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Re: After Suffering With Him, He Dumped Me...i'm Dying by Horlarkanme: 9:46pm On May 27, 2022
Onyi22:
You r crying over a broke Nigeria guy who is not worth your tear, next time go for Money not Love
Op, I hope you check her profile before giving in to her advice, it will only end In premium tears… there is no straight road to experiencing a smooth life… either you do good or bad, if you go collect you go collect ooo… if you are truly a good continue and if you have some glitches adjust…. Someone good will surely come your way…. Abeg no forget karma doesn’t affect everyone ooo

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Re: After Suffering With Him, He Dumped Me...i'm Dying by STENON(f): 9:46pm On May 27, 2022
Gracelander:
I never knew this is what heart break feels like, I'm shattered and broken.

I started dating him from 100 level till we graduated, it's been five years now. We suffered and passed through a lot together, I made a lot of sacrifices for him and even had two painful abortions for him.

But he always complained that I got fat and he liked slim girls, he broke up with me in the most excruciating manner. I noticed changes a few months back but he kept lying to me not knowing he was seeing another girl.

The girl chatted me up few days back to know her stand and I told her everything, he even posted pictures he had with the girl, this is someone that hates pictures and hardly takes one with me regardless of how much I beg. He doesn't even post his own pictures but he's already posting the girls pictures.

The girl is his spec and more attractive than me... I'm just ashamed of myself. The girl decided to stick with him even after everything I told her so she could leave him including the abortion part.

I've wished him well but I'm in serious pain, I've been crying for days now and unable to eat. I gave him everything, he was my first ever guy. I wish he could come back, I'm ready to forgive him.

How can move on from this heart break, it's killing me slowly.
Sorry Dear. Go and party hard. You won't remember his existence again
Re: After Suffering With Him, He Dumped Me...i'm Dying by Legendoo: 9:46pm On May 27, 2022
Fake story. You mean them break the heart of a naija girl?

Lie lie. They want us to believe they can suffer with a guy . Continue lying while you dey do run's and have 5 different boyfriends join.
Re: After Suffering With Him, He Dumped Me...i'm Dying by nedekid: 9:47pm On May 27, 2022
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Re: After Suffering With Him, He Dumped Me...i'm Dying by Xpress24(m): 9:47pm On May 27, 2022
Candidlady:
Ihate reading things like this
Very annoying
What y'all seeing in this gender undecided
Falling inlove with cursed beings try
This gender can only bring pains
did u fall from the sky?if no,u are also cursed

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Re: After Suffering With Him, He Dumped Me...i'm Dying by SimplePlan34: 9:47pm On May 27, 2022
Hey let me tell u just know u are lucky I mean real lucky u see this thing some women understand after marriage. With kids then the guy abandon them with kids then Ur depression no go be here. I tell u a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage. I know a lady with 3 children who husband left her cos she has put on weight just thank Ur God say Na relationship.

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Re: After Suffering With Him, He Dumped Me...i'm Dying by ArcSEMPECJ(m): 9:47pm On May 27, 2022
Gracelander:
I never knew this is what heart break feels like, I'm shattered and broken.

I started dating him from 100 level till we graduated, it's been five years now. We suffered and passed through a lot together, I made a lot of sacrifices for him and even had two painful abortions for him.

But he always complained that I got fat and he liked slim girls, he broke up with me in the most excruciating manner. I noticed changes a few months back but he kept lying to me not knowing he was seeing another girl.

The girl chatted me up few days back to know her stand and I told her everything, he even posted pictures he had with the girl, this is someone that hates pictures and hardly takes one with me regardless of how much I beg. He doesn't even post his own pictures but he's already posting the girls pictures.

The girl is his spec and more attractive than me... I'm just ashamed of myself. The girl decided to stick with him even after everything I told her so she could leave him including the abortion part.

I've wished him well but I'm in serious pain, I've been crying for days now and unable to eat. I gave him everything, he was my first ever guy. I wish he could come back, I'm ready to forgive him.

How can move on from this heart break, it's killing me slowly.

Hmmmm, quite a bad experience, just look at the innocent heart this guy messed up , how can she love genuinely again ?

