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Re: Ladies: Can You Accept To Be A Second Wife? by Nobody: 5:24pm On Apr 28, 2022
gaskiyamagana:


You no read your Bible well, well. Only Adam and only his wife. Cheating is not good still.
NAIRALAND is not a BIBLE Class...
Please desist from applying Biblical principles on a public discourse. It depicts lack of wisdom.
State your facts so as to distinguish yourself.
Quote your Bible passages anytime you get into Sunday School classes.
Re: Ladies: Can You Accept To Be A Second Wife? by shantti(m): 5:32pm On Apr 28, 2022
Prettygirl200:
Godforbid that I will ever be a second wife to any man. And no man born of a woman will bring in another woman into my house. The day I discover my husband is cheating, from that day he stops touching cux I will not Bleep a dick that is being shared with another woman. Peace!!!!

The house you built with your money or the one your husband built with his money
Re: Ladies: Can You Accept To Be A Second Wife? by yomi531(m): 5:33pm On Apr 28, 2022
Prettygirl200:
Godforbid that I will ever be a second wife to any man. And no man born of a woman will bring in another woman into my house. The day I discover my husband is cheating, from that day he stops touching cux I will not Bleep a dick that is being shared with another woman. Peace!!!!
No woman owns a man's d*ck. Know this and know peace. Whether teacher o, pastor o, imam o, banker o or what have u. Men go still pursue small small girls outside. Dont be deceived sister
Re: Ladies: Can You Accept To Be A Second Wife? by debbydams(f): 5:33pm On Apr 28, 2022
robosky02:
In the week of Yul Edochie introducing us to is second wife


I wish to ask the Ladies in the house


Can you accept to be a second why?

What are the advantage or disadvantage in doing it?

And for the guys what's your take in this...
no
Re: Ladies: Can You Accept To Be A Second Wife? by Kobojunkie: 5:35pm On Apr 28, 2022
yomi531:
No woman owns a man's d*ck. Know this and know peace. Whether teacher o, pastor o, imam o, banker o or what have u. Men go still pursue small small girls outside. Dont be deceived sister
So should it also follow that no man owns a woman vagina....know this and know peace? undecided

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Re: Ladies: Can You Accept To Be A Second Wife? by CoolJul: 5:47pm On Apr 28, 2022
Absolutely No! I don't want to become a cowife of any sort self.
Re: Ladies: Can You Accept To Be A Second Wife? by Munzy14(m): 5:50pm On Apr 28, 2022
Vinnie2000:
Many of our Naija Babes sleeping with dier Boss or lecturer are also blasting Yul Edochie online. No be winch be dis??
Even the single sisters with 5boyfriends join body dey blast yul.. grin grin
Re: Ladies: Can You Accept To Be A Second Wife? by koyyess: 5:54pm On Apr 28, 2022
KaluwisxPRO:



[s]If she wants equality, she must be the provider to have several husbands. [/s]

How many broke men do you see marrying several women? If that’s you, goodluck
Go to your village and find out.

She can marry more than one and they will provide for her.

Your last girlfriend should have taught you that with her different man friends.

Let that sink.
Re: Ladies: Can You Accept To Be A Second Wife? by koyyess: 5:56pm On Apr 28, 2022
yomi531:
No woman owns a man's d*ck. Know this and know peace. Whether teacher o, pastor o, imam o, banker o or what have u. Men go still pursue small small girls outside. Dont be deceived sister

Different men can still chase your girlfriend/wife too.

They can do that because they own their d1cks and not you.

Know this and know peace.
Re: Ladies: Can You Accept To Be A Second Wife? by kunkelhanspeter(m): 5:56pm On Apr 28, 2022
Many id the ladies here will tell you know but when they see husband believe me many don’t mind to be 4th or 5th wife
Re: Ladies: Can You Accept To Be A Second Wife? by yomi531(m): 6:02pm On Apr 28, 2022
Kobojunkie:
So should it also follow that no man owns a woman vagina....know this and know peace? undecided
For un married ladies, Yes but, for married, na husband get the p*ssy coz he paid the woman's bride price. If she's so loose to open nyash for another man, then she should be ready to bear the consequences in the African way. Like for my side, na Ogun go kill her grin

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Re: Ladies: Can You Accept To Be A Second Wife? by chieni(f): 6:05pm On Apr 28, 2022
adeotiabdulaziz:
ur house or the one he built with his hard earned money
Just tell the lady from inception before marriage that you have plans of having a second wife. It will save everyone the emotional stress. If she is fine with it, good but if she is not, then marry someone who is also on the same page with you. You can marry 100 self na free world.
Re: Ladies: Can You Accept To Be A Second Wife? by denobaba: 6:08pm On Apr 28, 2022
Prettygirl200:
Godforbid that I will ever be a second wife to any man. And no man born of a woman will bring in another woman into my house. The day I discover my husband is cheating, from that day he stops touching cux I will not Bleep a dick that is being shared with another woman. Peace!!!!
How do you know you are not bleeping one already? I understand your concerns though but the worst you could do is divorce. Therefore, stop using swear words as if you have control over anyone other than probably yourself.
Re: Ladies: Can You Accept To Be A Second Wife? by gotnel: 6:08pm On Apr 28, 2022
Prettygirl200:
Godforbid that I will ever be a second wife to any man. And no man born of a woman will bring in another woman into my house. The day I discover my husband is cheating, from that day he stops touching cux I will not Bleep a dick that is being shared with another woman. Peace!!!!

