Larryfest:
Good morning all, I have been having sleepless night for a while now and a few days ago confirmed my insomnia would last longer than I thought.

We were comfortable and have been married for 5years now with a daughter but things have been rough for a while due to my business folding up and we have had to manage with the little we see from time to time. Earlier this year I had to sell some of the things in our house including my phone just so we could buy foodstuffs and pay our daughter's school fees, just some weeks ago I even had to shamefully reach out to a popular Nairalander if he has a phone he could spare because the one I'm currently using is a Desktop kind of phone (doesn't work without directly plugging it).

Last month my wife came home with a brand new Samsung phone and when I asked how she got it her response was that she won it from her womanhood help group on Facebook (she is very active there).
Last Sunday while arranging the room I came across a fertility clinic document and the receipt of the phone which the amount written there staggered me a bit because it's way more than our house rent that expired recently which has been the cause of my sleepless nights. When she got back from church I confronted her with my two findings and after plenty talks and argument she confessed a friend from work told her about it and she sold her Eggs at the clinic and it was from it she bought the phone.

My people since Sunday I have been seriously weak and confused, a lot on my mind already but now I have to add this to it Marriage is for the faint hearted abeg!!!

ADDENDUM.....

1. Someone asked how much .... well she said she was paid #150k but the nurse who brought her in collected 15k.

2. Someone also made some points about sex, complications and others and even said it's a made up story to tarnish women or whatever well I don't think they pay for story on Nairaland and even if they do it isn't going to cover what's on my mind right now so you believe whatever you want, it's quite funny to think everyone would exhibit same complications as the third party you heard your gist from...

3. She told me it only took her 3weeks of preparation and she wasn't even going to the more than 3times a week and as for medications and the rest, you think someone who doesn't want you to know what he/she is up to would leave clues flying around the house

4. As for the sex part and her risking getting pregnant, she has been on birth control pills for like 4years now so pregnancy wasn't going to stop her from the procedures....

Hmmmm... 10% agency fee...

post=112684605:
Who says there is nothing new under the sun

To start with,
@OP, do you have kids yet?!

We even think say na crates of egg Oga dey talk o!
That was actually the first thing that came to our mind(s)!!

Not even vulutures?

How r we sure the doctor did not remove the ovaries ...how can we check that?

Acidosis:
Every time a woman ovulates, she releases at least 1 egg. So, biologically, selling of eggs has no negative impact on a woman. It's only eggs she sold, not her ovaries. Her ovaries' got more than enough to meet her reproductive needs. It's even better to sell it than waste it (as menstruation).

The bigger issues are that she failed to inform you about the procedure and whatever it was you guys were going through didn't matter to her. It was all about her. These are the main threats to your marriage.

You haven't seen anything yet.

Acidosis:
Every time a woman ovulates, she releases at least 1 egg. So, biologically, selling of eggs has no negative impact on a woman. It's only eggs she sold, not her ovaries. Her ovaries' got more than enough to meet her reproductive needs. It's even better to sell it than waste it (as menstruation).

The bigger issues are that she failed to inform you about the procedure and whatever it was you guys were going through didn't matter to her. It was all about her. These are the main threats to your marriage.

You haven't seen anything yet.

She did not FAIL TO INFORM

She LIED about where she got the money

Huge difference

In addition to the issue you mention of indifference to family problems

If she lied about this she has probably lied about other things and will sell anything
For the right price she will sell her chickens and the Rooster OP

My brother let her know that you aren't happy she did it without your knowledge...
That's not how marraige should work.

And plss manage this situation
Marriage is a beautiful.

Be her feather and protect her

Thanks

Acidosis:
Every time a woman ovulates, she releases at least 1 egg. So, biologically, selling of eggs has no negative impact on a woman. It's only eggs she sold, not her ovaries. Her ovaries' got more than enough to meet her reproductive needs. It's even better to sell it than waste it (as menstruation).

The bigger issues are that she failed to inform you about the procedure and whatever it was you guys were going through didn't matter to her. It was all about her. These are the main threats to your marriage.

You haven't seen anything yet.

why did you conclude like that. That he hasn't seen anything yet

She picked Samsung over the marriage.. Obirin

Larryfest:
Good morning all, I have been having sleepless night for a while now and a few days ago confirmed my insomnia would last longer than I thought.

We were comfortable and have been married for 5years now with a daughter but things have been rough for a while due to my business folding up and we have had to manage with the little we see from time to time. Earlier this year I had to sell some of the things in our house including my phone just so we could buy foodstuffs and pay our daughter's school fees, just some weeks ago I even had to shamefully reach out to a popular Nairalander if he has a phone he could spare because the one I'm currently using is a Desktop kind of phone (doesn't work without directly plugging it).

Last month my wife came home with a brand new Samsung phone and when I asked how she got it her response was that she won it from her womanhood help group on Facebook (she is very active there).
Last Sunday while arranging the room I came across a fertility clinic document and the receipt of the phone which the amount written there staggered me a bit because it's way more than our house rent that expired recently which has been the cause of my sleepless nights. When she got back from church I confronted her with my two findings and after plenty talks and argument she confessed a friend from work told her about it and she sold her Eggs at the clinic and it was from it she bought the phone.

