9japride:
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Majority of the time work buddies usually end in tears. As far the person is not your blood relation forget it, them go run you local.

True, that's the reason why you should be careful about it. But there's alot of advantage in having a work buddy, it helps in reducing work pressure.

dalass:


You could have asked all the same. Hear what she's got to say. After hearing from her and you feel the reasons aren't valid enough, then you can do whatever you want to do.

I missed someone's call twice today not because of anything but I prefer my phone to be in silence due to me avoiding distractions while I work... I may miss many, things are not always what they seem to be....

Maturity is important bro

Shut up!

9japride:
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What's trash in the statement? Someone no send you and you keep pestering the person. No be juju be that?

This last statement of yours goes to show that you don’t know how an office runs. Steer clear.

Ndibuna:

I don't want the call entering in the first place

U must be emotionally intelligent. Always act busy if it’s gets to ur boss that u block a colleague number how will u defend ur self.

You are a true son of your father.

Ndibuna:

I don't want the call entering in the first place

U must be emotionally intelligent. Always act busy if it’s gets to ur boss that u block a colleague number how will u defend ur self.

She's a user. Some people are like that and don't even know it.
They are so self-absorbed that they always think of what they need to get from you and never what help they can render to you.
It's really a personality disorder but sadly no common name has been given to it.
You're right for blocking her, else she 'll keep taking from you, never give back and worse, such people are never satisfied.

enonche85:


True, that's the reason why you should be careful about it. But there's alot of advantage in having a work buddy, it helps in reducing work pressure.

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Yea at times. The best way to handle such is that immediately after work drop the closeness behind the office door. If your work buddy knows too much about your personal life he/she will likely use it against you. It's just human nature.

donsheddy1:
This last statement of yours goes to show that you don’t know how an office runs. Steer clear.

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If someone does not send you can't you free the person? If its a small size company you report the individual that she is obstructing the chain of movement in the company especially in the information is important to the company. But if it's just irrelevant matters it's best to ignore her. That's just my opinion.

Ndibuna:
So this female colleague of mine doesn't pick my call when I need to get information of the happenings in the office yet I pick hers and always ready to give her reliable information concerning work.
I urgently needed her one day and had to call again, she didn't pick my calls, she didn't apologise afterwards. I had to block her. So she needed me again and called my number and it wasn't going through. When she saw me she reacted negatively and wasn't talking to me. But do I care? She's not useful to me but want me to be useful to her

This is very typical of Nigerian girls. She will be thinking you want to woo her on phone. Thats why she won't pick your call. Thats how they reason.

Ndibuna:
Nonsense kee u there. No be u carry your busy body come my thread

Onukwu

Small girl for office dey carry you play ball anyhow, you carry your useless self come here dey seek for accolades.

Thunder gbagbukwee gi dia

Onye ara

The case is closed. The gentleman has blocked her. He doesn't need to call her, and does not expect her call also. Shikena!

9japride:
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My advice to you is just let her be. Find an alternative in getting information about your office. If you keep calling her, it might back fire and she can accuse you of pestering her life which her husband and the company won't find it funny. It's difficult to understand most women.

Ndibuna:
So this female colleague of mine doesn't pick my call when I need to get information of the happenings in the office yet I pick hers and always ready to give her reliable information concerning work.
I urgently needed her one day and had to call again, she didn't pick my calls, she didn't apologise afterwards. I had to block her. So she needed me again and called my number and it wasn't going through. When she saw me she reacted negatively and wasn't talking to me. But do I care? She's not useful to me but want me to be useful to her

Bro, u haven't told us the reason yet.

You suppose know it women nature... Some are selfish in nature!

pfadom:
The case is closed. The gentleman has blocked her. He doesn't need to call her, and does not expect her call also. Shikena!

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That's good.

Ndibuna:
So this female colleague of mine doesn't pick my call when I need to get information of the happenings in the office yet I pick hers and always ready to give her reliable information concerning work.
I urgently needed her one day and had to call again, she didn't pick my calls, she didn't apologise afterwards. I had to block her. So she needed me again and called my number and it wasn't going through. When she saw me she reacted negatively and wasn't talking to me. But do I care? She's not useful to me but want me to be useful to her

If I were you, I won't block her. I will just stop taking her calls. But the deed is done already. You can unblock her, but don't answer her calls. If she calls with a different number, once you answer and realise she's the one talking, tell her you're busy and end the call. When you see her, act like nothing happened.

Uniquetani1:
We ladies and pride.
Maybe you do call at the wrong time like you said she is married.
Talk to her about using text instead of calling

yeye advisement,..mtchewww

Ndibuna:

You still didn't read to understand. Here is a faceless forum so what is the big deal

Seeking validation for dumping someone like that? Come on

Kimiso:
yeye advisement,..mtchewww

Heal soon

Ori yin ti gbale ni nairaland.what sense dó you make out of this. Pushing it to front page

It has a name. Narcicism.

Sassy256:
She's a user. Some people are like that and don't even know it.
They are so self-absorbed that they always think of what they need to get from you and never what help they can render to you.
It's really a personality disorder but sadly no common name has been given to it.
You're right for blocking her, else she 'll keep taking from you, never give back and worse, such people are never satisfied.

SPAMBOX7:
Seeking validation for dumping someone like that? Come on

Borrow sense

Ewu. You go office go dey do amebo with small girl instead of you to face your work. You be mumu..

IAmTobore:
If I were you, I won't block her. I will just stop taking her calls. But the deed is done already. You can unblock her, but don't answer her calls. If she calls with a different number, once you answer and realise she's the one talking, tell her you're busy and end the call. When you see her, act like nothing happened.

It's alright. Thank you

bluefilm:


Onukwu

Small girl for office dey carry you play ball anyhow, you carry your useless self come here dey seek for accolades.

Thunder gbagbukwee gi dia

Onye ara

Ikpu nne gị onye ara. Get lost please

SimplePlan34:



U must be emotionally intelligent. Always act busy if it’s gets to ur boss that u block a colleague number how will u defend ur self.

It's no business of our superiors

Ndibuna:

Ikpu nne gị onye ara. Get lost please

Ozu.

Udene

Nkita ara.

Your Name Is Simpson You Can't Denied It

Ndibuna:
So this female colleague of mine doesn't pick my call when I need to get information of the happenings in the office yet I pick hers and always ready to give her reliable information concerning work.
I urgently needed her one day and had to call again, she didn't pick my calls, she didn't apologise afterwards. I had to block her. So she needed me again and called my number and it wasn't going through. When she saw me she reacted negatively and wasn't talking to me. But do I care? She's not useful to me but want me to be useful to her

She's a bad energy. N she needs to be kept far away

OlawaleBammie:
that is where u miss it bro, dont do like a toddler throwing tantrums.

If i were him, i will even be the first to greet her, even while she remain blocked. either she respond or not is not my wahala

baddest!

Ndibuna:

Borrow sense

Grow up, simp