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Well I'll start by saying I had issues with my Ex of about 1year and broke up with her about a month ago. I got to know
about her promiscuous life style from her best friend.. I actually begged and psyched her before she opened up to me. I felt sad Sha , and I pretended everything was okay , so I could take my revenge . Well I got my revenge, and I broke up with her. Then I thought it wasn't enough. I asked her best friend out. I must say she was better than her friend (my Ex), she had a little issues with her boyfriend who was out of town and I took advantage of that .
Well we started dating and two weeks into the relationship she asked I get her a phone, which I agreed and I asked her to give me sometime.. I must say she's very honest and sincere plus respectful, it's hard to find her type these days...
The problem is she's still talking to her boyfriend even though she told him to move on, he was her first. Now I need to fulfill my promise by getting her a new phone which should cost about 60-70k.. The money isn't the problem for me . But We'll know that spending so much for a girl you're not married to might end in tears someday... I fit buy the phone self she go tell her Ex say na her uncle buy am . We all know the matter.. she'll be 19years next year, I'm in my early 20's
Sorry for the long epistle abeg OG's make una tell me the next step .
P.s. no insults please
Mods please you can help me move it to Fp. Cc mynd44 . Lalaticlala

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Well I reached an agreement with her , I told her if anything goes wrong I'm taking back the phone. We sealed the deal Sha.

I just want you to know that there's no much difference between that girl and your Ex. They're birds of a feather, besides, buying phone for a Nigerian girl you're sharing with different men is 3rd most senseless things on earth!

I'll advice you use that money to upgrade your brain!

A confused male child still thrilled with the idea of free sex.






In his mind he's taking revenge while girls are the ones revenging

Zonefree:
I just want you to know that there's no much difference between that girl and your Ex. They're birds of a feather, besides, buying phone for a Nigerian girl you're sharing with different men is 3rd most senseless things on earth!

I'll advice you use that money to upgrade your brain!

Thanks for your input... Maybe they got a few in common, but she's way better than my Ex... My Ex even tell me say the girl no get mind

Lordofalmajiri:
Thanks for your input... Maybe they got a few in common, but she's way better than my Ex... My Ex even tell me say the girl no get mind

She's not better than your Ex...she's even worst! To lash and cherish same gbola her girlfriend once personalized shows she's worst! Don't be deceived by the girl's manipulations.

First ensure that all your siblings ,parents
and blood relatives have phones worth more than 60-70k

Zonefree:
She's not better than your Ex...she's even worst! To lash and cherish same gbola her girlfriend once personalized shows she's worst! Don't be deceived by girl's manipulations.

, Omo guy man don love up sha, and I hate breaking promises.. what's the step forward now.

Ofunaofu:
First ensure that all your siblings ,parents
and blood relatives have phones worth more than 60-70k

I was thinking if getting my mom same too...

Lordofalmajiri:
, Omo guy man don love up sha, and I hate breaking promises.. what's the step forward now.

No man in his right senses should love a Nigerian girl. Not worth it.

The way forward is to send that money to your family members. No matter how you try, you can't impress or satisfy a Nigerian girl.

Lordofalmajiri:
I was thinking if getting my mom same too...

Ensure everyone in your family gets a phone worth more than that

Lordofalmajiri:
Thanks for your input... Maybe they got a few in common, but she's way better than my Ex... My Ex even tell me say the girl no get mind

she ain't better than ur ex
Any girl that break the girls code...
Dating ur friend ex... Ain't worth it
Well, how much is 70k
If u know you're ok financially... It won't hurt
Just go and look for better gf... Apart, she is still a teenager, mayb you don't know first love last longer... I don't think she is going to leave the ex for u even if she does she is still going to av him in mind

Ofunaofu:
Ensure everyone in your family gets a phone worth more than that

For what? How many contributed to his success? Most of you see your relatives as living ATMs and it's ridiculous...

Many of his uncles... Aunts... Cousins... May not even like him... And he should give them all free phones cause of blood?

Even his mum... Giving her a gift is a choice... No one is obligated to spend on anyone...

60-70k for a guy in his early 20s to spend on a girl of 19 is clearly a waste. Cos I can bet with my fake ear piece I bought on Lagos traffic that you guys won't be together by this time next year. She's still in her whóring stage and would dump you for someone much better or richer.

It's better if you invest that money on yourself, learn an online course, develop yourself, not investing it on someone who clearly doesn't picture you in her future.

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You mean the same best friend that exposed her friend, your exgirlfriend? Did you compensate her for helping you out? Well If you didn't and have the means, go ahead and buy her the phone but make her see it as compensation for a job well done and also as poverty alleviation program. I don't do favors to vaginarians of any kind but let me make an exception on this one since I'm not the one spending.

