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Re: Be Sincere. Why Are You Not In A Relationship? by Badfinga: 1:48pm On May 08, 2022
Beautygoddesss:
??nawa 4 u o,rema of all pple na i go resemble
What are you trying to say? Him face fine na
Re: Be Sincere. Why Are You Not In A Relationship? by Badfinga: 1:50pm On May 08, 2022
Moneyyman:
Gandollar people wink


Yeah. Kano ta Dabo, Timbin giwa

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Re: Be Sincere. Why Are You Not In A Relationship? by Asianjollof007: 1:51pm On May 08, 2022
Fcmb2022:
I am a Christian
Same
Re: Be Sincere. Why Are You Not In A Relationship? by Fcmb2022(f): 2:04pm On May 08, 2022
Prettygirl200:
Nope aren't ready for marriage before I will start thinking of marriage that will be 2028
Dis kind marriage plan
na mad ooooooooooo
Re: Be Sincere. Why Are You Not In A Relationship? by DonroxyII: 2:17pm On May 08, 2022
LadyTara:
It's not circumstantial introversion, neither is there any recoiling. Living itself is a routine,you wake up and you sleep ,only the activities in between differs. And when you live with someone for a while the "diversification " fades away as you become used to each other.


The earlier you realize this and embrace contentment the better for you and your future spouse else you will constantly feel you are missing out on something that is not even out there, lest you end up chasing shadows despite having "the one" in your life.
I thought this is an Open Conversation why am I sensing Advises for Me when You don't even Know me Sapio grin ...

Once the activities in between Routines differs then that's no more Routine but Diversifying

e.g. Sex is Sex but Doggy, Missionary, Wheelbarrows, Cowgirl, Reverse Cowgirl, Spooning etc. Gives it Spices and makes the action Non-Routine like Papa and Mama Missionary!

Diversification only fades away with Someone without versatility and Spices.

I can bet You there can never be 100% Discussions of all Issues and counter issues in the World for a life time except Docile One Way Traffic People How do You exhaust issues from Academic, Professionalism, Entertainment, New Discoveries, Inventions, Innovations, Religion, Romance, Politics, Diplomacy, Career, Social-Relations, Technologies and Tatafo Area grin Etc No, But How many People are actually what they claim they are Everyone dey form Sabi how time for Sabi shows and you either see radio or mad o-o... Only Few Ones !

Ohhh, I love Intellectual and Intelligent Persons and for a somebody that can't hold Intellectual conversations for 20Mins without turning everywhere to Arguementative arena grin

Everyone needs to sacrifice at some point in time because Nobody has it all or a Perfect fit or Error-free: That's why anyone that states there is a Problem to all guys and girls is also a Problem due to the fact that You can't hold a guy down or a guy that can't hold a girl down:

A problem in itself can not solve another problem, it leads to complications:

How You spinned the Conversation into Advises for Me actually baffled me grin ... Do You know me ni, I thought it was a Open Conversation about Circumstantial Introversion and Consequences therefrom:

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Re: Be Sincere. Why Are You Not In A Relationship? by DonroxyII: 2:23pm On May 08, 2022
Beautygoddesss:
u no well o grin
Ur Left Nyansh grin.. I be ur uncle o grin
Re: Be Sincere. Why Are You Not In A Relationship? by LadyTara(f): 2:23pm On May 08, 2022
DonroxyII:
I thought this is an Open Conversation why am I sensing Advises for Me when You don't even Know me Sapio grin ...

Once the activities in between Routines differs than that's no more Routine but Diversifying e.g. Sex is Sex but Doggy, Missionary, Wheelbarrows, Cowgirl, Reverse Cowgirl, Spooning etc. Gives it Spices and makes the action Non-Routine like Papa and Mama Missionary!

Diversification only fades away with Someone without versatility and Spices.
I can bet You there can never be 100% Discussions of all Issues and counter issues in the World for a life time except Docile One Way Traffic People from Academic, Professionalism, Entertainment, New Discoveries, Inventions, Innovations, Religion, Romance, Politics, Diplomacy, Career, Social-Relations, Technologies Etc No, But How many People are actually what they claim they are

Ohhh, I love Intellectual and Intelligent Persons and for a somebody that can hold Intellectual conversations for 20Mins without turning everywhere to Arguementative arena grin

Everyone needs to sacrifice at some point in time because Nobody has it all or a Perfect fit or Error-free: That's why anyone that states there is a Problem to all guys and girls is also a Problem due to the fact that You can't hold a guy down or a guy that can't hold a girl down:

