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Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by AutoRedux: 2:46pm On May 12, 2022
Sweetplum:
You are the pained man. Broke black idio t!
lol. I am not black. Girl rest and do yourself the favor of facing your front. The topic is about single moms not hoelosho kobo kobo like you.
The single moms are even better than a public toilet like you.
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by dickt(m): 2:51pm On May 12, 2022
MistarT:
Bros what if she's now ready to learn and has known that life is not a jamboree, she should be given a second chance?
No, they don't change easily. They are very difficult to fix. It takes the grace of God. And remember the fact that you have to deal with her kids who might have been trained badly.
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by TheCongo2: 2:52pm On May 12, 2022
OkoAnike:
Personal...

The pain become more when you are struggling to raise someone's child and he is using his own money to flex around and you find it difficult to buy water to drink...
And when that someone’s child become a superstar, guess who will take early retirement
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by dickt(m): 2:54pm On May 12, 2022
MrBrownJay1:
you have to understand that many men have misplaced egos thus they will always look down on a single mother because they will always believe that they are competing for her love with that child, not understanding that its two different things. some would even tell you that this woman will always love and/or go back to baby daddy bla bla bla (how insecure is that?)... also, i wont even talk on theo ones whose ego is so bruised, they only see her child as a confirmation that she had a life before she met them.
Beta male spotted
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by TheCongo2: 2:57pm On May 12, 2022
Minjim:
This exactly what I'm facing. A six year old boy and she won't even allow him do any simple chores at home
Are you married?
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by Nobody: 2:59pm On May 12, 2022
AutoRedux:
lol. I am not black. Girl rest and do yourself the favor of facing your front. The topic is about single moms not hoelosho kobo kobo like you.
The single moms are even better than a public toilet like you.
You are a toilet. A man with no honour. If you v a girl like me your life is made. I can feed you sef.
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by dickt(m): 3:00pm On May 12, 2022
Toktee:
Just Bleep her and run.... anything she tell you as a reason for her been single is lies.





They are sadist.


They are really bittered.

Wise man spotted.

They are manner less


They are wayward.


Most of them just take a break from active prostitution.
Wise man spotted. Most single mothers whose who are not widows fall into this category. That's not to say it's safe to marry the widows though.
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by Toktee(m): 3:03pm On May 12, 2022
dickt:
Wise man spotted. Most single mothers whose who are not widows fall into this category. That's not to say it's safe to marry the widows though.
Leave them na. If you want insanity marry a single mother.
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by Larrysung(m): 3:03pm On May 12, 2022
Sweetplum:
You are a toilet. A man with no honour. If you v a girl like me your life is made. I can feed you sef.
ignore oo! It's doesnt have to be fire for fire
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by Fearlez: 3:15pm On May 12, 2022
SugarGirl44:
Your problem is more than I imagined.
Won't stoop to your level.
Loooooolz. Kitchen rodent still get levels...okay
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by Fearlez: 3:19pm On May 12, 2022
Sweetplum:
Dear Fearless energy drink sold for N200 (Fear.lez). Be calming down. You v single moms in your family. A woman begat you. You v sisters and possibly daughters. Stop talking I'll about the female gender.
sweet plum.
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by Nobody: 3:20pm On May 12, 2022
Larrysung:
ignore oo! It's doesnt have to be fire for fire
Thanks dear
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by TheCongo2: 3:21pm On May 12, 2022
inioluwaDaniels:
I know of a lady dat has a child out of wedlock and she got a second chance by marrying again with 2 children now. But she is always on long talks with dis her child's father. I wonder if dat guy won't still be accessing her honey pot
Since they have been talking in your presence, can you tell us what those talks consist of? Child support or casual talk ?
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by Fearlez:
Ninisun:
Your line is now obsolete...try other terms that are more vulgar. I am someone's mother, hope you know that. The worse of it all is that I just read first line of your gibberish...others no make sense grin tongue
you're a mother? shocked shocked shocked

Then you need to pause, reflect and take an inventory of your life!

I don't see how you manage to generate all the free time in the world to banter online in support of wayward life. How you combine child-raising, office /career and home keeping to be prating like a jobless idiot online.

But here's a catch....I didn't hear you say I'm somebody's mother and wife. So you're probably single.

Is that why you're so pained because this post is like watching your own funeral?
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by AutoRedux: 3:27pm On May 12, 2022
Sweetplum:
You are a toilet. A man with no honour. If you v a girl like me your life is made. I can feed you sef.
Lol. Feed me ke. Someone who earns half a million every month, that is who you want to feed? Nothing wey person no go see for nairaland.
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by Nobody: 3:30pm On May 12, 2022
AutoRedux:
Lol. Feed me ke. Someone who earns half a million every month, that is who you want to feed? Nothing wey person no go see for nairaland.
Some earns a million n more. So what's your achievement that you wont let us hear word?
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by Nobody: 3:31pm On May 12, 2022
Fearlez:
you're a mother? shocked shocked shocked

Then you need to pause, reflect and take an inventory of your life!

