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Women in nigeria should beware of men who came back from aborad.

it's likely he just want a temporary relationship/just wants to smash. Don't make yourself a victim.

jackals:
I'm a beautiful woman in my 30s (33 precisely) with a good career and a budding startup in the make-up business. I'm also very humble and I'm one that appreciate the little things a man do. Recently, I got linked to a guy who just came back from the US and have the intention of settling down just like me. He's successful and very respectful the First time we met, and I was already looking forward to something meaningful with him.

Last week Sunday, he took me out. When I got back home, I noticed I've embarrassed myself too much by literally throwing myself at him. I withdrew and form busy by not responding to his texts and calls for two days. WhatsApp message read but not replied.

On Tuesday, I noticed he didn't message me for the whole day. But I became bothered. Up till now, he has not called me nor message me. I didn't want things to be like this, I just didn't want it to be like I'm desperate of his attention.

Is he that he has moved on or not really interested

You may have overplayed your hand, thinking you are the queen of England!. The good thing is that you are both testing waters but I hope that's not your true character because a lot of men are becoming tired of these hide and seek mentality from our women. You should have done the following: find out if how he's doing, if he got home safely, if he had a good time and what else you would do to make him comfortable. Try to imagine the difference if you handled it better than you stated above. Not sure you are serious about what you want though.

jackals:
.I was just being careful of not making it look like I'm desperate to have him. I already showed him I like him. I think if he wanted things to escalate, he wouldn't back out that way

about 5 different girls are showing him they like him. The world doesn’t center on you alone.

jackals:
I'm not with any man. Men have an habit of underating you when you show them how much you care. Between, I just wanted to see how consistent he is. I just dropped an SMS for him on his local number hoping he reply.

I like your humility, pray about it he will call back.

hahahah...

jackals:
I'm not with any man. Men have an habit of underating you when you show them how much you care. Between, I just wanted to see how consistent he is. I just dropped an SMS for him on his local number hoping he reply.

Boys no get time to waste untop any girl again...... ignore who ignore you!!!!

What the Bleep was the point of this thread, honestly? Seun Must Chop, you people should better your storylines, they are becoming stale.

jackals:
I'm a beautiful woman in my 30s (33 precisely) with a good career and a budding startup in the make-up business. I'm also very humble and I'm one that appreciate the little things a man do. Recently, I got linked to a guy who just came back from the US and have the intention of settling down just like me. He's successful and very respectful the First time we met, and I was already looking forward to something meaningful with him.

Last week Sunday, he took me out. When I got back home, I noticed I've embarrassed myself too much by literally throwing myself at him. I withdrew and form busy by not responding to his texts and calls for two days. WhatsApp message read but not replied.

On Tuesday, I noticed he didn't message me for the whole day. But I became bothered. Up till now, he has not called me nor message me. I didn't want things to be like this, I just didn't want it to be like I'm desperate of his attention.

Is he that he has moved on or not really interested

I'm not sure you are ready to settle down my sister. You think everything na to form when it comes to marriage or settling down? The guy might think you were with someone the few days you were off.

Village people dey on top your case

jackals:
I'm not with any man. Men have an habit of underating you when you show them how much you care. Between, I just wanted to see how consistent he is. I just dropped an SMS for him on his local number hoping he reply.

By ignoring his chats for 2 days. That's not mature way of knowing how consistent someone is. You're childish. If any girl does that to me, I'll forget her sorry ass. Men have feelings too. Abegi

Ladies with their wahala
If you just want to withdraw, their are ways to do that not by ignoring him totally who does that, what do you want him to think
If he did that to you, what would you think
Wise up

Communication is broken, she needs to re-establish that first. I just gave an example, I believe she will have something meaning to say. And yes, you will fall for that any day

sollolucci77:
How smart of you to think he'll fall for that excuse...do you think men are that stupid?

1Sharon:
Women in nigeria should beware of men who came back from aborad.

it's likely he just want a temporary relationship/just wants to smash. Don't make yourself a victim.

But she was the one that stopped the relationship.

BePrepared:
I like your humility, pray about it he will call back.

Let's be honest with ourselves here. How's this humility?

