JovialJune:



In order to show your ignorance, try not to be daft at the same time,

1) The tests are time comsuming, from HIV to HEPATITIS B AND C, to GENERATIONAL BRITH DEFECTS and HEREDITARY DISEASES, these tests are not a days job or whatever nonsense you just spewed, is it a day's bla bla bla you typed that will only be done?

2) She takes a medication to stop her menses flow so as to increase her hormones to get healthy fertile eggs, how the hell will sperm meet a fertile egg if not for the absence of menstruation? You want to school a woman on her body system? Are you okay?

3) There is no way Op will miss her medications and injections in the house, whether in the dustbin or whereever she hides things, the side effects from it alone will make him ask questions

4) The Op did not indicate that he is an "away" husband, they live together

5) Pls have sense, the preparatoy process takes months most especially in Nigeria that you will be told to come back for just one test results in 2,3weeks or a months time, talk less of multiple tests so what are you saying?

6) The story did not also state she did not buy the phone same day either, the recovery is not a matter of minutes for everyone, it can takes days for some and a day for others, a first timer will go through series of side effects before she fully recovers

7) Who is talking about unconsciousness? I'm talking of the recovery process, side effects and risks involved you're talking of unconsciousness

Most people commenting here talked of first hand experience same as me, you're referring me to Google assumptions? Why not go ask for consultations and medications from Google when next you have an ailment or you want to go for surgery

When the debate is lost, they resort to tantrums. Go and bring facts and not emotions. I referred you to nordica, it’s one of the first rated fertility clinics in Nigeria. There is no test/ recovery you stated that takes months. Even dna testing where samples need to be sent abroad are ready in 2-3 weeks. You seem to forgot the medications/injections are time bound and not infinite. For recovery to take several days or months, there must have been complications which is extremely rare and rated 1-2%. Recovery takes minutes and with a days rest when there is no complications. No one commented on the lies you wrote from first hand experiences. As acknowledged, this does not validate the story, but your spin to discredit it are outright lies. You obviously set out for deceit simply because it had to do with a female. You have not been able to aptly state where you got the several months long process from.

Lastly, before calling someone ignorant or daft in a public fora, you should back up your counter claims with verifiable facts from maybe medical journals, texts and resources online/offline, not your emotional rants else you begin to sound ignorant and daft.

CHoccolaTE:
This Op too dey lie.

He said his wife is on birth control and still donating egg at the same time?

Hian.

That one doesn’t know birth control impacts ovulation. When people are lying above their pay grade
Like he doesn’t even have ovaries. Why won’t he bungle the story?

CHoccolaTE:
This Op too dey lie.

He said his wife is on birth control and still donating egg at the same time?

Hian.

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Dorwadora:
Seems the sales is expensive over at your location....

Over here the sales of egg range from 100k -150k.

Anyways you should be proud that your wife could sale her eggs, not all women can do that nowadays because of STDs ...

And there's no risk involve for you guys to have children so just chill Op.


She needed a phone, it might even be for business. I can imagine how many years or months she has been without phone to take such action ... God will provide.

How does std occur in the selling of eggs.

Silentgroper:
How does std occur in the selling of eggs.

A woman with any form of STDs can not donate or sale her eggs.

Hotbreadandbean:

Hmmm, were there any side effects to it? Asking for a friend who's around 21 yrs old, I'm trying to discourage her from doing it but she's hellbent, I just hope she won't regret it in the future

Tell her to disembark. If I were to turn back the hands of time, I wouldn't have taken that step. I was lucky not to have had complications (or so I suppose), the girl who went alongside me still suffers mildly for this action that was done years ago.

I know how dark and depressing it feels when you are empty and don't see help coming through.

All the same, I hope my act paved a way for an expectant couple. Your friend will be fine.

Dorwadora:
A woman with any form of STDs can not donate or sale her eggs.

oh!!! I thought one could contract it during extraction..

cococandy:

That one doesn’t know birth control impacts ovulation. When people are lying above their pay grade
Like he doesn’t even have ovaries. Why won’t he bungle the story?

