Lewisjohnson:

Prof withdrawal Dept
U say Bleep her nyash u wan tak away her toilet sweetness

Which one is toilet sweetness?

YoungDaNaval:
How did you come to conclusion it was 10mins?

Na those 1 min dey cause problem!

You will be thinking hey I am safe


But


The spermatozoa will just form Voltron
And

Boom

Belle has come

Bluntemperor:


OP,in paragraph six of your write-up, I quote ' the family na deeper life..... educated people behaving as if they did not go to School'
How dare you insults the Christians Faith like that?
Are you ok at all?
Are they the one that forced you to have illegal fun with their Child,when you know you can't enjoy their lifestyle,then why are you abusing their faith?
So by keeping their child as a virgin means they have done you evil?
You are a wicked soul that should not be taken seriously and infact,you should be taken to police station for child defilement!
So the Parents of this girl that kept this Child up to this stage wants you that is jobless to come and make her a burden! If that is the norm of the modern day Society that is rotten and stinks,why not go to hotel to look for the Oloshos? No remorseful beign with loose talk!
Shame on you!

oga I'm I the OP?

Ikokobara:


Boss what's the name of the drug and how much can I get it

Mifepristone and misoprostol.
But it wount be sold to you without priscription.
So your best bet is to go to the hospital.

Clap for your penis....

Mr withdrawal method

pocohantas:


Or maybe just educate her on abstinence and safe sex. I don’t know how birth control works, but I believe after a situation like this where one must have been thinking his/her child is pretty clueless - all cards would be on the table.

Ok. I support birth control and talk about abstinence but teenagers will remain teenagers and it is best to avoid headaches/trauma.

Thanks God i know abort my twins wen i was in ur shoes.... Bro


Nothing new.... D girl will go school after d baby.... Her papa go para.. And even disown... But trust me dey will still forgive her naa nii later... Just double ur huzle and make sure she really go school.... God bless....

New222:
I won't try to sugarcoat it. I'm 25 years old, she's 19. Still in university because of the endless ASUU strike.

I've been having unprotected sex with this particular girl for a long while now. We've been dating for close to two years. I practise the "withdrawal" and "safe" days method. I met her a Virgin too.

Just realised she's pregnant. She started showing a lot of symptoms. Darkened areolas, nausea, breast heaviness, headache, back pain e.t.c.

I asked her to get do a pregnancy strip test and it came positive. Two red lines.

Though it's not what I ever planned for myself, I won't really mind having a child at my age. People will so much insult me, including my family but I'm sure my family will take care of the child.

The issue is the girl. Her family (Deeper Life) are wahala, big wahala. Educated people that behaves as if they never went to school. Now, we detected very early, her first period is supposed to start tomorrow (which I'm sure she'll miss). She's still very young and about to start schooling. I'm sure her dad will disown her (he once sent her away from his home over a slight misunderstanding, refused to let her back in until it was shown she was innocent).

I told her we have two choices, keep the baby or remove it. I am confused too, but I didn't show it. Pls what do you think?

We're really considering ending the pregnancy. Since it's very early, I'm considered getting m...p......r..l. I need medical advice pls. Above all, I don't want to endanger the girl's life.
I've read about abortion pills. I don't know how to get them or their price. Or should we keep the baby? Her dad will surely disown her, might later accept her, but it will definitely end her Education. What do you think? Should we get the drugs pls. Or consider another option? Should we keep the baby?

P.S: I know nairaland. I've been here for years, insult are welcomed. I never imaginned I'll ever open a thread like this.

P.S: If you're using withdrawal method and it works, it WILL STILL EVENTUALLY FAIL YOU. I used it for a really long time, now I'm here.

My guy i advice for you is to keep the baby... my younger brother was just like you when his own came.. family shout tire but today that child is what makes my mother happy... gran gran no dey finish for her mouth... KEEP THE BABY

Deeper life parents....



... Guy just dey run!

.

New222:
I won't try to sugarcoat it. I'm 25 years old, she's 19. Still in university because of the endless ASUU strike.

I've been having unprotected sex with this particular girl for a long while now. We've been dating for close to two years. I practise the "withdrawal" and "safe" days method. I met her a Virgin too.

Just realised she's pregnant. She started showing a lot of symptoms. Darkened areolas, nausea, breast heaviness, headache, back pain e.t.c.

I asked her to get do a pregnancy strip test and it came positive. Two red lines.

Though it's not what I ever planned for myself, I won't really mind having a child at my age. People will so much insult me, including my family but I'm sure my family will take care of the child.

