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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Azurevermillion: 11:07pm On May 02, 2022
Calibrator:
https://www.nairaland.com/7107323/dad-party-she-right-reasons


Your bro just wrote an update.

I swear if I were you, knowing how much I hate to waste my time, I will probably be crying for all those times I dignified him with a comprehensive response.




Na man be this abi wetin?

Redpiller in the mud.


Lesson for all thread members.
Filter what you assimilate from this thread well before digesting.
He get one post wey Martinez wrote about him and others not doing their due diligence. The write up weak me.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Sniper04(m): 11:24pm On May 02, 2022
sgtponzihater1:
Just coming in now. I am married already with 2 children in a foreign country. My wife manipulates everyone, disrespects me, cooks once a week, but acts like an angel to neighbors and friends. How can redpill help me. What pages can I read from.

Thanks
You go start from the beginning o

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Smartb0y: 11:54pm On May 02, 2022
sgtponzihater1:
Just coming in now. I am married already with 2 children in a foreign country. My wife manipulates everyone, disrespects me, cooks once a week, but acts like an angel to neighbors and friends. How can redpill help me. What pages can I read from.

Thanks
I thought you were divorced?

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Winnerly: 12:21am On May 03, 2022
sgtponzihater1:
Just coming in now. I am married already with 2 children in a foreign country. My wife manipulates everyone, disrespects me, cooks once a week, but acts like an angel to neighbors and friends. How can redpill help me. What pages can I read from.

Thanks

Calm down. You are in the right place. Your story is not new atall. It’s a very familiar script and even worse stories have been shared.

Just read from page 1 and i bet you will not need help from anyone.

Also, protect your mental health at all cost while we work to help you.

Don't ponder on whatever you’re going through as it can induce BP and mess up your esteem. Just become an observer of your ordeals rather than a participant

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by DieRich5: 12:35am On May 03, 2022
This guy just come drop toxic song for people cheesy

JI_toxic

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by satandeterrible: 4:23am On May 03, 2022
sgtponzihater1:
Just coming in now. I am married already with 2 children in a foreign country. My wife manipulates everyone, disrespects me, cooks once a week, but acts like an angel to neighbors and friends. How can redpill help me. What pages can I read from.

Thanks
Wahala.
You've got to start from the very first page bro. Carefully read and assimilate as much as you can.

Your case is peculiar though. One thing I wish to tell you is that the Redpill might not be a panacea for all your marital woes, but it'll greatly guide you in the right directions.
Read everything, especially the first fifty pages. A lot of knowledge is deposited in those pages. Even I myself do go back sometimes to revisit the pages.

Like I said, the Redpill might not exactly be a a panacea to all your marital woes, but at least it'll guide you in your future decisions.
One thing, know that you cannot flog a dead horse. A woman who has completely lost respect and love for you - coupled with the gynocentric (and misandrist) laws over there - may never respect you again.

You must know when to walk away, call it quits if you continue to get the short end of the stick.
Divorce can be disastrous for men, but you can save yourself.

Try to convert most of your assets and cash to cryptocurrencies.
Sell your car, buy a less valuable car, save the remaining money. Do you own a house? If you do, try to see the possibility of selling it off, without making her know your real intentions.

What type of work do you do, can you trick her into returning to Nigeria with the kids and divorcing her here?
What of moving with your kids to another country??

My point is, you must prepare for the inevitable and you have to plan it in such a way that you do not get raped (figuratively) by the courts.
Plan with TRUSTED FRIENDS, maybe your close family, consult a lawyer.
See how you can circumvent the law as much as you can, such that the divorce process - if it happens - doesn't cost you all you have worked for.

Having said all this, you must commit yourself to a lifetime journey of internalising the Redpill and its tenets.
Do not think the Redpill will magically change you overnight. No, that's not going to happen.
Its a gradual process and only your consistency will make you internalise these teachings.
Start from the first page. Read, assimilate and meditate. Try to see the things you may have done wrongly in your relations with your wife, how bluepilled have you been? How have you been succumbing to her manipulations?