My people since Sunday I have been seriously weak and confused, a lot on my mind already but now I have to add this to it Marriage is for the faint hearted abeg!!!

ADDENDUM.....

1. Someone asked how much .... well she said she was paid #150k but the nurse who brought her in collected 15k.

2. Someone also made some points about sex, complications and others and even said it's a made up story to tarnish women or whatever well I don't think they pay for story on Nairaland and even if they do it isn't going to cover what's on my mind right now so you believe whatever you want, it's quite funny to think everyone would exhibit same complications as the third party you heard your gist from...

3. She told me it only took her 3weeks of preparation and she wasn't even going to the more than 3times a week and as for medications and the rest, you think someone who doesn't want you to know what he/she is up to would leave clues flying around the house

4. As for the sex part and her risking getting pregnant, she has been on birth control pills for like 4years now so pregnancy wasn't going to stop her from the procedures....

post=112684605:
Who says there is nothing new under the sun

To start with,
@OP, do you have kids yet?!

We even think say na crates of egg Oga dey talk o!
That was actually the first thing that came to our mind(s)!!

Me too only to hear fertility egg haahaa.

bigjackass:
I don't know why I'm impressed by this your wife

I suspect it's because you're a big jackass sir!

A wife that had the mind to do this, what will happen if she sees man that will fucck her silly and give her the phone. Oga, you are married to a hoe, a brainless hoe at that. No offense

This one loud oh... I'm speechless [sup][/sup]

Na wah, misplaced priorities. Selling eggs to get a phone.


Well sha to each his own.

ikpumbe:
My brother let her know that you aren't happy she did it without your knowledge...
That's not how marraige should work.

And plss manage this situation
Marriage is a beautiful.

Be her feather and protect her

Thanks

There is nothing beautiful about marriage it is not art work. It is a job or duty, it is hard work. Beauty is the absolute wrong word to use for marriage.
It a social institution that serves social functions, Most marriages are not experienced as beauty but VERY HARD EMOTIONAL LABOUR and a challenge for sanity

frozen70:


If not that she used the proceed to buy phone, she would have used the money to start something doing that will bring income to the family

Pls find out if she has more eggs to sell, so that you guys can do business with it

there's is hardly a woman here would
sell her eggs and gladly/happily use it feed man that could not bring food to the table...

.u people should stop castigating the woman...i believe many will do the same...may be not phone...but many women will gladly spend the money themselves.....

Abi it's not the gender that maintains the mentality that "my money is my own, it is my husband's money that is for both of us"

Op, you re just paranoid for nothing.

She sold one of her millions of ovum. No big deal. Same way you can donate your sperms to help childless man.

Please forgive her for not telling u and forget the incident.

If you know u can't cope with stress and difficulties in marriage, divorce her and move on

Nawa

Larryfest:
Ahahaha pls don't make me laugh... More eggs to sell Even this one she sold I'm so pissed off about it, who knows if there will be consequences later.

Why don't you google/read/talk to the fertility clinic people about the consequences, if any

Wawuu

And you want me to marry?


Abeg make una no make me laugh

drlateef:
Interesting submission. Do you know that technically, what his wife has done is that she has got pregnant for another strange man she never knows and who is not married to her? Is it because there was no intercourse that you lost the true meaning of what happened?

What the heck is wrong with you people?

q

One word; mado!

If You're Waiting On A Woman's Money, You're On A Long Thing. My Girls Earns More Than I Do, Knows When I Am Paid But Never Tells When She's Paid. She Still Asks Me For Money, Ice Cream, Shawarma And All. I'd Advise You Get A Car And Get On Uber/Bolt. Don't Stress Your Head. If, God Forbid You Fall Right Now, She'll Move On.

Kobojunkie:
What the heck is wrong with you people?

Most of them don't have sense.

truthsayer009:


Really? I didn't know this. Sounds like a business opportunity to create a tech Startup for people who need to purchase eggs

Comrade, you sure?

A perfect example of why the female is furore.

Dorwadora:
Seems the sales is expensive over at your location....

Over here the sales of egg range from 100k -150k.

Anyways you should be proud that your wife could sale her eggs, not all women can do that nowadays because of STDs ...

And there's no risk involve for you guys to have children so just chill Op.


She needed a phone, it might even be for business. I can imagine how many years or months she has been without phone to take such action ... God will provide.

Can you please explain the connection of STDs with the procedure? Thanks.

She should have informed you about it, she's totally wrong. But your concern is how she spent the money despite the financial crisis in your home

Kobojunkie:
What the heck is wrong with you people?

To imagine that his moniker is Dr. Lateef

advanceDNA:


there's is hardly a woman here would
sell her eggs and gladly/happily use it feed man that could not bring food to the table...

.u people should stop castigating the woman...i believe many will do the same...may be not phone...but many women will gladly spend the money themselves.....

Abi it's not the gender that maintains the mentality that "my money is my own, it is my husband's money that is for both of us"

Your comment was just opposite of what I mentioned

I said they could use thst as business since they are down financially

Always try to read and understand, they have two different meaning

Your rent expire she sell eggs buy phone.. she is insensitive and cruel.. omo you dan enter one chance.. watch the company she keeps.. In Calistus voice,,,,, it is over