Yet they won’t rest.

Silentgroper:
oh!!! I thought one could contract it during extraction..

Definitely not STDs but a woman can get infections after extraction if handled by unprofessionals.

JovialJune:



In order to show your ignorance, try not to be daft at the same time,

1) The tests are time comsuming, from HIV to HEPATITIS B AND C, to GENERATIONAL BRITH DEFECTS and HEREDITARY DISEASES, these tests are not a days job or whatever nonsense you just spewed, is it a day's bla bla bla you typed that will get all these tests done?

2) She will take a medication to stop her menses flow so as to increase her hormones to get healthy fertile eggs, how the hell will sperm meet a fertile egg if not for the absence of menstruation? You want to school a woman on her body system? Are you okay?

3) There is no way Op will miss her medications and injections in the house, whether in the dustbin or whereever she hides things, the side effects from it alone will make him ask questions

4) The Op did not indicate that he is an "away" husband, they live together

5) Pls have sense, the preparatoy process takes months most especially in Nigeria that you will be told to come back for just one test results in 2,3weeks or a months time, talk less of multiple tests so what are you saying?

6) The story did not also state she did not buy the phone same day either, the recovery is not a matter of minutes for everyone, it can take days for some and a day for others, a first timer will go through series of side effects before she fully recovers

7) Who is talking about unconsciousness? I'm talking of the recovery process, side effects and risks involved you're talking of unconsciousness

Most people commenting here talked of first hand experience same as me, you're referring me to Google assumptions? Why not go and ask for consultations and medications from Google when next you have an ailment or you want to go for surgery

Leave am. The same NORDICA in Ikoyi that my friend used abi another one?

I just had to search Nordica in WhatsApp and our chats popped up. Make e dey run mouth.

Acidosis:


Some people can be extremely discreet yunno?


The story might be false though.

yeah.. like me ..



I can mask a broken leg..

I love being discreet and mysterious



Omoh if people see me finish, e dey always vex me oo

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skoskosko:


When the debate is lost, they resort to tantrums. Go and bring facts and not emotions. I referred you to nordica, it’s one of the first rated fertility clinics in Nigeria. There is no test/ recovery you stated that takes months. Even dna testing where samples need to be sent abroad are ready in 2-3 weeks. You seem to forgot the medications/injections are time bound and not infinite. For recovery to take several days or months, there must have been complications which is extremely rare and rated 1-2%. Recovery takes minutes and with a days rest when there is no complications. No one commented on the lies you wrote from first hand experiences. As acknowledged, this does not validate the story, but your spin to discredit it are outright lies. You obviously set out for deceit simply because it had to do with a female. You have not been able to aptly state where you got the several months long process from.

Lastly, before calling someone ignorant or daft in a public fora, you should back up your counter claims with verifiable facts from maybe medical journals, texts and resources online/offline, not your emotional rants else you begin to sound ignorant and daft.

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I honestly and sincerely don't know why I'm arguing with someone that has no ovaries, imagine comparing DNA tests to the painful procedure of egg retrieval, imagine referring me to journals and texts, like it is same as first hand experience, every thing is always about gender war to slow people without sense, we are talking of the female body system this one is typing trash, people that reduces IQ aren't worth the effort at all

This is my last response to you.

Dorwadora:
Definitely not STDs but a woman can get infections after extraction if handled by unprofessionals.

hmm

JovialJune:
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I honestly and sincerely don't know why I'm arguing with someone that has no ovaries, imagine comparing DNA tests to the painful procedure of egg retrieval, imagine referring me to journals and texts, like it is same as first hand experience, every thing is always about gender war to slow people without sense, we are talking of the female body system this one is typing trash, people that reduces IQ aren't worth the effort at all

This is my last response to you.

You didn’t even add the part that the injection needs cool temperature. So she can’t hide it inside her box or under the bed.

They think they can grow vagina and ovaries by reading google links. Nordica kor, Evercare ni!

