what's that saying a person who is nice to the spouse but not the waiter is not capable of love

Solution: Any day they slap or beat her outside just tell her sorry, don't fight anyone unless they are really at fault.

Dreadlock69:
There is this girl/lady of mine , dark tall and good looking, how we started talking and dating was a coincidence ,she was speaking rudely or not fairly to my cousin and I interrupt and cautioned her never to try that or repeat it again cause me get “gbana" for head i know dey take disrespect/nonsense.
she later calm down and became gentle like pikin wey Dem shout for ,after advising her and her later gra gra like I do am bad thing but me know send , how we start dating is a history I don't know how it happened.

Now she got this problem she get very sharp mouth how do I go about it ?
It only when I'm around she tries not to do anything stupid and talk pass herself because I do give her this stare warning eyes and she go respect herself ,like the one wey “ my mama go give me if I wan collect sweet from stranger or person she no like when I dey small".
She always feels she can get away with anything cause I'm around and no one will/dare to touch her .“ she get this kind mindset like nah cultist she dey date nobody got touch am".

My cousin bro and sis sometimes are like I know blame you anytime your husband dey you dey get wings.

She sweet and all to me and everyone but her mouth to sharp and ee dey off me sometimes , how do I manage her behavior I'm a cool / mind my business kind of person.

Be careful, she's manipulative, rude and will make you fight family & lose respect.
No lose guard.

All this manner less girls Toto dey sweet die . Learn to differentiate sex&character. It's not the same.
#my2cents

Dreadlock69:


Only one red flag bruh not like you will see another girl who no go get red flag/ flawless

Then go manage am, which advice you looking for again?

I bet she is a Yoruba girl.


Prove me wrong.

Dreadlock69:
There is this girl/lady of mine , dark tall and good looking, how we started talking and dating was a coincidence ,she was speaking rudely or not fairly to my cousin and I interrupt and cautioned her never to try that or repeat it again cause me get “gbana" for head i know dey take disrespect/nonsense.
she later calm down and became gentle like pikin wey Dem shout for ,after advising her and her later gra gra like I do am bad thing but me know send , how we start dating is a history I don't know how it happened.

Now she got this problem she get very sharp mouth how do I go about it ?
It only when I'm around she tries not to do anything stupid and talk pass herself because I do give her this stare warning eyes and she go respect herself ,like the one wey “ my mama go give me if I wan collect sweet from stranger or person she no like when I dey small".
She always feels she can get away with anything cause I'm around and no one will/dare to touch her .“ she get this kind mindset like nah cultist she dey date nobody got touch am".

My cousin bro and sis sometimes are like I know blame you anytime your husband dey you dey get wings.

She sweet and all to me and everyone but her mouth to sharp and ee dey off me sometimes , how do I manage her behavior I'm a cool / mind my business kind of person.

Don't do anything about it. Let her husband do it. At least you're only a boyfriend. It's not in your job description. Wait till you become her husband or let her husband deal with that himself when time comes. Let's go back to sanity. You're nothing for now.

Dreadlock69:


Only one red flag bruh not like you will see another girl who no go get red flag/ flawless

So why did you come here to complain? Carry your cross my brother. Everyone has an area of weakness, but the question you will have to ask yourself is if you can live with that shortfall all the days of your life.

If the answer is yes, by every means please proceed with your relationship, but if the answer is no, then call it quits. Simple as that!

People with sharp, rude, insulting mouths grew up in an abusive home.

Kollins11:
You better talk sense into her head because if she cross my path and she verbally abuse me with her sharp mouth. I will help her repair her leaked mouth tap with correct slap.

I go beat 20 years out of her life span... Me I no get joy ooo. Better talk sense into her head. I nor be gentleman at all oo.

and if she get black belt and beat your ass, what then?

Cut it off

Use factory reset button.

I remembered a lady that slapped a Major in mufti cos her husband was on scene...

Omo....see wahala.. lol

break up.

Believe me it's her nature no amount of talk will make her stop, I once dated a girl like that I can relate , Enjoy your headache bro

BP loading you go out and worry at what you will meet when you get back.

