Op read my story

https://www.nairaland.com/3442406/lebanese-boss-promises-sack-me/8#111969860

Today I'm now a Boss and I own my own company.

You are not foolish, you did the right thing by respecting him only that Africans will overdo things, that's opposite of my old Boss who was an Arab

TNORWAY:
Inside all the problem when dey this country?? Na wetin dey bother you be th??

You no no how much be toothpaste now?!

OP might be a chewing stick ambassador.

Agabaidu1234:
My Experience With my boss at the office today.

Am a serving corps member with one company serving.

At first, I usually carry my boss bag from the office to his car whenever we close (in the evening) but in a recent time he promoted my kind gesture to always call me from the office to pick his bag in the morning not minding whether am busy or not which has being getting me infuriated before now, but I keeps being calm.

The last stroke that broke the camel's back happened today. He called me outside as usual, I picked up the bag from him and he equally went further to tell his friend to equally handed over his own to me, to bring them all to the office although the friend told me not to bother myself, which really got me really mad boldly written in my countenance � and he noticed it which he asked me at the office and I express my displeasure to him in that regard of carrying his friend bag together with his own and he attempted to defend himself by bringing in irrelevant ideas and admonishment, of which I took flimsy excuse that I was not feeling fine and left, but trust me it was still as a result of the anger.

Now, my concerns is that, am I being foolish trying to be nice and at the same time being humble to always doing that for him willingly because I started it which he took it to be daily routine,? And again I want to stop doing that to him from today's on even when am called upon, if he thinks I do them all for him as a result of ignorance or that am being naive( what do you think � that my plan may result to) .
Am talking about a guy who should be in his early thirties( 30) here.

Please �, what's actually your advise to me in this circumstance.

Don’t start what u can’t finish. It’s a simple rule

Remember , it is your attitude that determines your altitude in life.. exercise patience and endurance because pride can be destructive.. Helping him out does not reduce who you are.. it only shows your humility and good home training .. Overlook his mistake since you have reacted to it ready . By now he should know his boundaries

remigreat:
My advice is try and be diplomatic about it because he might actually be testing your patience. Who knows he might be a good boss tomorrow who could recommend you to higher positions. Don't let the event of today becloud your chances of meeting a destiny helper. My 2 cents bro

God will punish destiny helper
If and When God wants to help U
He will and not sending some unreasonable e-diots to your life
@OP, tell the guy exactly as U feel and God will punish the testing and the patience

He is your boss, don't let your ego get in the way of your promotion.

Inside all the problem when dey this country?? Na wetin dey bother you be th??

You no no how much be toothpaste now?![/quote]

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Agabaidu1234:
My Experience With my boss at the office today.

Am a serving corps member with one company serving.

Am talking about a guy who should be in his early thirties( 30) here.

Please �, what's actually your advise to me in this circumstance.

Guy. Please read this with calmness because i want you to succeed even if i don't know you. You are just a young boy coming up the ladder of success. Yes success! because some of your mates never made it this far in life but how you play the game will determine how far you go & how quick you rise. As you grow older, you will find out that YOU WILL HAVE TO MAKE SOMEONE LOOK GOOD and you better do it well or leave. One day when you climb higher and you are a boss, perhaps your boys will even roll out the RED CARPET for you.
What if your oga wanted to shine in front of his friend? Will you not greet the friend and offer to take his bag and jacket? That way you become closer to your boss and appear HUMBLE to the visitor who might recommend you for a better job even as a corper. This is your chance to get closer to your boss instead of frowning.
Don't just take his bag, greet him and ask him HOW WAS YOUR NIGHT SIR? WELCOME. He will become attached to you and you can benefit if things go well.
Na packaging. Na so God dey elevate people. Except if that ur boss is a broke ass boss that's why you dey para like this.

TNORWAY:
Inside all the problem when dey this country?? Na wetin dey bother you be th??

You no no how much be toothpaste now?!

That's why I always tell people to stop doing eye � service.
What happened was that you were pretending to be a nice and cool person from the beginning. maybe he will retain you as permanent staff.
You got tired, � service no good.
It pays to be yourself.

TNORWAY:
Inside all the problem when dey this country?? Na wetin dey bother you be th??

