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Gracelander:
I never knew this is what heart break feels like, I'm shattered and broken.

I started dating him from 100 level till we graduated, it's been five years now. We suffered and passed through a lot together, I made a lot of sacrifices for him and even had two painful abortions for him.

But he always complained that I got fat and he liked slim girls, he broke up with me in the most excruciating manner. I noticed changes a few months back but he kept lying to me not knowing he was seeing another girl.

The girl chatted me up few days back to know her stand and I told her everything, he even posted pictures he had with the girl, this is someone that hates pictures and hardly takes one with me regardless of how much I beg. He doesn't even post his own pictures but he's already posting the girls pictures.

The girl is his spec and more attractive than me... I'm just ashamed of myself. The girl decided to stick with him even after everything I told her so she could leave him including the abortion part.

I've wished him well but I'm in serious pain, I've been crying for days now and unable to eat. I gave him everything, he was my first ever guy. I wish he could come back, I'm ready to forgive him.

How can move on from this heart break, it's killing me slowly.

You are responsible for actions that's what you get for Fornicating and being so cheap, most of you girls think sex can keep a man that's where you girls got it wrong , so deal with the choices you made .

TAROTSEER:
and a preek to cry on

To moan on

Gracelander:
I never knew this is what heart break feels like, I'm shattered and broken.

I started dating him from 100 level till we graduated, it's been five years now. We suffered and passed through a lot together, I made a lot of sacrifices for him and even had two painful abortions for him.

But he always complained that I got fat and he liked slim girls, he broke up with me in the most excruciating manner. I noticed changes a few months back but he kept lying to me not knowing he was seeing another girl.

The girl chatted me up few days back to know her stand and I told her everything, he even posted pictures he had with the girl, this is someone that hates pictures and hardly takes one with me regardless of how much I beg. He doesn't even post his own pictures but he's already posting the girls pictures.

The girl is his spec and more attractive than me... I'm just ashamed of myself. The girl decided to stick with him even after everything I told her so she could leave him including the abortion part.

I've wished him well but I'm in serious pain, I've been crying for days now and unable to eat. I gave him everything, he was my first ever guy. I wish he could come back, I'm ready to forgive him.

How can move on from this heart break, it's killing me slowly.

It's well dear, sha know your worth, don't act shameless and bring shame to your family unknowingly. It's hurt really but time will heal.

You need to learn detachment...

Newton2024:
Premarital sex don't use to end well. Never allow any man to have access to your vagina again until wedding night. So that he can value and cherish you. So that he can take you serious. Your body is the temple of God.

Is it marriages that end well?
LIFE is filled with uncertainties.
Just handle each as they come...
It's only those in d GRAVES dat do not suffer pain.
IF you are the type that always expects a rosy Life all through then you must be joking.
Maturity is how you handle each malady..

Gracelander:
He was perfect till we graduated, money was not the bane of the relationship because we were both students most time we knew so we were both broke.

If I were you, I will move on with my life.

Gracelander:
I never knew this is what heart break feels like, I'm shattered and broken.

I started dating him from 100 level till we graduated, it's been five years now. We suffered and passed through a lot together, I made a lot of sacrifices for him and even had two painful abortions for him.

But he always complained that I got fat and he liked slim girls, he broke up with me in the most excruciating manner. I noticed changes a few months back but he kept lying to me not knowing he was seeing another girl.

The girl chatted me up few days back to know her stand and I told her everything, he even posted pictures he had with the girl, this is someone that hates pictures and hardly takes one with me regardless of how much I beg. He doesn't even post his own pictures but he's already posting the girls pictures.

The girl is his spec and more attractive than me... I'm just ashamed of myself. The girl decided to stick with him even after everything I told her so she could leave him including the abortion part.

I've wished him well but I'm in serious pain, I've been crying for days now and unable to eat. I gave him everything, he was my first ever guy. I wish he could come back, I'm ready to forgive him.

How can move on from this heart break, it's killing me slowly.

Fake nairaland story ..........Una done come again....

Can you imagine a 100 level student seriously engaged and even committed two abortions for the guy. How on earth do you think the guy will marry you?

It is sad that ladies don't know that men know who they want to marry but don't know the type of person they will marry.

Ladies, in the other way round, don't know who they want to marry but they know the type of man that they want to marry.

You played the game too fast and far. Don't kill yourself with cry. Gather yourself together, trace your life to Christ. Ask God to forgive you your sins. Don't allow your life to be wasted by any man again.

Pray to God for good husband. He will surely give you. Shalom.

Onyi22:
You r crying over a broke Nigeria guy who is not worth your tear, next time go for Money not Love

Says a lady raised in a face me I slap you .
Y'all so derogatory...

Why I can't ever date as Nigerian girl.

ukaface:
wetin this one dey talk?
Guys have experienced worse, so she should act like everything is cool with her even though she's hurting?
Didn't you read the part where she said she helped him, gave her all?

how many abortion have you done

You posted this December last year and you still waited until He dumped you?
Na only God go help girls,you don't love with your brain

Dam'm niggas heart don break...ooo abeg go buy gum to tie up your heart

Gracelander
I see the breakup as a good thing. He'd have hurt you more if you married him.

Now, you can start regaining your happiness by exercising to lose weight. Exercise is a double blessing for you: It not only helps you cut down the excess fat , but in addition, it boosts your mood. You'll become cheerful again. I have been there.

Make exercise part of your life. You can even start a Tiktok channel telling your story. Educate and entertain your audience daily about what exercise tips that work and ones that don't. People on Tiktok love stories. It is just human nature to poke into other people's lives.

