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Opinion: This Is Why Every Lady Should Woo Her Dream Man. by Toks2008(m): 8:56pm On Nov 02, 2019
Do you know that it is practically difficult for a lady to be with a man she has no desire for?...and whilst it is easy for men to manage a lady they don't really have feelings for, it will be very difficult for a lady to do same but unfortunately in most cases when a lady sees a guy she strongly desires, all she does is wait and hope the guy woos her...an unfortunate situation I must say.

A lady who has no feelings for a guy will find it hard to be under the same roof with such let alone allowing the guy to touch her in anyway thereby making the guy go through serious heartache and emotional pains...yet if the same lady sees a guy she really desires, she is compelled to just wait and hope or maybe show signs that may not be understood by the guy.

I had always maintained the notion that ladies should be with a man who loves them even if they don't have any desire for the man but this is simply because most ladies usually wait for the man to make the first move even when they are drooling for him and it makes no sense for a lady to be selective when all she does is wait to be selected even by a guy she so much desires.

So i begin to wonder why ladies had to go through the pains of just wishing a guy they desire walks up to them when they can simply walk up to the guy and tell him straight up?...in my opinion, this does not reduce the worth of the lady but it is how a lady comports herself in an affair that determines her worth. If a lady expresses her desire for a guy and he turns her down, the lady should just walk away with her head up high...it changes nothing about her self worth but real men will even respect her for that...but the shocker is that in most cases, men Don't turn down ladies who decisively woo them.

Ladies must understand that we live in the 21st century where gender equality is the order of the day and what is the essence of gender equality when ladies can't express their desire to a man just as a man would?
Enough of the silly hard to get act or showing subtle signs that you want a guy...IF YOU WANT HIM, WALK UP TO HIM AND TELL HIM.

It will shock many ladies to know that there are many responsible marriage ready guys out there who are just fed up with the wooing game and will practically fall for any lady who genuinely shows interest in them and this is the secret few ladies presumed to be "bad girls" are using to get sweet responsible guys.

As long as ladies allow and themselves to be curtailed by the tradition of men making the first move,they may have no choice but to learn how to cope with the ones that come there way
.

My candid opinion.

What do you think?

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Re: Opinion: This Is Why Every Lady Should Woo Her Dream Man. by Nobody: 9:17pm On Nov 02, 2019
Nor mind them.

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Re: Opinion: This Is Why Every Lady Should Woo Her Dream Man. by Nobody: 9:21pm On Nov 02, 2019
If you agree just hit like button tongue
Toks2008:
Do you know that it is practically difficult for a lady to be with a man she has no desire for?

Whilst it is easy for men to manage a lady they don't really have feelings for, it will be very difficult(Not impossible) for a lady to do same.

I had always maintained the notion that ladies should be with a man who loves them even if they don't have any desire for the man but this is simply because most ladies usually wait for the man to make the first move even when they are drooling for him and it makes no sense for a lady to be selective when all she does is wait to be selected even by a guy she so much desires.

Why should ladies go through the pains of just wishing a guy they desire walks up to them when they can simply walk up to the guy and tell him straight up..in my opinion, this does not reduce the worth of the lady but it is how a lady comports herself in an affair that determines her worth. If she turns you down just walk away with your head up high...i changes nothing about your self worth but real men will even respect you for that.

A lady who has no feelings for a guy will find it hard to be under the same roof with such let alone allowing the guy to touch her in anyway thereby making the guy go through serious heartache and emotional pains...yet if the same lady sees a guy she really desires, she is compelled to just wait and hope or maybe show signs that may not be understood by the guy.

Ladies must understand that we live in the 21st century where gender equality is the order of the day and it will shock many ladies to know that there are many responsible marriage ready guys out there who are just fed up with the wooing game and will practically fall for any lady who genuinely shows interest in them and this is the secret few ladies presumed to be "bad girls" are using to get sweet responsible guys
.

As long as ladies allow and themselves to be curtailed by the tradition of men making the first move,they may have no choice but to learn how to cope with the ones that come there way
.

My candid opinion.

What do you think?
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Re: Opinion: This Is Why Every Lady Should Woo Her Dream Man. by Apus: 9:38pm On Nov 02, 2019
Very apt.

Most Nigerian women are hypocrites. They play the equality card only when it suites them. By d time they loose us all to their foreign counterpart na dt time their eyes go clear. The day I was wooed by an intelligent beautiful lady wey Baba God finish work for her body for foreign land, I just dey use Naija babes take form.