@ early 20's which business u take save such amount of money Am asking for a friend.

Yes

BoredBerry:
For what? How many contributed to his success? Most of you see your relatives as living ATMs and it's ridiculous...

Many of his uncles... Aunts... Cousins... May not even like him... And he should give them all free phones cause of blood?

Even his mum... Giving her a gift is a choice... No one is obligated to spend on anyone...

Did the girl he intends to buy a phone worth 60 to 70k contributed to his success

Op pls help me with 10k im a guy like you.pls op im owing someone 40k and i needs some token to complet it. First bank 3085624868.

Nazgul:
60-70k for a guy in his early 20s to spend on a girl of 19 is clearly a waste. Cos I can bet with my fake ear piece I bought on Lagos traffic that you guys won't be together by this time next year. She's still in her whóring stage and would dump you for someone much better or richer.

It's better if you invest that money on yourself, learn an online course, develop yourself, not investing it on someone who clearly doesn't picture you in her future.

Thanks so much, I know it wouldn't last it's the sad truth.. me buying her is just to fulfill my promise...

Nonexisting:
You mean the same best friend that exposed her friend, your exgirlfriend? Did you compensate her for helping you out? Well If you didn't and have the means, go ahead and buy her the phone but make her see it as compensation for a job well done and also as poverty alleviation program. I don't do favors to vaginarians of any kind but let me make an exception on this one since I'm not the one spending.

Lol, I was thinking the same when I made the promise... It's more like a compensation for saving me from unexpected breakfast.

The So Called Gf Contributed to his Success Abii?? @ Bolded so to give to the Mum is just a choice while to the GF is mandatory Abii?? hope you get Brothers be advising them exactly the way you write it here ok.

BoredBerry:
For what? How many contributed to his success? Most of you see your relatives as living ATMs and it's ridiculous...

Many of his uncles... Aunts... Cousins... May not even like him... And he should give them all free phones cause of blood?

Even his mum... Giving her a gift is a choice... No one is obligated to spend on anyone...

BoredBerry:
For what? How many contributed to his success? Most of you see your relatives as living ATMs and it's ridiculous...

Many of his uncles... Aunts... Cousins... May not even like him... And he should give them all free phones cause of blood?

Even his mum... Giving her a gift is a choice... No one is obligated to spend on anyone...

How I wish girls will know that no one is obligated to spend on anyone before turning relationship to poverty alleviation program.

I choose family over any girl that I ain't married to. Even at that, family tops my priority table. Why should I neglect family over kpekus that is cheap and can be bought everywhere?

OP, you are doing well, but I don't see this ending well. The girl isn't good the way you are hyping her, maybe your reasoning is beclouded by her fresh tight kpekus.

She snitched on her friend and then comfortably open kpekus for you and you think that person is better than your ex, even while still talking with her ex? You are just exaggerating her.

OP, you can never revenge a girl by sleeping with her because she ain't losing anything, if you like sleep with her friends, that's not a revenge, it's your village ashawo spirit that is following you.

Base on that investor vibe.... House should we tell him

Ofunaofu:
First ensure that all your siblings ,parents
and blood relatives have phones worth more than 60-70k

haha my guy

No try am two of them na the same, las las your ex go influence am, them fit connive chop u sef

Them fit connive chop you woto woto

Demigod22:
OP, you are doing well, but I don't see this ending well. The girl isn't good the way you are hyping her, maybe your reasoning is beclouded by her fresh tight kpekus.

She snitched on her friend and then comfortably open kpekus for you and you think that person is better than your ex, even while still talking with her ex? You are just exaggerating her.

OP, you can never revenge a girl by sleeping with her because she ain't losing anything, if you like sleep with her friends, that's not a revenge, it's your village ashawo spirit that is following you.

I have to agree with you that kpekus is very cheap these days and can be gotten almost free. But I'm talking about commitment... Deep down she knows I could easily get any other girl . Lastly tight kpekus no fit becloud my judgement cause I don see am tire, E no dey make sense if E too tight self, Cause she go dry up easily and E go dey painful. You'll end up not enjoying it. I wouldn't say she snitched , rather I'll say she saved a Brother..

Emma2Seconds:
The So Called Gf Contributed to his Success Abii?? @ Bolded so to give to the Mum is just a choice while to the GF is mandatory Abii?? hope you get Brothers be advising them exactly the way you write it here ok.

just know that before I spend anything on a girl I've spent times 10 on my mom... I no know why una dey see am this way, guys dey buy phone for my cousins on a steady.

Donate your money to the poor, blessing would come from that

Buy her the phone then buy her a house and a car on her birthday. Good boy. Your eyes go soon clear