infonet247:
A friend of mine rush into my apartment now crying....
He has been married for 7 years now no child yet but went secretly to the village with his people to marry another wife. Now he is asking me how will he face the first wife and tell him he has another wife!
I no dey put mouth for family matter, i just tell am make we sleep first. Tomorow i go ask nairalanders.
Over to una.

Ur FRIEND rushed into ur apartment like right now just few minutes pas 2am to seek for advice? Bro, u sure say na true u dey even tell us in the first place so?

How did you tell your second wife you want to marry her

frebor:
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Wow!

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This is the best thing I have read on NL today

You are like God catch am.

Coronavirus84:
Me: My love e done happen ooooo
My wife: Wetin happen my dear
Me: I dreamt and in my dream I see two people doing marriage
My wife: Wetin come concern you and people marriage in ur dream
Me: the lady in the marriage dream is even pregnant
My wife: Haaa maybe God want to answer our prayer
Me: Noooooo, the lady dey lie say na me get am and am confused
My wife: How now? Are u cheating on me my dear despite all the things have done for u
Me: My love no no no, I don't think am the owner of that pregnant but for the sake of God make we accept the baby and the mother
My wife: How now my dear? Accepting a baby and the mother u saw in your dream
Me: Noooooo , they are in the village
My wife: I no go gry for this house

Lol

This is very complicated

infonet247:
A friend of mine rush into my apartment now crying....
He has been married for 7 years now no child yet but went secretly to the village with his people to marry another wife. Now he is asking me how will he face the first wife and tell him he has another wife!
I no dey put mouth for family matter, i just tell am make we sleep first. Tomorow i go ask nairalanders.
Over to una.

He should also go with his people to inform his wife.


Also tell him, to be ready as he can die anytime

dmostcheerful:
When you are childless the first thing you should do is go to the hospital for examination to know who have issues between you both.
My ex neighbor hurriedly married another wife after 5yrs of childlessness, his first wife left cause he married someone else, one yr later she became pregnant, currently baba is still childless after wife number two.
Unfortunately for him everyone now knows he isn't even a man.
What if your friend is infertile?
Back on the issue, he should man up and tell his wife, it's left for her to stay or leave.

we know you are living,but continue

This is harsh mehn

MrBrownJay1:
hhmm you should let her know WAY BEFORE you marry the other one, so that you let her get used to the idea.... regardless of whether she is childless or not, it says a lot about a man and the respect he has for his wife/marriage, if you dont even have the decency to tell your wife about it beforehand.

its not like it would be difficult anyway:"baby, you aint getting pregnant for so many years so, due to family/peer/religious pressure, i have to marry another wife"

Offpoint1:

You just concluded the woman is the one who can't conceive, when you know nothing about their medical records.
What if it's the man that is infertile?

In most cases, when the man is the problem, the woman for don japa.

Woman no get that kind endurance.

infonet247:
A friend of mine rush into my apartment now crying....
He has been married for 7 years now no child yet but went secretly to the village with his people to marry another wife. Now he is asking me how will he face the first wife and tell him he has another wife!
I no dey put mouth for family matter, i just tell am make we sleep first. Tomorow i go ask nairalanders.
Over to una.

nothing on Earth will make me marry a second wife,so long both of us are healthy and alive,instead I will adopt a child ,one wife is already a handful and I will think of another one,that your friend just disturbed the hornet nest,a man that is ready for two women will be a brave non nonsense man,he is still wondering how to tell first wife of his decision,that shows he is not ready for that but pushed by his family,the matter should have be trashed and resolved before he will even embark on the perilous journey

Why don't he informed her for the first place, two trouble one God

Kobojunkie:
Your coward of a friend can't face his wife but he comes in to offload on you? Why do you folks sign up to be friends with these kind of folks for Pete's sake?

bird of the same feather

infonet247:
A friend of mine rush into my apartment now crying....
He has been married for 7 years now no child yet but went secretly to the village with his people to marry another wife. Now he is asking me how will he face the first wife and tell him he has another wife!
I no dey put mouth for family matter, i just tell am make we sleep first. Tomorow i go ask nairalanders.
Over to una.

Is he related to Yul Edochie?

Sweet heart i just married a second wife to help us

please ma help me with little amount to eat the hunger is unbearable please help a brother help ll never depart from you
066 Seventy 96 036
Gtb

infonet247:
A friend of mine rush into my apartment now crying....
He has been married for 7 years now no child yet but went secretly to the village with his people to marry another wife. Now he is asking me how will he face the first wife and tell him he has another wife!
I no dey put mouth for family matter, i just tell am make we sleep first. Tomorow i go ask nairalanders.
Over to una.

He should ask Yul Edochie

Karleb:


Everywhere go catch fire but later on, dem go quench am. It's not safe but it's still a better option.

The man should go ahead with his plans, no woman will stay put with a man that can't conceive for 7 years. You only see them staying when they are the problem.