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Re: Opinion: This Is Why Every Lady Should Woo Her Dream Man. by angelEmade: 9:49pm On Nov 02, 2019
lol if u love a man...walk up tohim and tellhim...no big deal

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Re: Opinion: This Is Why Every Lady Should Woo Her Dream Man. by Toks2008(m): 10:47pm On Nov 02, 2019
angelEmade:
lol if u love a man...walk up tohim and tellhim...no big deal

Can You? , and have you ever done it?

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Re: Opinion: This Is Why Every Lady Should Woo Her Dream Man. by Toks2008(m): 11:23pm On Nov 02, 2019
Apus:
Very apt.

Most Nigerian women are hypocrites. They play the equality card only when it suites them. By d time they loose us all to their foreign counterpart na dt time their eyes go clear. The day I was wooed by an intelligent beautiful lady wey Baba God finish work for her body for foreign land, I just dey use Naija babes take form.


I honestly feel for our ladies.
You like a guy yet all you do is wish he woos you.

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Re: Opinion: This Is Why Every Lady Should Woo Her Dream Man. by luvyaself95(m): 11:47pm On Nov 02, 2019
There is this girl in my area that always stare at me whenever i pass her side or walk pass each other on the road.
but i have swear i will never woo a girl that give me green light if you can't do the needful don't expect me to do it.

Learn out of experience.

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Re: Opinion: This Is Why Every Lady Should Woo Her Dream Man. by Toks2008(m): 12:02am On Nov 03, 2019
luvyaself95:
There is this girl in my area that always stare at me whenever i pass her side or walk pass each other on the road.
but i have swear i will never woo a girl that give me green light if you can't do the needful don't expect me to do it.

Learn out of experience.

I would have asked you to make the move but it will shock you that as soon as you do that, she will start the old fashioned act of playing hard to get.

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Re: Opinion: This Is Why Every Lady Should Woo Her Dream Man. by luvyaself95(m): 12:11am On Nov 03, 2019
Toks2008:


I would have asked you to make the move but it will shock you that as soon as you do that, she will start the old fashioned act of playing hard to get.

I did that oh i Approach her as i was about to talk to her she just walk out on me i was so surprised and she made me swear that moment i will never toast Any girl that give me green light or whatever so after that day we do see each other like 2 to 3 times in the week but i always do as if i don't know her and have never talk to her before.

she still stare at me like before on the Monday or Tuesday as i was fetching water i notice someone was looking at my side then I turn to look turn out to be her, this morning i was talking with a pharmacist outside her shop while we were joking and laughing saw a face gazing at me like about 3 shops before the pharmacist shop i continue staring at the person until the person turn out to be her again immediately i talk in my mind is this girl mad or something can she stop staring at me.
abi bank dey give her money for it ni.

naija girls are Problems.

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Re: Opinion: This Is Why Every Lady Should Woo Her Dream Man. by Toks2008(m): 12:33am On Nov 03, 2019
luvyaself95:


I did that oh i Approach her as i was about to talk to her she just walk out on me i was so surprised and she made me swear that moment i will never toast Any girl that give me green light or whatever so after that day we do see each other like 2 to 3 times in the week but i always do as if i don't know her and have never talk to her before.

she still stare at me like before on the Monday or Tuesday as i was fetching water i notice someone was looking at my side then I turn to look turn out to be her, this morning i was talking with a pharmacist outside her shop while we were joking and laughing saw a face gazing at me like about 3 shops before the pharmacist shop i continue staring at the person until the person turn out to be her again immediately i talk in my mind is this girl mad or something can she stop staring at me.
abi bank dey give her money for it night.

naija girls are Problems.

This is beyond my understanding.

You will hear a lady tell her friends how she so much desires a certain guy that is not even aware she exists and she will practically turn down any other guy yet she will hardly let the guy she desires know she wants him.

I don't understand walahi.

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Re: Opinion: This Is Why Every Lady Should Woo Her Dream Man. by luvyaself95(m): 12:41am On Nov 03, 2019
Toks2008:


This is beyond my understanding.

You will hear a lady tell her friends how she so much desires a certain guy that is not even aware she exists and she will practically turn down any other guy yet she will hardly let the guy she desires know she wants him.

I don't understand walahi.

this your comment brought back the memory of one of my exs.
after our break up her friend started telling me one afternoon like that about how my ex always do and what she do says whenever i pass her side and how she turn down about 1 to 2 guys because of me i just laugh that day and say you girls are confused nature.
you won't imagine this girl toast me by herself and the break up was her fault.

they are brainless self.

