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Ahn han!!! What happen na!

IamV:
Miss 33,first & foremost,I want to start by telling you that you're no shit,and I love the level of self worth that young man got for himself & how he's not willing to play your BS mind games.

Great guy,he did the right thing.

You read his messages,ignored it for two days because you want to play nonsense mind games,and you're trying to make it his fault for respecting himself to withdraw from a situation he's not considered important to get a response ?


I actually love how he decided to mind his business,because that's what all self respecting men will do in this kind of scenario.
You don't treat people like an option ,and you expect to be treated like a priority.
I hope he moves on,and never look back.

Confused , irrational & fickle ladies like you have no right to be in a relationship.

Newboss:
How can a stupid person claim to be intelligent?

What a fûcking dumbass

Absolutely stupid.

How old are you again?

jackals:
I'm a beautiful woman in my 30s (33 precisely) with a good career and a budding startup in the make-up business. I'm also very humble and I'm one that appreciate the little things a man do. Recently, I got linked to a guy who just came back from the US and have the intention of settling down just like me. He's successful and very respectful the First time we met, and I was already looking forward to something meaningful with him.

Last week Sunday, he took me out. When I got back home, I noticed I've embarrassed myself too much by literally throwing myself at him. I withdrew and form busy by not responding to his texts and calls for two days. WhatsApp message read but not replied.

On Tuesday, I noticed he didn't message me for the whole day. But I became bothered. Up till now, he has not called me nor message me. I didn't want things to be like this, I just didn't want it to be like I'm desperate of his attention.

Is he that he has moved on or not really interested

jackals:
I'm not with any man. Men have an habit of underating you when you show them how much you care. Between, I just wanted to see how consistent he is. I just dropped an SMS for him on his local number hoping he reply.

There is no formular for relationships. Let your guards down and bond. If you find a good man better keep him. That's completely different from *ss licking

Puskas:
Vagina people and their victim mentality. Imagine how this one is blaming the innocent man for respecting himself. You shunned his WhatsApp messages for two days and you still expect him to be crawling on his knees begging you to reply his chats. Who does that except a man suffering from Simpson disease. If you are beautiful with a good character just like you described yourself you should have married in your twenties and not being desperate to marry in your thirties. Let me ask you one question. If the man is foolish enough to continue chatting with you and later marries you what exactly will you offer him apart from your worn out pussy? Be truthful and answer this question

You are so stupid to insult her, cant you just pass your message without necessarily throwing insult?


You bloody civilian

jackals:
I'm a beautiful woman in my 30s (33 precisely) with a good career and a budding startup in the make-up business. I'm also very humble and I'm one that appreciate the little things a man do. Recently, I got linked to a guy who just came back from the US and have the intention of settling down just like me. He's successful and very respectful the First time we met, and I was already looking forward to something meaningful with him.

Last week Sunday, he took me out. When I got back home, I noticed I've embarrassed myself too much by literally throwing myself at him. I withdrew and form busy by not responding to his texts and calls for two days. WhatsApp message read but not replied.

On Tuesday, I noticed he didn't message me for the whole day. But I became bothered. Up till now, he has not called me nor message me. I didn't want things to be like this, I just didn't want it to be like I'm desperate of his attention.

Is he that he has moved on or not really interested

of course your bleeped up who never bleeped up hands in the hair.... You can redeem yourself before it's too late....... Chat him up..... And your girls need to do away with the mentality of believing you are throwing yourself to a man because you are giving them attention..... Chat him up snd settle things. While you chat him up. Mske sure you hibernate you ego

jackals:
I'm a beautiful woman in my 30s (33 precisely) with a good career and a budding startup in the make-up business. I'm also very humble and I'm one that appreciate the little things a man do. Recently, I got linked to a guy who just came back from the US and have the intention of settling down just like me. He's successful and very respectful the First time we met, and I was already looking forward to something meaningful with him.

Last week Sunday, he took me out. When I got back home, I noticed I've embarrassed myself too much by literally throwing myself at him. I withdrew and form busy by not responding to his texts and calls for two days. WhatsApp message read but not replied.