JovialJune:
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I honestly and sincerely don't know why I'm arguing with someone that has no ovaries, imagine comparing DNA tests to the painful procedure of egg retrieval, imagine referring me to journals and texts, like it is same as first hand experience, every thing is always about gender war to slow people without sense, we are talking of the female body system this one is typing trash, people that reduces IQ aren't worth the effort at all

This is my last response to you.[/s]

Read slowly what you wrote, bring out one sense! Non right? That is the real trash, the low budget response that actually reduces IQ. Only empty emotions. If you had a reasonable IQ, you would have backed up your lies. Do you know why you can’t? Because they are lies and there is nothing to back it up with. No need bantering words with you, my aim is already achieved, any sane mind will not take either words for it but would verify and discover what you dished out were outright dishonesty for obvious reasons. So if I don’t have ovaries, I don’t have a wife or sisters or women around me. Maybe since you have ovaries, you know nothing about spermatozoa. I repeat, there is no test that takes months, and the the entire process itself takes weeks, the so called egg retrieval takes less than 30mins, while recovery is minutes with a days rest. If you have a counter timeframe, please prove it. Instead of name calling, prove your so called high IQ by disproven this. Ofcourse, you can’t! I don’t expect your response either, you have been called out for your lies, and after trying so hard to spin it around, you had no evidence to back it up, because a lie will always be what it is, A LIE!

Hotbreadandbean:

Hmmm, was there any side effects to it? Asking for a friend she's around 21 yrs old, I'm trying to discourage her from doing it but she's hellbent, I just hope she won't regret it in the future

are you it's for a friend ....



Aunty no dey disguise oo

I want to do it. Please put me through on doing this

The process I did took 8 weeks to egg retrival. I have done two cycles of ivf.
Though I hear there are faster cycles now but you both have a point.
Also, as with all things health related, recovery varies from person to person. No need for violent arguments guys..

skoskosko:

Read slowly what you wrote, bring out one sense! Non right? That is the real trash, the low budget response that actually reduces IQ. Only empty emotions. If you had a reasonable IQ, you would have backed up your lies. Do you know why you can’t? Because they are lies and there is nothing to back it up with. No need bantering words with you, my aim is already achieved, any sane mind will not take either words for it but would verify and discover what you dished out were outright dishonesty for obvious reasons. So if I don’t have ovaries, I don’t have a wife or sisters or women around me. Maybe since you have ovaries, you know nothing about spermatozoa. I repeat, there is no test that takes months, and the the entire process itself takes weeks, the so called egg retrieval takes less than 30mins, while recovery is minutes with a days rest. If you have a counter timeframe, please prove it. Instead of name calling, prove your so called high IQ by disproven this. Ofcourse, you can’t! I don’t expect your response either, you have been called out for your lies, and after trying so hard to spin it around, you had no evidence to back it up, because a lie will always be what it is, A LIE!

ImaIma1:
OP please how much did they pay for the eggs. I'm asking for someone

Hotbreadandbean:

The parents are even supporting her, her mum is 43 and hasn't reached menopause yet, she's also planning to do it cos her daughter told her the hospital is offering 180k

WTF

Na so suffer reach?

Larryfest:

Oga how can a wife decide on such things without the husband's knowledge? What if things went south or something? Current money problems or not you think that was a smart decision

This is why I asked my question to ascertain exactly what it was your quarrel was.

What do you recon could have gone south abeg? What is it exactly she shouldn't have done without her husband's knowledge?

Acidosis:
Every time a woman ovulates, she releases at least 1 egg. So, biologically, selling of eggs has no negative impact on a woman. It's only eggs she sold, not her ovaries. Her ovaries' got more than enough to meet her reproductive needs. It's even better to sell it than waste it (as menstruation).

The bigger issues are that she failed to inform you about the procedure and whatever it was you guys were going through didn't matter to her. It was all about her. These are the main threats to your marriage.

You haven't seen anything yet.

She is going to have a baby running around somewhere in the world.

The same for sperm donors

donbenie:
Yes it's all about priorities..
She sold her eggs and her priority was a Samsung phone?
Guess the man should sell his sperm and buy an iPhone..
And let the house rent sort itself..