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Re: Opinion: This Is Why Every Lady Should Woo Her Dream Man. by Nobody: 1:44am On Nov 03, 2019
Bro, accept my get well soon wishes in advance because I'm sure that slay queens in this forum will roast you soon. grin

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Re: Opinion: This Is Why Every Lady Should Woo Her Dream Man. by angelEmade: 9:52am On Nov 03, 2019
Toks2008:


Can You? , and have you ever done it?
i did it twice....the first guy bleeped up...the second one is bae. but he travelled and we lost contact

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Re: Opinion: This Is Why Every Lady Should Woo Her Dream Man. by Nobody: 10:08am On Nov 03, 2019
Rather than wooing a man, a woman should give him hints that she's interested and let him pick it up from there.
A man who's likewise interested will make the subsequent moves thereafter. If he doesn't, move on.

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Re: Opinion: This Is Why Every Lady Should Woo Her Dream Man. by MrNipplesLover(m): 10:15am On Nov 03, 2019
if u give me a hint, I'd see you as a teaser.


just walk up to me and speak out.




as if we (guys) only give hints to woo a lady.

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Re: Opinion: This Is Why Every Lady Should Woo Her Dream Man. by Mcslize: 10:39am On Nov 03, 2019
angelEmade:

i did it twice....the first guy bleeped up...the second one is bae. but he travelled and we lost contact

Most of you girls are lost. The typical white girl will express herself before a guy and ask him for a date. Other Africa girls are quite expressive too. But our Nigeria ladies have that habit of always playing hide and seek even when they like the person.

They will rather die in silence than expressed their feelings to a guy. They will give green light tire na them sabi. Me, I don talk am say, I no dey do same compound, same street relationships. Lots of people do it. But I see it as a way to compound things for yourself as a guy. Person go dey bleep with his neighbours. When the neighbour will see u with another babe na wahala for u. She go dey give u attitude.

As per girls giving green light, that's not enough for me. If you don give me signal tire u go rest no be so. If u no fit meet tell.me say I like you o na me go.meet u com tell u say I like u? I dey craze? Shebi I dey mad ni?

That's the problems with our naija girls.

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Re: Opinion: This Is Why Every Lady Should Woo Her Dream Man. by angelEmade: 10:45am On Nov 03, 2019
Mcslize:


Most of you girls are lost. The typical white girl will express herself before a guy and ask him for a date. Other Africa girls are quite expressive too. But our Nigeria ladies have that habit of always playing hide and seek even when they like the person.

They will rather die in silence than expressed their feelings to a guy. They will give green light tire na them sabi. Me, I don talk am say, I no dey do same compound, same street relationships. Lots of people do it. But I see it as a way to compound things for yourself as a guy. Person go dey bleep with his neighbours. When the neighbour will see u with another babe na wahala for u. She go dey give u attitude.

As per girls giving green light, that's not enough for me. If you don give me signal tire u go rest no be so. If u no fit meet tell.me say I like you o na me go.meet u com tell u say I like u? I dey craze? Shebi I dey mad ni?

That's the problems with our naija girls.
i agree with you dear

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Re: Opinion: This Is Why Every Lady Should Woo Her Dream Man. by Mcslize: 10:46am On Nov 03, 2019
theButterfly:
Rather than wooing a man, a woman should give him hints that she's interested and let him pick it up from there. A man who's likewise interested will make the subsequent moves thereafter. If he doesn't, move on.

The problem is not even giving the hint. After giving the guy so many green lights and hints , when the guy finally make the move most girls will start playing hard to get. That's the issue with some girls. They are confused beings. They prefer to die in silence than voice out their feelings. What a life! A life where a girl can't express her feelings that's not life na.

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Re: Opinion: This Is Why Every Lady Should Woo Her Dream Man. by dave4rella(m): 11:04am On Nov 03, 2019
angry

MY fiancee asked me out for good two years

While I was toying with her feelings with other girls
She kept pushing, before I realized she's the one for me.
I wonder what gave her the strength
I promise never to cheat or take her for granted
God bless you my gift.
I will always love and cherish you with everything in me

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Re: Opinion: This Is Why Every Lady Should Woo Her Dream Man. by lyndaway(f): 11:13am On Nov 03, 2019
It only takes a mature man to treat a woman right that walks up to him to express her feelings to him in this generation if you try it with a foolish guy I pity the girl

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Re: Opinion: This Is Why Every Lady Should Woo Her Dream Man. by Toks2008(m): 11:17am On Nov 03, 2019
angelEmade:

i did it twice....the first guy bleeped up...the second one is bae. but he travelled and we lost contact

Wow! Are you a Nigerian?