On Tuesday, I noticed he didn't message me for the whole day. But I became bothered. Up till now, he has not called me nor message me. I didn't want things to be like this, I just didn't want it to be like I'm desperate of his attention.

Is he that he has moved on or not really interested

Y'all women haven't gotten the memo... No serious guy has time for women who are forming.

If u throw urself at a guy u actually have higher chances of pinning him than wanting to be chased. That's for small girls in their teenage and early 20s aunty!

jackals:
Why do y'all sounds to make me unhappy. I'm not happy with how things turn out with him not getting back to me as I had hoped. And now you guys are compounding my issue.

Thanks anyways

Sorry. I'm a guy... The guy probably thinks you are not interested.
Not all guys are the same.

Puskas:
Vagina people and their victim mentality. Imagine how this one is blaming the innocent man for respecting himself. You shunned his WhatsApp messages for two days and you still expect him to be crawling on his knees begging you to reply his chats. Who does that except a man suffering from Simpson disease. If you are beautiful with a good character just like you described yourself you should have married in your twenties and not being desperate to marry in your thirties. Let me ask you one question. If the man is foolish enough to continue chatting with you and later marries you what exactly will you offer him apart from your worn out pussy? Be truthful and answer this question

Infact, did u come from jungle or from a woman? Or frustration has completely wipe away ur think faculty? I imagine how ur mother will look like, ur upbringing would have been sorry indeed not only you o and all those who liked and will like ur comment.

jackals:
I'm a beautiful woman in my 30s (33 precisely) with a good career and a budding startup in the make-up business. I'm also very humble and I'm one that appreciate the little things a man do. Recently, I got linked to a guy who just came back from the US and have the intention of settling down just like me. He's successful and very respectful the First time we met, and I was already looking forward to something meaningful with him.

Last week Sunday, he took me out. When I got back home, I noticed I've embarrassed myself too much by literally throwing myself at him. I withdrew and form busy by not responding to his texts and calls for two days. WhatsApp message read but not replied.

On Tuesday, I noticed he didn't message me for the whole day. But I became bothered. Up till now, he has not called me nor message me. I didn't want things to be like this, I just didn't want it to be like I'm desperate of his attention.

Is he that he has moved on or not really interested

Men are educated on the nature of women now thanks to the internet. He already knows the game you’re playing so all these things you said are rubbish. He’s also a spec and girls are also throwing themselves at him. Nigerian girls no dey use ear hear say man dey base for Yankee. Them to just dey throw pussy for an, and you’d be surprise these ladies are better looking than you. So why should be he killing himself chasing someone that doesn’t want him?

Men of these days are not like men of old that like stress.

The attitude you displayed is one that an under 23 year old will display

jackals:
I'm a beautiful woman in my 30s (33 precisely) with a good career and a budding startup in the make-up business. I'm also very humble and I'm one that appreciate the little things a man do. Recently, I got linked to a guy who just came back from the US and have the intention of settling down just like me. He's successful and very respectful the First time we met, and I was already looking forward to something meaningful with him.

Last week Sunday, he took me out. When I got back home, I noticed I've embarrassed myself too much by literally throwing myself at him. I withdrew and form busy by not responding to his texts and calls for two days. WhatsApp message read but not replied.

On Tuesday, I noticed he didn't message me for the whole day. But I became bothered. Up till now, he has not called me nor message me. I didn't want things to be like this, I just didn't want it to be like I'm desperate of his attention.

Is he that he has moved on or not really interested

Mscheeeew! Fake post everywhere. What was the essence of adding your age. So your story will be very sweet, abi?

Call him. Make up something like you went to work somewhere with poor network or bad connection. just make up something and apologize. It's a bad habit to ignore people, man/woman.

jackals:
I made sure I communicated very well on our first meeting. And we've been chatting about 13 days before he came in. So I made a good impression.

Illiterate, u ar still defending urself 4 ur mind say u ar Wise
Am sorry 2 say dis, ""Ur Ass hav been dumped""

jackals:
I'm not with any man. Men have an habit of underating you when you show them how much you care. Between, I just wanted to see how consistent he is. I just dropped an SMS for him on his local number hoping he reply.