The issue is the girl. Her family (Deeper Life) are wahala, big wahala. Educated people that behaves as if they never went to school. Now, we detected very early, her first period is supposed to start tomorrow (which I'm sure she'll miss). She's still very young and about to start schooling. I'm sure her dad will disown her (he once sent her away from his home over a slight misunderstanding, refused to let her back in until it was shown she was innocent).

I told her we have two choices, keep the baby or remove it. I am confused too, but I didn't show it. Pls what do you think?

We're really considering ending the pregnancy. Since it's very early, I'm considered getting m...p......r..l. I need medical advice pls. Above all, I don't want to endanger the girl's life.
I've read about abortion pills. I don't know how to get them or their price. Or should we keep the baby? Her dad will surely disown her, might later accept her, but it will definitely end her Education. What do you think? Should we get the drugs pls. Or consider another option? Should we keep the baby?

P.S: I know nairaland. I've been here for years, insult are welcomed. I never imaginned I'll ever open a thread like this.

P.S: If you're using withdrawal method and it works, it WILL STILL EVENTUALLY FAIL YOU. I used it for a really long time, now I'm here.

Friend, if this story of yours is true, I pity you and especially the little girl for falling for this. I don't wish getting too close to others sometimes because they seem to be comfortable while going ASTRAY, deeper and deeper into Sexual immoralities and so on...

Now, I urge you, don't terminate it. Brace up and face the consequences... You've taken too much risk already, and done evil by taking advantage of the small girl easily.

You're concerned about the Dad? Ok, imagine you're in his shoes, and such happens to your beloved daughter. You would consider it Cool, right?

In your own interest, Don't multiply God's judgement by Killing the baby, please...

Now, do what is right, Repent and ask God for grace.

God is interested in changing us all.

God bless

olusegxz:


Emmmm this is not living in bondage part 4. It's real life biko.

lol....na way out the dude want and that is exactly my own solution, you gerit? If you dont gerit forget about rit.

Ikokobara:


Hey sent you a message
In a similar position

Okay

Decision is hers not you.

I will not hide under the clock of not being tagged a bad person or not a christain and failed to advise you.
Having a baby that you are not prepared for, could alter a whole lot of things in your life and that of the girl.
Though 98% of the damage done are for the girl. She will lose her family respect, friends respect, community acceptance, her education, self respect and dignity. Most importantly, she becomes a second hand lady and the stigmatisation will continue if you failed to marry her. As it now, it is not likely that you will marry her if she gives birth outside marriage.
My advise will be if you are capable and willing, quickly go and meet the parents and pay her dowry before the pregnancy becomes public.
Failure to meet the family for marriage, you will lose focus in life as you will be mentally drained and occupied with so many thoughts that will not allow you to think staright and pursue your dreams.
For your information 99% of all the people advising otherwise have done that without asking or blinking an eyelid. Since the pregnancy is just in weeks, free yourself and the girl after which ask God for forgiveness. yours truly was once faced with the challenge and i did the needful. Today i am happily married with kids and my erstwhile girlfriend is also married with kids. God is a merciful God.
A stitch in time saves nine.
You and the girl have a lot of prospect in future.

Ok as for me I have no advice �
Only what I can do for you is this ;
* if you can't handle it, abort the babe now thats it save, not up to 2months right good .look for nurse in the neighbourhood that is well experienced that have good testimonies. And pills is cheap shouldn't be more than 5h.
*Before you think of keeping the babe, do you know how much is pampas? Can you handle it. And as for her family Bleep them with time they will forget your matter.


ASK HER WHAT SHE WANTS first
But damn she is young to b a mother it will affect her education even if you decide to finance it. Keeping babe is not easy bro.

Don't forget Time is tickling decide fast
Abortion is a good option but it risky
Best of luck

The best thing you can do right now is to go to a good pharmacy far away from your area,confide in the pharmacist and tell her what you want to do
Or go to a nurse in your neighborhood...There are good drugs to be used within the first four week of pregnancy conception.

I ran for my dear life then though she's 4yrs older than me. God

Wait ooo!
You mean you were having sexing with her since when she was 17 years old?

I dey see say that pregnancy na twins
Congratulations to you and your girlfriend

As for me, you have to make the right decision to keep the baby while on it make sure you stand strong to put every negative word or thought behind and face the reality of birthing a child
Please after the child birth, try and encourage her to go back to school.


All this guys make una dey ready for this thing, I nor dey like all this advice or suggestions
As you dey do am wey dey sweet you know say the end result na pregnancy as e come take am, than I want abortion, ehn I want to keep it, ehn she is in school or you are in school or am not financially capable of it or family and friends will not be happy bla bla... I nor dey like am, condom three or five hundred go safe all this advice

Congratulations!!! You'll be a father

New222:
I won't try to sugarcoat it. I'm 25 years old, she's 19. Still in university because of the endless ASUU strike.

