emmanuelbrown26:

Na una get time to dey reply all these daughters of eve. Same question I hv being asking myself and no answer. Aside child bearing what else can a woman offer a man if not nagging and nagging until d man joins his ancestors.

Carry your child yourself. No big deal

DontBullshitMe:
Makes Sense.

But I think if you desire a child or children, it makes sense to be married.

But men don’t desire children. According to the OP ,
It’s women’s desire. So men should stop marrying altogether. Lot’s of problems would be solved if only those who truly desire marriage do it

cococandy:

Carry your child yourself. No big deal

D end point ot marriage is just making babies

Most men marry today because there are very few women open to relationships without marriage as the end goal. Except a man wants to change girlfriends every 2 years, he has to bite the bullet. Like it’s generally said, women settle down, men surrender.

The progenitors of marriage did not have our generation in mind when they designed marriage. in today’s world where it is almost impossible for anyone to stay faithful, is marriage still worth it? A man gets bullied into marriage, puts up with a woman’s nagging, attitude, mood swings all in a bid to do what’s right by her but she’s fvcking the next guy who would have never sacrificed his ‘freedom’ for her.

At the end of the day any body who chooses to go into a marriage union should go in for selfish reasons, for what he stands to gain. He should also plan his exit route before entry.

The act of telling a man who complains about the challenges of marriage to go marry a man is an act of blackmail, the intentions of such comments is to bully the man to silence for fear of being called gay.

The unmarried straight man has so many options to choose from, he could stay single while fvcking the wife of the man who chose to get married.

eazzzy1:
The act of telling a man who complains about the challenges of marriage to go marry a man is an act of blackmail, the intentions of such comments is to bully the man to silence for fear of being called gay.

The unmarried straight man has so many options to choose from, he could stay single while fvcking the wife of the man who chose to get married.

But you can choose not to marry? That’s an option.
And the beautiful thing is that you don’t even have to tell us. Just don’t marry and live a happy life

cococandy:

But you can choose not to marry? That’s an option.
And the beautiful thing is that you don’t even have to tell us. Just don’t marry and live a happy life

The topic of the thread was clear enough, you chose to open it and read it, nobody told you to. He didn’t create the post to tell you. The first paragraph of the post started with brothers lol. Are you a bro now?

Why do you post pictures of your food in the food section? You could just eat it and be filled? The same reason anyone posts on the internet, for audience.

eazzzy1:


The topic of the thread was clear enough, you chose to open it and read it, nobody told you to. He didn’t create the post to tell you. The first paragraph of the post started with brothers lol. Are you a bro now?

Why do you post pictures of your food in the food section? You could just eat it and be filled? The same reason anyone posts on the internet, for audience.

But this is a forum free for all,anyone can open a thread, comment on it as they see fit, and advice as the case may be, so I don't see any harm in saying men should marry themselves, because there are plenty options in the world, animals, trees and furnitures are also available for marriage, so instead of the constant cries of women this and that, marrying yourselves and non living things isn't far-fetched.

eazzzy1:


The topic of the thread was clear enough, you chose to open it and read it, nobody told you to. He didn’t create the post to tell you. The first paragraph of the post started with brothers lol. Are you a bro now?

Why do you post pictures of your food in the food section? You could just eat it and be filled? The same reason anyone posts on the internet, for audience.

so I shouldn’t advice men to stay away from marriage?

No what he wants is to create and participate in a narrative where marriage is a great favor to women. Where women should consider themselves lucky to be picked by a man for marriage and then they can behave anyhow they want in the marriage, after all they did her a favor.

Ask them to avoid the marriage though they’ll start vibrating. Ask them to leave single women alone and stop shaming them for not being married, they no go gree. It’s almost as if the stories they are telling are not convincing enough.

JovialJune:



But this is a forum free for all,anyone can open a thread, comment on it as they see fit, and advice as the case may be, so I don't see any harm in saying men should marry themselves, because there are plenty options in the world, animals, trees and furnitures are also available for marriage, so instead of the constant cries of women this and that, marrying yourselves and non living things isn't far-fetched.

cococandy:
No what he wants is to create and participate in a narrative where marriage is a great favor to women. Where women should consider themselves lucky to be picked by a man for marriage and then they can behave anyhow they want in the marriage, after all they did her a favor.

Ask them to avoid the marriage though they’ll start vibrating. Ask them to leave single women alone and some shaming them for not being married, they no go free. It’s almost as if the stories they are telling are not convincing enough.

It's the bolded for me, they say marriage favours only women, we agree and tell them to marry themselves, they have a problem with that, okay marry animals or non living things, they say we shouldn't tell them what to do, oya stay away from women then, they say no, so whats with the constant shaming of women and marriage if at the end they will still get married to us, practice what you preach now, life is not that hard,

I think from now on, anytime I see threads of women Lamentations, I will preach gayism to them or beastiality, I will continue to say it until they get sense and focus their minds and brain on other meaningful things.

Am I the only man with a different and totally opposing view? Women are the main burden bearers in marriages. When I see some married women, I feel nothing but pity for them. More often than not, I think "these" women will do a lot more for themselves if they weren't married or if they could learn to know their worth.

Acidosis:
Am I the only man with a different and totally opposing view? Women are the main burden bearers in marriages. When I see some married women, I feel nothing but pity for them. More often than not, I think "these" women will do a lot more for themselves if they weren't married or if they could learn to know their worth.

You need 5000mg of red pill.
Then some anti-simping-biotics.

