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Mind ur business
When u see people running away from liability there is a reason

Anybody can demand anything from you, same way I can demand that Buhari should be my houseboy, but the responsibility lies on the other person to accept and implement my unreasonable demands.

Faulting women for being entitled to someone's money is one thing, giving her the money is another thing, which is on you. It takes two to play so play your part well.

WatchYourSix:
How will they iron it out...?? Lol

. when a woman already segregates her man's money as the money that can be wasted and her own money as money that should be managed...its clear shes not a team person....u cant force team mentality on a person in a relationship...if a woman love a man genuinely, it comes naturally..

No one is perfect.
Even if he decides to leave just like that, and he eventually finds someone else.
That person wouldn't be without her faults
Unless she shows no attitude of change.. But it is still something they can work on

Medianna:
It is an issue they can iron out na.
That is why its a relationship, we learn from each other and advice ourselves.

How do u teach a goblin not to be greedy?.greed and self centeredness is already in her gene

DorianD:
How do u teach a goblin not to be greedy?.greed and self centeredness is already in her gene

OK
Mr know it all
I sha understand where the guy is coming.

She wants you to plead on her behalf? I'll advise you to stay out of this matter, OP. It is only the two people in this relationship that can salvage it otherwise everything has gone south.

1F30M4:
She wants you to plead on her behalf? I'll advise you to stay out of this matter, OP. It is only the two people in this relationship that can salvage it otherwise everything has gone south.

Am trying to by all means but she trying to guilt trip me with the narrative of I don't like her that why I don't want to help her.

Is it really her fault My friend is the one i blame most because she didn't put a gun to his head to book those ride.

nonsense entitlement rubbish.
see my signature and dm if interested.

Godoverevery:
Someone that feels my guy is just over reacting...

You know ladies nah......it very difficult for them to see things from another perspective.

Then she should be prepared to loose him for good. Cos such character clearly shows that she cares less about him

Godoverevery:
Am trying to by all means but she trying to guilt trip me with the narrative of I don't like her that why I don't want to help her.

Is it really her fault My friend is the one i blame most because she didn't put a gun to his head to book those ride.

Tell her that you're not in the relationship with them. Whatever happened should be resolved between her and her boyfriend.

I'm not sure of who to blame. I understand he's pissed because she complained about stress and he actually didn't want her to go through all that but she'd rather save her money. Whatever rocks her boat jare. I mean why complaining about stress in the first place, well na she sabi. Her response really threw him off balance and then he started thinking about a whole lot of things. Normal normal, I feel say im suppose don reason those things tey tey.

Now, I'm not saying it's not good to shower your girlfriend/boyfriend/fiance/fiancee(as the case may be) with care, affection and all but then when things aint rosy wrt finances, that shouldn't drive you to do things you wouldn't do ordinarily like borrowing money unnecessarily(in this case), stealing and whatnots. Let your SO know how things are with you, they should be able to understand but if they seem inconsiderate about it all, then you really should have a rethink.

Consequently, if you do not let them know and you're going to extreme & sometimes dangerous lengths, and then deep down you feel that most times there is no form of reciprocity of some sort, I'm really sorry but that is all on you. If you're not okay about something, please let your feelings known, don't push it aside, talk about it, a sina obele nsi na emebi ike (please if you don't get it, Google will help you)

Omoo if to say na me, dis na somtin wey if I laff finish eh, I go jus tell am "oyaaa na, let it be as you'd want it. I been dey reason mek you no go dey stress yourself but e be like sey na me find trouble, no wahala na, public transport sef dey okay. Babe abeg no waka for night ooo, you sef see wetin dey happen for Naija. You go yarn me as everything go, later na. Take care".

This was the reason I left the girl I met some month ago

She don’t have a good job she is doing daily contributions to my surprise every week she they collect like 16k

This babe no tell me since one day she tell me . The following weekend I asked her for 2k . She say she no get the second day I asked she say she no get . Then I left oh the relationship no even use 3 month

I was even dating this girl I never benefit anything from her
Am the one providing I send her money sometimes once in a week because she they always demand as Nigeria woman .