U GAt D POINT, A WOMAN CAN ONLY StAy IN D MARRIAGE IF SHE IS D PRoBLEM

Justpassingby45:
Are you talking about the first good wife or the first bad wife

which one is first good wife and the bad one?

By letting her know from beginning when una mate that she may not be the only one u Will marry.then she will decide weda to be with u or leave.in the nearest future,if u decide to marry another woman then she wouldn't feel betray.just be honest from beginning.

joeking2222:

Ur FRIEND rushed into ur apartment like right now just few minutes pas 2am to seek for advice? Bro, u sure say na true u dey even tell us in the first place so?

as for me ma ask Google them sabi give answer weller even though you want to learn arm robbery Google go kindly lead you well to your grave yard.

infonet247:
A friend of mine rush into my apartment now crying....
He has been married for 7 years now no child yet but went secretly to the village with his people to marry another wife. Now he is asking me how will he face the first wife and tell him he has another wife!
I no dey put mouth for family matter, i just tell am make we sleep first. Tomorow i go ask nairalanders.
Over to una.

You mean he went to marry another woman and he came crying like a pus..ssy to you?

Lol.

infonet247:
A friend of mine rush into my apartment now crying....
He has been married for 7 years now no child yet but went secretly to the village with his people to marry another wife. Now he is asking me how will he face the first wife and tell him he has another wife!
I no dey put mouth for family matter, i just tell am make we sleep first. Tomorow i go ask nairalanders.
Over to una.

just give his wife's number the rest would be history.

infonet247:
A friend of mine rush into my apartment now crying....
He has been married for 7 years now no child yet but went secretly to the village with his people to marry another wife. Now he is asking me how will he face the first wife and tell him he has another wife!
I no dey put mouth for family matter, i just tell am make we sleep first. Tomorow i go ask nairalanders.
Over to una.

Please consult your Bible. As a Christian, everything you do should be in accordance with Biblical injunction.

But, what of if the medical condition preventing pregnancy is from the husband body? Should the wife too get s second husband?

Boldly and confidently tell her you have another wife elsewhere....
Two things involved either she leave or stay.
For those saying you would have discussed with your wife is just a bunch jokers.
Treat her the best you can do.i believe you have certified you ate not cause of her child barrenness.
Thanks.

Your friend made a mistake, instead of rushing to get a second wife, he should have impregnated the second girl first, to avoid keeping two childless wife at home.
He should be a man and tell his wife

So, he could not stay patient and wait on the Lord for a miracle? Or at least try other fertility means?

But, women can stay for years if the situation was reversed? Please, explain because I don't understand.

If paraventure I got married to a second wife I tink I will let my first wife know through her family and my family because I can't be able to face alone to inform her that am married to a second to avoid from poison my food over the night because most don't joke with a thing like that

Kai! This is very wicked and insensitive of you. How are we sure that you are not the cause of the childlessness?

infonet247:
A friend of mine rush into my apartment now crying....
He has been married for 7 years now no child yet but went secretly to the village with his people to marry another wife. Now he is asking me how will he face the first wife and tell him he has another wife!
I no dey put mouth for family matter, i just tell am make we sleep first. Tomorow i go ask nairalanders.
Over to una.

So na we good to put mouth for family matter na? Anyways, if his wife is good and loyal to him, make him jus go hang himself. Because him don Bleep up.
But if she's nothing special, make him tell her anyhow. Infact make him use the avenue pursue her comot for the house sef. No time.

See how people are commenting in a civilized manner on front page.
No single person is calling him a wh*ore.
No one is saying, "fear men".
No one is saying, "Nigerian men are useless"

IF THIS ISN'T MALE PRIVILEGE, THEN I DON'T KNOW WHAT THIS IS.

But If a married woman ask how she will tell her husband she is pregnant for another man now, the front page will catch fire with insults and so called redokpillas will be everywhere cursing.


Men have this kind of privilege yet weak red okpillas are still crying that men spend more money in relationships. You people want to have everything to your advantage abi? Greedy lots.

You will insult women for having bad character even when your own character is zero.

You will insult a woman for being fat and not having shape even when you don't one pack talkless of 6.

You will insult women for not knowing how to cook even when your own cooking taste like devil's armpit.

You will insult women for not neatly cleaning the house even though you can wear one boxers for 3 days.

You will insult women for not being beautiful even when you look like an ancient gorilla yourself..

Etc etc

Male privileges everywhere...

Yet,only to spend more in relationship, you will start crying and saying Nigerian girls are useless. Nonsense and ingredients...

Kobojunkie:
Your coward of a friend can't face his wife but he comes in to offload on you? Why do you folks sign up to be friends with these kind of folks for Pete's sake?

Stop calling people coward upandan.


If ur brain is working u should know that in this kind of situation, friends are in the possible position to confide in.

How can u go alone to ur wife and be saying gibberish that u married another woman behind her?? Dont u have any respect for her at all??

If u can do that others cant do it, imbecilê.