I don't see how you manage to generate all the free time in the world to banter online I'm support of wayward life. How you combine child-raising, office /career and home keeping to be prating like a jobless idiot online.

But here's a catch....I didn't hear you say I'm somebody's mother and wife. So you're probably single.

Is that why you're so pained because this post is like watching your own funeral?
Ewo...don't be pained nnam, do you want to suck breas,ts at ur age again? I don't need to be a suffer head like you before I respond to i.diotic fool like you. I relax and get alert grin grin. Come Gmail make I show u my family since e dey hungry you to see.

I'm not a single mother and so no vacancy grin grin...You wey your parents raised in a wrong way are reaping it. See person son writing like he was stung by a bee grin grin tongue
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by Larrysung(m): 3:33pm On May 12, 2022
Sweetplum:
Thanks dear
. lol... Ok sha, how you dey?
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by TheCongo2: 3:35pm On May 12, 2022
Acidbath:
Have you gotten the validation you seek now?

Something as sensitive and as personal as marriage, you bring it here for useless red pillers that have zero qualities of being good husbands to analyse for you.

That's why oyibo people are ahead of you. They stick with their guts and do it without people's opinions.
I am curious to know where you are based.
Do you truly think that white are ahead of black people?
Do you truly think that white don’t use faceless forum to seek advice on personal matter.

How long this worship of white people will last ?
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by MrBrownJay1(m): 3:39pm On May 12, 2022
no wonder all these oloshoes are winning, when Nigeria is filled with low life men sissies scared shitless of women....common women!!!
see all you wannabe alpha males who cant even control women.... i am ashamed to share the same gender with y'all mumus!
i have never been afraid of women AND WILL NEVER BE, whether she is a single mother or the neighborhood slut, i will handle her accordingly to what she portrays herself to be.
i will never discriminate on women like you monkeys because i can HANDLE all women so therefore i dont have to be afraid of them (and run to the hills like you sissies when i see them). all you men scared shitless of women, and thereafter wanna call yourself alpha males and/or redpillers, are a DISGRACE TO THE REDPILL MOVEMENT and a bunch of hypocrite!!! so all you mumus are strong alpha males but then again cant control a single mother? cant use a single mother for what you desire?! cant put your "alpha male" foot down and tell that woman what time it is?!?!?!?

alpha male/redpill is NOT about hating/ignoring or being scared of women, its about being strong enough as a man to be able to handle ALL WOMEN (emotionally/physically/sexually). you guys must be the yeye chinko/9ja version of Alpha male/redpill!
***SPIT ON FLOOR***
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by AutoRedux: 3:45pm On May 12, 2022
Sweetplum:
Some earns a million n more. So what's your achievement that you wont let us hear word?
I thought you said you was gonna feed me. Lol. I earn up to a million depending on how good the month is.

In the last 7 days I earned $323.9 = 191,101naira

And in the last month I earned $826.04 = 487,363 naira

And in the space of three months, I earned $2,619.68 = 1,545,611 million naira

Abi you wan chop dollar, I still have $620 in cash. I no know wetin I go use am do. I just keep am for my drawer. Lol. Girl I only come on nairaland to catch cruise.

Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by Fearlez: 4:01pm On May 12, 2022
Ninisun:
Ewo...don't be pyour stretcd nnam, do you want to suck breas,ts at ur age again? I don't need to be a suffer head like you before I respond to i.diotic fool like you. I relax and get alert grin grin. Come Gmail make I show u my family since e dey hungry you to see.

I'm not a single mother and so no vacancy grin grin...You wey your parents raised in a wrong way are reaping it. See person son writing like he was stung by a bee grin grin tongue
the pain no allow you compose your kindergarten clapback.

But see as you unwittingly comfirm OP's position. You proudly mentioned your child and status as a mother but you were silent about your status as a wife.

You're either a bang and dumb hoe or a retired ashowo.

And why do you make noise about your family wealth, you impoverished human bug. And then your long, veinous, brazier-defying breast that is indistinguishable from your swollen stomach marked with stretch marks....who sucks that?
You wan give me COVID-19 of the throat and tongue?

Brainless,insecure, thin-skinned olosho with
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by Nobody: 4:03pm On May 12, 2022
AutoRedux:
I thought you said you was gonna feed me. Lol. I earn up to a million depending on how good the month is.

In the last 7 days I earned $323.9 = 191,101naira

And in the last month I earned $826.04 = 487,363 naira

And in the space of three months, I earned $2,619.68 = 1,545,611 million naira

Abi you wan chop dollar, I still have $620 in cash. I no know wetin I go use am do. I just keep am for my drawer. Lol. Girl I only come on nairaland to catch cruise.
If I post screenshots of a better account than what you posted, that means I m entertaining your stupidity. Bye.
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by Nobody: 4:03pm On May 12, 2022
Larrysung:
.
lol... Ok sha, how you dey?
I m fine
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by Nobody: 4:08pm On May 12, 2022
Fearlez:
the pain no allow you compose your kindergarten clapback.