Never date a girl that will can not use her money to flex or play with you once in a while . If you don’t deserve to be helped then why are you helping her when she can’t help back it a total waste of money

If a man can give a lady 15k to do hair and the woman can not give you 1k to barb your hair lol
Na total Gold digger
I just reason am one day that this girl is not helping me but draining me I just move on gentle now …


If a woman love you she will give you comfort
Don’t force her to give you comfort get a woman that match’s you . There is so many woman so keep spinning till you meet the right one and keep showing the greedy lady’s what they deserve

My opinion is a bit different from others.

Your friend did well by ending the relationship. This is justified not because she saw the same privilege she has been enjoying as a waste of money but because of her uncouth mouth. Anyone who doesn't think deeply before he or she talks isn't worth befriending.

Will Something Good Come Out Of Nazareth??

Sammy101111:
This was the reason I left the girl I met some month ago

She don’t have a good job she is doing daily contributions to my surprise every week she they collect like 16k

This babe no tell me since once day she tell me . The following weekend I asked her for 2k . She say she no get the second day I asked she say she no get . Then I left oh the relationship no even use 3 month

I was even dating this girl I never benefit anything from her
Am the one providing I send her money sometimes once in a week because she they always demand as Nigeria woman .

I just reason am one day day this girl is not helping me but draining me I just move on gentle now …


If a woman love you she will give you conform
Don’t force her to give you conform get a woman that match’s you . There is so many woman so keep spinning till you meet the right one and keep showing the greedy lady’s what they deserve

Lol dangote
I feel your pain.
She never call you since then

Medianna:
Lol dangote
I feel your pain.
She never call you since then

She never called me since then
Have seen woman telling her friends she can never spend 1naira on a man I did not ask oh .
Some women are not well trained it is what there mother thought them they do .

Sammy101111:
She never called me since then
Have seen woman telling her friends she can never spend 1naira on a man I did not ask oh .
Some women are not well trained it is what there mother thought them they do .

Wow.
Yea some women have that mindset

Medianna:
Wow.
Yea some women have that mindset

Sometimes what a man need is not S£x


When a man is broke he will never frustrate a woman or show it to you

A woman she broke or not she will always have one issue to talk about that needs money


Sometimes nothing is too small to give a man let him know he is spending on the right source
You can’t be the one always demanding

Godoverevery:
There nothing bad in loving comfort but it is pure evil as an adult to depend on some else for that.

I don't get myself Involved in people relationship crisis because most times you will make an enemy out of it.

A friend just ended a relationship of over 1yr based on the fact he feels the lady takes him for a fool.
According to him which I also confirm from the lady, he said most times when the lady is coming or leaving is side he books a ride for her even atimes when he is broke the lady will insist she can't take okada or keke to his place. So anytime he is broke he either borrow or wait till he has cash.

About 2 weeks ago the lady wanted to attend a Wedding and she was complaining about the stress, he suggested she book a ride to the place.....the response he got shocked him.

The lady told him she doesn't have money to waste, she rather take public transport.

Baba Dan vex now scatter things because he feels the lady indirectly called him a fool for always booking ride for her anytime she is visiting him and going.
He is really pained because he hardly even book ride for himself on outings.

The lady wants me to plead on her behalf but i don't feel comfortable doing that at all.

In asmuch I also share his sentiment but is this enough reason to break up with a lady ??

PS: they are both working class.

If you plead with your friend to forgive her.. Ogun go Kee Yhu.

Sammy101111:
Sometimes what a man need is not S£x

Some men actually.

Medianna:
Some men actually.

If a man do 80%
A woman should try at least do 20%
Let the man sees you as he’s vision
Not draining machine

Emma2Seconds:
Will Something Good Come Out Of Nazareth??

My brother nothing good can come out of Nazareth till the kingdom come..

Sammy101111:
If a man do 80%
A woman should try at least do 20%
Let the man sees you as he’s vision
Not draining machine

Yes you're right