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Re: As A Woman I Have Decided I'm Never Getting Married Or Having Kids by Klass99(f): 1:08pm On May 17, 2022 |
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Re: As A Woman I Have Decided I'm Never Getting Married Or Having Kids by stephenponti(m): 1:09pm On May 17, 2022 |
Poswahala: Your problem is psychological meet a councilor! |
Re: As A Woman I Have Decided I'm Never Getting Married Or Having Kids by Klass99(f): 1:09pm On May 17, 2022 |
Re: As A Woman I Have Decided I'm Never Getting Married Or Having Kids by cedricksly: 1:13pm On May 17, 2022 |
Poswahala:the decision will cause nothing but regrets. It is okay if you choose not to get married, nobody can be forced to, but having kids of your own should be considered either through surrogacy or simply adoption at a very young age.. |
Re: As A Woman I Have Decided I'm Never Getting Married Or Having Kids by vickydevoka(m): 1:22pm On May 17, 2022 |
Poswahala:Lower your expectations in a relationship. That's when it becomes sweet. When u need too much n have high expectations relationship is hell. That rich j handsome guy has 100 people that wish to be his. So that's competition. Embrace life the way u see it. If u short that's doesn't mean u much marry y'all guy. No kill your self ontop tall guy. Marry who like u |
Re: As A Woman I Have Decided I'm Never Getting Married Or Having Kids by vickydevoka(m): 1:24pm On May 17, 2022 |
amnesty7:Believe u in me. That's not pleasing there. Is better u marry n divorce than not to marry at all. Just like not going to school at all. U will never fill satisfied |
Re: As A Woman I Have Decided I'm Never Getting Married Or Having Kids by vickydevoka(m): 1:25pm On May 17, 2022 |
Carcholce:You are very right!! I just spoke to my pastor about this issue |
Re: As A Woman I Have Decided I'm Never Getting Married Or Having Kids by Hannania(m): 1:25pm On May 17, 2022 |
Klass99:That you don't know, doesn't mean there isn't. I also don't see the need of kids. At best, I adopt orphans(twins to be precise) at old age. I have a couple of friends on this also. Nigeria is not as myopic as it use to be. 1 Like |
Re: As A Woman I Have Decided I'm Never Getting Married Or Having Kids by Klass99(f): 1:32pm On May 17, 2022 |
Re: As A Woman I Have Decided I'm Never Getting Married Or Having Kids by vickydevoka(m): 1:32pm On May 17, 2022 |
Poswahala:My dear there is nothing wrong with you. It's just normal. When a 9ja babe starts doing well financially, there is a spirit of " I don't need a husband" that enters her. So it's an endemic issue n not your issue. My gal did same thing. Now she's single. |
Re: As A Woman I Have Decided I'm Never Getting Married Or Having Kids by vickydevoka(m): 1:34pm On May 17, 2022 |
Poswahala:My dear there is nothing wrong with you. It's just normal. When a 9ja babe starts doing well financially, there is a spirit of " I don't need a husband" that enters her. So it's an endemic issue n not your issue. My gal did same thing. Now she's single. That's y linda ikejie will not want to marry self. If a white lady has money, that's when she will be Happy to have a husband. Nigeria is opposite of U.K in everything |
Re: As A Woman I Have Decided I'm Never Getting Married Or Having Kids by BigBashiru: 1:34pm On May 17, 2022 |
judedwriter: Life will teach you that polygamy is the best. Now go get ur self 12 sidechicks and enjoy urself. Such their nipples. Yummy |
Re: As A Woman I Have Decided I'm Never Getting Married Or Having Kids by nedekid: 1:35pm On May 17, 2022 |
Hmm. If you don't choose to get married, that is normal because a lot of women end up not being lucky to find as soul mate. Most marriages even don't workout. The issue of having a child might be more important. I chatted with an my ex months back. She was just thanking God for her life that she married early, though divorced. That all her friends female classmates in university were all accomplished consultants etc at the peak of their medical profession in the US, UK, etc, but the only regret thay all have is that while chasing carriers, they did not have time to have kids or did not deem it important. Now it is too late! They have money and all that comes with it, but have no kids. Some call her at night have a shoulder to cry on. Loneliness tins If you can, have 1 or 2 kids. |
Re: As A Woman I Have Decided I'm Never Getting Married Or Having Kids by BigBashiru: 1:35pm On May 17, 2022 |
vickydevoka: What your girl did to you is all mammalian..... 1 Like |
Re: As A Woman I Have Decided I'm Never Getting Married Or Having Kids by Nobody: 1:36pm On May 17, 2022 |
Just know that you're going on a road of becoming unhappy for the rest of your life. There's beauty in having a family. |
Re: As A Woman I Have Decided I'm Never Getting Married Or Having Kids by virgintunde(m): 1:41pm On May 17, 2022 |
that is your headache |