They don’t get better instead they get worse. This is her at her best. If they will do it to others then they will do it to you.

Either yoruba girl or akwaibom/crossriver..

Weldone oga cultist

A girl with sharp mouth no dey ever change.

No deceive yourself.

The day wey she go use that sharp mouth floor you, even dig pit for you, dey come.

For your peace of mind, EXIT!

What a question? Your girlfriend has razor mouth baa? Young man if you know you can't handle it my best advise is to let her go before she will provoke you and you react wrongly and see your face on the page of newspapers and all social media for wrong reason then its going to be to late to quit.

That is my honest advise.

Call her and tell her it's over!!

LadyTara:
At what point do we draw the line between flaw and a red flag though?

Can we continue to use them interchangeably simply because we are on the prow for the "perfect"?


At what point do we realize we have our own flaws too( our own dey our body) and compromise?.

You can regard it as flaws if it's something you can manage. But it's a red flag if it's something you know you can't manage.

[quote author=Dreadlock69 post=113384256] There is this girl/lady of mine , dark tall and good looking, how we started talking and dating was a coincidence ,she was speaking rudely or not fairly to my cousin and I interrupt and cautioned her never to try that or repeat it again c
ause me get “gbana" for head i know dey take disrespect/nonsense.

How to control sharp mouth

Brainjotting:

You can regard it as flaws if it's something you can manage. But it's a red flag if it's something you know you can't manage.

Noted.
Easy explanation.

I hope the op gets it.The question now is op ,do you see it as a flaw or a red flag?.

Cc dreadlock69

When you marry her and she see you finish na big trouble u go dey.

She'll kill and bury you

Dreadlock69:
There is this girl/lady of mine , dark tall and good looking, how we started talking and dating was a coincidence ,she was speaking rudely or not fairly to my cousin and I interrupt and cautioned her never to try that or repeat it again cause me get “gbana" for head i know dey take disrespect/nonsense.
she later calm down and became gentle like pikin wey Dem shout for ,after advising her and her later gra gra like I do am bad thing but me know send , how we start dating is a history I don't know how it happened.

Now she got this problem she get very sharp mouth how do I go about it ?
It only when I'm around she tries not to do anything stupid and talk pass herself because I do give her this stare warning eyes and she go respect herself ,like the one wey “ my mama go give me if I wan collect sweet from stranger or person she no like when I dey small".
She always feels she can get away with anything cause I'm around and no one will/dare to touch her .“ she get this kind mindset like nah cultist she dey date nobody got touch am".

My cousin bro and sis sometimes are like I know blame you anytime your husband dey you dey get wings.

She sweet and all to me and everyone but her mouth to sharp and ee dey off me sometimes , how do I manage her behavior I'm a cool / mind my business kind of person.

Start teaching her how to behave like a lady, that her sharp mouth may likely make her loose so many things

Dreadlock69:
There is this girl/lady of mine , dark tall and good looking, how we started talking and dating was a coincidence ,she was speaking rudely or not fairly to my cousin and I interrupt and cautioned her never to try that or repeat it again cause me get “gbana" for head i know dey take disrespect/nonsense.
she later calm down and became gentle like pikin wey Dem shout for ,after advising her and her later gra gra like I do am bad thing but me know send , how we start dating is a history I don't know how it happened.

Now she got this problem she get very sharp mouth how do I go about it ?
It only when I'm around she tries not to do anything stupid and talk pass herself because I do give her this stare warning eyes and she go respect herself ,like the one wey “ my mama go give me if I wan collect sweet from stranger or person she no like when I dey small".
She always feels she can get away with anything cause I'm around and no one will/dare to touch her .“ she get this kind mindset like nah cultist she dey date nobody got touch am".

My cousin bro and sis sometimes are like I know blame you anytime your husband dey you dey get wings.

She sweet and all to me and everyone but her mouth to sharp and ee dey off me sometimes , how do I manage her behavior I'm a cool / mind my business kind of person.

