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Ninisun:
You don't know what the future holds. Do you know if her husband was abusing the lady? You don't even know if your daughter in future will marry an irresponsible man that might cause her to be a single mother. Be very careful with your words.

MistarT:
Hmm deep i am learning something, thank you.

MistarT:
Please candid opinions will be appreciated. Thanks.

Itwill do humanity great good, if we hear from marriage counsellors with wide range of experiences, thanks.

MrBrownJay1:
you made plenty of sense and then you wrote the above... are you saying that a woman who had a child for some dude and then they parted ways, will always let that man mount her?! do you see how insecure it is of you to claim the above?! even you yourself, some babe got pregnant for you and you didnt want the child, would you even want to have sex with her again?!?!? come on bro!

the above you wrote says a lot about the weak insecure mindset of some men...so because she had sex with someone before, you are so insecure that you believe that she can never love you and be faithful to you ever. that she will always be drawn to the bastard who may have abandoned/dropped her etc.... thats deep! no wonder men are running away from these single mothers!

Sweetplum:
God kee you this AutoRedux. May your penni s shrink to size of kolanut and seize to work.
Who impregnated a woman out of wedlock?
An irresponsible man like you!

McDuncan:
Well, I'll have you know that she was betrothed and in the Jewish tradition being betrothed is considered married.

If you want biblical proof, I'll supply you. But don't mistake me for a good Christian, I'm not. I have so many weaknesses, chief among them is 'an eye for an eye.'

justscorchone:
I'm afraid to admit it but this post just shows how many juvenile men are in this forum.

Toktee:
Just Bleep her and run.... anything she tell you as a reason for her been single is lies.






They are sadist.


They are really bittered.


They are manner less


They are wayward.


Most of them just take a break from active prostitution.

TheCongo2:
Please tell them ...

MrBrownJay1:
you made plenty of sense and then you wrote the above... are you saying that a woman who had a child for some dude and then they parted ways, will always let that man mount her?! do you see how insecure it is of you to claim the above?! even you yourself, some babe got pregnant for you and you didnt want the child, would you even want to have sex with her again?!?!? come on bro!

the above you wrote says a lot about the weak insecure mindset of some men...so because she had sex with someone before, you are so insecure that you believe that she can never love you and be faithful to you ever. that she will always be drawn to the bastard who may have abandoned/dropped her etc.... thats deep! no wonder men are running away from these single mothers!

AutoRedux:
Don't mistake me for the wayward father of that your child, you useless gawd awful single bitch mom.

satandeterrible:
Men must not protect damaged goods.

MrBrownJay1:
the issue of single mothers is very simple... if you have no problem with it, then meet them and enjoy your life with her....and if you have a problem with it, then dont date/marry single mothers, et voila!

a woman with a child shouldnt be an issue, unless that woman is a bad person....sadly, many people will automatically view a single mother as a bad person, while many others wont/dont, and will instead judge that woman on the go or her character. some single mothers are fantastic women who became single mothers because of a bad union, a death and/or an accident. you cant possibly judge a woman negatively on the sole act of having a child unmarried (unless of course, you are one of them religious holier than thou hypocrites who forgot that even JESUS mother was a single mother, lol!)

caracas:
It’s not as simple as you make it sound….

caracas:
This is exactly the kind of opinion n advice that led so many men to their early graves, mental health issues etc…..
It’s better to wait n get it right ( to some extent)than marry anything, cos she is in front of you

McDuncan:
Well, I'll have you know that she was betrothed and in the Jewish tradition being betrothed is considered married.

If you want biblical proof, I'll supply you. But don't mistake me for a good Christian, I'm not. I have so many weaknesses, chief among them is 'an eye for an eye.'

tiswell:
they are bad market,I'm talking from experience.



You can never please nor satisfy a single mother,and they usually end up loving or should I say pity their love-child more than the legitimate ones she has for you.

tiswell:
joke is on you

Puskas:
She will end up loving and caring for her child more than you

Sweetplum:
Aren't single dad bad markets too?
Aren't they also bound to pity their previous child more than the new kids from the wife they remarry?
What's so special about men that women can't be better.

SugarGirl44:
Sorry but you sound so uncultured and illogical.

Your points 4 and 5 contradict each other, if the man abandoned her and the baby, how would he still be fvcking her?

Just read on if you are too immature to understand that life happens to everybody in one way or another, you might even end up being a baby daddy yourself.
Nobody plans for shit, but it happens anyways.
Grow up!

Kriss216:
Even a girl you married as a virgin will care for her child more than the husband.

The only problem with single mother;
The father of her child has 98.783% access to her kpekus.

Ninisun:
Just imagine how you open that your gutter mouth to call someone's child a bastard! How old are you small man? Ngige should settle ASUU so you can go back to school. F.ool

denobaba:
Nothing in your posts suggests even the remotest connection to reality. It's either you are very naive or you just wish to be disingenuous.

It's a well established fact that women divert attention to kids as against their husband. If this is the reality of many fathers, tell me how it could not be potentially worse in the case of marriage to a single mom.

Granted, a few single moms may find men who would commit to them for the long-term but don't try to misinform the public of the likely risk that could crystallize. Marrying a single mom will never be a first cause of action for anyone.

Puskas:
Any attempt from you to discipline the child will not always go down well with her. She will be seeing it as a hatred for the child because the child is not yours

tiswell:
men are logical beings,women are emotional. Logic and emotion are two parallel lines that can never meet.

Minjim:
This exactly what I'm facing. A six year old boy and she won't even allow him do any simple chores at home

Ninisun:
Close that brown teeth of yours. I know you were blaming Osinachi for not leaving the marriage. E.wu

MrBrownJay1:
the issue of single mothers is very simple... if you have no problem with it, then meet them and enjoy your life with her....and if you have a problem with it, then dont date/marry single mothers, et voila!

a woman with a child shouldnt be an issue, unless that woman is a bad person....sadly, many people will automatically view a single mother as a bad person, while many others wont/dont, and will instead judge that woman on the go or her character. some single mothers are fantastic women who became single mothers because of a bad union, a death and/or an accident. you cant possibly judge a woman negatively on the sole act of having a child unmarried (unless of course, you are one of them religious holier than thou hypocrites who forgot that even JESUS mother was a single mother, lol!)