A problem in itself can not solve another problem, it leads to complications:

How You spinned the Conversation into Advises for Me actually baffled me grin ... Do You know me ni, I thought it was a Open Conversation about Circumstantial Introversion and Consequences therefrom:
I could say same for you,how you spinned my comment to assume so much and draw conclusions and generic text book generalizations about me is baffling. undecided


Quote all the text book hypothesis on human psychology, the simple conclusion is that being happy and whole from within is the only way you can better appreciate the presence of another in your life.And if you see self awareness and being whole as a problem ,that is your cup of coffee or tea which ever you prefer.
Re: Be Sincere. Why Are You Not In A Relationship? by Munzy14(m): 2:23pm On May 08, 2022
Badfinga:
The journey of a thousand miles, begin with a step.
Motivational speaker.. grin

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Re: Be Sincere. Why Are You Not In A Relationship? by Munzy14(m): 2:29pm On May 08, 2022
anochuko01:
I'm 29 and I've only been in a relationship for 6 months in the past 10 years.

Why have I been single all the while?
I wouldn't date just anybody. If I don't see you as one I can marry, then there's no point dating. So I'll rather stay single and face my life than go hunting girls.

Secondly, it takes me averagely a year to get along any girl I've ever asked out. And I've done this for two girls in the past 10 years and was rejected.

Thirdly, I needed time to get my life in order. I've got a headway now and can comfortably think of a relationship. Would get into one very soon. The babe is a spec and she has almost killed me with green light �
Interesting..How do we keep up with you on this one? cheesy
Re: Be Sincere. Why Are You Not In A Relationship? by DonroxyII: 2:31pm On May 08, 2022
LadyTara:
I could say same for you,how you spinned my comment to assume so much and draw conclusions and text book generalizations about me is baffling. undecided


Quote all the text book hypothesis on human psychology, the simple conclusion is that being happy and whole from within is the only way you can better appreciate the presence of another in your life.And if you see self awareness and being whole as a problem ,that is your cup of coffee or tea which ever you prefer.
You seem kinda toxic and that's like a Sympton of Your Introversion grin ... Read Up, I put Brain eating there as a Consequences of Boredom grin ...

You also acknowledged My Point that there are times you wanna be intimate, naughty, etc but You claimed You overcome them ...

To be Specific, You didn't overcome them, You only replaced them with Toxicity because Body wants what she wants and if she can't get it with the knowledge that it is out there, she goes silent and but Berserk On other Spheres!

I didn't draw any conclusion on You, I was just Generalising until Your Personalise everything.. Kpele!
Re: Be Sincere. Why Are You Not In A Relationship? by VictorUSA(m): 2:35pm On May 08, 2022
Fcmb2022:
Ehhhhhhh If I land u slap, u go see ur period so women are not useful?
Habah I don't expect a slap from you.
Re: Be Sincere. Why Are You Not In A Relationship? by LadyTara(f): 2:36pm On May 08, 2022
DonroxyII:
You seem kinda toxic and that's like a Sympton of Your Introversion grin ... Read Up, I put Brain eating there as a Consequences of Boredom grin ...

You also acknowledged My Point that there are times you wanna be intimate, naughty, etc but You claimed You overcome them ...

To be Specific, You didn't overcome them, You only replaced them with Toxicity because Body wants what she wants and if she can't get it with the knowledge that it is out there, she goes silent and but Berserk On other Spheres!

I didn't draw any conclusion on You, I was just Generalising until Your Personalise everything.. Kpele!
Lol ,


Seems you have the habit of assuming and pointing fingers . What is it they say about people who point fingers again? undecided


What do we call you now?, resident nairaland diagnostic personality consultant grin grin grin. Well done o. May you can prescribe medication to cure this toxicity ( introversion) tongue.


After reading one book you feel you know everything and everyone. Lol cheesy grin grin grin grin. This your over Sabi has made you judgmental, bias with a "tear them down" attitude. I don't know what is more toxic than that undecided


Imagine using your full chest to say "toxicity is a symptom of introversion", like seriously? undecided
Re: Be Sincere. Why Are You Not In A Relationship? by DonroxyII: 2:47pm On May 08, 2022
LadyTara:
Lol ,


Seems you have the habit of assuming and pointing fingers . What is it they say about people who point fingers again? undecided


What do we call you now?, resident nairaland diagnostic personality consultant grin grin grin. Well done o. May you can prescribe medication to cure this toxicity tongue.