The more you read and meditate upon these tenets, the better you get as long as you put them into practice.
Lastly, I'll recommend you read these two books - The Manipulated man and The Rational Male.

The Redpill is no magic wand, but by committing to a lifetime journey of learning and practicing its core tenets, you'll become unplugged from the matrix.

I hope this helps.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by HARDESTNIGGAINT(m): 4:35am On May 03, 2022
sgtponzihater1:
Just coming in now. I am married already with 2 children in a foreign country. My wife manipulates everyone, disrespects me, cooks once a week, but acts like an angel to neighbors and friends. How can redpill help me. What pages can I read from.

Thanks

START READING FROM PAGE 1 OF THIS THREAD

GET THIS BOOKS:

THE MANIPULATED MAN BY ESTHER VILAR

THE RATIONAL MALE (PREVENTIVE MEDICINE)

THE RATIONAL MALE (RELIGION)

THE RATIONAL MALE (POSITIVE MASCULINITY)

THE SUBTLE ACT OF NOT GIVING A FXXCK

NO MORE MR NICE GUY

MAN SEARCH FOR HIMSELF

YOU ARE A BADASS
(HOW TO STOP DOUBTING YOUR GREATNESS)






THIS ONES FOR LIFE IN GENERAL BOTH MEN AND WOMEN

LAW OF HUMAN NATURE

48 LAWS OF POWER

THE 33 STRATEGIES OF WAR

AND SOME OTHER ROBERT GREEN BOOKS

YOU HAVE TO READ ONE AFTER THE OTHER AND UNDERSTAND THEM AND MAKE SURE YOU APPLY THEM PRINCIPLES TO YOUR EVERY DAY LIFE ON EARTH

GET THEM

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by LifestyleTonite: 8:26am On May 03, 2022
Johnny Depp and Amber Heard's case is a reason why you should not envy the rich and famous or lust after wealth.

People hardly know what they are going through.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Azurevermillion: 8:30am On May 03, 2022
LifestyleTonite:

Johnny Depp and Amber Heard's case is a reason why you should not envy the rich and famous or lust after wealth.

People hardly know what they are going through.
What is this now?

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Jeremani: 8:49am On May 03, 2022
LifestyleTonite:

Johnny Depp and Amber Heard's case is a reason why you should not envy the rich and famous or lust after wealth.

People hardly know what they are going through.

I don't know what their story is but I know money is not the cause

And even if money is the cause, atleast there's money to fight over

And. Even

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Ballzproblemm: 9:36am On May 03, 2022
LifestyleTonite:

Johnny Depp and Amber Heard's case is a reason why you should not envy the rich and famous or lust after wealth.

People hardly know what they are going through.
have fun staying poor,how the f**k does Johnny Depp caused by wealth?,. I swear poor people will do anything to justify poverty, Johnny Depp is in better place than you will ever be.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by NamelessOGBENI(m): 9:55am On May 03, 2022
LifestyleTonite:

Johnny Depp and Amber Heard's case is a reason why you should not envy the rich and famous or lust after wealth.

People hardly know what they are going through.
Things deh play out sha
But that's no reason not to get the bags. The poor have their own fair (it's not even fair to start with) share of problem which I believe is much compare to the rich and that's is no way to think being poor will exempt one from all the problems.

And again fame is quite different from being rich, there are moneybags up in the Island and other highbrow areas who people hardly knows but the money is there and take a good look at Soyinka, he has the fame how about the money I doubt if he has much as the late Fernandez.

Just choose your poison carefully and forget about all this projections.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by LifestyleTonite: 10:30am On May 03, 2022
NamelessOGBENI:

Things deh play out sha
But that's no reason not to get the bags. The poor have their own fair (it's not even fair to start with) share of problem which I believe is much compare to the rich and that's is no way to think being poor will exempt one from all the problems.

And again fame is quite different from being rich, there are moneybags up in the Island and other highbrow areas who people hardly knows but the money is there and take a good look at Soyinka, he has the fame how about the money I doubt if he has much as the late Fernandez.