My dear, I believe you are born to live for a purpose, pls seek the face of God to heal you completely....

One day, the guy that will be there for the purpose of your birth will be in front of you making sacrifices of love for you....

Clean your tears and be bold for the God that created you .
Re: After Suffering With Him, He Dumped Me...i'm Dying by Nobody: 9:48pm On May 27, 2022
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Congratulations for Killing 2 innocent Babies undecided
Re: After Suffering With Him, He Dumped Me...i'm Dying by Kingcalls: 9:48pm On May 27, 2022
Women and manipulation...u only stuck with him cos u are not desired by other men ....u described urself as fat and unattractive, what did u expect?? Broke nen also get dumped by women for richer guys , so don't come play victim card here .... if u were pretty, attractive and desired by men, u for don dump the guy since ... we know u women

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Re: After Suffering With Him, He Dumped Me...i'm Dying by ccokwara: 9:48pm On May 27, 2022
Gracelander:
I never knew this is what heart break feels like, I'm shattered and broken.

I started dating him from 100 level till we graduated, it's been five years now. We suffered and passed through a lot together, I made a lot of sacrifices for him and even had two painful abortions for him.

But he always complained that I got fat and he liked slim girls, he broke up with me in the most excruciating manner. I noticed changes a few months back but he kept lying to me not knowing he was seeing another girl.

The girl chatted me up few days back to know her stand and I told her everything, he even posted pictures he had with the girl, this is someone that hates pictures and hardly takes one with me regardless of how much I beg. He doesn't even post his own pictures but he's already posting the girls pictures.

The girl is his spec and more attractive than me... I'm just ashamed of myself. The girl decided to stick with him even after everything I told her so she could leave him including the abortion part.

I've wished him well but I'm in serious pain, I've been crying for days now and unable to eat. I gave him everything, he was my first ever guy. I wish he could come back, I'm ready to forgive him.

How can move on from this heart break, it's killing me slowly.

What is the meaning of "after suffering with him"?
Re: After Suffering With Him, He Dumped Me...i'm Dying by Mendy101: 9:48pm On May 27, 2022
Gracelander:
I never knew this is what heart break feels like, I'm shattered and broken.

I started dating him from 100 level till we graduated, it's been five years now. We suffered and passed through a lot together, I made a lot of sacrifices for him and even had two painful abortions for him.

But he always complained that I got fat and he liked slim girls, he broke up with me in the most excruciating manner. I noticed changes a few months back but he kept lying to me not knowing he was seeing another girl.

The girl chatted me up few days back to know her stand and I told her everything, he even posted pictures he had with the girl, this is someone that hates pictures and hardly takes one with me regardless of how much I beg. He doesn't even post his own pictures but he's already posting the girls pictures.

The girl is his spec and more attractive than me... I'm just ashamed of myself. The girl decided to stick with him even after everything I told her so she could leave him including the abortion part.

I've wished him well but I'm in serious pain, I've been crying for days now and unable to eat. I gave him everything, he was my first ever guy. I wish he could come back, I'm ready to forgive him.

How can move on from this heart break, it's killing me slowly.
So sorry, you will fine, embrace love songs, Yea cry it out, let it flow, then when you can cry no more, get a hobby online or offline, good hobby o and make effort towards make yourself attractive again, change dress pattern, change your hairdo whatever, join the gym club or something.. In 2 months you should be good. Don't think about him or how happy he is just block him abeg trust me you will realize later that you can do without him... Wish him the best and move on

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Re: After Suffering With Him, He Dumped Me...i'm Dying by Berankis: 9:48pm On May 27, 2022
Honestly you will be fine, stronger, more experienced and better positioned for the future. You will not die though it is tough getting through but you will be a better person for it.

