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betshopagent:
manipulation

That's your Business.
If you get one, or you know someone that has one, let me know, I have unemployed friends who finished serving since last year.
I am not even in the country, only trying to help my friends.

rickpat:
seeking advice is an opportunity for you to sample so many opinions especially the unbiased ones....at the the end it's your responsibility to sit down think through all the opinions garned and take the decision that best suits you .... nobody here force you to take any decision ....so it's wrong for you to start saying you almost lost your girlfriend because of advise you got here...good luck

Exactly. I have used advice given to others here to even help my similar situation, and it was worth it. We all have our divergent views.

Tunagee:
Exactly. I have used advice given to others here to even help my similar situation, and it was worth it. We all have our divergent views.

ofcourse

SweetSauce:
That's your Business.
If you get one, or you know someone that has one, let me know, I have unemployed friends who finished serving since last year.
I am not even in the country, only trying to help my friends.

no offence intended pls.just catching cruise oh

Bro...next time when you have issues with your girl..weigh your options and handle it like a man...people here are just for cruise only some selected few will give you the desired response but still it's not worth bringing your personal issues here on nairaland..lol...stay woke!

Alaigbopress:
Some days ago, I posted here about how my girl friend posted her ex pictures twice and I got a handful of advice, insults and very derogatory statements. Also at the same time I also got very few matured and helpful comment.
I wanted to apply the advice I was given here because I was furious and that could have been disastrous.

The next day after posting here, I confronted my girl, I told her it is over between us(all was a ploy to know how much she loves me). Since that day, my Girl's mood changed, she doesn't talk to people, she doesn't laugh and even started skipping her meal. She came to my house and was crying heavily that she was sorry. That has it been she know that it will provoke me that she wouldn't have done it.

I still pretended that I will never forgive her. Just yesterday she called my female bestie and narrated to her what happened and she called me yesterday evening and pleaded with me to forgive her. Which I did and You need to see how happy this girl has been. I will send screen shot of her recent Whatsapp status.


My Advice to anyone seeking for a relationship advice is not to follow the popular comment here.

this one just start relationship, watch out for part 2

rickpat:
seeking advice is an opportunity for you to sample so many opinions especially the unbiased ones....at the the end it's your responsibility to sit down think through all the opinions garned and take the decision that best suits you .... nobody here force you to take any decision ....so it's wrong for you to start saying you almost lost your girlfriend because of advise you got here...good luck

The annoying part is that no one would have given any advice if hadn't he brought it up here.
He's just a child, cos there are some things you don't even need to be advised on how to go about it.

Send us her number, we don't need the screenshot

Moloso:
Channel your frustration and simping somewhere abeg

Says the frustrated bitter soul who stays on Nairaland 2-4 waiting for people's downfall

Some people comment with sense. Think for yourself and filter through the comments

I still can't wrap my head around it though. She posted pictures of her ex twice for what? Because she's still in love with him?

I'm telling you, if a woman needs you to be happy, you will think that she loves you but you're very wrong. Go and look for a woman who can be happy even without you

And finally, please go and learn about codependency

Alaigbopress:
Some days ago, I posted here about how my girl friend posted her ex pictures twice and I got a handful of advice, insults and very derogatory statements. Also at the same time I also got very few matured and helpful comment.
I wanted to apply the advice I was given here because I was furious and that could have been disastrous.

The next day after posting here, I confronted my girl, I told her it is over between us(all was a ploy to know how much she loves me). Since that day, my Girl's mood changed, she doesn't talk to people, she doesn't laugh and even started skipping her meal. She came to my house and was crying heavily that she was sorry. That has it been she know that it will provoke me that she wouldn't have done it.

I still pretended that I will never forgive her. Just yesterday she called my female bestie and narrated to her what happened and she called me yesterday evening and pleaded with me to forgive her. Which I did and You need to see how happy this girl has been. I will send screen shot of her recent Whatsapp status.


My Advice to anyone seeking for a relationship advice is not to follow the popular comment here.