You no no how much be toothpaste now?!

no leave am e just dey start work
Oga never tell am make e print assignment for e children before

You no get problem, you no de carry your bag! Y u no they vex your self. I thought he was sexually harassing u! Stay put be restpecful, you might be offer a job after service!! Be wise ooo job no de outside! Spoil brat like you! I am sure Daddy is still sending u money!

Agabaidu1234:
My Experience With my boss at the office today.

Am a serving corps member with one company serving.

At first, I usually carry my boss bag from the office to his car whenever we close (in the evening) but in a recent time he promoted my kind gesture to always call me from the office to pick his bag in the morning not minding whether am busy or not which has being getting me infuriated before now, but I keeps being calm.

The last stroke that broke the camel's back happened today. He called me outside as usual, I picked up the bag from him and he equally went further to tell his friend to equally handed over his own to me, to bring them all to the office although the friend told me not to bother myself, which really got me really mad boldly written in my countenance � and he noticed it which he asked me at the office and I express my displeasure to him in that regard of carrying his friend bag together with his own and he attempted to defend himself by bringing in irrelevant ideas and admonishment, of which I took flimsy excuse that I was not feeling fine and left, but trust me it was still as a result of the anger.

Now, my concerns is that, am I being foolish trying to be nice and at the same time being humble to always doing that for him willingly because I started it which he took it to be daily routine,? And again I want to stop doing that to him from today's on even when am called upon, if he thinks I do them all for him as a result of ignorance or that am being naive( what do you think � that my plan may result to) .
Am talking about a guy who should be in his early thirties( 30) here.

Please �, what's actually your advise to me in this circumstance.

remigreat:
My advice is try and be diplomatic about it because he might actually be testing your patience. Who knows he might be a good boss tomorrow who could recommend you to higher positions. Don't let the event of today becloud your chances of meeting a destiny helper. My 2 cents bro

slave mentality, wetin concern him job with carrying bags abi no be porter job be that

Nebes:


Don't back out now. You're not foolish but your humility is being tested now. NYSC is not forever. As long as you are not asked to do evil, you will be handsomely rewarded in the long run.
Note that your reward will not necessarily come from your boss. But it will definitely come. Endure the test.

Stop painting another person’s excesses as test of humility. That pompous boss is only perfecting the op’s enslavement and subjugation.

What a humiliating act to ask him to carry his friend’s bag as well! Maybe the op isn’t working there on merit. If he was, he wouldn’t have turned himself into a valet in the first place.

Humiliation isn’t a test of humility.

Virgo3:
slave mentality, wetin concern him job with carrying bags abi no be porter job be that

Very slavish mentality I must say. Just see the way people are encouraging him to endure such demeaning tasks that he wasn’t originally employed to do.

mastermaestro:


Very slavish mentality I must say. Just see the way people are encouraging him to endure such demeaning tasks that he wasn’t originally employed to do.

instead of hardwork and right infos nah favors Nigerians dy find, who to help you, who to connect you, till you go dy wash alhaji hook up girl pant you no go know

Agabaidu1234:
My Experience With my boss at the office today.

Am a serving corps member with one company serving.

At first, I usually carry my boss bag from the office to his car whenever we close (in the evening) but in a recent time he promoted my kind gesture to always call me from the office to pick his bag in the morning not minding whether am busy or not which has being getting me infuriated before now, but I keeps being calm.

The last stroke that broke the camel's back happened today. He called me outside as usual, I picked up the bag from him and he equally went further to tell his friend to equally handed over his own to me, to bring them all to the office although the friend told me not to bother myself, which really got me really mad boldly written in my countenance � and he noticed it which he asked me at the office and I express my displeasure to him in that regard of carrying his friend bag together with his own and he attempted to defend himself by bringing in irrelevant ideas and admonishment, of which I took flimsy excuse that I was not feeling fine and left, but trust me it was still as a result of the anger.

Now, my concerns is that, am I being foolish trying to be nice and at the same time being humble to always doing that for him willingly because I started it which he took it to be daily routine,? And again I want to stop doing that to him from today's on even when am called upon, if he thinks I do them all for him as a result of ignorance or that am being naive( what do you think � that my plan may result to) .
Am talking about a guy who should be in his early thirties( 30) here.