Re: As A Woman I Have Decided I'm Never Getting Married Or Having Kids by hustla(m): 1:45pm On May 17, 2022 |
Poswahala: You think say na as them dey show retirement home for movie e dey/ It will shock you sha |
Re: As A Woman I Have Decided I'm Never Getting Married Or Having Kids by Hannania(m): 1:48pm On May 17, 2022 |
Klass99:As a quoted, it can only be orphans. Just to put a smile on their face before I kick the bucket. It's the most priceless gift in life. |
Re: As A Woman I Have Decided I'm Never Getting Married Or Having Kids by ashawopikin(m): 1:51pm On May 17, 2022 |
Poswahala:whatever! |
Re: As A Woman I Have Decided I'm Never Getting Married Or Having Kids by EndRape2(f): 1:52pm On May 17, 2022 |
Same way lot of Nigerian men have mental problem , the call it ego, it is men world ,a man can rape, a man can get angry a man can ,beat his wife if she is stubborn, serious mental illness that needs attaention. uote author=Carcholce post=112893806]Why not start from a mental home first. Take care of the problem. A lot of Nigerian women have mental problem but they call it “mood swings”[/quote] |
Re: As A Woman I Have Decided I'm Never Getting Married Or Having Kids by Klass99(f): 1:52pm On May 17, 2022 |
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Re: As A Woman I Have Decided I'm Never Getting Married Or Having Kids by laluski(m): 1:54pm On May 17, 2022 |
amnesty7: Simple |
Re: As A Woman I Have Decided I'm Never Getting Married Or Having Kids by Arsenate(m): 1:57pm On May 17, 2022 |
LastProphet:You just reek of self hatred. Pathetic. |
Re: As A Woman I Have Decided I'm Never Getting Married Or Having Kids by Divaan: 2:07pm On May 17, 2022 |
If you are in a country like Nigeria, you'll be wooed and shamed to eventually marry, because marriage in this part of our world is a great achievement/accomplishment to a lot of people. Our society frowns at singleness. It is not a favourable environment for singlehood. I'm sure you're saying these because you're still young and haven't started getting pressures from family, friends, enemies and society. But if you intend moving to a saner society, then singlehood can be a possibility, as marriage over there is solely by choice. As for whether it is possible, it all depends on your motive and reason for not wanting to marry. If it's because you have the worng mindset about marriage, then it's laughable, but if it's a choice you've made because of health, religion or for whatever reason, then it's ok but just know that if you continue living in Nigeria, you'll be subjected to a lot of mockery and tongue-lashing. |
Re: As A Woman I Have Decided I'm Never Getting Married Or Having Kids by LastProphet: 2:09pm On May 17, 2022 |
Arsenate: Dull people always assume it's always difficult to overrate yourself, if yaya bello can think he can be president then you are not a surprise. Believe-in-yourself set of clowns. Go read about self-introspection mofo |
Re: As A Woman I Have Decided I'm Never Getting Married Or Having Kids by Arsenate(m): 2:12pm On May 17, 2022 |
LastProphet:Blablabla, anyone who doesn't see life from my point of view is dull or an illiterate. You are a sad lost case and still have a lot of growing up to do. |
Re: As A Woman I Have Decided I'm Never Getting Married Or Having Kids by Nobody: 2:12pm On May 17, 2022 |
Re: As A Woman I Have Decided I'm Never Getting Married Or Having Kids by LastProphet: 2:30pm On May 17, 2022 |
Arsenate: A lost cause with 2 houses and a 3rd soon in a developed country, you will personally get the pictures just remain alive if your foooolishness permits |
Re: As A Woman I Have Decided I'm Never Getting Married Or Having Kids by Nobody: 2:31pm On May 17, 2022 |
Klass99: Such Men exist. I am also an anti-natalist. I won't explain why, just watch the video. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E9WoOQGOQ_w |
Re: As A Woman I Have Decided I'm Never Getting Married Or Having Kids by BigDawsNet: 2:47pm On May 17, 2022 |
Poswahala: Your personal decisions is good for you and you alone... Don't do anything to impress anybody If you don't want kids... keep to it and focus on ur wellbeing... As the year goes on...I pray you feel better... you can give a try with having a baby If you too old for that...you can adopt.. Ypu priority is to stay happy and healthy |
Re: As A Woman I Have Decided I'm Never Getting Married Or Having Kids by Klass99(f): 2:52pm On May 17, 2022 |
Re: As A Woman I Have Decided I'm Never Getting Married Or Having Kids by EndRape2(f): 3:03pm On May 17, 2022 |
Same way lot of Nigerian men have mental problem , the call it ego, it is men world ,a man can rape, a man can get angry a man can ,beat his wife if she is stubborn, serious mental illness that needs attention. uote author=Carcholce post=112893806]Why not start from a mental home first. Take care of the problem. A lot of Nigerian women have mental problem but they call it “mood swings”[/quote] |
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