How it would be administered is what I am yet to figure out.

Acidosis:
Am I the only man with a different and totally opposing view? Women are the main burden bearers in marriages. When I see some married women, I feel nothing but pity for them. More often than not, I think "these" women will do a lot more for themselves if they weren't married or if they could learn to know their worth.

Because that’s the truth

pocohantas:


You need 5000mg of red pill.
Then some anti-simping-biotics.

How it would be administered is what I am yet to figure out.

LMAO



No way. At 5000mg, I will definitely hate my mother

Acidosis:


LMAO

No way. At 5000mg, I will definitely hate my mother

You don’t need to love her.

Stop the momma worship.

pocohantas:


You don’t need to love her.

Stop the momma worship.

pocohantas:


You need 5000mg of red pill.
Then some anti-simping-biotics.

How it would be administered is what I am yet to figure out.

I am still trying to make sure if what I just read came from a Nairaland male.

Acidosis:


LMAO



No way. At 5000mg, I will definitely hate my mother

from acidosis to Gidiredpillar straight!

Acidosis:
Am I the only man with a different and totally opposing view? Women are the main burden bearers in marriages. When I see some married women, I feel nothing but pity for them. More often than not, I think "these" women will do a lot more for themselves if they weren't married or if they could learn to know their worth.

Walai they stole Acid's phone, or madam did a good job at night, but I'm still right that they stole his phone

doggedfighter:


I am still trying to make sure if what I just read came from a Nairaland male.

Yes it did. We don’t always agree, but I love that he can always disagree with you and the next day you guys move on to the next topic.

doggedfighter:


I am still trying to make sure if what I just read came from a Nairaland male.

stop this na. way before the redpill wankers, there were men and women on NL.

we used to have our gender wars, what do you bring to the table etc - but we all knew where it would end las las

we too like toto. y'all too like preek

redpillars are just some sex starved urchins following mgbtow fellas making money of youtube revenue

JovialJune:



Yes, abi you no fit read? From your topic to the plenty Lamentations, it is clearly trying to discourage men from marriage, or what does "Married women put out less, she becomes less attractive every year" imply?

But if you mean marriage to women, and not men, again you guys can marry yourselves.

Hi Idiot, the crux of the text is that most men wouldn't marry if they really knew the enormity of the repaonsibilty that marriage is. However, marriage is a worthy ideal that men should aspire to. Period. I already asked you to ask people with functional brain cells to interprete for you. Can't possibly imagine the misfortune to befall any man choosing to marry you with such arrogant wilful ignorance

Raalsalghul:


You do have some points, but the challenge here is not the man's ignorance, but biology.

Biology in what regard? BTW, I quoted you in another thread. Check your mentions, my email doesn't work

GloriousGbola:


stop this na. way before the redpill wankers, there were men and women on NL.

we used to have our gender wars, what do you bring to the table etc - but we all knew where it would end las las

we too like toto. y'all too like preek

redpillars are just some sex starved urchins following mgbtow fellas making money of youtube revenue

Makes sense.

pocohantas:
And that is totally fine…

I mean, men not getting married (to WOMEN).

At your age you still never get sense

GloriousGbola:


from acidosis to Gidiredpillar straight!

Ahahaha

Belafonte:


At your age you still never get sense

You can decide not to marry my dear. Quit the whining and take the bull by the horn.

NBA’s President just got married, but you Npower candidates won’t allow us hear word. The internet is indeed another world of its own.

Belafonte:


Hi Idiot, the crux of the text is that most men wouldn't marry if they really knew the enormity of the repaonsibilty that marriage is. However, marriage is a worthy ideal that men should aspire to. Period. I already asked you to ask people with functional brain cells to interprete for you.

No it is not. Why exactly should they aspire to something they don’t benefit from? Something that rips them off so badly?

Can't possibly imagine the misfortune to befall any man choosing to marry you with such arrogant wilful ignorance

There would be no misfortune if men can just follow your teachings and avoid marrying WOMEN.

cococandy:


But men don’t desire children. According to the OP ,
It’s women’s desire. So men should stop marrying altogether. Lot’s of problems would be solved if only those who truly desire marriage do it

At this point, I believe you older women deliberately lie to the younger girls for whatever reason. Where in the OP does it say men don't desire children or only women do? This is daylight witchcraft. Smh

pocohantas:


You can decide not to marry my dear. Quit the whining and take the bull by the horn.

NBA’s President just got married, but you Npower candidates won’t allow us hear word. The internet is indeed another world of its own.

You can also decide to have sense, sweetheart. After brokeshamimg what next, my best friend who's a bricklayer has been happily married for 6 years now and as he's also my mentor I believe I can achieve the same

Belafonte:


Hi Idiot, the crux of the text is that most men wouldn't marry if they really knew the enormity of the repaonsibilty that marriage is. However, marriage is a worthy ideal that men should aspire to. Period. I already asked you to ask people with functional brain cells to interprete for you. Can't possibly imagine the misfortune to befall any man choosing to marry you with such arrogant wilful ignorance

Be blowing grammar and keep fighting yourself, I don't know how insulting your parents at home will change the fact that marriage doesn't favour men, I'm saying it now o, marry yourselves, animals, or non living things, boycott marriage with women to save your lives,

Toh....

JovialJune:



Be blowing grammar and keep fighting yourself, I don't know how insulting your parents at home will change the fact that marriage doesn't favour men, I'm saying it now o, marry yourselves, animals, or non living things, boycott marriage with women to save your lives,

Toh....

Shoo