pocohantas:


It has to be one or both. I thought men don’t have emotions? The guy had an emotional breakdown right before our eyes. I felt for him at some point.




He should go sell his own na. Not after she pays the rent, he would remember he is polygamous and start doing prick giveaway. He should go hustle and do what he should do to retain his headship position.

Acidosis:
Every time a woman ovulates, she releases at least 1 egg. So, biologically, selling of eggs has no negative impact on a woman. It's only eggs she sold, not her ovaries. Her ovaries' got more than enough to meet her reproductive needs. It's even better to sell it than waste it (as menstruation).

The bigger issues are that she failed to inform you about the procedure and whatever it was you guys were going through didn't matter to her. It was all about her. These are the main threats to your marriage.

You haven't seen anything yet.

Larryfest:
Good morning all, I have been having sleepless night for a while now and a few days ago confirmed my insomnia would last longer than I thought.

We were comfortable and have been married for 5years now with a daughter but things have been rough for a while due to my business folding up and we have had to manage with the little we see from time to time. Earlier this year I had to sell some of the things in our house including my phone just so we could buy foodstuffs and pay our daughter's school fees, just some weeks ago I even had to shamefully reach out to a popular Nairalander if he has a phone he could spare because the one I'm currently using is a Desktop kind of phone (doesn't work without directly plugging it).

Last month my wife came home with a brand new Samsung phone and when I asked how she got it her response was that she won it from her womanhood help group on Facebook (she is very active there).
Last Sunday while arranging the room I came across a fertility clinic document and the receipt of the phone which the amount written there staggered me a bit because it's way more than our house rent that expired recently which has been the cause of my sleepless nights. When she got back from church I confronted her with my two findings and after plenty talks and argument she confessed a friend from work told her about it and she sold her Eggs at the clinic and it was from it she bought the phone.

My people since Sunday I have been seriously weak and confused, a lot on my mind already but now I have to add this to it Marriage is for the faint hearted abeg!!!

ADDENDUM.....

1. Someone asked how much .... well she said she was paid #150k but the nurse who brought her in collected 15k.

2. Someone also made some points about sex, complications and others and even said it's a made up story to tarnish women or whatever well I don't think they pay for story on Nairaland and even if they do it isn't going to cover what's on my mind right now so you believe whatever you want, it's quite funny to think everyone would exhibit same complications as the third party you heard your gist from...

3. She told me it only took her 3weeks of preparation and she wasn't even going to the more than 3times a week and as for medications and the rest, you think someone who doesn't want you to know what he/she is up to would leave clues flying around the house

4. As for the sex part and her risking getting pregnant, she has been on birth control pills for like 4years now so pregnancy wasn't going to stop her from the procedures....

VirileNelly2420:

If only she would mention the name of the clinic, I tell u, by tomorrow morning u would mistake there for a JAMB center cos of the queue u will meet there.... .

Mr Man, ur wife just discovered an oil well. U're lucky o.

Plz sell it instead of wasting in.

Larryfest:
Good morning all, I have been having sleepless night for a while now and a few days ago confirmed my insomnia would last longer than I thought.

We were comfortable and have been married for 5years now with a daughter but things have been rough for a while due to my business folding up and we have had to manage with the little we see from time to time. Earlier this year I had to sell some of the things in our house including my phone just so we could buy foodstuffs and pay our daughter's school fees, just some weeks ago I even had to shamefully reach out to a popular Nairalander if he has a phone he could spare because the one I'm currently using is a Desktop kind of phone (doesn't work without directly plugging it).

Last month my wife came home with a brand new Samsung phone and when I asked how she got it her response was that she won it from her womanhood help group on Facebook (she is very active there).
Last Sunday while arranging the room I came across a fertility clinic document and the receipt of the phone which the amount written there staggered me a bit because it's way more than our house rent that expired recently which has been the cause of my sleepless nights. When she got back from church I confronted her with my two findings and after plenty talks and argument she confessed a friend from work told her about it and she sold her Eggs at the clinic and it was from it she bought the phone.

My people since Sunday I have been seriously weak and confused, a lot on my mind already but now I have to add this to it Marriage is for the faint hearted abeg!!!

ADDENDUM.....

