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Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by Nobody: 11:12am On May 12, 2022
Fearlez:
after being beaten black and blue, you're Pretending to be the victim because you lost in the textual jostle.


Women! Typical! They never take responsibility.

Now get out!




Your mouth is really oozing, connected with a pus filled brain. How old are you little man? Channel this your energy in finding a better job okay and tell those two people that brought you to this life that they failed woefully!!!!

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Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by Nobody: 11:13am On May 12, 2022
AutoRedux:


Go and read the garbage you wrote. Only a fool sees her mistakes as correct. I leave you to your folly and stupidity.

Hood rat from a ghetto family.
Go n read the wise words I gave you. A garbage sees words on marble an call it anything. Your mind is weak. So get out!
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by Fearlez: 11:17am On May 12, 2022
Ninisun:





Your mouth is really oozing connected with a pus filled brain. How old are you little man? Channel this your energy in finding a better job okay and tell those two people that brought you to this life that they failed woefully!!!!
there she goes insulting my parents and same time telling me I'm vulgar. grin

Your clitoriz must be twice the size of your brain. And for suffering chronic conscience paralysis, I don't think your parents exchanged first names before fawking like wild rabbits to bring a human pariah like you as a burden to the world!

Daughter of a curb hoe and a lounge-lizard

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Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by Nobody: 11:20am On May 12, 2022
Fearlez:
there she goes insulting my parents and same time telling me I'm vulgar. grin

Your clitoriz must be twice the size of your brain. And for suffering chronic conscience paralysis, I don't think your parents exchanged first names before fawking like wild rabbits to bring a human pariah like you as a burden to the world!

Daughter of a curb hoe and a lounge-
lizard



Your line is now obsolete...try other terms that are more vulgar. I am someone's mother, hope you know that. The worse of it all is that I just read first line of your gibberish...others no make sense grin tongue

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Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by AutoRedux: 11:27am On May 12, 2022
Sweetplum:

Go n read the wise words I gave you. A garbage sees words on marble an call it anything. Your mind is weak. So get out!

Pained olosho. Deal with your miserable life.
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by Nobody: 11:29am On May 12, 2022
AutoRedux:


Pained olosho. Deal with your miserable life.
Pained useless man. Deal with your ruined life.

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Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by Nobody: 11:30am On May 12, 2022
Fearlez:
there she goes insulting my parents and same time telling me I'm vulgar. grin

Your clitoriz must be twice the size of your brain. And for suffering chronic conscience paralysis, I don't think your parents exchanged first names before fawking like wild rabbits to bring a human pariah like you as a burden to the world!

Daughter of a curb hoe and a lounge-lizard
Dear Fearless energy drink sold for N200 (Fearlez). Be calming down. You v single moms in your family. A woman begat you. You v sisters and possibly daughters. Stop talking I'll about the female gender.

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Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by SaturnNick(m): 11:32am On May 12, 2022
Toktee:
Just Bleep her and run.... anything she tell you as a reason for her been single is lies.





They are sadist.


They are really bittered.


They are manner less


They are wayward.


Most of them just take a break from active prostitution.
Wow, savage
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by EndRape2(f): 11:33am On May 12, 2022
Most re the best wives you can get, just accept the child as your first child ,that is all.


Most single ladies was never at fault .







uote author=MistarT post=112731524]Please candid opinions will be appreciated. Thanks.

Itwill do humanity great good, if we hear from marriage counsellors with wide range of experiences, thanks. [/quote]
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by SaturnNick(m): 11:34am On May 12, 2022
Kriss216:

Even a girl you married as a virgin will care for her child more than the husband.

The only problem with single mother;
The father of her child has 98.783% access to her kpekus.
grin grin grin

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Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by Baffupdrizz(m): 11:37am On May 12, 2022
cenaman:
Bro I am totally confused.
She got impregnated by her first lover and abandon her with the pregnancy to her fate, up till now the guy show's no interest in the baby......

Let's address what this confusion is about first.

