing but a depressive haze, explained how it is her lot of life to share a man with other women because life here on earth is a prison for women to endure... according to her religious beliefs. I called on her to please go get help for the delusion and seek better for herself, and boom .... the other women who also happened to be in polygamous relationships attacked me saying I was trying to deceive her away away Islam..

I don't know about other ladies but me,i can't...

blackboy:
I [s]had a muslim girl , very pretty and young and she told me she don't mind her husband having a second wife . Why? She explained many girls are single not married so why not let her husband marry the single lady.

She is very educated , from the SW and serious Muslim[/s]

You can't tell a future sugar mummy when you see one abi?

Abi na market illiterate woman dey like gigolo?

KaluwisxPRO:
Women, nobody is stopping you from marrying more than one husband, just make sure you can provide a comfortable home for them with peace.

Provide for them like a man would

You don't make the rules where others are concerned. If a woman chooses to marry several husbands so they can, all of them, pool together to provide for her needs, that is her decision to make.

Kobojunkie:
You don't make the rules where others are concerned. If a woman chooses to marry several husbands so they can, all of them, pool together to provide for her needs, that is her decision to make.

She’s marrying them, If she wants the benefits of more than a husband she must first put in the work to show equality.

except you want to be in a slave and master relationship, which is not surprising to me seeing your comment.

Kobojunkie:
Yet majority of those who marry n wives do so to cover for adultery. So how is polygamy much better than adultery in that case?

The issues here is that some men who have more than one wife, still have girlfriends outside their home thus commiting same adultery that marrying more than one wife was supposed to address.

Marrying more than one wife is not the cure all for a man who struggles with self-control.

KaluwisxPRO:
[s]Women, nobody is stopping you from marrying more than one husband, just make sure you can provide a comfortable home for them with peace.

Provide for them like a man would[/s]

Na men she marry.

They will all provide for her as they should.

KaluwisxPRO:
She’s marrying them, If she wants the benefits of more than a husband she must first put in the work to show equality.

except you want to be in a slave and master relationship, which is not surprising to me seeing your comment.

All this is how you have purposed in your mind that it works but as I said, the reality of It is not as you think at all.

Prettygirl200:
Godforbid that I will ever be a second wife to any man. And no man born of a woman will bring in another woman into my house. The day I discover my husband is cheating, from that day he stops touching cux I will not Bleep a dick that is being shared with another woman. Peace!!!!

Aunty, so you want your fellow girlfriends to stay single through out their lifetime??

Its not good oo

Mindlog:
The issues here is that some men who have more than one wife, still have girlfriends outside their home thus commiting same adultery that marrying more than one wife was supposed to address.

Marrying more than one wife is not the cure all for a man who struggles with self-control.

That is exactly what it is for the vast majority of polygamists particularly the ones in Nigeria.

Ijaya123:


Your house? The one you built?

And the only thing you can deny him is sex. Is that all you’ve got to offer? Even with that, several woman prostitutes are better than you at it.

Fixed.

HenryWilliams:


The day they both collabo.. your time on earth is done

it's rare and even when they do, they will end in disagreement due to different intrigues

efficiencie:


And if you find the third woman instead of committing adultery, marry her...continue until you reach 100 wives where do you place the limit and what is your justification for the choice of your limit.

You mind that dead brained negroe?

olaniyilukman:
[s]Guys will teach you lesson you haven't learn in your life... Just pray for happy home instead of being bragging[/s]

When your cheating wife says she is happy with you, accept her and be happy too.

HenryWilliams:
The day they both collabo.. your time on earth is done

Imagine that kind of living... sitting on a cauldron, hoping the lid would blow you away to bits.

seunlayi:
it's rare and even when they do, they will end in disagreement due to different intrigues

It may not be as rare as you think. Why do you think that many of these polygamous men almost never outlive any of their wives?,

If na oyinbo, dem for Don put 2 and 2 together to figure this out but for Nigerians - ignorance is bliss remains a life moto for a majority.

You're Pretty!��

mirexxx:
maybe

taleetah:
When we are done asking this question. Please don't forget to ask the men if they will accept being a second husband.

When we start having second and third husbands, there won't be any problems.

The question is, will you be able to take care of them

Nigerian girls will agree to be concubines as long as money is involved.
They will accept to be mistresses, unknown wives so long as the man has the cash to splash.

Prettygirl200:
Godforbid that I will ever be a second wife to any man. And no man born of a woman will bring in another woman into my house. The day I discover my husband is cheating, from that day he stops touching cux I will not Bleep a dick that is being shared with another woman. Peace!!!!

are you virgin

Chibabe005:
Absolutely nonsense. Why? It's better to wait patiently for the right man than being a second fiddle

As if you are a right woman.

You wait till Jesus comes.