Threesha:
From DM

I have never put my wife pics with valid reasons and she knows... So in ur case, find out the reason or ask her. If she no give tangible reason then come back for advice from the RPs

Biglittlelois:



You have females in your family right? Or your mom? None of them has been a source of joy and inspiration at any point in time in your life?

wetin this rodent dey talk, which? Women are out there to add more problems to man or are u just blind or deluded to see.

I don't even believe that until I post my lover picture on social media shows or denote that I love or cherish her. I don't know why people take all these social media platforms serious o.

I prefer to show care, affection and love to my partner one on one than on those mediocre stuffs

Kriss216:
Stop carrying bags of cement for someone that can't carry a loaf of bread for you. Stop crossing express for someone that can't cross a gutter for you. Out of all your family members, it's only your wife that is not your relation. Be wise.

Deeper than deep end

Biglittlelois:



David, if your source of joy comes from God, you will not constantly degrade his creation for your satisfaction and to be accepted by your ilks here, you are not smarter than God that knows the importance and significance of the female gender, you would not have been born without the female gender, whatever terrible experience you had or have, that makes you see females as your constant nightmare, is bordering on a mental disorder, it is not normal, you should check yourself into a psychiatric hospital, I'll always pray for you for eternal peace, you really need divine peace in your life, very obvious.

Take care.

without the male gender u wouldn't had be born too. See person weh dey pray for another psycho like her. Pls kindly extend the prayers to ur useless and second class gender

If you are handsome like you just said she might be scared of other girls snatching you hence her refusal to post your pictures on social media.

Ninisun:




I am not a man please!!! A married woman (8 years and still counting) wrote that small man

Yet you are taking sides with a man? A woman's enemy is a woman.

Threesha:
From DM

are u short and black

Mindlog:


People rarely check themselves into a psychiatric hospital, majority are dragged to get there.

Laugh wan kill me [right][/right]

Threesha:
From DM

Is it a must she use your picture on her DP? My dare not post my picture online or any activities concerning our family. .....

I don't see any big deal there, if doesn't use your picture

[quote author=OgogoroFreak post=112476042]She's for the street [/quoteyour opinion okoro ]

Mindlog:


People rarely check themselves into a psychiatric hospital, majority are dragged to get there.

Hahahaha.

Let's get rope and crane then. Someone is going to psychia.

Just as the wise man at the top said, "over thinking no fit solve problem"

Threesha:
From DM

Bros don't mind the people saying you are insecure or whatever,every other person will feel same way.

But I will advise you to speak to your woman on this matter first and her reaction will be a lead to your next action.

Biglittlelois:



Seems like you had a terrible childhood, it has really robbed off on you negatively.

What he said has nothing to do with any terrible childhood. Good deeds ought to be reciprocal for one not to burn out because he that watereth deserves to be watered.

Women generally treat their children, patents and siblings more kindly than their husbands. Supposing your husband needs kidney transplant, on one hand and any of your other relations I just mentioned, on the other. Who would you donate to?

Answering this question in truth will surely validate what the guy wrote.

Showing ur partner's pictures on the social media??
She's being protective i guess.

Amotolongbo:
@OP

You wife is trying to protect you from the public prey.
Seems she is trying to keep away her family life away from the social media. Showing you and the children off on the social media isn’t love.

In as much as she performs her matrimonial responsibilities perfectly with you and the children and no history or perception of infidelity from the woman, social media love stunt is a trivial issue.

As in the guy is just looking for problem where there isn't.... That woman is a very very smart woman because she knows the useless effects of social media

My candid advice for you is that don't allow social media to destroyed your home , she may be protecting her home and you need to get cool over it

I warned my wife not to post my picture or our family picture on social media

President2001:
I warned my wife not to post my picture or our family picture on social media

You told your wife, not warn her.

No wonder some marriage don't last.

Maybe, you have forgotten that's your mate.
Reverse the situation, she will not warn but tell you and with reasons too.

Proper communication is what sustains marriage and flexibility

silvoclaira:

Entitlement mentality


The condition of entitlement is your own problem

You guys love to misconstrue words here..

What do you mean by entitlement here? A married woman has never put up her husband's pics on her SM handles for 10 good years, while he celebrates her everynow and then?

Don't come to equity with unclean approach..He must retrace and follow her with same hand she gives.

Couples must go all out for eachother..Your partner first.

Otherwise, she is using him...And as well getting the Queen treatment without even giving him a prince treatment not to talk of a King he is meant to be..

Maybe you are ugly.

Same thing happen to me but I decided to let her know that even her birthday date has totally becomes things of the past. I don’t even want to know if she was born with a date neither remember if she has something to celebrate. Myself and my children on my dp alone.

Threesha:
From DM

Threesha:
From DM

It's called PRIVACY. I don't do that do. Kidnappers everywhere. I only do WhatsApp statuses cos I can control who sees what at any time

You should be speaking to your wife not us.
Tell her you appreciate it if she post you from time to time just as you do for her then hear her reasons. This has nothing to do with not being proud of you. She won't have married you if she isn't

She does not put the husband and children pictures on social media.
Thats is commendable.
Be wise and security conscious.

mecussey:


I have never put my wife pics with valid reasons and she knows... So in ur case, find out the reason or ask her. If she no give tangible reason then come back for advice from the RPs

Can you let us into this valid reason.
Just curious
That is if it's not for security reasons

Threesha:
From DM

Do you want me to be the one to tell you that your wife is ashamed of you? She feels like you are not on the same class with her, level up bro, and up your game and be a real man and i mean the ladies men, my girlfriend is the one posting my pictures up and down both on facebook and watsapp, and i've never for once posted any of her pictures on mine. Unknown to her i have 5 other girls by the side line am having regular sex with. So bro you really need to up your game, make her want you and not the other way round

Mariangeles:


Na so o!

Anybody wey do anyhow near me go collect WOTOWOTO! Including you.

So you don dey do speak wotowoto....Inukwa!

It may be the result of marriage to an old man, she is not proud of in public. She loves you but can not manage social media back lashings. Or the circumstance of getting you marry her was not noble or she snatched you from a friend.
She can't manage social media negative comments on her husband or family. Or Sir, maybe you a negative influence in the society.

Amotolongbo:
@OP

You wife is trying to protect you from the public prey.
Seems she is trying to keep away her family life away from the social media. Showing you and the children off on the social media isn’t love.

In as much as she performs her matrimonial responsibilities perfectly with you and the children and no history or perception of infidelity from the woman, social media love stunt is a trivial issue.

Superb argument! Thumbs up!
But this argument has a single hole. She's not bugged with her own proliferated pictures on multitude of social media streams. Why is that? He never even for once highlighted her phobia for social stunts with the husband and yet we were made to know that she's always online... Meaning she loves online publicity.
I beg to differ, bro. If you understand women well with their emotional gush, even if it's temporary in some of them, you will know there might be more to the husband's complaint.
Babe might have a totally different identity online that she didn't want violated.
Peace!

Danyyyyyyyyyyy:


Everything you're trying to tell him , he already knows , but you made it worse suggesting he should be checked into a psychiatric hospital , he can simply see a therapist , there's nothing wrong with him, maybe it's his coping mechanism and it's not healthy but you seem to think it's a really big problem
And another thing is this is nairaland , are you going to look for every broken person and try to heal them ? It's nice to try and help people but it can come off as offensive sometimes , so you just have to overlook some things and focus on your own problems

How do you know he's broken, or you're just assuming like her? You're part of the problem too.