Puskas:
Vagina people and their victim mentality. Imagine how this one is blaming the innocent man for respecting himself. You shunned his WhatsApp messages for two days and you still expect him to be crawling on his knees begging you to reply his chats. Who does that except a man suffering from Simpson disease. If you are beautiful with a good character just like you described yourself you should have married in your twenties and not being desperate to marry in your thirties. Let me ask you one question. If the man is foolish enough to continue chatting with you and later marries you what exactly will you offer him apart from your worn out pussy? Be truthful and answer this question

I can't stop laughing! The guy na ur brother..

Juoflife1:
Communication is broken, she needs to re-establish that first. I just gave an example, I believe she will have something meaning to say. And yes, you will fall for that any day

Lol..me?...maybe it's your boyfriend that dosent have sense sha

jackals:
Why do y'all sounds to make me unhappy. I'm not happy with how things turn out with him not getting back to me as I had hoped. And now you guys are compounding my issue.

Thanks anyways

Call him.

jackals:
Why do y'all sounds to make me unhappy. I'm not happy with how things turn out with him not getting back to me as I had hoped. And now you guys are compounding my issue.

Thanks anyways

My friend, pick your phone dial his number, then tell him why u did what you did, he will laugh and probably understand. SMS in this kind of scenario looks maybe ure playing games and avoiding confrontation

Ninisun:
But she was the one that stopped the relationship.

They weren't in a relationship, they only went on one date.

jackals:
I'm a beautiful woman in my 30s (33 precisely) with a good career and a budding startup in the make-up business. I'm also very humble and I'm one that appreciate the little things a man do. Recently, I got linked to a guy who just came back from the US and have the intention of settling down just like me. He's successful and very respectful the First time we met, and I was already looking forward to something meaningful with him.

Last week Sunday, he took me out. When I got back home, I noticed I've embarrassed myself too much by literally throwing myself at him. I withdrew and form busy by not responding to his texts and calls for two days. WhatsApp message read but not replied.

On Tuesday, I noticed he didn't message me for the whole day. But I became bothered. Up till now, he has not called me nor message me. I didn't want things to be like this, I just didn't want it to be like I'm desperate of his attention.

Is he that he has moved on or not really interested

when a girl says she's very beautiful bt her picture ain't on her dp I feel she's telling lies.

as regards the matter on ground. u felt uve been throwing urself on this guy and wanted to form a little?


why did u throw urself at him In the 1st place then realise u need to form?

2ndly even if u want to form hard to get u think its by being ill mannered and rude by ignoring calls and txt?? I feel sorry for u. That's not how to form hard to get that's being rude and ill mannered. if the guy has sense he should know by now that u have no respect and manners. Ur self proclaimed humility is also very fake.

3rdly if u are very fine as u claim and humble also why are single at 33? Then u say u appreciate little things people do bt u are dating a guy who just came back from yankee?? What happened to all the guys u know based here around u? They don't have simple things to offer or what??

I think u have alot of contradictions. Such girl cause problems for guys cos they don't know what they want.

I hope my assessment is wrong.

Puskas:
Oh very good of you to posses all these sterling qualities. But where were you when your mates with similar or even lower characters were getting married in their twenties. I bet you were busy rejecting men or whoring away your life and now reality has dawned on you hence the reason for your desperation

You write without sense!

AAAAASHAAAAAAAAAAWOOOOOOOOOOOOO

I feel for u because ur mind games backfired.If u see what u like go for it and, if u pretend another person will overtake u and get it. Pray then, call him and apologize.

jackals:
I'm a beautiful woman in my 30s (33 precisely) with a good career and a budding startup in the make-up business. I'm also very humble and I'm one that appreciate the little things a man do. Recently, I got linked to a guy who just came back from the US and have the intention of settling down just like me. He's successful and very respectful the First time we met, and I was already looking forward to something meaningful with him.

Last week Sunday, he took me out. When I got back home, I noticed I've embarrassed myself too much by literally throwing myself at him. I withdrew and form busy by not responding to his texts and calls for two days. WhatsApp message read but not replied.

On Tuesday, I noticed he didn't message me for the whole day. But I became bothered. Up till now, he has not called me nor message me. I didn't want things to be like this, I just didn't want it to be like I'm desperate of his attention.

Is he that he has moved on or not really interested

Why do girls love forming whenever they're in love with a particular guy?

jackals:
I'm a beautiful woman in my 30s (33 precisely) with a good career and a budding startup in the make-up business. I'm also very humble and I'm one that appreciate the little things a man do. Recently, I got linked to a guy who just came back from the US and have the intention of settling down just like me. He's successful and very respectful the First time we met, and I was already looking forward to something meaningful with him.

