Emmynator:
My self development story.
I have had an insane year so far, begginining of the year, I was underemployed, some days I was thinking, I am not just working for drivers? Seeing that a large chunk of my salary was going into transport, let me not even talk about demanding nature of job.
Fast forward to few months into the year, I saw some exchanges between Ichidodo and some other folk on this thread, and I picked interesting in learning programming. I started learning little by little, but my job was in the way, it took me great resolve to quit the job to focus on learning programming. But I felt so strongly about it.
The difficulties of the path I chose has been more than I envisaged, sometimes I hit a mental wall, and sometimes I'm thinking, I hope I am not making a mistake. Especially as I was robbed a few weeks back. lucky me, my laptop was spared.
Despite all the challenges, I feel very happy and fulfilled because I know I am developing myself and that comes at a cost, I think I have not gotten far yet, but it's the thought of where I want to be that drives me.
I spend an average of 7 hours daily now, learning to code, and I take a lot of rest in between to keep my brain fresh. And I plan on keeping the routine for as long as it takes.
Thanks to all who helped me on getting started, I am grateful.

-As her control increases [in the relationship], her attraction and respect decreases [ for you]. As her control decreases, her attraction and respect increases. If a woman is with a submissive man trying to become dominant, she will utterly oppose him. She has accepted he is submissive and so she revels in the power her control gives her. If he becomes dominant, she loses the power and resources her monopoly granted her. And she will never forget his old ways, she will never really believe he is a worthy leader.

Lightheaded:

The words I love hearing the most is 'I hate you', song to my ears.
Know you are the prize and act accordingly.

Dizzyyish:

Terraform? Bro going hard... I'm on python. I was going through a 12hr python vid on the basics, but I wasn't properly understanding some things, so I decided to start afresh with "automating the boring stuff" book.

But how'd you get to terraform so quickly or you started a long time ago? Also, I feel like I'm learning unnecessary stuff, like maybe I should just learn automating then move on to linux basics?

Lightheaded:

The words I love hearing the most is 'I hate you', song to my ears.
Know you are the prize and act accordingly.

Lightheaded:

The words I love hearing the most is 'I hate you', song to my ears.
Know you are the prize and act accordingly.

Calibrator:
With each explanation you typed in the screenshots.... You are only playing her game and won't be long before you go back apologising for this altercation same as always.


"Let them see your intentions from your actions, don't spell out your actions with words."

Carcholce:


You are a SIMP...

Martinez39s:


It has been confirmed that Kevin Samuels is dead.

luminouz:


You and your funny stories!!!
You sound bluepilled sometimes and switch again to redpill and I wonder, which one are you really?

Oyin2212:

What killed him?

Jeremani:
I remember when my girlfriend visited me in the gym. she said I should stop gyming.

There's was a time we were talking, she said she hate guyz with big tummy.

AntichristXXX:
The Game of Investment.

No, not the monetary kind, but the emotional and energetic kind.

Look at relationships around you, or in your own relationship.

Who is investing more in who?

⁃ Who is sending longer texts?
⁃ Who is trying more to be around the other person?
⁃ Who is devoting more time and energy?

Chances are, it’s the Man.

If that’s the case, the relationship is doomed to fail.

This is because women want to be the one CHASING.

Women want a man who is always on the move, never fully within her reach.

When you steal that away from her, not only does her attraction for you fall, but she also starts despising you.

A man who has nothing better to do than chase her is a low value man.

So, start leaning out- metaphorically and literally.

From Masculinity brotherhood.

Lightheaded:

I also do the talk. Note she said she thought I'd changed.

But yea Bro, I grab. But that case of apologizing isn't going to happen. She called six times straight up, message me for not picking, I told her to call back, which she did immediately.

It's either she let's the matter die a peaceful death or she apologizes, 90% chance she let's it die. Which do you think is best?

boninho:

Yea, even though I'm still a beginner but I started learning August last year
Bro, I won't say some things are unnecessary stuff because DevOps involves putting a lot of things together to achieve one thing...so no knowledge is actually a waste. Like now, even though I just started Terraform but I've found out I need to refresh things on Linux

Calibrator:
@ your question.
Why are you bothered about how this issue is settled?


Same way, females don't care about how the material resources used to sustain a relationship are generated, you should also be less concerned about how the emotional resources are generated.



Worrying about issues in a relationship should be primarily a female job.


Relate with her as usual, she brings up drama, maintain your lane. Rinse and repeat till she either regain her senses or she walks away.


Life is too short for complicated simplicities.

Nasri100:

Tell ‘em. Lucky men are seeing these things for free.
Hidden knowledge - Red Pill.

Nasri100:


Tell ‘em. Lucky men are seeing these things for free.

Hidden knowledge - Red Pill.

Ninejaywon:


You are supposed to ask what kind of "meat' in the first place. Borokoto, shaki, roundabout, kpomo, those are organ meats but they are not unhealthy. Do you know beef contains cholesterol? Healthy Meat for building muscles are white meats(chicken and turkey). Eating large quantities of "meat" is also harmful, as it can be injurious to the kidney on a long term.

Ninejaywon:


You are supposed to ask what kind of "meat' in the first place. Borokoto, shaki, roundabout, kpomo, those are organ meats but they are not unhealthy. Do you know beef contains cholesterol? Healthy Meat for building muscles are white meats(chicken and turkey). Eating large quantities of "meat" is also harmful, as it can be injurious to the kidney on a long term.

Ninejaywon:


You are supposed to ask what kind of "meat' in the first place. Borokoto, shaki, roundabout, kpomo, those are organ meats but they are not unhealthy. Do you know beef contains cholesterol? Healthy Meat for building muscles are white meats(chicken and turkey). Eating large quantities of "meat" is also harmful, as it can be injurious to the kidney on a long term.

Ninejaywon:


You are supposed to ask what kind of "meat' in the first place. Borokoto, shaki, roundabout, kpomo, those are organ meats but they are not unhealthy. Do you know beef contains cholesterol? Healthy Meat for building muscles are white meats(chicken and turkey). Eating large quantities of "meat" is also harmful, as it can be injurious to the kidney on a long term.

Ninejaywon:


You are supposed to ask what kind of "meat' in the first place. Borokoto, shaki, roundabout, kpomo, those are organ meats but they are not unhealthy. Do you know beef contains cholesterol? Healthy Meat for building muscles are white meats(chicken and turkey). Eating large quantities of "meat" is also harmful, as it can be injurious to the kidney on a long term.