If you need him to be happy, then you're not happy. If you can still be happy without him, then you're happy.

The primary reason why you put on those pounds was likely caused by the abortions you did. It is like post-pregnancy fat. He too will one day start adding fat. By his mid-30s, at most. Many men feel they can be fat but their wives must be otherwise. This is simply a selfish view. His new girlfriend after the first or second baby too will put on weight that will be hard to shed. Will he still be there for her?

Anyways, it is always best to be slim. We Nigerians are a lazy bunch and many even feel that being fat is a sign of good living. We only think that way as malnutrition is still a problem here due to poverty.

The best happiness comes not from physical exercise but from knowing our heavenly father and doing his will (Read John Luke 11:28; 17:3). If you do want to serve your heavenly father and know him well, visit www.jw.org and request a free online bible study today. It is the best decision you can ever make

Gracelander:
I never knew this is what heart break feels like, I'm shattered and broken.



But he always complained that I got fat and he liked slim girls, he broke up with me in the most excruciating manner. I noticed changes a few months back but he kept lying to me not knowing he was seeing another girl.
The girl chatted me up few days back to know her stand and I told her everything, he even posted pictures he had with the girl, this is someone that hates pictures and hardly takes one with me regardless of how much I beg. He doesn't even post his own pictures but he's already posting the girls pictures.

The girl is his spec and more attractive than me... I'm just ashamed of myself. The girl decided to stick with him even after everything I told her so she could leave him including the abortion part.

I've wished him well but I'm in serious pain, I've been crying for days now and unable to eat. I gave him everything, he was my first ever guy. I wish he could come back, I'm ready to forgive him.

How can move on from this heart break, it's killing me slowly.

To start with, let me call you Grace.
That's a special name and likely that's your name.
So Grace, listen; it is quite natural to feel heart broken after a failed relationship that u gave so much into. I feel your pain. But It's Ok.
But trust me, that guy wasn't meant for you. He doesn't even deserve you.
So weep you tears and move on. You will definitely be better off without him.
You know what you gonna do?
Tomorrow, dress up nicely, take a little cash with you, find some friends and spend the evening having a good "decent" fun... No hanging out with guys. Just an all girls out thing. Make sure u smile and laugh a lot to wipe away the tears u have had for days.
Then on Sunday go to church and have a good service and thank God you just walked pass a bad marriage.
It's better to be heart broken in a relationship than to be heart broken in marriage for life.
Trust me Grace, it was all good for. You will fair better without the useless man.
Nothing that is yours can ever pass u by. He wasn't meant for you.
A better man will come your way and you will be thankful this relationship didn't work out.

Life na come and go. You go dey alright, last last.

With time u ll b okay

Painful story dear but try to let go and let nature take its course.
Start with working on yourself to become a better person mentally, financially and even physically.
He will be visited with his own cup of tea along the line.
You seem like a good girl, don't worry ehn. You will be fine over time.
Take time to heal, forgive and forget.
Better bọbọ go locate you for marriage laslas either early or later so enjoy yourself. Remember God loves you.

Onyi22:
You r crying over a broke Nigeria guy who is not worth your tear, next time go for Money not Love

WTF!??

That's why Yahoo boys use girls for rituals

I'm sorry for your mentality

Candidlady:
Ihate reading things like this
Very annoying
What y'all seeing in this gender
Falling inlove with cursed beings try
This gender can only bring pains

You're cursed already. Spit on your dead soul.

OnlineArchitect:
Come, I'll give you a shoulder to lean on.

A shoulder to lean on, becomes a dick to ride on most times. But last last everybody go chop breakfast. Whether served cold, hot or warm

TAROTSEER:
and a preek to cry on �

if you want ask.

Don't be shy

meobizy:
Life na come and go. You go dey alright, last last.

Best Advice!

No guy will want to settle down with an abortionist and that is what most ladies fail to understand...I really understand your excruciating state but you have no choice but to move on...take heart sis

Normally school love dies after graduation

Join my workout routine shed some weight a Better Brother go find you don't weep for no one it's never worth it. It's better he left now that he leaves after getting you actually pregnant...

Candidlady:
Ihate reading things like this
Very annoying
What y'all seeing in this gender
Falling inlove with cursed beings try
This gender can only bring pains

you don't deal with men?

I'm sure you'll know the best brands of diilldos

Las Las na Shiloh go end am

Onyi22:
What do you know about a guy being perfect??
He was perfect n yet he still dumb you for another lady, don't give all your heart to a Nigerian guy, don't suffer or struggle with him, they are not worth the sacrifice my dear, they are all Useless

i hate this ideology

It's full.of bitterness and hatred for th3 opposite gender
Girls do the same also

That one no concern me.
For u to have that kain mind to do abortion,kill two foetus is likened to a murderer and heartless person.

ucheanderson24:
No guy will want to settle down with an abortionist and that is what most ladies fail to understand...I really understand your excruciating state but you have no choice but to move on...take heart sis

Abortion no be disease but aborting with your proposed future partner might means no future between una sha no doubt.

not likened, it is murder.

gbemishile:
That one no concern me.
For u to have that kain mind to do abortion,kill two foetus is likened to a murderer and heartless person.

Serenitys:
I read your post, I feel very sorry for you that i cried..
I had similar experience but i am a guy..
Loyalty is the hardest thing to find on earth..
To me it's worth more than love..
Can i contact you?

You say wetin