Just choose your poison carefully and forget about all this projections.

I've not said one shouldn't make money. What I've preached against is the love of money which is the root of all evil.

People on this thread have elevated wealth, almost as if those who are wealthy don't have problems.

Look at Johnny Depp and his riches, yet he couldn't find a peaceful woman. Hey, some will say they rather be rich and face his kind of problems than be poor with such. That mentality is the reason why such people aren't rich.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by LifestyleTonite: 10:33am On May 03, 2022
Ballzproblemm:
have fun staying poor,how the f**k does Johnny Depp caused by wealth?,. I swear poor people will do anything to justify poverty, Johnny Depp is in better place than you will ever be.

Where did I justify poverty? To your kind, an average lifestyle is not okay but equivalent to poverty unless the person is super rich.

Mind you, Depp is not in a better place... He's currently being dragged in court by a scorned wife. But to your kind, you'd rather be in that situation as long as there is money. Why not drop the love for money for once to enable you see clearly that all the while you were idolising Depp and his wealth, he was getting punched in the face and having faeces splashed on his bed by his wife. Would you have known that, if not for the court case?

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by LifestyleTonite: 10:34am On May 03, 2022
Jeremani:


I don't know what their story is but I know money is not the cause

And even if money is the cause, atleast there's money to fight over

And. Even

No one has said money is the cause. What is being said is that the rich also face serious problems, so becareful how you quest to be rich, thinking it will help you avoid problems.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ashewoboy(m): 10:43am On May 03, 2022
Avoid the rage stage though. It may ruin you. Na oyinbo land you dey.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Karlifate: 1:01pm On May 03, 2022
LifestyleTonite:


I've not said one shouldn't make money. What I've preached against is the love of money which is the root of all evil.

People on this thread have elevated wealth, almost as if those who are wealthy don't have problems.

Look at Johnny Depp and his riches, yet he couldn't find a peaceful woman. Hey, some will say they rather be rich and face his kind of problems than be poor with such. That mentality is the reason why such people aren't rich.

No one is elevating wealth in this thread.

Your overthinking is playing games on you.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by HiideaConsole(m): 2:07pm On May 03, 2022
Good day guys
Trust y'all are good

First, I want to say great job to those who have been feeding us with quality knowledge here back to back, y'all are the real MVPs

I just observed something I felt I should share with us here

And it's this thing called false urgency...

Sometime back, I used to call this female friend of mine and after talking for close to 20 minutes thereabouts, she's always pulling the line 'I gotta go' and I'm like 'Hold up, I called you, definitely I have something to say'... Normally we're friends and usually some of the times I call her, it's because it's been a while we talked and I always make sure I called when I felt she was going to be less busy...

And I noticed the trend continued over multiple calls and I actually thought it was abnormal cos she's also eager to talk to me and all. And I was wondering, 'is there something I say that's wierd, or was I getting boring or something?'

Then, I was actually convinced that it's a trick, a tactic and a strategy used by many girls

I also read a book by Roosh V that confirmed that...

When a girl cancels your plans to meet (a date) at the last moment, or she intentionally refuses to pick your calls, or doesn't reply your messages on time or something, and it continues as a pattern, check it, she could be doing this...

Usually, girls do it in order to pass a message across to you that they are valuable or something, don't take the bait and be clingy... If she cancels at the last moment, don't talk. Then later on, let her know that your time is valuable and you detest such arrangement and if possible ask her for her reason for cancellation at the last moment and maybe an apology.

Same goes with coming to a date late and related issues. On the issues of calls and texts, don't call a girl multiple times in a row, same with text (except it's urgent)... Just don't appear clingy

Don't let the trick work on you and pass that message across to her too (it doesn't have to be verbally)

It could come in any format, like setting the time for a date which is not convenient for you and she doesn't want to reconsider claiming that she's busy... Well, let her know you're busy too and value your time and you won't be pushed around like a pendulum

Dunno if I'm the only one who has experienced this kinda stuff before?