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Re: After Suffering With Him, He Dumped Me...i'm Dying by Delacroix6(m): 9:49pm On May 27, 2022
You will heal.
It's sad that you are going through this.
Maybe he's not the right guy for you.
You will find someone better Soon and you are gonna remember this moment be happy that y'all call it quits because you are gonna find someone better.
Re: After Suffering With Him, He Dumped Me...i'm Dying by ukaface(f): 9:49pm On May 27, 2022
Don't wish him well @op. Don't.
You can't be hurting and feel bad and still wish the idiot well. Knowing he is doing well sef, will hurt you the more. So say a prayer for yourself, go get better, it won't be easy to let go of the memories. Each time you remember what you went thru you will cry o, correct tears. But then, just let it go. Shake yourself up and do you, concentrate on yourself sis.

Assuming say I be winch I for fight this matter for you, this thing dey always vex me.

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Re: After Suffering With Him, He Dumped Me...i'm Dying by sugarbeesmith(m): 9:49pm On May 27, 2022
Gracelander:
I never knew this is what heart break feels like, I'm shattered and broken.

I started dating him from 100 level till we graduated, it's been five years now. We suffered and passed through a lot together, I made a lot of sacrifices for him and even had two painful abortions for him.

But he always complained that I got fat and he liked slim girls, he broke up with me in the most excruciating manner. I noticed changes a few months back but he kept lying to me not knowing he was seeing another girl.

The girl chatted me up few days back to know her stand and I told her everything, he even posted pictures he had with the girl, this is someone that hates pictures and hardly takes one with me regardless of how much I beg. He doesn't even post his own pictures but he's already posting the girls pictures.

The girl is his spec and more attractive than me... I'm just ashamed of myself. The girl decided to stick with him even after everything I told her so she could leave him including the abortion part.

I've wished him well but I'm in serious pain, I've been crying for days now and unable to eat. I gave him everything, he was my first ever guy. I wish he could come back, I'm ready to forgive him.

How can move on from this heart break, it's killing me slowly.
. There's always someone for u..just work on yourself and move on ..block both of them
Re: After Suffering With Him, He Dumped Me...i'm Dying by Nobody: 9:49pm On May 27, 2022
Honestly, what stopped her from dumping same man? Is she not capable of such?
Why does such resonate when it is the man that's dumping?
Re: After Suffering With Him, He Dumped Me...i'm Dying by elsiusgr8t(m): 9:49pm On May 27, 2022
Onyi22:
You r crying over a broke Nigeria guy who is not worth your tear, next time go for Money not Love

Next time go for right words/grammar


It's Broke Nigerian guy.... Not Broke Nigeria guy

It's tears .... Not tear

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Re: After Suffering With Him, He Dumped Me...i'm Dying by chatinent: 9:50pm On May 27, 2022
You actually ruined your life yourself.
Re: After Suffering With Him, He Dumped Me...i'm Dying by Kingcalls: 9:50pm On May 27, 2022
Candidlady:
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Your fad must have slaved your mod away for you to have such disgusting mentality

kai
kachirubanka



Ur soul is warming up for the next " father pls tale me to my husband home " praise and worship coming some grin grin grin... its certain u are on urcway to ending up single old and grumpy grin grin grin
Re: After Suffering With Him, He Dumped Me...i'm Dying by godwineff: 9:50pm On May 27, 2022
And who told you the new found girl is more attracted than you?. My dear stop demeaning yourself. They are not worth your tears.

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Re: After Suffering With Him, He Dumped Me...i'm Dying by Newton2024: 9:50pm On May 27, 2022
Gracelander:
I never knew this is what heart break feels like, I'm shattered and broken.

I started dating him from 100 level till we graduated, it's been five years now. We suffered and passed through a lot together, I made a lot of sacrifices for him and even had two painful abortions for him.

But he always complained that I got fat and he liked slim girls, he broke up with me in the most excruciating manner. I noticed changes a few months back but he kept lying to me not knowing he was seeing another girl.

The girl chatted me up few days back to know her stand and I told her everything, he even posted pictures he had with the girl, this is someone that hates pictures and hardly takes one with me regardless of how much I beg. He doesn't even post his own pictures but he's already posting the girls pictures.

The girl is his spec and more attractive than me... I'm just ashamed of myself. The girl decided to stick with him even after everything I told her so she could leave him including the abortion part.

I've wished him well but I'm in serious pain, I've been crying for days now and unable to eat. I gave him everything, he was my first ever guy. I wish he could come back, I'm ready to forgive him.