This doesn't seem the OP'S beef as it turns out.

Miarose:
The process I did took 8 weeks to egg retrival. I have done two cycles of ivf.
Though I hear there are faster cycles now but you both have a point.
Also, as with all things health related, recovery varies from person to person. No need for violent arguments guys..

I can understand your input, if you read the OP story, you find out it was very plausible. I am not holding his brief, but someone just coming out to use lies to discredit his story is cancel culture. I have had 2 very close people undergo IVF treatment both at Nordica Asaba and my country of residence, non took above a month. The OP even stated his wife undertook the procedure in 3 weeks which is very plausible, like he said, does nairaland pay for stories for him to just cook up such? Some even went as far as calling him a liar for saying his wife was on birth control without knowing birth control has no impart on the process. It was just cancel culture taken far.

cococandy:


The part where he didn’t realize any of that until he saw a phone receipt. Did they even live together?

Are you saying there is absolutely nothing you can hide that your husband will never find out?

Larryfest:

Ahahaha pls don't make me laugh... More eggs to sell Even this one she sold I'm so pissed off about it, who knows if there will be consequences later.

I don't get it. Do you and your wife plan to have more kids or something? Is your concern that by selling her eggs there will be no more eggs for you two to use in making other kids? Is that your worry?

Or are you simply operating under the idea that because she is your wife her eggs are automagically all your property?

Kobojunkie:
This is why I asked my question to ascertain exactly what it was your quarrel was.

What do you recon could have gone south abeg? What is it exactly she shouldn't have done without her husband's knowledge?

Wow! People have gone in for simpler procedures without coming out alive. So anything could have gone wrong! It is legally and morally wrong for her to take such life altering procedures without her husband’s knowledge. So you mean the husband can wake up and have a vasectomy without informing his wife simply because it is his body? Although very rare for major complications to arise from egg donation, but what if she falls into the unfortunate 2%, and puts her husband in a position he did not bargain for? Are you saying it is right to make medical decisions of such magnitude without spousal knowledge and consent?

skoskosko:

Wow! People have gone in for simpler procedures without coming out alive.

1. So anything could have gone wrong! It is legally and morally wrong for her to take such life altering procedures without her husband’s knowledge.

2. So you mean the husband can wake up and have a vasectomy without informing his wife simply because it is his body?

3. Although very rare for major complications to arise from egg donation, but what if she falls into the unfortunate 2%, and puts her husband in a position he did not bargain for?

4. Are you saying it is right to make medical decisions of such magnitude without spousal knowledge and consent?

1. Life altering? In what way is the procedure "life altering" abeg?

2. How exactly does donating an egg instead of flushing it down the toilet compare to a husband getting a vasectomy abeg?,

3. A position such as ?

4. I don't know. Millions of single women world over donate eggs regularly, so I am trying to see why a married woman's case should be made special.

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Don't get me wrong here.... I completely understand there are potentially great risks involved here. But I doubt the Op's concerns have to do with his wife's health as his Op read more like he felt she had to have him making the decision as far as her eggs and the money gained from it.

Yeah i see your point. Some people are bad at narration. They just go straight to the point and may not bother about the minor details.. Doesnt mean they are lying.

skoskosko:

I can understand your input, if you read the OP story, you find out it was very plausible. I am not holding his brief, but someone just coming out to use lies to discredit his story is cancel culture. I have had 2 very close people undergo IVF treatment both at Nordica Asaba and my country of residence, non took above a month. The OP even stated his wife undertook the procedure in 3 weeks which is very plausible, like he said, does nairaland pay for stories for him to just cook up such? Some even went as far as calling him a liar for saying his wife was on birth control without knowing birth control has no impart on the process. It was just cancel culture taken far.

CSTRR:

Are you saying there is absolutely nothing you can hide that your husband will never find out?

Depends on what it is obviously.

CSTRR:

She is going to have a baby running around somewhere in the world.

The same for sperm donors

Lol. Reproduction is a more complex process.