I'd like to know guys

Stay cold

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by LifestyleTonite: 2:28pm On May 03, 2022
Karlifate:


No one is elevating wealth in this thread.

Your overthinking is playing games on you.

Go back a couple of pages to see how they tried to silence anyone who advocated for a humble lifestyle. They called them religious clowns and the likes.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Ballzproblemm: 2:31pm On May 03, 2022
LifestyleTonite:


Where did I justify poverty? To your kind, an average lifestyle is not okay but equivalent to poverty unless the person is super rich.

Mind you, Depp is not in a better place... He's currently being dragged in court by a scorned wife. But to your kind, you'd rather be in that situation as long as there is money. Why not drop the love for money for once to enable you see clearly that all the while you were idolising Depp and his wealth, he was getting punched in the face and having faeces splashed on his bed by his wife. Would you have known that, if not for the court case?
like I said before Johnny Depp is in a better position than you will ever be no stress, the only issue I have with him is his drinking and drugs problem , I am not idolising Johnny Depp ,it is you who mention his wealth and I am telling you it has nothing to do with what he's passing through today, person like you will not hesitate to switch place with him if the opportunity rises , like I said have fun being poor

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by satandeterrible: 3:14pm On May 03, 2022
Lifestyle seems to be here to cause trouble or to foster very unnessesary arguments.
Guys should learn to ignore him.
His arguments here are solely about poverty vs wealth.
I believe everyone knows what they want. Therefore they should follow it.

This thread is strictly for Redpill (as the title suggests).
A little deviation here and there is okay, but when it takes up much of the spaces then its time to go back to our focus - Redpill.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by satandeterrible: 3:15pm On May 03, 2022
The arguments about poverty vs wealth has been over flogged, please let's put it aside and focus on our major purpose here.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 3:17pm On May 03, 2022
satandeterrible:
The arguments about poverty vs wealth has been over flogged, please let's put it aside and focus on our major purpose here.
which is?

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by LifestyleTonite: 3:23pm On May 03, 2022
Ballzproblemm:
like I said before Johnny Depp is in a better position than you will ever be no stress, the only issue I have with him is his drinking and drugs problem , I am not idolising Johnny Depp ,it is you who mention his wealth and I am telling you it has nothing to do with what he's passing through today, person like you will not hesitate to switch place with him if the opportunity rises , like I said have fun being poor

Who won't hesitate to switch places with Depp?

The one who only dislikes him drinking and drug problem or the one who doesn't want to have anything to do with him?

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Jeremani: 3:28pm On May 03, 2022
LifestyleTonite:


No one has said money is the cause. What is being said is that the rich also face serious problems, so becareful how you quest to be rich, thinking it will help you avoid problems.
Ya everybody has problem,

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by okrikaboi: 3:37pm On May 03, 2022
HiideaConsole:
Good day guys
Trust y'all are good

First, I want to say great job to those who have been feeding us with quality knowledge here back to back, y'all are the real MVPs

I just observed something I felt I should share with us here

And it's this thing called false urgency...

Sometime back, I used to call this female friend of mine and after talking for close to 20 minutes thereabouts, she's always pulling the line 'I gotta go' and I'm like 'Hold up, I called you, definitely I have something to say'... Normally we're friends and usually some of the times I call her, it's because it's been a while we talked and I always make sure I called when I felt she was going to be less busy...

And I noticed the trend continued over multiple calls and I actually thought it was abnormal cos she's also eager to talk to me and all. And I was wondering, 'is there something I say that's wierd, or was I getting boring or something?'

Then, I was actually convinced that it's a trick, a tactic and a strategy used by many girls

I also read a book by Roosh V that confirmed that...

When a girl cancels your plans to meet (a date) at the last moment, or she intentionally refuses to pick your calls, or doesn't reply your messages on time or something, and it continues as a pattern, check it, she could be doing this...

Usually, girls do it in order to pass a message across to you that they are valuable or something, don't take the bait and be clingy... If she cancels at the last moment, don't talk. Then later on, let her know that your time is valuable and you detest such arrangement and if possible ask her for her reason for cancellation at the last moment and maybe an apology.

