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I am currently in a fix my people.

I have a girl who is in the university currently. She's 21 already. I Live in Abuja while she lives in Owerri.

Late last year I disvirgined her but I never knew my nightmare would start from there. Ever since I did that act, she totally changed and I made some observations and discovered she cheated on me with her male friend. I confronted her with facts and she apologized promising it would repeat itself again. Out of love I agreed and we continued again.

To my greatest shock her behaviour never changed. I still inquired and I discovered she is sleeping with a guy in her lodge regularly. She denied several times until I got serious evidence and this time she admitted and was blaming me for deflowering her. She said she can't withstand the temptation of guys in her school. This is the girl I intend to marry.

Now she says she wanna quit and I don't deserve her because of her promcious ways. She has been nice to me all along until she changed recently. I need solid advice my people. I don't wanna act out of anger.

Pls should I kick her out or reconsider? I do help her financially for 2yrs of dating. I Am 28 and ready to settle down.

Help my people.

Damnnn niggar

She said she can't withstand the temptation of guys in her school

It is over my niggar...

If you are smart enough keep on banging her with no emotions attached

Because this her whoring phase is going to be longer than we thought ... normally, it starts from 18 to 26...but this your girlfriend own will extend to 32 years
How we sure you are the one that break the hymen..

Make we just tell you the truth...if you still feel like to manage her....then what about nysc time..how you want take cope? You know the kind fertile rod with vain way go dey enter your babe for nysc

Forgive her na...

Fvcking simp

2022 M.V.P SIMP

Her age still dey worry her...LET HER BE.

see this poor excuse of a man!!!
she cheated, you forgave her... she now tells you she cant stop wanting to be fukced anyhow, and here you are still talking arrant nonsense about marriage to this disrespectful olosho!

someone should Eslap this simp for me!!!

H0e phase will come and go...
Keep 4giving her...
SIMPle man..

WHY BE SAY MEN LIKE TO MAKE THIS STATEMENT "THIS IS THE GIRL I INTEND TO MARRY" IF GIRL START TO DY DISPLAY .

Who takes 18-25years girls who are still undergraduates serious when it comes to relationships
This particular age bleep anything they see around school campus

This is 2022 the era of simping is over
When you disvrigin her it was just your turn on the pussy it was never meant to be yours forever

Dump the LovePeddler and move ahead

Lmao,Her Pussy can't withstand the doings of owerri bitcoin Boys and Sugar Daddies

With all the Red Pill Knowledge on here,you suppose dun know say long distance relationship na Error,Beta find a babe close to you and stop deceiving your self.

U no get problem as at now

Na when she go NYSC u go get problem

I thought you guys said deflowering a girl makes her loyal

How market Op

I no even read..

Verysmart101:
I am currently in a fix my people.I have a girl who is in the university currently.Shes 21 already.I Live at Abuja while she lives at Owerri.Late last year I disvirgined her but I never knew my nightmare would start from there.Ever since I did that act,she totally changed and I made some observations and discovered she cheated on me with her male friend.I confronted her with facts and she apologized promising it would repeat itself again.Out of love I agreed and we continued again.To my greatest shock her behaviour never changed.I still inquired and I discovered she is sleeping with a guy in her lodge regularly.She denied several times until I got serious evidence and this time she admitted and was blaming me for deflowering her.She said she can't withstand the temptation of guys in her school.This is the girl I intend to marry.Now she says she wanna quit and I don't deserve her because of her promcious ways.She has been nice to me all along until she changed recently.I need solid advice my people.i don't wanna act out of anger.Pls should I kick her out or reconsider? I do help her financially for 2yrs of dating.Am 28 and ready to settle down.Help my people.

oga she is for d street

Shebi you nah very smart guy You get wisdon

U need 'Solid' advice from the 'Solid Rock' of nairaland...

Advisers please come forward

Verysmart101:
I am currently in a fix my people.I have a girl who is in the university currently.Shes 21 already.I Live at Abuja while she lives at Owerri.Late last year I disvirgined her but I never knew my nightmare would start from there.Ever since I did that act,she totally changed and I made some observations and discovered she cheated on me with her male friend.I confronted her with facts and she apologized promising it would repeat itself again.Out of love I agreed and we continued again.To my greatest shock her behaviour never changed.I still inquired and I discovered she is sleeping with a guy in her lodge regularly.She denied several times until I got serious evidence and this time she admitted and was blaming me for deflowering her.She said she can't withstand the temptation of guys in her school.This is the girl I intend to marry.Now she says she wanna quit and I don't deserve her because of her promcious ways.She has been nice to me all along until she changed recently.I need solid advice my people.i don't wanna act out of anger.Pls should I kick her out or reconsider? I do help her financially for 2yrs of dating.Am 28 and ready to settle down.Help my people.

Long story short. She has found someone she likes more than you. The whole you don't deserve her story is her trying to let you down easy, a girl who has cheated on you will still cheat on you. especially if you accept her back, what kind of guy accepts a woman bk after cheating? You guessed right "A low value guy" a guy without options and a guy without balls and self respect...You just proved to her that she didn't make a mistake by cheating on you...Women want emotionally strong men and you my friend are emotionally weak, and this weakness disgusts women.

I blame her for cheating ab initio.
I don't blame her for cheating after you took her bk.