How can move on from this heart break, it's killing me slowly.
Premarital sex don't use to end well. Never allow any man to have access to your vagina again until wedding night. So that he can value and cherish you. So that he can take you serious. Your body is the temple of God.
Re: After Suffering With Him, He Dumped Me...i'm Dying by AfroKnight: 9:51pm On May 27, 2022
Nonsense talk. You suffered with him or you were the reason for his suffering? Did you alleviate his stress or you contributed to his lack of money by collecting even the little he had?

Better thank your stars there are no children involved. You can start over elsewhere.

You didn’t suffer with him. You two were just broke. That’s all.
Re: After Suffering With Him, He Dumped Me...i'm Dying by Cheryph200(m): 9:51pm On May 27, 2022
Babe wey get 4 abortions for me sef no die ,she still waka leave me
Re: After Suffering With Him, He Dumped Me...i'm Dying by zoroby(m): 9:51pm On May 27, 2022
SarutobiEky:
jus look at! undecided embarassedna person born this she goat o

Hahahah
Re: After Suffering With Him, He Dumped Me...i'm Dying by jrobbins: 9:52pm On May 27, 2022
Gracelander:
I never knew this is what heart break feels like, I'm shattered and broken.

I started dating him from 100 level till we graduated, it's been five years now. We suffered and passed through a lot together, I made a lot of sacrifices for him and even had two painful abortions for him.

But he always complained that I got fat and he liked slim girls, he broke up with me in the most excruciating manner. I noticed changes a few months back but he kept lying to me not knowing he was seeing another girl.

The girl chatted me up few days back to know her stand and I told her everything, he even posted pictures he had with the girl, this is someone that hates pictures and hardly takes one with me regardless of how much I beg. He doesn't even post his own pictures but he's already posting the girls pictures.

The girl is his spec and more attractive than me... I'm just ashamed of myself. The girl decided to stick with him even after everything I told her so she could leave him including the abortion part.

I've wished him well but I'm in serious pain, I've been crying for days now and unable to eat. I gave him everything, he was my first ever guy. I wish he could come back, I'm ready to forgive him.

How can move on from this heart break, it's killing me slowly.

Sorry

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Re: After Suffering With Him, He Dumped Me...i'm Dying by Nobody: 9:52pm On May 27, 2022
This is deep�
Serenitys:

Nope, she is in love and fighting to let go..
Jumping into Love or relationship will not heal the broken part.
She needs to heal, same with me.
Re: After Suffering With Him, He Dumped Me...i'm Dying by Antyxx: 9:52pm On May 27, 2022
This is what happens when a Nigeriaan girl loves a broke Nigerian Guy. The reason she left you iss because you are looking poor bla bla bla, dont ever dat for love, you no go hear

Nigerian men only value material things, more than love. They only love girls who can double date to finance big girl looks

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Re: After Suffering With Him, He Dumped Me...i'm Dying by Miracle2020: 9:52pm On May 27, 2022
The blood of those children will never allow you to see peace. I pray that you will continue having heart break, nobody will ever marry you. May God never allow you to test the sweetness of marriage and may you never be pregnant again.
Re: After Suffering With Him, He Dumped Me...i'm Dying by faithfull18(f): 9:53pm On May 27, 2022
Good for you. Stop sleeping with guys you aren't married to. You won't listen. If sex wasn't involved, you won't feel this much pain. A lady loses more when she sleeps with a guy and still go ahead to abort for someone she isn't married to. It's the hard truth.

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Re: After Suffering With Him, He Dumped Me...i'm Dying by Candidlady: 9:53pm On May 27, 2022
Kingcalls:


Ur soul is warming up for the next " father pls tale me to my husband home " praise and worship coming some grin grin grin... its certain u are on urcway to ending up single old and grumpy grin grin grin

Have a lovely weekend Mr
Re: After Suffering With Him, He Dumped Me...i'm Dying by Nobody: 9:53pm On May 27, 2022
If you had your own money and was in shape,
This wouldn't happen.


Go work on yourself dear Queen
Make money and stay in shape,
Forget love

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