Same goes with coming to a date late and related issues. On the issues of calls and texts, don't call a girl multiple times in a row, same with text (except it's urgent)... Just don't appear clingy

Don't let the trick work on you and pass that message across to her too (it doesn't have to be verbally)

It could come in any format, like setting the time for a date which is not convenient for you and she doesn't want to reconsider claiming that she's busy... Well, let her know you're busy too and value your time and you won't be pushed around like a pendulum

Dunno if I'm the only one who has experienced this kinda stuff before?

I'd like to know guys

Stay cold
Talking over the phone to a girl for 20minutes and you are just friends. Get a life

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Karlifate: 3:38pm On May 03, 2022
LifestyleTonite:


Go back a couple of pages to see how they tried to silence anyone who advocated for a humble lifestyle. They called them religious clowns and the likes.

You're now taking it personal. shocked

Sayonara.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Karlifate: 3:42pm On May 03, 2022
satandeterrible:
The arguments about poverty vs wealth has been over flogged, please let's put it aside and focus on our major purpose here.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by HiideaConsole(m): 4:35pm On May 03, 2022
okrikaboi:

Talking over the phone to a girl for 20minutes and you are just friends. Get a life

You don't have friends?

Or you only talk for what? 2 secs?

You should get a life and stop trolling

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Calibrator: 4:55pm On May 03, 2022
I believe this is an example of what you are talking about.


Fortunately, I don't suffer fools gladly angry


She is still seeking for my forgiveness till present.
HiideaConsole:
Good day guys
Trust y'all are good

First, I want to say great job to those who have been feeding us with quality knowledge here back to back, y'all are the real MVPs

I just observed something I felt I should share with us here

And it's this thing called false urgency...

Sometime back, I used to call this female friend of mine and after talking for close to 20 minutes thereabouts, she's always pulling the line 'I gotta go' and I'm like 'Hold up, I called you, definitely I have something to say'... Normally we're friends and usually some of the times I call her, it's because it's been a while we talked and I always make sure I called when I felt she was going to be less busy...

And I noticed the trend continued over multiple calls and I actually thought it was abnormal cos she's also eager to talk to me and all. And I was wondering, 'is there something I say that's wierd, or was I getting boring or something?'

Then, I was actually convinced that it's a trick, a tactic and a strategy used by many girls

I also read a book by Roosh V that confirmed that...

When a girl cancels your plans to meet (a date) at the last moment, or she intentionally refuses to pick your calls, or doesn't reply your messages on time or something, and it continues as a pattern, check it, she could be doing this...

Usually, girls do it in order to pass a message across to you that they are valuable or something, don't take the bait and be clingy... If she cancels at the last moment, don't talk. Then later on, let her know that your time is valuable and you detest such arrangement and if possible ask her for her reason for cancellation at the last moment and maybe an apology.

Same goes with coming to a date late and related issues. On the issues of calls and texts, don't call a girl multiple times in a row, same with text (except it's urgent)... Just don't appear clingy

Don't let the trick work on you and pass that message across to her too (it doesn't have to be verbally)

It could come in any format, like setting the time for a date which is not convenient for you and she doesn't want to reconsider claiming that she's busy... Well, let her know you're busy too and value your time and you won't be pushed around like a pendulum

Dunno if I'm the only one who has experienced this kinda stuff before?

I'd like to know guys

Stay cold

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by HiideaConsole(m): 5:15pm On May 03, 2022
Calibrator:
I believe this is an example of what you are talking about.


Fortunately, I don't suffer fools gladly angry


She is still seeking for my forgiveness till present.


100 percent bro

You demonstrate your value
They see you as someone who will not be played with

Thumbs up man

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Calibrator: 6:14pm On May 03, 2022
I walk the talk though I am still learning and upgrading my knowledge about the female folks every day.


Redpill is a journey not a destination.
HiideaConsole:



100 percent bro

You demonstrate your value
They see you as someone who will not be played with

Thumbs up man

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