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NewSoul:
So I met dude over 3 weeks ago and had a chat late into the night. He's a pal (not so close a friend) and then he spends the night but ever since he has made it a habit. He comes in every night to share my bed and only pillow and I'm getting pissed off already I am an introvert. I hate sharing my personal space.

The funny thing is they do this without permission like saying "hey buddy I want to sleep in your house/room for so-so days" . Don't people have conscience? . I hate inconveniencing people. And I don't like people doing it to me. If you want to sleep in somebody's house ask for permission, don't assume the person likes you enough to want to share his space with you

It's your fault for not telling him this that you are telling us

Let people know and understand what they are expected of them

Seat him down and tell him, "guy I need space, I will appreciate you stop coming"

Worst case he will stop talking to you, but it's better than having a relationship that pisses you off

frozen70:
It's your fault for not telling him this that you are telling him

Let people know and understand what they are expected of them

Seat him down and tell him, "guy I need space, I will appreciate you stop coming"

Worst case he will stop talking to you, but it's better than having a relationship that pisses you off

Alright then. Thanks

Cashio:
Always be wary of people you barely know feeling so comfortable and coming too close around you. Most times, they are after something and once they get it, they disappear...please be observant. Don't feel so relaxed about this guy.
Myself, once I meet new people, I tend to observe their personality and once we don't match, especially if you are the overly friendly type that is always seeking for people's faces, I tend to avoid such people because they are always green snakes.

Guy, we're the same oh. I just dey smile as I dey read your comment. Nice one

NewSoul:
Alright then. Thanks

Thanks dear

If you tell him bluntly to leave you'll automatically become enemies and you don't know tomorrow, just stylishly tell him your sister or girlfriend is coming to spend some time with you.

Oga do the needful now before u go begin hear say na bad person you be when u finally do am later