Joke of the century.
How do you want to do it?
You can only make good your treats, if you are the one feeding and fending for your husband and home.
Even, if you married to the simplest of the simp, it is not a sure guaranteed that you are the only one your husband is bedding.
Re: Ladies: Can You Accept To Be A Second Wife? by Kobojunkie: 6:08pm On Apr 28, 2022
yomi531:
For un married ladies, Yes but, for married, na husband get the p*ssy coz he paid the woman's bride price. If she's so loose to open nyash for another man, then she should be ready to bear the consequences in the African way. Like for my side, na Ogun go kill her grin
Yet Ogun has not killed any of the many adulterous women out there ,what does that tell you about Ogun?. undecided

However reality is telling you something though, which is, the more your share your dicks, the more you will need to share the vaginas in order that the love and joy may be spread evenly. Why aren't you paying attention? undecided

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Re: Ladies: Can You Accept To Be A Second Wife? by denobaba: 6:12pm On Apr 28, 2022
chieni:

Just tell the lady from inception before marriage that you have plans of having a second wife. It will save everyone the emotional stress. If she is fine with it, good but if she is not, then marry someone who is also on the same page with you. You can marry 100 self na free world.
I see your point but it's an oversimplification of the issue. No one tells you at the beginning of marriage that they plan to marry another wife later, even if it's legally and culturally permissible. That would be naivety and a dismissal of the danger a woman could be bring armed with such information. You are not looking for full disclosure because you want honesty, instead you want to use the information for ulterior motives.
Re: Ladies: Can You Accept To Be A Second Wife? by KaluwisxPRO: 6:13pm On Apr 28, 2022
koyyess:

Go to your village and find out.

She can marry more than one and they will provide for her.

Your last girlfriend should have taught you that with her different man friends.

Let that sink.


Nothing to be emotional about, Cannot live up to it, don’t do it
Re: Ladies: Can You Accept To Be A Second Wife? by Toktee(m): 6:15pm On Apr 28, 2022
Kobojunkie:
Jesus Christ never gave you such orders to begin with since your children have absolutely nothing to do with the Kingdom of God. undecided

And God who gave those rules obviously didn't mean that you or everyone must breed, this since the same God created some Eunuchs from birth, made some Eunuchs in this life, and allowed others to live as Eunuchs for the sake of His Kingdom. undecided

So your choice to decide that God's law, "Be fruitful and multiply" means God wants you to have children is born of your delusions and nothing more. undecided
I am not good at debating the things of God with blinded Christians who research Bible only to suit their narrative.
Re: Ladies: Can You Accept To Be A Second Wife? by mavick2020: 6:20pm On Apr 28, 2022
Do not talk like that on this platform again. Polygamy is as old as man himself. Life is a matter of choice, some people are simply cool with polygamy.

Anyways I don't blame you, I blame so called women emancipation and introduction of white man religion. Your forefathers were cool with polygamy mind you and their wives co-inhabit and respect them.
Re: Ladies: Can You Accept To Be A Second Wife? by koyyess: 6:21pm On Apr 28, 2022
KaluwisxPRO:



[s]Nothing to be emotional about, Cannot live up to it, don’t do it[/s]

Stop crying that a female can eat her cake and have it. grin

It hurts, pad up. cheesy cheesy
Re: Ladies: Can You Accept To Be A Second Wife? by Kobojunkie: 6:21pm On Apr 28, 2022
Toktee:
I am not good at debating the things of God with blinded Christians who research Bible only to suit their narrative.
Are you certain I am the blinded Christian here since what you spewed obviously contradicts all that is in fact written in scripture?.. .. undecided

Did Jesus Christ not tell you in Matthew 19 vs 11 - 12 that God created some Eunuchs from birth, allowed some become Eunuchs in this life and permitted some to live as Eunuchs for the sake of His Kingdom? undecided

Did the same Jesus Christ not inform you that your marriages are of this world aka unholy and not of the Kingdom of God, this in Luke 20 vs 34 - 36? undecided

Did God not inform you in Genesis 3 vs 16 that your children are born of a curse aka unholy which He, God, placed on mankind after Adam fell? undecided