You never marry am

Are you a cultist?

man dating kid

Dreadlock69:
There is this girl/lady of mine , dark tall and good looking, how we started talking and dating was a coincidence ,she was speaking rudely or not fairly to my cousin and I interrupt and cautioned her never to try that or repeat it again cause me get “gbana" for head i know dey take disrespect/nonsense.
she later calm down and became gentle like pikin wey Dem shout for ,after advising her and her later gra gra like I do am bad thing but me know send , how we start dating is a history I don't know how it happened.

Now she got this problem she get very sharp mouth how do I go about it ?
It only when I'm around she tries not to do anything stupid and talk pass herself because I do give her this stare warning eyes and she go respect herself ,like the one wey “ my mama go give me if I wan collect sweet from stranger or person she no like when I dey small".
She always feels she can get away with anything cause I'm around and no one will/dare to touch her .“ she get this kind mindset like nah cultist she dey date nobody got touch am".

My cousin bro and sis sometimes are like I know blame you anytime your husband dey you dey get wings.

She sweet and all to me and everyone but her mouth to sharp and ee dey off me sometimes , how do I manage her behavior I'm a cool / mind my business kind of person.

You don’t know how you started dating

Dreadlock69:
There is this girl/lady of mine , dark tall and good looking, how we started talking and dating was a coincidence ,she was speaking rudely or not fairly to my cousin and I interrupt and cautioned her never to try that or repeat it again cause me get “gbana" for head i know dey take disrespect/nonsense.
she later calm down and became gentle like pikin wey Dem shout for ,after advising her and her later gra gra like I do am bad thing but me know send , how we start dating is a history I don't know how it happened.

Now she got this problem she get very sharp mouth how do I go about it ?
It only when I'm around she tries not to do anything stupid and talk pass herself because I do give her this stare warning eyes and she go respect herself ,like the one wey “ my mama go give me if I wan collect sweet from stranger or person she no like when I dey small".
She always feels she can get away with anything cause I'm around and no one will/dare to touch her .“ she get this kind mindset like nah cultist she dey date nobody got touch am".

My cousin bro and sis sometimes are like I know blame you anytime your husband dey you dey get wings.

She sweet and all to me and everyone but her mouth to sharp and ee dey off me sometimes , how do I manage her behavior I'm a cool / mind my business kind of person.

Mumu relationship na by force?? No leave person dota you wan dey control adult like say na you born her....go date foolish girl wey go dey obey you like ode na

Dreadlock69:
There is this girl/lady of mine , dark tall and good looking, how we started talking and dating was a coincidence ,she was speaking rudely or not fairly to my cousin and I interrupt and cautioned her never to try that or repeat it again cause me get “gbana" for head i know dey take disrespect/nonsense.
she later calm down and became gentle like pikin wey Dem shout for ,after advising her and her later gra gra like I do am bad thing but me know send , how we start dating is a history I don't know how it happened.

Now she got this problem she get very sharp mouth how do I go about it ?
It only when I'm around she tries not to do anything stupid and talk pass herself because I do give her this stare warning eyes and she go respect herself ,like the one wey “ my mama go give me if I wan collect sweet from stranger or person she no like when I dey small".
She always feels she can get away with anything cause I'm around and no one will/dare to touch her .“ she get this kind mindset like nah cultist she dey date nobody got touch am".
If you don't like her sharp mouth, simply move on. It will never change, it usually get worse with age.

My cousin bro and sis sometimes are like I know blame you anytime your husband dey you dey get wings.

She sweet and all to me and everyone but her mouth to sharp and ee dey off me sometimes , how do I manage her behavior I'm a cool / mind my business kind of person.

If you do not like her sharp mouth, simply move on> Do not expect her sharp mouth to change, it usually gets worse with age

LadyTara:
At what point do we draw the line between flaw and a red flag though?

Can we continue to use them interchangeably simply because we are on the prow for the "perfect"?


At what point do we realize we have our own flaws too( our own dey our body) and compromise?.

Don’t mind the weak lily-livered generation. A little flaw, they exaggerate it and want to run away without exhausting all measures to manage it.

Thank you for pointing it out to him. A common flaw is not a red flag! Someone whose only weakness is talking too much, and maybe disrespectfully at times, not known to engage in physical violence as a follow-up action, cannot be said to have a red flag.

No one is perfect including the complainer!