Jaqenhghar:
Says the frustrated bitter soul who stays on Nairaland 2-4 waiting for people's downfall

LOL
I don't t stay 24/7 here guy beside I was only airing my view I dont know why you take it personal.... Base on your profile you are from the north I don't expect that from my fellow northerner

Probably ,this is someone's son abi na first son......well ndi relationship over to una

Alaigbopress:
Some days ago, I posted here about how my girl friend posted her ex pictures twice and I got a handful of advice, insults and very derogatory statements. Also at the same time I also got very few matured and helpful comment.
I wanted to apply the advice I was given here because I was furious and that could have been disastrous.

The next day after posting here, I confronted my girl, I told her it is over between us(all was a ploy to know how much she loves me). Since that day, my Girl's mood changed, she doesn't talk to people, she doesn't laugh and even started skipping her meal. She came to my house and was crying heavily that she was sorry. That has it been she know that it will provoke me that she wouldn't have done it.

I still pretended that I will never forgive her. Just yesterday she called my female bestie and narrated to her what happened and she called me yesterday evening and pleaded with me to forgive her. Which I did and You need to see how happy this girl has been. I will send screen shot of her recent Whatsapp status.


My Advice to anyone seeking for a relationship advice is not to follow the popular comment here.

Frustration is written all over your post...are you so blind to see that?

Jennyclay:
God has finally open this one sense.

Listen to me carefully... Most of these frustrated guys here are weaklings and vegetables in Real Life. But they would come to social media and start forming redpillar and barking like a loose dog... Giving useless advice to people like op.

@op listen to me carefully again... Your relationship is more healthy than these frustrated guys relationships but they are always quick to dish out useless advice to others.

Infact, most of these frustrated guys need serious help in their relationship but they would rather seek advice somewhere else than to bring it here to Nairaland because they don't want be mocked as a wannabe redpiller.

I'm glad that God has given you wisdom to differentiate between wrong and right advice. Just take a look at them below.. They have started praying for the op downfall.

Nawa oo!!

Animegirl:
Stop having this mentality about us. Is only a frustrated and broke ass person, that talks this way. Sometimes I wonder if you men don't experience mother's love, with the way you talk about women.

Women this, women that.

Shut up it is true. It's you people's nature to be manipulative. If not you won't survive in this world coz most of you are weak to provide substantially for yourselves. The tight fitting dresses are manipulative tactics, the make ups are, the crocodile tears just to mention a few. This one u just posted too is a manipulative tactic to form innocent and hide your manipulative nature. Yes I have a mother and sister and they are manipulative, I have accepted that nature as I think it's an inherent character for all women

kid7soccer:
na woman talk this thing. Chia God go bless you. Better ororo dey your head

I am Smiling...
Amen jare

Jennyclay:
God has finally open this one sense.

Listen to me carefully... Most of these frustrated guys here are weaklings and vegetables in Real Life. But they would come to social media and start forming redpillar and barking like a loose dog... Giving useless advice to people like op.

@op listen to me carefully again... Your relationship is more healthy than these frustrated guys relationships but they are always quick to dish out useless advice to others.

Infact, most of these frustrated guys need serious help in their relationship but they would rather seek advice somewhere else than to bring it here to Nairaland because they don't want be mocked as a wannabe redpiller.

I'm glad that God has given you wisdom to differentiate between wrong and right advice. Just take a look at them below.. They have started praying for the op downfall.

Nawa oo!!

Imagine ur bf uploading his ex's picture on his status, what would you do?, forgive him just like that and move on?...

betshopagent:
why u no wan support ya gender comrade?

I am not a vawulence comrade!

Mina79:
I am not a vawulence comrade!

we the association of he-goat comrades has decided to hand-over the matter of your gender to our Almighty comrade whom is above.

Ballzproblemm:
mumu fall for manipulation thinking say en done win , anyways carry on , until she start to scream her ex name during sex ya eye go clear

Hahaha....Don't mind him. He already knew he could never let the girl go before he came here looking for advice.

Animegirl:
Stop having this mentality about us. Is only a frustrated and broke ass person, that talks this way. Sometimes I wonder if you men don't experience mother's love, with the way you talk about women.

Women this, women that.