And we all know that that which is unholy is not of God nor will it enter into the presence of God. So, why do you choose to remain blind to God's Truth? undecided
Re: Ladies: Can You Accept To Be A Second Wife? by Divoc19(f): 6:22pm On Apr 28, 2022
Yes if the man is wise though grin
Re: Ladies: Can You Accept To Be A Second Wife? by chieni(f): 6:25pm On Apr 28, 2022
denobaba:
I see your point but it's an oversimplification of the issue. No one tells you at the beginning of marriage that they plan to marry another wife later, even if it's legally and culturally permissible. That would be naivety and a dismissal of the danger a woman could be bring armed with such information. You are not looking for full disclosure because you want honesty, instead you want to use the information for ulterior motives.
I think we need to start asking such question because its alarming even some so called Christian do not see it as an issue. Just like a woman will be asked what she brings to the table, this question should be asked because not everyone is okay with it and marriage has been made to look really scary. Just marry your person with the same mindset.
Re: Ladies: Can You Accept To Be A Second Wife? by 00FFT00(m): 6:26pm On Apr 28, 2022
Divoc19:
Yes if the man is wise though grin

What attendant qualities will define this modern-day Solomon if I may inquire madam?.
Re: Ladies: Can You Accept To Be A Second Wife? by yomi531(m): 6:26pm On Apr 28, 2022
koyyess:


Different men can still chase your girlfriend/wife too.

They can do that because they own their d1cks and not you.

Know this and know peace.
Thank God for magun. U try my wife, u die a mysterious death. grin

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Re: Ladies: Can You Accept To Be A Second Wife? by amrichy(m): 6:27pm On Apr 28, 2022
Prettygirl200:
Godforbid that I will ever be a second wife to any man. And no man born of a woman will bring in another woman into my house. The day I discover my husband is cheating, from that day he stops touching cux I will not Bleep a dick that is being shared with another woman. Peace!!!!
What if the man is very rich? Would you still refuse to be a second wife? Take Regina Daniel case for instance
Re: Ladies: Can You Accept To Be A Second Wife? by yomi531(m): 6:27pm On Apr 28, 2022
koyyess:


Different men can still chase your girlfriend/wife too.

They can do that because they own their d1cks and not you.

Know this and know peace.
Thank God for magun. U try my wife, u die a mysterious death. grin. I never marry shaa
Re: Ladies: Can You Accept To Be A Second Wife? by Kobojunkie: 6:28pm On Apr 28, 2022
denobaba:
I see your point but it's an oversimplification of the issue. No one tells you at the beginning of marriage that they plan to marry another wife later, even if it's legally and culturally permissible. That would be naivety and a dismissal of the danger a woman could be bring armed with such information. You are not looking for full disclosure because you want honesty, instead you want to use the information for ulterior motives.
As someone rightly pointed out, polygamy is not legal in Nigeria. undecided

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Re: Ladies: Can You Accept To Be A Second Wife? by Kobojunkie: 6:31pm On Apr 28, 2022
chieni:

I think we need to start asking such question because its alarming even some so called Christian do not see it as an issue. Just like a woman will be asked what she brings to the table, this question should be asked because not everyone is okay with it and marriage has been made to look really scary. Just marry your person with the same mindset.
I am Afraid simply asking will not resolve this issue until women begin to make efforts to using the law to protect themselves. undecided

Traditional marriage laws in Nigeria on the most part are written to benefit men so any woman who does not want to be caught up in polygamy should know also to abandon Traditional ideas of marriage. undecided

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Re: Ladies: Can You Accept To Be A Second Wife? by koyyess: 6:34pm On Apr 28, 2022
yomi531:
Thank God for magun. U try my wife, u die a mysterious death. grin. I never marry shaa

Magun exist because both afonja married men and women are chronic adulterers.

It doesn't stop them from fvcking around though. This is common knowledge.
Re: Ladies: Can You Accept To Be A Second Wife? by abimic(m): 6:35pm On Apr 28, 2022
I have this married female colleague in my office who cares less if her husband marries another woman, so long he doesn't bring it to their house, and so long his love for the home doesn't decrease, no wahala. Infact, her husband is rich and has many admirers that even the wife is aware of, he keeps no secret away from his wife because he respects his wife for she earned it, yet so far he's committed to his home. Shey you see those ladies that are screaming, over their dead body, I can't take this shit, I can't allow a second wife, it's my husband, I can't share with another, na dem their husband dey cheat pass and even plan to marry a second wife sef... undecided undecided

Well for me, right from time, I'm never a fan of polygamy...
Re: Ladies: Can You Accept To Be A Second Wife? by olaniyilukman(m): 6:38pm On Apr 28, 2022
Chibabe005:
Absolutely nonsense. Why? It's better to wait patiently for the right man than being a second fiddle
just wait patiently for the right man like that of 2face in his song if love is a crime, and he has so many children with different woman.....

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