What do YOU want to do about it and why do you want to do it?
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by newdawn2017(f): 11:45am On May 12, 2022
Puskas:
She will end up loving and caring for her child more than you
what do u mean? Everyone has their place d child needs so much love from both of them unless he isn't trying to be a parent to d child. undecided besides, what! shocked I d op gonna be in competition with d child, what do u mean??
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by Duru009(m): 11:50am On May 12, 2022
cenaman:
The mumu is for what?

A word is enough for the WISE.....
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by SugarGirl44(f): 11:51am On May 12, 2022
Fearlez:
thunder divide your maggot -ridden toto there.

We have stopped educating old hags like you because we realise all you do here is to justify your ashawo lifestyle.

Listen, a woman when done born for another man is less than the value of a tokumbo car. She's a 4th grade. Like you, like your mother


You may argue like a fishmonger or a backwater tramp. But we men will tell you the truth. Weak insecure men will glorify ashawo with bastard son but no real man worth is weight in pounds will be proud of you or your past. You're in essence another man's LEAVING!

Olosho, how many is your body count?

You bloody, unconscionable abortion specialist!

Your problem is more than I imagined.
Won't stoop to your level.

Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by modinho(m): 11:55am On May 12, 2022
In most cases, they care for their child who's you stepchild than you.
But not all cases, like 16 out of 18
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by MadeMan01(m): 11:58am On May 12, 2022
1stGenAmerican:
Everything depends on the lady. Depending on her character, it could be a curse OR it could be a huge blessing in disguise. In all honesty, you fare a better chance of success if the father is nowhere in the picture.
With your help, you don’t know who that child will grow up to be.
Take this for example:
A single man with no kids married Shaquille O’Neal’s mum when he was a small child. Today, Shaq is worth $400 million and has never given his biological father a penny but his step-dad is living a millionaire’s life.
what are the odds of another man getting the same luck as Shaq's step father?
You expect a man to marry a single mother and live his entire life on luck grin the way you women live in the moment and not long term. It's like the odds of winning bet9ja jackpot with N100 ticket on a 32 combination game slip

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Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by MadeMan01(m): 12:07pm On May 12, 2022
Sweetplum:

God kee you this AutoRedux. May your penni s shrink to size of kolanut and seize to work.
Who impregnated a woman out of wedlock?
An irresponsible man like you!

Who chose the irresponsible man of all her toasters and suitors? The major problems women have is they never take accountability for their actions. A woman chose a man of all her suitors, the choice impregnates her and runs away and the women don't blame her for choosing an irresponsible man. No wonder girls keep dating unemployed scammers who can't provide for them till someone is scammed and then end up exploiting them because they were attracted to the fake, bling life

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Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by AutoRedux: 12:08pm On May 12, 2022
Sweetplum:

Pained useless man. Deal with your ruined life.

R etarded hoelosho.
Old layer deal with your life and leave good girls out of what is being said. I don't see the reason why you should be very bitter about the topic if you are not a single idiotic mom.

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Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by MadeMan01(m): 12:16pm On May 12, 2022
Sweetplum:

Bros, what's wrong with a single mom?

Everything is wrong. First understand the ideal order
Married woman or widow with kids (grade 1)
Divorced woman with kids (grade 2)
Single mother who planned with family support to have child because no man wants to marry her (grade 3)
Single mother, who was refused by her baby daddy or baby daddy accepts child but refuses to marry her (grade 4 baby mama)

Single mothers should aim for single father's, divorcees and widowers because they both have kids and have equal baggage.
Childless women should aim for childless men.
But you as know female hypergamy makes women shamelessly go where there is money . I know a Hausa customs man who was married t 1 woman with kids. His wife left him to be wife No 3 to a richer Hausa man. That Tells you female mind

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Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by Feelings79: 12:21pm On May 12, 2022
Puskas:
She will end up loving and caring for her child more than you
l'm currently married to a single mom and you are just so correct

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Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by newdawn2017(f): 12:24pm On May 12, 2022
Puskas:
Any attempt from you to discipline the child will not always go down well with her. She will be seeing it as a hatred for the child because the child is not yours
he will discipline d child with his limits as a step parent. Due will discuss with his wife d limits of discipline in cases when she isn't around. For bigger issues he hands it over to d original parent his wife to handle...
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by Nobody: 12:26pm On May 12, 2022
AutoRedux:


R etarded hoelosho.
Old layer deal with your life and leave good girls out of what is being said. I don't see the reason why you should be very bitter about the topic if you are not a single idiotic mom.
Retarde d irresponsible man.
Old cargo leave single mothers and any good girl alone.
I don't see why you should be bitter if you are not a pained baby daddy.

