emmanuelbrown26:

Op u understand your situation, D raw truth is that you are living with a serpent.
If your wife could sell her egg without informing u, then she went ahead and used d money to purchase phone when there are issues on ground in d family e.g. House rent, school fees and feeding, oga serpent even better pass your wife..
This is not all about her being materialistic, it's all about selfish and self centered. I believe wheb your business was booming, u were taken care of her very well now that things no cum balance again, she cum turn to something else.
I keep telling men every now and then that 99.9% of naija women are nor worth any sacrifice at all.
When God himself no marry
His Only Son no marry
Host of d Angels no marry
24 Elders in Heaven no marry but they are elders.
No woman follow for d 12 Apostles.
Then garden of Eden was so so good and smooth until Eve came wahala started.
D Prince of d world (Satan) no even marry rather na same women en dey use bring men down.
My brother their is something hidden d suprem does not want us to know about marriage and women.

Framed:


From simp to female. Next thing you will say I am gay or gender neutral

Oturatetuala:


Oh really? Will they pay me like 50million because sperm don cost o

dominique:
Absolutely nothing wrong with selling of her eggs but using it to buy a new phone knowing the financial situation is extremely selfish of her. The reason she didn't tell you she wanted to sell her eggs was because she wanted to use the money for herself. If she had told you that she wanted to sell the eggs to take care of bills, it's you that will be driving her to the fertility clinic every month o

Larryfest:
Good morning all, I have been having sleepless night for a while now and a few days ago confirmed my insomnia would last longer than I thought.

We were comfortable and have been married for 5years now with a daughter but things have been rough for a while due to my business folding up and we have had to manage with the little we see from time to time. Earlier this year I had to sell some of the things in our house including my phone just so we could buy foodstuffs and pay our daughter's school fees, just some weeks ago I even had to shamefully reach out to a popular Nairalander if he has a phone he could spare because the one I'm currently using is a Desktop kind of phone (doesn't work without directly plugging it).

Last month my wife came home with a brand new Samsung phone and when I asked how she got it her response was that she won it from her womanhood help group on Facebook (she is very active there).
Last Sunday while arranging the room I came across a fertility clinic document and the receipt of the phone which the amount written there staggered me a bit because it's way more than our house rent that expired recently which has been the cause of my sleepless nights. When she got back from church I confronted her with my two findings and after plenty talks and argument she confessed a friend from work told her about it and she sold her Eggs at the clinic and it was from it she bought the phone.

My people since Sunday I have been seriously weak and confused, a lot on my mind already but now I have to add this to it Marriage is for the faint hearted abeg!!!

ADDENDUM.....

1. Someone asked how much .... well she said she was paid #150k but the nurse who brought her in collected 15k.

2. Someone also made some points about sex, complications and others and even said it's a made up story to tarnish women or whatever well I don't think they pay for story on Nairaland and even if they do it isn't going to cover what's on my mind right now so you believe whatever you want, it's quite funny to think everyone would exhibit same complications as the third party you heard your gist from...

3. She told me it only took her 3weeks of preparation and she wasn't even going to the more than 3times a week and as for medications and the rest, you think someone who doesn't want you to know what he/she is up to would leave clues flying around the house

4. As for the sex part and her risking getting pregnant, she has been on birth control pills for like 4years now so pregnancy wasn't going to stop her from the procedures....

frozen70:


If not that she used the proceed to buy phone, she would have used the money to start something doing that will bring income to the family

Pls find out if she has more eggs to sell, so that you guys can do business with it

Acidosis:
Every time a woman ovulates, she releases at least 1 egg. So, biologically, selling of eggs has no negative impact on a woman. It's only eggs she sold, not her ovaries. Her ovaries' got more than enough to meet her reproductive needs. It's even better to sell it than waste it (as menstruation).

The bigger issues are that she failed to inform you about the procedure and whatever it was you guys were going through didn't matter to her. It was all about her. These are the main threats to your marriage.

You haven't seen anything yet.

post=112684849:

This makes good sense.
But no wife should ever do that without the knowledge of her hubby.... which you also affirm.

Acidosis:
Every time a woman ovulates, she releases at least 1 egg. So, biologically, selling of eggs has no negative impact on a woman. It's only eggs she sold, not her ovaries. Her ovaries' got more than enough to meet her reproductive needs. It's even better to sell it than waste it (as menstruation).

The bigger issues are that she failed to inform you about the procedure and whatever it was you guys were going through didn't matter to her. It was all about her. These are the main threats to your marriage.

You haven't seen anything yet.

Dreamswayne:
Tell her to sell more and get me a PS5 abeg.

NorthSerious:

Nah, the dude you quoted on this thread did nothing wrong to warrant your attacks. He just thought a man should be heard and is rightfully against cancel culture tactics that women usually employ when they want to silence a man. And then you pop out of nowhere to join in on the bashing. You are either a woman or a failed simp.

thinkmoney:

If the egg is fertilised, she will have a baby outside. Ethically, it is concerning

pocohantas:


Happy new year, Zane.

Kobojunkie:
Really?

dominique:
Absolutely nothing wrong with selling of her eggs but using it to buy a new phone knowing the financial situation is extremely selfish of her. The reason she didn't tell you she wanted to sell her eggs was because she wanted to use the money for herself. If she had told you that she wanted to sell the eggs to take care of bills, it's you that will be driving her to the fertility clinic every month o

AuroraB:
Op can equally sell his semen naa
he should do that to pay the rent

post=112684605:
Who says there is nothing new under the sun

To start with,
@OP, do you have kids yet?!

We even think say na crates of egg Oga dey talk o!
That was actually the first thing that came to our mind(s)!!

frozen70:


If not that she used the proceed to buy phone, she would have used the money to start something doing that will bring income to the family

Pls find out if she has more eggs to sell, so that you guys can do business with it

Miner13:
oke2018 this is a fairytale o! was thinking she sold all the eggs from her poultry to buy phone

dazzlingd:
I feel really sorry for the op,

While he is busy having sleepless nights on how to pay house rent, his woman sold her eggs to buy a new phone.

And they will say go and marry, marriage is sweet, he that finds a wife finds a good thing.

Well, she used what she has to solve her problem, next time she can collect prick outside to use the money to buy hair and fix her nails while he daughter is looking for school fees.
Use your head comrade, u can use what u have too as well, go donate sperm for money or at least, u have two eggs, u can donate one.