After reading one book they feel they know everything and everyone. Lol cheesy grin grin grin grin
You see how you easily spin off and turn a very good conversation Upside down: Why are you itching to lambast me grin

You claimed People say You are too picky and you need to lower your standard: Your standards are Sense, Working Brain and home training cheesy as posted up there cheesy

But I said Do you yourself truly Possessed those standards .... Because the truth is that You can't get the standard You Don't have ... You will only get what you truly have grin ....

Thus, the problem may not be those guys you are picky about, the problem might actually be you using your innate attitude to drawn the wrong guys or turning Good guys into bad guys:

A very good example is you trying to draw me into hit-up arguement with You but I'm cool cool ...

If you are to be my girlfriend now and you want Sense, working Brain and home training an average dude would have lost everything with your second Quote:

The Question is that:

How much are you helping guys to maintain Sense, Working Brain and Home Training and How much of those standards do you have yourself and at what point do you easily lose them all grin ....

cheesy grin ... Sho le fe textbook, OK o !
Re: Be Sincere. Why Are You Not In A Relationship? by DonroxyII: 2:49pm On May 08, 2022
LadyTara:

Imagine using your full chest to say "toxicity is a symptom of introversion", like seriously? undecided
Trust me when the Brain don't get stimulated like that she goes crazy while you keep telling her she is fine but she ain't fine... She wanna play grin

She only replaced the urge for Plays with toxins that's why the Toxicity grin

We are all victims of our suppressed Mental Prowess:

That's why many people out there go Mad on slightest provocation, Mental happiness is scarce and everyone na manage level while Ojuelegba keeps asking Ikorodu for London, Ojuelegba should go become Paris Herself grin cheesy ....

Make it Make Sense na : Make we no dey Cheat ourselves!
Re: Be Sincere. Why Are You Not In A Relationship? by LadyTara(f): 3:07pm On May 08, 2022
DonroxyII:
You see how you easily spin off and turn a very good conversation Upside down: Why are you itching to lambast me grin

You claimed People say You are too picky and you need to lower your standard: Your standards are Sense, Working Brain and home training cheesy as posted up there cheesy

But I said Do you yourself truly Possessed those standards .... Because the truth is that You can't get the standard You Don't have ... You will only get what you truly have grin ....

Thus, the problem may not be those guys you are picky about, the problem might actually be you using your innate attitude to drawn the wrong guys or turning Good guys into bad guys:

A very good example is you trying to draw me into hit-up arguement with You but I'm cool cool ...

If you are to be my girlfriend now and you want Sense, working Brain and home training an average dude would have lost everything with your second Quote:

The Question is that:

How much are you helping guys to maintain Sense, Working Brain and Home Training and How much of those standards do you have yourself and at what point do you easily lose them all grin ....

cheesy grin ... Sho le fe textbook, OK o !








K.
Re: Be Sincere. Why Are You Not In A Relationship? by LadyTara(f): 3:07pm On May 08, 2022
DonroxyII:
Trust me when the Brain don't get stimulated like that she goes crazy while you keep telling her she is fine but she ain't fine... She wanna play grin

She only replaced the urge for Plays with toxins that's why the Toxicity grin

We are all victims of our suppressed Mental Prowess:

That's why many people out there go Mad on slightest provocation, Mental happiness is scarce and everyone na manage level while Ojuelegba keeps asking Ikorodu for London, Ojuelegba should go become Paris Herself grin cheesy ....

Make it Make Sense na : Make we no dey Cheat ourselves!








K.
Re: Be Sincere. Why Are You Not In A Relationship? by DonroxyII: 3:24pm On May 08, 2022
LadyTara:


K.
Luminouz I dash You this Girl: Na your Kinda grin
Re: Be Sincere. Why Are You Not In A Relationship? by bluefilm: 3:24pm On May 08, 2022
Beautygoddesss:
by GOD'S Grace am still among d good gals,waiting for jamb result

JAMB?