I've been having unprotected sex with this particular girl for a long while now. We've been dating for close to two years. I practise the "withdrawal" and "safe" days method. I met her a Virgin too.

Just realised she's pregnant. She started showing a lot of symptoms. Darkened areolas, nausea, breast heaviness, headache, back pain e.t.c.

I asked her to get do a pregnancy strip test and it came positive. Two red lines.

Though it's not what I ever planned for myself, I won't really mind having a child at my age. People will so much insult me, including my family but I'm sure my family will take care of the child.

The issue is the girl. Her family (Deeper Life) are wahala, big wahala. Educated people that behaves as if they never went to school. Now, we detected very early, her first period is supposed to start tomorrow (which I'm sure she'll miss). She's still very young and about to start schooling. I'm sure her dad will disown her (he once sent her away from his home over a slight misunderstanding, refused to let her back in until it was shown she was innocent).

I told her we have two choices, keep the baby or remove it. I am confused too, but I didn't show it. Pls what do you think?

We're really considering ending the pregnancy. Since it's very early, I'm considered getting m...p......r..l. I need medical advice pls. Above all, I don't want to endanger the girl's life.
I've read about abortion pills. I don't know how to get them or their price. Or should we keep the baby? Her dad will surely disown her, might later accept her, but it will definitely end her Education. What do you think? Should we get the drugs pls. Or consider another option? Should we keep the baby?

P.S: I know nairaland. I've been here for years, insult are welcomed. I never imaginned I'll ever open a thread like this.

P.S: If you're using withdrawal method and it works, it WILL STILL EVENTUALLY FAIL YOU. I used it for a really long time, now I'm here.

New222:
I won't try to sugarcoat it. I'm 25 years old, she's 19. Still in university because of the endless ASUU strike.

I've been having unprotected sex with this particular girl for a long while now. We've been dating for close to two years. I practise the "withdrawal" and "safe" days method. I met her a Virgin too.

Just realised she's pregnant. She started showing a lot of symptoms. Darkened areolas, nausea, breast heaviness, headache, back pain e.t.c.

I asked her to get do a pregnancy strip test and it came positive. Two red lines.

Though it's not what I ever planned for myself, I won't really mind having a child at my age. People will so much insult me, including my family but I'm sure my family will take care of the child.

The issue is the girl. Her family (Deeper Life) are wahala, big wahala. Educated people that behaves as if they never went to school. Now, we detected very early, her first period is supposed to start tomorrow (which I'm sure she'll miss). She's still very young and about to start schooling. I'm sure her dad will disown her (he once sent her away from his home over a slight misunderstanding, refused to let her back in until it was shown she was innocent).

I told her we have two choices, keep the baby or remove it. I am confused too, but I didn't show it. Pls what do you think?

We're really considering ending the pregnancy. Since it's very early, I'm considered getting m...p......r..l. I need medical advice pls. Above all, I don't want to endanger the girl's life.
I've read about abortion pills. I don't know how to get them or their price. Or should we keep the baby? Her dad will surely disown her, might later accept her, but it will definitely end her Education. What do you think? Should we get the drugs pls. Or consider another option? Should we keep the baby?

P.S: I know nairaland. I've been here for years, insult are welcomed. I never imaginned I'll ever open a thread like this.

P.S: If you're using withdrawal method and it works, it WILL STILL EVENTUALLY FAIL YOU. I used it for a really long time, now I'm here.

Congratulations Start preparing to be a good father remember this child did not ask you to have unprotected sex with the mother it's your choice.

Don't remove the pregnancy you should take 100% responsibility for your actions.

People will always talk get use to it... it's call life.

Start giving your wife enough Amino acids and omega three oil rich food so that you'll help your child out of the gate to be intelligent and strong.

I greet you again as a would be father

Keep the baby, even if they disown her.

You'll cry now but laugh later.

6 years ago, we were both in 200 level when it happened. Her dad owns a church while my dad was a leader in the church – Deeper Life.

We kept her. My dad was suspended from the church service. Her dad asked her to leave his home and I took her home.

And one of my first steps were asking for forgiveness and that God does forsake us. She took a one-year leave of absence in school.

I looked for a remote blogging job that paid me N35k a month while I was able to keep schooling and was able to provide for the antenatal, the mother, myself and then later the baby.

She finished her school one year after I finished. We got married last year. She's currently serving now. When I see the girl today, I'm happy we didn't abort her.

Again, keep the baby. If they disown her now, watch how they'll recall her and would want to see the baby when she gives birth.