FYI, I m still single, no child yet and ll get married to a better man than you soon. So...lick my dp as your compensation
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by Ekugbeh(m): 12:58pm On May 12, 2022
MistarT:
Please candid opinions will be appreciated. Thanks.

Itwill do humanity great good, if we hear from marriage counsellors with wide range of experiences, thanks.
what happened in her previous union. Start from there

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Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by AutoRedux: 1:19pm On May 12, 2022
Sweetplum:

Retarde d irresponsible man.
Old cargo leave single mothers and any good girl alone.
I don't see why you should be bitter if you are not a pained baby daddy.

FYI, I m still single, no child yet and ll get married to a better man than you soon. So...lick my dp as your compensation

Low ass bitch. don't take it personal. I am no baby daddy. I am not a foolish person who will impregnate anything that walks in skirt just for the fun of it. I am responsible enough to know that I should take care of any of my child. Pray the person you meet is someone who has his priorities right and not someone who will be there just for the fling or you may end up like the single mothers we are talking of..
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by 1stGenAmerican(f): 1:32pm On May 12, 2022
MadeMan01:
what are the odds of another man getting the same luck as Shaq's step father?
You expect a man to marry a single mother and live his entire life on luck grin the way you women live in the moment and not long term. It's like the odds of winning bet9ja jackpot with N100 ticket on a 32 combination game slip

You act like it’s impossible for a woman’s salary to be much higher than a man’s. The man isn’t always the prize in a relationship.
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by Nobody: 1:45pm On May 12, 2022
[s][quote author=AutoRedux post=112759573]

Low ass bitch. don't take it personal. I am no baby daddy. I am not a foolish person who will impregnate anything that walks in skirt just for the fun of it. I am responsible enough to know that I should take care of any of my child. Pray the person you meet is someone who has his priorities right and not someone who will be there just for the fling or you may end up like the single mothers we are talking of..[/quote[/s]
You are a trash
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by AutoRedux: 2:07pm On May 12, 2022
Sweetplum:
[s]

See painment. Abeg getat. grin
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by FEARLESSDUDE: 2:23pm On May 12, 2022
MrBrownJay1:


the issue of single mothers is very simple... if you have no problem with it, then meet them and enjoy your life with her....and if you have a problem with it, then dont date/marry single mothers, et voila!

a woman with a child shouldnt be an issue, unless that woman is a bad person....sadly, many people will automatically view a single mother as a bad person, while many others wont/dont, and will instead judge that woman on the go or her character. some single mothers are fantastic women who became single mothers because of a bad union, a death and/or an accident. you cant possibly judge a woman negatively on the sole act of having a child unmarried (unless of course, you are one of them religious holier than thou hypocrites who forgot that even JESUS mother was a single mother, lol!)

Your last paragraph shows that you are a 混蛋的人 grin
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by Nobody: 2:25pm On May 12, 2022
AutoRedux:


See painment. Abeg getat. grin
You are the pained man. Broke black idio t!
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by TheCongo2: 2:38pm On May 12, 2022
1stGenAmerican:


Love child? So no single mother are widows that once had a strong husband that she decided to have a child with? No single mother was once in an abusive or adulterous marriage that she had the courage to leave?
Your lack of critical thoughts reflect your negative outlook.


Please tell them

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Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by TheCongo2: 2:43pm On May 12, 2022
SugarGirl44:


If your 5 friends fancy those women that much, why didn't the marry them?

Cos I don't get.

I personally don’t even believe that

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Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by TheCongo2: 2:45pm On May 12, 2022
SugarGirl44:


I laugh in Chinese...
So you're listening to these clueless boys on NL before making a decision about your life?
They all don't take shit online and are alpha males, but offline they are the biggest shit takers, also very confused and immature boys.

My point is, make your decision based on the information you have about the lady, not cos of what one anonymous goat says here.

Fact …

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