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hardon1:
When prick full everywhere u still dey masturbate

You are an idiot

osazsky:
u can pull out...ask your members the procedures they will not want to tell u but if u pesist they will..but the process is dificult

Why do people join cult? Low self esteem I guess

Wale0073245:
I regret coming from a poor home ,I'm the bread winner at a young age losing my mind can't focus.God please send a helper even if it's just to help me with the purchase of a laptop

GOD will help u ijn
i saw ur email but i cant reply i lost the password
.good morning how r u?

spiceadole:
Ever taking sides with my mother while she suffered DV in the hands of my father.

I regret all the care and protection I gave her.
If I had known, I would have ignored her and allow him continue to beat her

Why

GoldenCrown1160:
Send mail to me I will give u the 5k
charlesgoldencrown@gmail.com

If na man now, you for no show love o

ThatsONYI:


Growing up without a father
Leaving my parents partially less than 12
Going for nwaboi apprenticeship program, I fuxking hate and regret it with everything in me (I got nothing out of it, I was instead accused of stealing millions because I asked them to sign an agreement of how long I'mma stay but got nothing but hate... Had to make a move because they killed my future.. spent 16, 17, 18, 19 there for nothing but hate, manipulation, threats, accusations, abuse etc).
Killed my ambition of going to school but I must go back (fxck those idiots).
Met the most abusive human ever (*heartbroken*)
Having an older bro that's handicapped completely, I wish my bro is healthy..

And many things, I can't say here.

Regardless of everything, I'mma go hard for my family..

(Modified) oh yeah, being born a Nigerian.

You've gone through alot. You should try therapy.

Beautygoddesss:
wat happened

I grew up seeing my father always beating my mum.
It was impossible for my parents to stay for 24 hours without a fight.
If he is not physically abusive, he is verbally abusing her.
I don't think I saw my parents gist and laugh up to 3 times in all the years I lived with them.

My dad did the most unimaginable things to my mum.. Sometimes, she landed in hospital.

In 2015,he stabbed her with a bottle and I spent my savings to save her life.
After which, I relocated her.. rented an apartment for her and started a business for her..and we stayed together with my younger siblings there.
I later got a job outside our state and relocated.

Within a year, my mum started getting in contact with her husband.. before I knew it, she left the house and went back to him.

She made me her enemy now
We have not seen in the past 4 years and we hardly talk.
The story she is telling people now is that she never divorced her husband. They never separated.. It was me who tried to destroy her marriage by taking her away and renting another place for her.


The man still abuses her, though more verbally since old age has humbled him, somewhat.

I learnt my lesson oooh

seanwilliam:
Hmm. I see you have genuine love for your brother. may God open road for you

Amen brother my bro is 30 now.. he can't talk, walk, stand, hear... Man, he's totally paralyzed... Been praying since I was a kid.. man, my life eh

kumbhuru:
Regret or jealous?

Jealous of what?
I only answered the question put forward.
Why do guys prefer sounding negative to all comments. Me and my friends are still best of friends and nothing do us, abeg shift!

kumbhuru:
You've gone through alot. You should try therapy.

Amen bro, I just pray I get strong enough financially to get a therapist and possibly tell the world my story...

My life's a horror movie, I swear. If a movie producer hits me up, he finna make a movie worth it.

freddie009:
How old are you, you can still go for it. Life is the for the risk takers bro. I'm kind of person that wants things to be perfect before taking action that has prevented me from doing certain things that would have change my life for the better.

Sure, but this life fate determines most things.
What's applicable for Taiwo might not be the same for Kehinde.
Thanks for the advice though!

UnknownQueen:
I regret being human, I would have preferred to exist as a sand or stone. Or any non- living thing.....

, you damn funny

Eastcoastboy:
Is not better to be single then?

No because there are still some wonderful husband / wife material out there like my wonderful wife.

Finishing school at the age of 31 and not be able to serve...
Reason:I wasted many years at home after secondary school.
I was a victim of bullying.
Now 38 years, no job, no kid, no wife nothing to write home about.

thursdayfri:
My greatest and greatest of regret is Masturbation.

It's ruined me spiritually, financially, mentally and health wise.