You still be underage na.
Re: Be Sincere. Why Are You Not In A Relationship? by LadyTara(f): 3:29pm On May 08, 2022
DonroxyII:
Luminouz I dash You this Girl: Na your Kinda grin
What makes you think you are in the position to dash a total stranger out to a guy? undecided

Let's maintain decorum please. I know it's not normal to have respect for women on this forum, but make una dey use una sense sometimes ,it won't hurt.
Re: Be Sincere. Why Are You Not In A Relationship? by luminouz(m): 3:30pm On May 08, 2022
DonroxyII:
Luminouz I dash You this Girl: Na your Kinda grin

The little geh dey copy my signature move na. grin
Re: Be Sincere. Why Are You Not In A Relationship? by luminouz(m): 3:32pm On May 08, 2022
LadyTara:
What makes you think you are in the position to dash a total stranger out to a guy? undecided

Let's maintain decorum please. I know it's not normal to have respect for women on this forum, but make una dey use una sense sometimes ,it won't hurt.



Goan sit down jor! You didn't even understand his context and you flared dafuq up. Shuuuu! You should have asked what's up. Imagine after typing 'k' , you now replied him?

Naaah...you are not like me. I never reply after a nice, fat 'K'
Re: Be Sincere. Why Are You Not In A Relationship? by LadyTara(f): 3:33pm On May 08, 2022
luminouz:


Goan sit down jor! You didn't even understand his context and you flared dafuq up. Shuuuu! You should have asked what's up. Imagine after typing 'k' , you now replied him?

Naaah...you are not like me. I never reply after a nice, fat 'K'






K.
Re: Be Sincere. Why Are You Not In A Relationship? by Emma2Seconds: 3:55pm On May 08, 2022
I stand with you big guy grin
Re: Be Sincere. Why Are You Not In A Relationship? by Emma2Seconds: 3:59pm On May 08, 2022
Guy u too sabi cool
Re: Be Sincere. Why Are You Not In A Relationship? by Silentgroper(m): 4:04pm On May 08, 2022
Beautygoddesss:
thank u very much.yes he's biologically healthy we've checked.he's still a virgin
How did u check?
Re: Be Sincere. Why Are You Not In A Relationship? by Silentgroper(m): 4:07pm On May 08, 2022
seunlizy:


Exactly as you have said, all this modern guys are not ready to have a relationship with you, if u don't allow them have s3x with you. Which is wrong.
Will also nt ask him or expect d said modern guys to foot ur bills, get gift 4 u, inshort spend on u.
Re: Be Sincere. Why Are You Not In A Relationship? by oshorstan(f): 4:20pm On May 08, 2022
Fcmb2022:

So why are u telling us about it?



Because she will see the message.
Re: Be Sincere. Why Are You Not In A Relationship? by DonroxyII: 5:27pm On May 08, 2022
LadyTara:
What makes you think you are in the position to dash a total stranger out to a guy? undecided

Let's maintain decorum please. I know it's not normal to have respect for women on this forum, but make una dey use una sense sometimes ,it won't hurt.


Na play Na: I'm not the kind to Disrespect Woman albeit a whole You:

Luminouz signature when he is tired of a Conversation is "K" same as You.. !

Biko No Vex.
Nevertheless, Reduce your Pepperish Na:
If I call you Toxic Now, You will go Nicki Minaj :
Re: Be Sincere. Why Are You Not In A Relationship? by luminouz(m): 5:29pm On May 08, 2022
DonroxyII:
Na play Na: I'm not the kind to Disrespect Woman albeit a whole You:

Luminouz signature when he is tired of a Conversation is "K" same as You.. !

Biko No Vex.
Nevertheless, Reduce your Pepperish Na:
If I call you Toxic Now, You will go Nicki Minaj :
No need to explain give the girl. She no get am since. It's even on my profile that 'A K in time saves Nine'
Re: Be Sincere. Why Are You Not In A Relationship? by LadyTara(f): 5:39pm On May 08, 2022
DonroxyII:
Na play Na: I'm not the kind to Disrespect Woman albeit a whole You:

Luminouz signature when he is tired of a Conversation is "K" same as You.. !

Biko No Vex.
Nevertheless, Reduce your Pepperish Na:
If I call you Toxic Now, You will go Nicki Minaj :





undecided undecided undecided undecided.


Pepper body? Una sha, it's ok to yarn dust and when called out the person is either bitter, toxic or has pepper body.Una own na to dey misyarn any other person wey see through una nonsense una to give am name. What other names do you wish to tag me again? Just make a list so we can avoid all this back and forth.
Re: Be Sincere. Why Are You Not In A Relationship? by Beautygoddesss: 5:41pm On May 08, 2022
Silentgroper:
How did u check?
dnt ask

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