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Re: Opinion: This Is Why Every Lady Should Woo Her Dream Man. by Toks2008(m): 11:17am On Nov 03, 2019
lyndaway:
It only takes a mature man to treat a woman right that walks up to him to express her feelings to him in this generation if you try it with a foolish guy I pity the girl

Very true so the best bet is to try it with mature guys.

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Re: Opinion: This Is Why Every Lady Should Woo Her Dream Man. by JONNYSPUTE(m): 11:18am On Nov 03, 2019
Toks, Toks,the table shaker. In Nigeria,whom ever does the wooeing,does the spending. I think they know this. My thought thou,,I might be wrong.

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Re: Opinion: This Is Why Every Lady Should Woo Her Dream Man. by Toks2008(m): 11:18am On Nov 03, 2019
dave4rella:
angry

MY fiancee asked me out for good two years

While I was toying with her feelings with other girls
She kept pushing, before I realized she's the one for me.
I wonder what gave her the strength
I promise never to cheat or take her for granted
God bless you my gift.
I will always love and cherish you with everything in me

Awww! I'm so impressed.

Naija babes should take a cue from this.

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Re: Opinion: This Is Why Every Lady Should Woo Her Dream Man. by JONNYSPUTE(m): 11:19am On Nov 03, 2019
lyndaway:
It only takes a mature man to treat a woman right that walks up to him to express her feelings to him in this generation if you try it with a foolish guy I pity the girl
. You re right.

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Re: Opinion: This Is Why Every Lady Should Woo Her Dream Man. by Emotionss: 11:29am On Nov 03, 2019
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theButterfly:
Rather than wooing a man, a woman should give him hints that she's interested and let him pick it up from there. A man who's likewise interested will make the subsequent moves thereafter. If he doesn't, move on.

Some women after giving the green light will start playing hard-to-get and whatnot the moment the guy approach her forgetting that some guys are too busy for that nonsense.

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Re: Opinion: This Is Why Every Lady Should Woo Her Dream Man. by Nobody: 11:30am On Nov 03, 2019
Toks2008:


Awww! I'm so impressed.

Naija babes should take a cue from this.
cue from what Biko

Tell me if it is your sister you will wish for her to be chasing a man for two whole fucking years but the man is not responding instead his attention is on other women.

If it is you sef tell me you can chase a lady for two years without any positive result and you won't get tired

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Re: Opinion: This Is Why Every Lady Should Woo Her Dream Man. by Emotionss: 11:35am On Nov 03, 2019
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lyndaway:
It only takes a mature man to treat a woman right that walks up to him to express her feelings to him in this generation if you try it with a foolish guy I pity the girl

And it also takes a very emotionally and mentally mature woman not to start acting hard-to-get and whatnot the moment the SAME guy she has been giving the green light approach her.

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Re: Opinion: This Is Why Every Lady Should Woo Her Dream Man. by Toks2008(m): 1:22pm On Nov 03, 2019
virgoquin:
cue from what Biko

Tell me if it is your sister you will wish for her to be chasing a man for two whole fucking years but the man is not responding instead his attention is on other women.

If it is you sef tell me you can chase a lady for two years without any positive result and you won't get tired

Unfortunately I'm not reasoning the case from your perspective.

It's really not worth chasing a guy for 2years but I guess it's not the type of chase you are thinking of.

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Re: Opinion: This Is Why Every Lady Should Woo Her Dream Man. by Toks2008(m): 1:25pm On Nov 03, 2019
J111333:
Bro, accept my get well soon wishes in advance because I'm sure that slay queens in this forum will roast you soon. grin

I'm so used to their wailings.

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Re: Opinion: This Is Why Every Lady Should Woo Her Dream Man. by Toks2008(m): 1:28pm On Nov 03, 2019
theButterfly:
Rather than wooing a man, a woman should give him hints that she's interested and let him pick it up from there.
A man who's likewise interested will make the subsequent moves thereafter. If he doesn't, move on.

Guys are freaking tired of this flimsy green light cos at the end the lady will still be forming hard so what is the essence?

But let me ask...what is all the noise about gender equality when most ladies can't decisively go out of their ways to woo a man they genuinely desire?...this is why the world is not taking this Gender equality issue serious.

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