Please �, what's actually your advise to me in this circumstance.

Big fvcks small. Always

You are in a position of no power. Kiss as much ass as you can.

It is inevitable that you will be used by your employers. Just continue doing your best till you find something better.

And also remember to work to learn and not work to earn

Rule no 1....never start what you can not finish fa.

Rule no 2,do not be a smart azzz to your master.

You either continue nicely and ensure you get something out of it in return(mentoring, tips, small favours, first hand info, possibility of being retained after service, etc) or stop and risk possibility of being antagonize.

What on earth gave you the thought to begin carrying his bag for him when he didn't ask, please continue what you started.

Ttalk:


Those that commit suicide have long rotten in the sand while the siblings of those you termed slaves are today's, Oprah, Usain Bolt and the rest black American making waves in the world. Stop overrating your worth

Smart talk. What people don't realize early enough in this world is that as long as Nature or Universe is concerned the survivors are the winner. I know the death that will take me is the one that will leave me no option.

Most of those supporting OP are low level staff in their organizations.

The rest are students eating daddy's food.

Anyone in mid to upper level management or any business owner sees through you.

First off, you initiated it by doing eye service.

I noticed he did not begin by asking you to carry his bag.

You did.

You thought it would get you special privileges but when a short time passed and nothing changed you began to resent him.

He also began to push it further just to test your level of eye service.

Now he knows you were never a humble person but a fake.

He has weighed you and found you wanting.

The one person who would have been instrumental to your rising now knows you are a green snake in the green grass.

Move on as soon as you can.

What exactly is your job description? If it has nothing to do with office assistant, then you shouldn't have started it in the first place.
Making yourself available to carry bag(s) means your job description is very light or you want to impress your boss as a good guy.
If you carry his bag, why should you have a worry carrying the bag of his friend? Meaning that you are carrying the bag for personal reasons and not humility.

Agabaidu1234:
My Experience With my boss at the office today.

Am a serving corps member with one company serving.

At first, I usually carry my boss bag from the office to his car whenever we close (in the evening) but in a recent time he promoted my kind gesture to always call me from the office to pick his bag in the morning not minding whether am busy or not which has being getting me infuriated before now, but I keeps being calm.

The last stroke that broke the camel's back happened today. He called me outside as usual, I picked up the bag from him and he equally went further to tell his friend to equally handed over his own to me, to bring them all to the office although the friend told me not to bother myself, which really got me really mad boldly written in my countenance � and he noticed it which he asked me at the office and I express my displeasure to him in that regard of carrying his friend bag together with his own and he attempted to defend himself by bringing in irrelevant ideas and admonishment, of which I took flimsy excuse that I was not feeling fine and left, but trust me it was still as a result of the anger.

Now, my concerns is that, am I being foolish trying to be nice and at the same time being humble to always doing that for him willingly because I started it which he took it to be daily routine,? And again I want to stop doing that to him from today's on even when am called upon, if he thinks I do them all for him as a result of ignorance or that am being naive( what do you think � that my plan may result to) .
Am talking about a guy who should be in his early thirties( 30) here.

Please �, what's actually your advise to me in this circumstance.

Don't be weary of well doing in due season you shall reap if you faint not.

TNORWAY:
Inside all the problem when dey this country?? Na wetin dey bother you be th??

You no no how much be toothpaste now?!

Na salt I dey use now

Na you start am na.

Be professional in your office dealings. Do what you are assigned to do and no dey kiss ass like that. There's a difference between ass kissing and being loyal.

Oh

Agabaidu1234:
My Experience With my boss at the office today.

Am a serving corps member with one company serving.

At first, I usually carry my boss bag from the office to his car whenever we close (in the evening) but in a recent time he promoted my kind gesture to always call me from the office to pick his bag in the morning not minding whether am busy or not which has being getting me infuriated before now, but I keeps being calm.

The last stroke that broke the camel's back happened today. He called me outside as usual, I picked up the bag from him and he equally went further to tell his friend to equally handed over his own to me, to bring them all to the office although the friend told me not to bother myself, which really got me really mad boldly written in my countenance � and he noticed it which he asked me at the office and I express my displeasure to him in that regard of carrying his friend bag together with his own and he attempted to defend himself by bringing in irrelevant ideas and admonishment, of which I took flimsy excuse that I was not feeling fine and left, but trust me it was still as a result of the anger.