Last week Sunday, he took me out. When I got back home, I noticed I've embarrassed myself too much by literally throwing myself at him. I withdrew and form busy by not responding to his texts and calls for two days. WhatsApp message read but not replied.

On Tuesday, I noticed he didn't message me for the whole day. But I became bothered. Up till now, he has not called me nor message me. I didn't want things to be like this, I just didn't want it to be like I'm desperate of his attention.

Is he that he has moved on or not really interested

Yes he probably have moved on to someone more serious and gives him the attention he wanted.

jackals:
I'm a beautiful woman in my 30s (33 precisely) with a good career and a budding startup in the make-up business. I'm also very humble and I'm one that appreciate the little things a man do. Recently, I got linked to a guy who just came back from the US and have the intention of settling down just like me. He's successful and very respectful the First time we met, and I was already looking forward to something meaningful with him.

Last week Sunday, he took me out. When I got back home, I noticed I've embarrassed myself too much by literally throwing myself at him. I withdrew and form busy by not responding to his texts and calls for two days. WhatsApp message read but not replied.

On Tuesday, I noticed he didn't message me for the whole day. But I became bothered. Up till now, he has not called me nor message me. I didn't want things to be like this, I just didn't want it to be like I'm desperate of his attention.

Is he that he has moved on or not really interested

at 33yrs you are already an expired evening newspaper with overstretched puss.y. you are confused and ungrateful

jackals:
.I was just expecting you guys to drop something. How to fix this. Since you're Men and you know what attracts you aside from beauty and body....

Op reach out to him, apologize for the way you ignored his messages and tell him your reasons. Please don't behave that way anymore, it's always nice when the two are on the same level when it comes to dating.

DaInferno:
it's either of the last statement...thats how I collected a lady's number who stopped me on the road saying I looked cute...only for madam to be replying me late or not at all. We turned status viewers till one day, while I church, pastor said its only when you open up that people come in, nobody should hold you down if they themselves are on ready to move forward.

The Holy spirit instructed me to delete her number that instant.
Life no suppose dey hard

When God speak...who are we to say NO

Puskas my gee

Puskas:
Vagina people and their victim mentality. Imagine how this one is blaming the innocent man for respecting himself. You shunned his WhatsApp messages for two days and you still expect him to be crawling on his knees begging you to reply his chats. Who does that except a man suffering from Simpson disease. If you are beautiful with a good character just like you described yourself you should have married in your twenties and not being desperate to marry in your thirties. Let me ask you one question. If the man is foolish enough to continue chatting with you and later marries you what exactly will you offer him apart from your worn out pussy? Be truthful and answer this question

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1Sharon:
They weren't in a relationship, they only went on one date.

They were communicating before the date. Must you be physical with someone before a relationship kicks off?

jackals:
I'm a beautiful woman in my 30s (33 precisely) with a good career and a budding startup in the make-up business. I'm also very humble and I'm one that appreciate the little things a man do. Recently, I got linked to a guy who just came back from the US and have the intention of settling down just like me. He's successful and very respectful the First time we met, and I was already looking forward to something meaningful with him.

Last week Sunday, he took me out. When I got back home, I noticed I've embarrassed myself too much by literally throwing myself at him. I withdrew and form busy by not responding to his texts and calls for two days. WhatsApp message read but not replied.

On Tuesday, I noticed he didn't message me for the whole day. But I became bothered. Up till now, he has not called me nor message me. I didn't want things to be like this, I just didn't want it to be like I'm desperate of his attention.

Is he that he has moved on or not really interested

Mind games doesn't attract men, if a lady is more open with him, he might most likely choose her over you, just be yourself and communicate, what's wrong in showing your intentions, now you've made it seem like you are not interested. you women are funny.

Puskas:
Vagina people and their victim mentality. Imagine how this one is blaming the innocent man for respecting himself. You shunned his WhatsApp messages for two days and you still expect him to be crawling on his knees begging you to reply his chats. Who does that except a man suffering from Simpson disease. If you are beautiful with a good character just like you described yourself you should have married in your twenties and not being desperate to marry in your thirties. Let me ask you one question. If the man is foolish enough to continue chatting with you and later marries you what exactly will you offer him apart from your worn out pussy? Be truthful and answer this question

. Wisdom no go kill u comrade �