I hope, wish and pray that he replies not.

Puskas:
Vagina people and their victim mentality. Imagine how this one is blaming the innocent man for respecting himself. You shunned his WhatsApp messages for two days and you still expect him to be crawling on his knees begging you to reply his chats. Who does that except a man suffering from Simpson disease. If you are beautiful with a good character just like you described yourself you should have married in your twenties and not being desperate to marry in your thirties. Let me ask you one question. If the man is foolish enough to continue chatting with you and later marries you what exactly will you offer him apart from your worn out pussy? Be truthful and answer this question

This is harsh na

I pray he never reply you. I pray that the sms you sent to him will be seen and deleted by another lady. Ase Ase

jackals:
I'm not with any man. Men have an habit of underating you when you show them how much you care. Between, I just wanted to see how consistent he is. I just dropped an SMS for him on his local number hoping he reply.

jackals:
.I was just being careful of not making it look like I'm desperate to have him. I already showed him I like him. I think if he wanted things to escalate, he wouldn't back out that way

it's good to be on the defensive and not show too much attention in order not to seem cheap or overtly in a hurry for marriage. But you got it all wrong.

Your snub can actually mean a million things, and no man in his rightful senses with self-discipline will come disturbing again after such disregard.

Since you're still open to having something meaningful with him, I will urge u to go all out and apologise to him for ur misdeeds and subsequently tell him it won't happen again.

If you guys are destined for each other, nature will complete the rest.

na waoo

All i can say is.... Good for you!! See what you said na... U Wan form busy... The guy is my kinda guy...... No time to waste on anyone..... If you begin to give me attitude, i move on......U were forming busy for 2 whole days because you didn't want to seem desperate..... 6 hrs no reach you form busy... Na 2 days... Even if u be mortuary attendant, u go bath dead body for 2 days straight?? I sure say na this attitude make u never get serious relationship at 33....by the time you decide to use your head, and settle down for a serious relationship, maybe it will take another 2 years... That's 35.......wen your 1st kid is 15....u will be 50....is that the kinda life you wanna live U wanna carry your grand kids at 80 or 90?? If you were around the age of 24-26....i can understand you Want to do shakara... Not 33......I'm not saying you should've thrown yourself at him but you for use your head.... Engaging in a conversation or responding to messages doesn't mean you're throwing yourself at a man......

Guy! They’ve left this one behind

jackals:
I'm a beautiful woman in my 30s (33 precisely) with a good career and a budding startup in the make-up business. I'm also very humble and I'm one that appreciate the little things a man do. Recently, I got linked to a guy who just came back from the US and have the intention of settling down just like me. He's successful and very respectful the First time we met, and I was already looking forward to something meaningful with him.

Last week Sunday, he took me out. When I got back home, I noticed I've embarrassed myself too much by literally throwing myself at him. I withdrew and form busy by not responding to his texts and calls for two days. WhatsApp message read but not replied.

On Tuesday, I noticed he didn't message me for the whole day. But I became bothered. Up till now, he has not called me nor message me. I didn't want things to be like this, I just didn't want it to be like I'm desperate of his attention.

Is he that he has moved on or not really interested

Madam you don goof o! The guy has moved on, he's not in for drama. Some folks are like that. It was on phone that my husband who was an acquaintance proposed to me. I was shocked - in my words ( na so Dem dey toast woman for your village) I'm glad in didn't form cos a month later we had done introduction and we were married 6 months from the date of that call. Best decision I made cos I'm in bliss

I understand the girls point of view concerning this man. You shouldn't sell yourself cheap. But the guy probably has other babes, so he doesn't really care. You just have to be careful.

Puskas:
Oh very good of you to posses all these sterling qualities. But where were you when your mates with similar or even lower characters were getting married in their twenties. I bet you were busy rejecting men or whoring away your life and now reality has dawned on you hence the reason for your desperation

no be fight guy, calm down, did that Lady wrong you before? Why taking it personal.

jackals:
.I was just being careful of not making it look like I'm desperate to have him. I already showed him I like him. I think if he wanted things to escalate, he wouldn't back out that way

Learn to read the handwriting on the wall.