Now, my concerns is that, am I being foolish trying to be nice and at the same time being humble to always doing that for him willingly because I started it which he took it to be daily routine,? And again I want to stop doing that to him from today's on even when am called upon, if he thinks I do them all for him as a result of ignorance or that am being naive( what do you think � that my plan may result to) .
Am talking about a guy who should be in his early thirties( 30) here.

Please �, what's actually your advise to me in this circumstance.

Left for me, you should have carried on

He yd your Boss and even if he is 20yrs, he is your Boss

Probably he likes your humility and you can't say how good it will be for you in return

Agabaidu1234:
My Experience With my boss at the office today.

Am a serving corps member with one company serving.

At first, I usually carry my boss bag from the office to his car whenever we close (in the evening) but in a recent time he promoted my kind gesture to always call me from the office to pick his bag in the morning not minding whether am busy or not which has being getting me infuriated before now, but I keeps being calm.

The last stroke that broke the camel's back happened today. He called me outside as usual, I picked up the bag from him and he equally went further to tell his friend to equally handed over his own to me, to bring them all to the office although the friend told me not to bother myself, which really got me really mad boldly written in my countenance � and he noticed it which he asked me at the office and I express my displeasure to him in that regard of carrying his friend bag together with his own and he attempted to defend himself by bringing in irrelevant ideas and admonishment, of which I took flimsy excuse that I was not feeling fine and left, but trust me it was still as a result of the anger.

Now, my concerns is that, am I being foolish trying to be nice and at the same time being humble to always doing that for him willingly because I started it which he took it to be daily routine,? And again I want to stop doing that to him from today's on even when am called upon, if he thinks I do them all for him as a result of ignorance or that am being naive( what do you think � that my plan may result to) .
Am talking about a guy who should be in his early thirties( 30) here.

Please �, what's actually your advise to me in this circumstance.

Next time, learn to study people very well b4 acting "The guy is good" b4 them. U wanted to impress ur Boss as a "Nice guy" by giving urself work he didn't give u. Now, e don backfire u. U are now crying for help. I hope he is not a Yoruba Boss? This is because, Yoruba Bosses are very good at enslaving their subjects.

Agabaidu1234:
My Experience With my boss at the office today.

Am a serving corps member with one company serving.

At first, I usually carry my boss bag from the office to his car whenever we close (in the evening) but in a recent time he promoted my kind gesture to always call me from the office to pick his bag in the morning not minding whether am busy or not which has being getting me infuriated before now, but I keeps being calm.

The last stroke that broke the camel's back happened today. He called me outside as usual, I picked up the bag from him and he equally went further to tell his friend to equally handed over his own to me, to bring them all to the office although the friend told me not to bother myself, which really got me really mad boldly written in my countenance � and he noticed it which he asked me at the office and I express my displeasure to him in that regard of carrying his friend bag together with his own and he attempted to defend himself by bringing in irrelevant ideas and admonishment, of which I took flimsy excuse that I was not feeling fine and left, but trust me it was still as a result of the anger.

Now, my concerns is that, am I being foolish trying to be nice and at the same time being humble to always doing that for him willingly because I started it which he took it to be daily routine,? And again I want to stop doing that to him from today's on even when am called upon, if he thinks I do them all for him as a result of ignorance or that am being naive( what do you think � that my plan may result to) .
Am talking about a guy who should be in his early thirties( 30) here.

Please �, what's actually your advise to me in this circumstance.

Always don't start what u can't finish, u must finish it oooo

Finish what you started...

You have already started it so continue till the end

Guy na you cause am o, as a Corper I used to be like you but thank God I quickly came back to my senses. To be Frank, those kind of bosses have nothing to offer, they are just looking for a slave they can use anyhow. Use your brain and stand using earpiece as far as you are free, no more smiling unnecessarily, do your own diligently, create a niche for yourself and earn respect. I don't allow people no matter their post or status to take my respect or kindness for foolishness. Finally, man up and use your senses.