It's not like that, sister. It's about their experience with women. Let me cite an example: we were about six seven guys in my corpers' lodge during my nysc year. The only one out of the 7 of us that didn't have at least one sad personal experience to relate about girls was a guy who was a serious born again Christian. Even the alhaji among us was in pains at the time about the strong thing his wife in zamfara do am. So when you see guys talk like this, don't blame them too much because you are female.

EndRape2:
My friend husband ,is on nairaland ,nairaland fools changed the idiot, he started forming alpha male at home, he will cheat on his good wife, and still expect the wife to plead with him, saying he is a man, and men are scarce, he actually stop droping food money at home, that he is sharing responsibility, with the wife, this is a pregnant wife that stops work ,because of bp, the idiot said he is not a simp or her father that will take care of her, and many disgusting attitude the fool pick up, here,

Well good news is that the wife has left her to england for her masters sponsor by her family and she is getting married soon,

The fool has been begging all her friends and family members ,

Disgusting idiot., I cursed him the day he came that I should help him beg his wife, I told him that God will give him a wife that is like him, a wife ,that in his pains she will be forming alpha female.

why would y"all telling stories like this?kinda disrespectful you are not even a constructive liar...so boring

Alaigbopress:
Yesterday as I was with her
I tried to know what she saved my No with
And lo and behold it was "MY OWN"
Apart from this issue of posting her ex pictures, the girl is good in all ramification and I am planning to wife her very soon. Don't worry redpillers you all will be invited to our wedding.

That is screenshot of her Whatsapp Status, the day she was crying heavily.

Don't fall for this sh..t. I've dated girls who were like that. But I always watch out. Watch out. How can your girlfriend post pictures of another man? She's still thinking of him. He's more special to her than you and can still sleep with her easily. That's something that can lead to serious everlasting psychological problem for you especially if you eventually marry her. The red flags are there already but who are we to advise you. Carry go.

betshopagent:
no offence intended pls.just catching cruise oh

lol your girl is not in the country

Gone with the winds

Alaigbopress:
Yesterday as I was with her
I tried to know what she saved my No with
And lo and behold it was "MY OWN"
Apart from this issue of posting her ex pictures, the girl is good in all ramification and I am planning to wife her very soon. Don't worry redpillers you all will be invited to our wedding.

That is screenshot of her Whatsapp Status, the day she was crying heavily.

From the deepest part of my heart.. I wish u all the best

Op is not a wise guy at all, I no dy pity him type . No offense

Animegirl:
Ermm... I don't think my comment as gotten to this level of you mentioning my father. But if this is your best response, well suit yourself. I won't say anything.

That's some real lady right there

betshopagent:
manipulation

I sorry for una oooo

You think everybody is a liar like you, he has even call me, threatening why i post this.




hereuote author=corike post=113097633] why would y"all telling stories like this?kinda disrespectful you are not even a constructive liar...so boring[/quote]

You think all women are manipulative ,because your mum and sisters are manipulative


































quote author=NewSoul post=113095481]
Shut up it is true. It's you people's nature to be manipulative. If not you won't survive in this world coz most of you are weak to provide substantially for yourselves. The tight fitting dresses are manipulative tactics, the make ups are, the crocodile tears just to mention a few. This one u just posted too is a manipulative tactic to form innocent and hide your manipulative nature. Yes I have a mother and sister and they are manipulative, I have accepted that nature as I think it's an inherent character for all women[/quote]

garriAndsugar:
Women are really smart and know how to use manipulation to get what they want.

The same way some women manipulate their husbands to neglect their friends and sometimes family members just to be with them alone while they stick to their own friends.

Same way some mothers manipulate their children to become enemies with their own enemies for no just cause.

Now that the OP has been successfully manipulated there's no difference between him and someone that's stuck in a bottle.

He will still be thinking he's in a relationship with his girlfriend while she's still dating her ex but using him as backup.

Anyways we will still be here to console you even if you're taking us for granted we forgive you

Women are really smart


Yet Women are fish brained

Males on nairaland can’t even be taken seriously

Bobmarie:
Women are really smart


Yet Women are fish brained

Males on nairaland can’t even be taken seriously

Ok