New222:
I won't try to sugarcoat it. I'm 25 years old, she's 19. Still in university because of the endless ASUU strike.

I've been having unprotected sex with this particular girl for a long while now. We've been dating for close to two years. I practise the "withdrawal" and "safe" days method. I met her a Virgin too.

Just realised she's pregnant. She started showing a lot of symptoms. Darkened areolas, nausea, breast heaviness, headache, back pain e.t.c.

I asked her to get do a pregnancy strip test and it came positive. Two red lines.

Though it's not what I ever planned for myself, I won't really mind having a child at my age. People will so much insult me, including my family but I'm sure my family will take care of the child.

The issue is the girl. Her family (Deeper Life) are wahala, big wahala. Educated people that behaves as if they never went to school. Now, we detected very early, her first period is supposed to start tomorrow (which I'm sure she'll miss). She's still very young and about to start schooling. I'm sure her dad will disown her (he once sent her away from his home over a slight misunderstanding, refused to let her back in until it was shown she was innocent).

I told her we have two choices, keep the baby or remove it. I am confused too, but I didn't show it. Pls what do you think?

We're really considering ending the pregnancy. Since it's very early, I'm considered getting m...p......r..l. I need medical advice pls. Above all, I don't want to endanger the girl's life.
I've read about abortion pills. I don't know how to get them or their price. Or should we keep the baby? Her dad will surely disown her, might later accept her, but it will definitely end her Education. What do you think? Should we get the drugs pls. Or consider another option? Should we keep the baby?

P.S: I know nairaland. I've been here for years, insult are welcomed. I never imaginned I'll ever open a thread like this.

P.S: If you're using withdrawal method and it works, it WILL STILL EVENTUALLY FAIL YOU. I used it for a really long time, now I'm here.

keep the baby, your parents won't disown you

Keep the baby, even if they disown her.

You'll cry now but laugh later.

6 years ago, we were both in 200 level when it happened. Her dad owns a church while my dad was a leader in the church – Deeper Life.

We kept her. My dad was suspended from the church service. Her dad asked her to leave his home and I took her home.

And one of my first steps were asking for forgiveness and that God doesn't forsake us. She took a one-year leave of absence in school.

I looked for a remote blogging job that paid me N35k a month at the time while I was able to keep schooling. So, I was able to provide for the antenatal, the mother, myself and then later the baby.

She finished her school one year after I finished. We got married last year. She's currently serving now. When I see the girl today, I'm happy we didn't abort her. (That's her in the middle in the picture).

Again, keep the baby. If they disown her now, watch how they'll recall her and would want to see the baby when she gives birth. You won't regret it.

echike:
I will not hide under the clock of not being tagged a bad person or not a christain and failed to advise you.
Having a baby that you are not prepared for, could alter a whole lot of things in your life and that of the girl.
Though 98% of the damage done are for the girl. She will lose her family respect, friends respect, community acceptance, her education, self respect and dignity. Most importantly, she becomes a second hand lady and the stigmatisation will continue if you failed to marry her. As it now, it is not likely that you will marry her if she gives birth outside marriage.
My advise will be if you are capable and willing, quickly go and meet the parents and pay her dowry before the pregnancy becomes public.
Failure to meet the family for marriage, you will lose focus in life as you will be mentally drained and occupied with so many thoughts that will not allow you to think staright and pursue your dreams.
For your information 99% of all the people advising otherwise have done that without asking or blinking an eyelid. Since the pregnancy is just in weeks, free yourself and the girl after which ask God for forgiveness. yours truly was once faced with the challenge and i did the needful. Today i am happily married with kids and my erstwhile girlfriend is also married with kids. God is a merciful God.
A stitch in time saves nine.
You and the girl have a lot of prospect in future.

This is a very short sighted take.

The world has moved on from those days when having a child while very young will mess up your life. Only Nigerians keep living in the past.

OP have your baby, the early years will be rough but it gets better with time, a lot better!

chatinent:
No weapon fashioned against the baby shall prosper. Amen

Lolz

Bros

Bros when you were enjoying the kpekus alone, we no hear am oo. now wey kpekus swallow water, belle com swell, you come dey disturb us with this thread. Abeg who get needle make en epp a brother to put him thread.
As 2Face once said in one of his songs, "my brother please think it twice, before you choose to use your device".

Pls just talk to ur parents abt it,der wud understand after everytin,let ur parents handle d aspect of breaking d news to d girls parent.....pls dnt go for abortion......How i wish i gv woman belle bf i enter university,my child for don pass 15yrs nw......

baralatie:

Way!
You just reminded me

How much is 50kg Ariel ,far big sack because h will b washing baby clothes every day for the next six months or
He can get a washing machine(e no cost around #65000)