My advice is if you are deep into masturbation, no matter sweet things people tell you, don't wait to have bitter experience yourself

A lot of people don’t know this. Masturbation affects your brain. It makes you to forget things easily. Pay attention to this point if you are doing it and you will know that it’s the naked truth.

The day I was cursed with schizophrenia

@spiceadole
am sry abt that.just dnt keep malice with her
.sometimes i wish i had anoda mum. my mum beats me when provoked.its nt abt d beating its d marks she gives me and she's neva apologetic.she nd my dad have quarreled abt her beatings and insults on me.to the point i began to hate her,i later forgave her though but we dnt have that mum-daughter relationship.i cant tell her anytin confidential i wnt even try it

so just forgive ur mum.she will definitely see her wrong and regret it

Thanks God,I don't join EIYE confranity then,I will have regreted my life now,DIRTY PEOPLE.

Beautygoddesss:
Being disobedient 2 my parents,agreeing to date him,and being a mastubator finding it hard 2 stop

i just pray GOD will help me cuz am tired of myself

It is well

cuteralph101:
posted this in January 2020...as at today I've spent over 900k on repairs accidents and mechanical issues. Car is milking me badly . Read

How I spent over 2.6 million on a car that gets me sad, embarrassed and frustrated. Now I am getting depressed…

Last year 22 June is one day I can't easily forget. I just got myself a Toyota Camry 2007 for my 25th Birthday. I bought the car for 1.8m from a very good friend of mine (8 years together). He buys and sells used and foreign (tokunbo) cars although not a certified dealer. He drove the car down to my loc and I accessed the car I was shocked as it was far from what I expected. On inspecting the car, I was not so impressed, despite having a california plate number like heck this shit supposed be better than i anticipated. The sound of the car was too noisy, the vibrations from the dashboard, the windscreen cracked (about 28inches), the interior a bit neat but the sound system to the gear lever area was not so neat. I began to doubt the prize of the car but we already negotiated at 1.8m. I asked if this car is okay, he affirmed that it is and can't sell a problem to his brother.

I drove the car out to look for a car diagnosing company but it was a rainy day had to come back not being able to get a car company to check the car. The car consumes fuel a little bit more than conventional 4 plugs and it raised further doubt about the roadworthiness of the car but what do I know car was moving although skips when entering gear 3. I didn't know much about all this as overtime I didn't put the discipline of owning a car with this being my second car am so ashamed. Went back home I asked my friend what's wrong with the car he affirmed again that nothing is wrong. A month later I started noticing oil stain where I park. I bent over and saw oil dripping my heart almost skipped while this is a small issue (I knew this later) I trembled…this car is just a month old. I spent 31k fixing this shit cos I was too busy to inspect the repairs. A week later the same issue occurred. This was getting too much.

This got me sad and mad and I was already regretting the choice of getting a car. I later opted for a car company (My worst mistake). Oil seal was fixed 4 times in 7 months oil keeps dripping from the engine. Between this period the car abruptly stops on the road and sometimes won't even start after parking. I suffered all this with a faulty steering pump which causes the steering to be stiff. Some car companies aren't trustworthy and won't likely be the solution to your car problems...but they got my car moving each time it breaks down and I paid the exorbitant cost for minor repairs for fear of this roadside mechanics. The drill continued and I kept repairing and kept paying. The worst happened in March this year when I had a hit with a reckless driver. The bonnet bent a little and bumper beyond repair. I painted the car after 11 days. I told a panel beater working with the painter to bring the car home for me on reaching close the car stopped. Suffered to get it home as the car keeps draining charged batteries.