But see as you unwittingly comfirm OP's position. You proudly mentioned your child and status as a mother but you were silent about your status as a wife.

You're either a bang and dumb hoe or a retired ashowo.

And why do you make noise about your family wealth, you impoverished human bug. And then your long, veinous, brazier-defying breast that is indistinguishable from your swollen stomach marked with stretch marks....who sucks that?
You wan give me COVID-19 of the throat and tongue?

Brainless,insecure, thin-skinned olosho with
Admin pitied you by restructuring what I wrote. I bu nwa ajuru aju. A well trained boy cannot write that gibberish to his mother. Tell nne gi she did a bad job on you. I didn't even read any of the last two paragraphs...you are a lonely boy that needs online companionship but it's unfortunate that I'm MARRIED grin tongue
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by Nobody: 4:24pm On May 12, 2022
Fearlez:
you're a mother? shocked shocked shocked

Then you need to pause, reflect and take an inventory of your life!

I don't see how you manage to generate all the free time in the world to banter online in support of wayward life. How you combine child-raising, office /career and home keeping to be prating like a jobless idiot online.

But here's a catch....I didn't hear you say I'm somebody's mother and wife. So you're probably single.

Is that why you're so pained because this post is like watching your own funeral?
Change your diaper, e don full my son
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by Puskas: 4:30pm On May 12, 2022
Sweetplum:
Stereotypical person. How many babymamas v you married?
Where did you get your experience?
Movies? People you know?
From people I know
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by Puskas: 4:31pm On May 12, 2022
Sweetplum:
God ll judge you
Are you a single mum?
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by Puskas: 4:31pm On May 12, 2022
Oburu202:
And that's another man's child.
You see
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by texasux: 4:40pm On May 12, 2022
1stGenAmerican:
I don’t have any experiences as a single mother but I know of a few bad stories about them marrying men but for every bad, I know 10 good. The OP is likely hearing the negative but being an optimist, I found some good examples.

->Multimillionaire Shaquille O’Neal’s mom was poor when she married his stepfather. Shaq attributes all credit for his achievements to his step-father.
Refuses to have a relationship with his bio father or his bio fathers family, all who are very poor. He retired his step-father from the US Army and made him a millionaire.


->Kanye West was raised by his single mother Donda. Today, he’s on the list of the world’s only Black billionaires (15 total). Net worth $2 billion usd.

->Barack Obama had no father in his life. Became the US President, has a net worth of $70 million usd married to a woman with a personal net worth of $5 million usd.

->Jay Z, on the list of One of the world’s 15 Black billionaires. Raised on welfare by single mother. Current Net worth $2 billion USD.

->Angelina Jolie- no father in the picture when she was a child. Current net worth $120 million USD.

->Mariah Carey- mom struggled to raise she and her sister alone, dads absent. Raised on welfare and government benefits. Current net worth $320 million

->Rick Ross- mother abandoned by father, raised on welfare. Current net worth $45 million

->Keanu Reeves- Immigrant. He and his mother were abandoned by his father when he was 3. He was raised by a single mother that lived on welfare and government benefits in Canada. Current net worth $380 million.

-> Justin Bieber- current net worth $285 million

->Leonardo Di Caprio- currently worth $260 million

->Adele raised by a single mother and once lived in UK Council Housing. Current net worth $220 million.

->Alicia Keyes raised by a single mother. Current net worth $150 million.

->Sean “Puffy” Combs, raised by a single mother after his father was killed. Current net worth $580 million. Mother is now a millionaire.


The list never ends.
Men passed up all these people’s single mothers. I’m sure that all of their absent fathers wish they would’ve been present and men who passed up their single mothers because she had a child have deep regrets to. Most of them, Shaq especially, has refused to give his biological father or his family even $1.
Confirmation bias!

How easy is it to cherry pick a handful of cases where the children of single mothers turned out to be recognized in the society. Now, tell us about the thousands of homicides and felonies committed by children without a father. Have you checked the prison records to know the proportion of prisoners who were raised in fatherless home?

It's quite disingenuous to use these few examples to drive home your support for single mothers. For each case you mentioned, there are also hundreds of much more successful individuals who were raised in a complete home with a father.
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by texasux: 4:44pm On May 12, 2022
1stGenAmerican:
Sir, I have no mess to clean.
Marrying a single mother is not for the weak or faint hearted.
I’m sorry that you aren’t the kind of man that has the determination to take nothing and nurture it into something. I’m also sorry that you’ve only had negative experiences but I am not you. I don’t believe in discouragement and negativity when the situation can have an incredible outcome. A determined person with a positive mind has power to change any circumstance.
Women and their manipulative mind games never ceases to amaze me.

You call a young man weak and fainted hearted because he doesn't want to be saddled with another man's spawn but would rather have his own family a new. Lol.
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