1. Someone asked how much .... well she said she was paid #150k but the nurse who brought her in collected 15k.

2. Someone also made some points about sex, complications and others and even said it's a made up story to tarnish women or whatever well I don't think they pay for story on Nairaland and even if they do it isn't going to cover what's on my mind right now so you believe whatever you want, it's quite funny to think everyone would exhibit same complications as the third party you heard your gist from...

3. She told me it only took her 3weeks of preparation and she wasn't even going to the more than 3times a week and as for medications and the rest, you think someone who doesn't want you to know what he/she is up to would leave clues flying around the house

4. As for the sex part and her risking getting pregnant, she has been on birth control pills for like 4years now so pregnancy wasn't going to stop her from the procedures....

Kobojunkie:
What the heck is wrong with you people?

Kobojunkie:
But the problem here is his issue is not about the money but the fact that she did not obtain permission from him before selling what the eggs. It seems he thinks as her husband, the eggs are his to make decisions on.

frozen70:


Lol, it's like sperm donation, am sure it doesn't finish

Mariangeles:


If na true true say e happen, she be mumu abeg!
If you see truth, dey talk am!

Skmoda360:

But sperm donation can't fetch you the figure of egg donation.....

frozen70:


So far they will make money out of it, no matter how small so that can sort themselves out

VirileNelly2420:


My brother, provided it's not going to affect her fertility...., I think ur wife just discovered an oil well. Millions will be seeking for such contact. Monthly salary of atleast 130k no b here o....

I mean, she sold her egg not her womb, ok.
She produces dis eggs monthly and have dem wasted...

Am only bothered on what she spent the money on....

fm7070:


See quack doctor

PROPEACE:

If he sold his kidney without telling his wife it will be wrong too even though it is a part of his body.

Munzy14:

Trust Nigerians, the price will go down, when everyone starts selling...Some go sell at 5k sef..

Make Ulcer no kill person..

This is a problem and a time BOMB in the waiting.

drlateef:
You are the one that something is wrong with to be honest and with all due respect. Have you ever heard of consanguinity and congenital genetic diseases? Why is incest frowned upon in all societies? Now tell me: if we cannot trace the origin of any egg or sperm, how will that not cause the problems with consanguinity?

Mariangeles:
If na true true say e happen, she be mumu abeg!
If you see truth, dey talk am!

dominique:


Eggs actually do finishe, every female is born with a certain amount eggs in her ovaries which degrade over time. By the time she reaches puberty, she will have about 350-400 eggs left in her ovaries one of which will be released monthly at every reproductive cycle. By the time all the eggs are exhausted (through menstruation and childbirth), menopause sets in.

If a woman goes to sell her eggs, she's risking early menopause because only one egg will not be harvested. The fertility clinic will want to harvest at least 5 eggs to boost the chances of conception. That will shorten her reproductive lifespan by at least 5 months. Imagine doing that 5 times or more, don't be surprised to see women hitting menopause in their 30s in the years to come.

Munzy14:

Kobo is something else...Simple truth, buth she enjoys doing merry go round..

In this situation, though is not common to know some ladies go extra get what they need just to impress strangers on SM.

Ya wuru na onwuru, her people will say the guy don use her cash out.. Nwoke atawa ahuhu ihe o na amahu...

Things like this are reasons why I don't blame well to do guys running away from commitments..Na issues like this the scare them...

Marrying a devourer as a partner is first step to poverty, calamity and catastrophe.

Acidosis:



It's not going to be that easy The percentage of women in need of a egg donor in Nigeria is not that bad/high. Out of this group of people, only very few can afford the egg donor/IVF procedure. . Out of this "few" some will get willing donors from family and relatives free of charge

Kobojunkie:
How she take be mumu?

Mariangeles:
Mumu sef better pass her!
She no get self worth.
Alakoba oshi!!!

Kobojunkie:
How she take be mumu? What makes her an Alakoba oshi?

Kobojunkie:
A kidney is irreplaceable, but people typicaly have more than enough blood, sperm and eggs to give to others. Even college students here sell these things in college to pay bills or tuition.

Mariangeles:
How she no take be alakoba?
If to say something happen to her in the process, who her people go hold accountable?

PROPEACE:

Why can't I sell my sperm

Kobojunkie:
If something happened to her? So you insult her not for what actually happened but instead for what coulda happened?

Mariangeles:
For both.