Biglittlelois:
I thought you guys said deflowering a girl makes her loyal

How market Op

I think his ego wants to believe he deflowered the girl.

I don't think he did.
Maybe she was still tight down there.

Verysmart101:
I am currently in a fix my people.I have a girl who is in the university currently.Shes 21 already.I Live at Abuja while she lives at Owerri.Late last year I disvirgined her but I never knew my nightmare would start from there.Ever since I did that act,she totally changed and I made some observations and discovered she cheated on me with her male friend.I confronted her with facts and she apologized promising it would repeat itself again.Out of love I agreed and we continued again.To my greatest shock her behaviour never changed.I still inquired and I discovered she is sleeping with a guy in her lodge regularly.She denied several times until I got serious evidence and this time she admitted and was blaming me for deflowering her.She said she can't withstand the temptation of guys in her school.This is the girl I intend to marry.Now she says she wanna quit and I don't deserve her because of her promcious ways.She has been nice to me all along until she changed recently.I need solid advice my people.i don't wanna act out of anger.Pls should I kick her out or reconsider? I do help her financially for 2yrs of dating.Am 28 and ready to settle down.Help my people.

I hope people that are shouting go and marry a virgin is reading this,from my observation,female promiscuous behavior is first a genetic or hereditary problem,some families are more prone to cheating more than others,I know many women that their husband lives abroad and they respect themselves,not seeing their husband for months,there is absolutely nothing a man can do to tame a promiscuous woman,she must try and taste another dick,if you like give her 1 billion dollars she must fvck another dick,but there are some women that will be rather hungry than succomb to cheating temptations

Verysmart101:
I am currently in a fix my people.I have a girl who is in the university currently.Shes 21 already.I Live at Abuja while she lives at Owerri.Late last year I disvirgined her but I never knew my nightmare would start from there.Ever since I did that act,she totally changed and I made some observations and discovered she cheated on me with her male friend.I confronted her with facts and she apologized promising it would repeat itself again.Out of love I agreed and we continued again.To my greatest shock her behaviour never changed.I still inquired and I discovered she is sleeping with a guy in her lodge regularly.She denied several times until I got serious evidence and this time she admitted and was blaming me for deflowering her.She said she can't withstand the temptation of guys in her school.This is the girl I intend to marry.Now she says she wanna quit and I don't deserve her because of her promcious ways.She has been nice to me all along until she changed recently.I need solid advice my people.i don't wanna act out of anger.Pls should I kick her out or reconsider? I do help her financially for 2yrs of dating.Am 28 and ready to settle down.Help my people.

Another SIMP-le matter. A girl from teenage years to 25 are in d whoring stage. Their pistons,plugz, ball joints, rings, alignment dey shoot fire upandan. Are u saying u aren't aware of all this?

Your girl dey owerri open mouth tell you say she is promiscuous and you still want am??
Haba you never hear of owerri girls?
Funny part she might be schooling in imsu na there the matter end, na full time olosho na. Abeg I also school in owerri you fit give me e contact?

Dump her and move on

Never accept a cheating woman back into your space. She'll only perfect her ways so she doesn't get caught in the future. Dump that girl inside the trash-can and get another.

That's it

After all their flexing they would still crucify you for taking second wife.

A woman that has dated sexed several men would still crucify you for taking second wife.

All women listen up

Sex=commitment

If you are not 100% virgin dont tell a man not to take second wife that's cheating.

If you are a man and a woman stops you from not taking second wife while she's not a virgin then you are foolish


NB : Take a second wife when you have the means to take care of both oh.

Sorry for going off topic

Owerri babe chai long distance relationship and you didn't turn her to fwb? Why una like breakfast like this why?

You want to marry a 21 year old girl.... who is this clown?

Jokerman:
You want to marry a 21 year old girl.... who is this clown?

my brother....you see 21-24 year old girls, dem nor dey understand wetin person dey talk at all....

But i believe many go into relationships nowadays for sex but what i find funny is a man that has not even done introduction will expect somebodys daughter to be faithful to him all in the name of relationship at the end they will dump the said lady and go for another one and u feel its ok for her to remain faithful to u because u are a man put a ring there if u feel threatened or stf.


Even the bible says do not put all your eggs in one basket if u feel u want to keep her all to yourself marry her or stop the whining

headbasher96:
But i believe many go into relationships nowadays for sex but what i find funny is a man that has not even done introduction will expect somebodys daughter to be faithful to him all in the name of relationship at the end they will dump the said lady and go for another one and u feel its ok for her to remain faithful to u because u are a man put a ring there if u feel threatened or stf.


Even the bible says do not put all your eggs in one basket if u feel u want to keep her all to yourself marry her or stop the whining

Hope u won't complain if same thing is done to you? If u don't do well in relationship,how can u perform in marriage? No body came into this world married but wat we possess attracts people to us.its not every guy that uses and dump pls.Compare wisely

Cashio:
my brother....you see 21-24 year old girls, dem nor dey understand wetin person dey talk at all....

Honestly bro

These kinds of stupid men still exist? I don't mean to be rude. I'm just upset with you.

Biglittlelois:
I thought you guys said deflowering a girl makes her loyal

How market Op

Na mumu dey trust pussy

Here we go again...