Abroad mentality = if I text or call you for two days and you read my messages but didn’t reply or acknowledge then it’s simply means that you don’t like me. Nothing to stress about, nobody get time to dey chase anybody. We both want this, we should both show interest.
Nobody’s cheap or being a victim of nothing here.

This is really stupid to be honest. It's idiots like you that make good men turn bad. With your pathetic insecurity infested self. First you throw yourself at him, then you want to play mind games. But now you are scared he has moved on. You are an id!ot to be honest. sorry to say

jackals:
I'm a submissive woman, appreciative and also have my own things going on for myself. I don't bag and I'm peaceful. Thanks �

My dear most men that travel out think differently, the like the mutual feeling and love in relationships, they hardly have time to chase you around.

You messed up by ignoring his chats for days after he thought you guys got something going, you went to the extreme, you make him look stupid. Not every guy got time chasing after ladies.

The best solution is to call or text explaining to him that u really like him a lot but feels you are rushing things with him that you are sorry for ignoring him. You are a mature lady my dear behave like one not like all this teenagers.

jackals:
I'm a beautiful woman in my 30s (33 precisely) with a good career and a budding startup in the make-up business. I'm also very humble and I'm one that appreciate the little things a man do. Recently, I got linked to a guy who just came back from the US and have the intention of settling down just like me. He's successful and very respectful the First time we met, and I was already looking forward to something meaningful with him.

Last week Sunday, he took me out. When I got back home, I noticed I've embarrassed myself too much by literally throwing myself at him. I withdrew and form busy by not responding to his texts and calls for two days. WhatsApp message read but not replied.

On Tuesday, I noticed he didn't message me for the whole day. But I became bothered. Up till now, he has not called me nor message me. I didn't want things to be like this, I just didn't want it to be like I'm desperate of his attention.

Is he that he has moved on or not really interested

That guy seems to be my type, and if at all he is, honestly forget about the relationship and move on with your life and try to be a better person when you meet another guy.



It is mostly playboys on a mission to play games that usually endure ladies' shenanigans, but when a well to do guy have good intentions for a lady and she tries to play with his emotion, take it from me, the guy will withdraw, but if he was on a mission to chop you and move on, he wont bother about your shunning him. Playboys can chase a girl for years just to prove a point. A guy with the intention of staying with you won't tolerate all those hard to get stuffs. especially in our current world, it may have worked during our parent's times not today with internet and so much exposures.

Jeweltz:
The day I see that I started believing that I don't need a man to be happy is the day I started having rest. If he comes, good, if he doesn't, all I can do is pray and hope he comes. I can't be going about and toast a man. That too, a man that doesn't show interest. All they want to do is to Bleep and show their friend they've got a beautiful catch

You're not even beautiful to start with

jackals:
I'm not with any man. Men have an habit of underating you when you show them how much you care. Between, I just wanted to see how consistent he is. I just dropped an SMS for him on his local number hoping he reply.

If you like him that much to start a relationship or to go on another date, make sure to send him a message saying, ‘You are sorry for ignoring his messages’.

Two wrongs cannot make a right, you realized you were wrong to have overly thrown yourself at him during your first date, you are also wrong to ignore his messages for two days.

IamV:
Miss 33,first & foremost,I want to start by telling you that you're no shit,and I love the level of self worth that young man got for himself & how he's not willing to play your BS mind games.

Great guy,he did the right thing.

You read his messages,ignored it for two days because you want to play nonsense mind games,and you're trying to make it his fault for respecting himself to withdraw from a situation he's not considered important to get a response ?


I actually love how he decided to mind his business,because that's what all self respecting men will do in this kind of scenario.
You don't treat people like an option ,and you expect to be treated like a priority.
I hope he moves on,and never look back.

Confused , irrational & fickle ladies like you have no right to be in a relationship.

gaddemit u jus made a fkd up day so smooth...if you do beer lemme know, one chilled one waiting for your brilliant respond