The next day I called the car company to come take the car for checks and possible repair. The next day I was told the engine has to be ringed that it's not the alternator. Bill of 169k for everything. I opted for a new engine (2AZ and was billed 300k for everything by the same company). I also bought shaft for both legs (55k). The former engine I was told is now scrapped and would be sold for a small amount (I left it for them). The car was with them for about 7 weeks as I wasn't around. When the car was out, AC no longer working. I called and was told the compressor is bad and needs to be changed. Why me! Bill 148k Like my God what have I done...? I spent 96k to fix AC (I had to call someone else from the neighboring state). I discovered that the AC had been fixed before and resulted to change most of the AC components. had to rethink this whole spending, right now my windscreen is bad can't see well when it's raining, my headlamp bad not bright, my exhaust very noisy unwanted sound from the manifold and consumes fuel, the legs need to be checked again (camber bushing or what do they call it) and interior needs fixing. Other issues although not certain is the suspension.
After penning my frustration in this piece Nairaland kept banning me from uploading…I gave up trying. The worst right now my gear doesn't select after a journey of 112km to and fro where I base. I need to share this experience so people can learn from this.
The estimate for expenses carried out so far on repairs so far should be over 850k in one year (major repairs: New Engine + Shaft 355k, AC 96k, Legs [fixed twice] 64K {break pads, hub, tie rod, bushing etc}) (minor repairs: oil seal repair 4 times around 80k (new oil every time to put a new oil seal), Nozzle + Plugs + Fan + Key starter 44k, Exhaust (net) 10.4k. Others: painting 60k and panel beating 15k. (all of this excluding gear) Bought tires several times as they keep peeling off from bad alignment although Belgium tires. There are others I can't remember right now. All this excluding fuel. I honestly can't continue like this.

Yehhhhh!! Gbese reee ha! God have mercy oh!

Honchoslim16:
It is well

yeah,thank u

Oyerinde16:
My biggest regret is not being stingy, I made cool money early in life, but I made a very big mistake, I tot giving family n friends will make them give me when I need, at the peak of my wealth, I was giving out up to 100k everyday... There were days that I would have up to 15 friends flocking around, I fit give 20k to arrange food for boys, we fit enter bukka, na me go pay for like 6-7 guys, I wasn't a womanizer, it was just guys... I failed to invest, I turned down an offshore job then boom money dried up, funny thing is that this beggers became aggressive, if you don't give them, they make it look like you are doing wickedness, they say slangs like, baba remember na God do am for u, he go do for me too... I threw away the opportunity to move to the US cos I was trying to get back, my sis used the opportunity enter US. today I de do uber/bolt, still de do 1 or 2... If I knew friends were this useless... Wish I knew what I knew now then....

If u are around 22yr-28yrs with little or no responsibility, try invest, those are the golden age of your life... By 29 if u never balance, d way society go bill u, e go hard to balance again...

Thanks 4 d advice, I copy

kingvector:
Joining a confratanity

Tell me about it.

I regret not being able to say NO, when it mattered most!

THE MARATHON CONTINUES!

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Connected1:
I have stopped giving to friends, it's one of the best decisions I have made, now I am planning on not giving to my siblings especially the females, they are very useless including the married ones, I seriously saw some red flags after I pretended to be broke for sometime.

I understood the fact that na only you come this life and nobody send you message go help anybody. Now I have successfully grown past that stage of emotional manipulations, if I no wan help you, even if you carry diety come, you no go see anything from my side.

I love you bro real truth spoken, Bleep people men

Mine was buying a car instead of investing on Lands in my village when it was being sold at give away prices.

UyaiIncomparabl:
Tell me about it.

Na cultists u like we know

Ok.

I only learnt about bitcoin very late.

Painful regret.

Being disrespectful to my mother when i was younger is one of my biggest regrets. Masturbating is another regret which i wished i never indulged in because it has damaged my nerves and it has also been detrimental to my confidence.

Not sticking up for myself while in school is another big regret, i wish i can turn back time and give everybody that layed a finger on me the beating of their life, but life goes on. Another is begging some of my relatives for cash when i hardly call them about their wellbeing which is bad.

spiceadole:
I grew up seeing my father always beating my mum.
It was impossible for my parents to stay for 24 hours without a fight.
If he is not physically abusive, he is verbally abusing her.
I don't think I saw my parents gist and laugh up to 3 times in all the years I lived with them.

My dad did the most unimaginable things to my mum.. Sometimes, she landed in hospital.

In 2015,he stabbed her with a bottle and I spent my savings to save her life.
After which, I relocated her.. rented an apartment for her and started a business for her..and we stayed together with my younger siblings there.
I later got a job outside our state and relocated.

Within a year, my mum started getting in contact with her husband.. before I knew it, she left the house and went back to him.

She made me her enemy now
We have not seen in the past 4 years and we hardly talk.
The story she is telling people now is that she never divorced her husband. They never separated.. It was me who tried to destroy her marriage by taking her away and renting another place for her.


The man still abuses her, though more verbally since old age has humbled him, somewhat.

I learnt my lesson oooh

This is sad