I work in a commercial bank as a full-time employee. My gf used to live here in Ib where I live too. She has recently been posted to Lagos State for her Youth Service. Sometime ago, she's asked me to help her work on a reversal. A few days later, I checked her account to see if funds have been reversed but I saw an inflow of #8,000 from her ex. I confronted her about it and her excuse was she was stranded and she couldn't ask me cos we weren't talking at the moment. I let it go. A week after, I instinctively snooped through her account again and saw another inflow of #10,000 from the same ex. This time, I sarcastically asked if she was stranded again. Could this mean they are back? Should I just move on?. She has called me broke to my face a couple of times (I'm in some debt I'm trying to pay off and currently going through other quarter-life crises). We've been together well over two years and half and I love her a lot.

I'll appreciate your responses and advise.

Warm Regards.

- Yomi

Continue the relationship

That could be a breakfast being microwaved to be served you very hot

She is getting financial help + dick from her ex-boyfriend.

How do some of you even tolerate things like this?? She even have the guts to broke shame you couple of times. Nawa 4 oo.

Oga, put an end to that relationship ASAP.

Should we tell him??
Broz pls move to the nxt customer!!the ex is the real nigga while u may be the side nigga, there's a guy who babe told his ex wants her back,they both laughed,months later..The girl&the ex got married... Pls leave that bitch alone.

Mastakija:
Continue the relationship

lol

As in... .....fear woman

Obvious she's still seeing her ex. Keep tending to her kpekus until someone serious about you comes along.

YommyOG:
I work in a commercial bank. My gf used to live here in Ib where I live too. She has recently been posted to Lagos State for her Youth Service. Sometime ago, she's asked me to help her work on a reversal. A few days later, I checked her account to see if funds have been reversed but I saw an inflow of #8,000 from her ex. I confronted her about it and her excuse was she was stranded and she couldn't ask me cos we weren't talking at the moment. I let it go. A week after, I instinctively snooped through her account again and saw another inflow of #10,000 from the same ex. This time, I sarcastically asked if she was stranded again. Could this mean they are back? Should I just move on?. We've been together well over two years and half and I love her a lot.

I'll appreciate your responses and advise.

Warm Regards.

- Yomi

Yomi. I was a banker like you in the past. Stop snooping through a customers account. If fraud were to occur in that account, I am very sure you are aware the auditors will check whoever logged into that account. Thats by the way. Well its obvious you lady friend still has an attachment with her ex. The fact that she still collects money from him means that they still talk alot. Sit her down and ask her what she wants in life? Cheers.

HarunaWest:
Yomi. I was a banker like you in the past. Stop snooping through a customers account. If fraud were to occur in that account, I am very sure you are aware the auditors will check whoever logged into that account. Thats by the way. Well its obvious you lady friend still has an attachment with her ex. The fact that she still collects money from him means that they still talk alot. Sit her down and ask her what she wants in life? Cheers.

Didn’t even know about this. We learn everyday

YommyOG:
I work in a commercial bank. My gf used to live here in Ib where I live too. She has recently been posted to Lagos State for her Youth Service. Sometime ago, she's asked me to help her work on a reversal. A few days later, I checked her account to see if funds have been reversed but I saw an inflow of #8,000 from her ex. I confronted her about it and her excuse was she was stranded and she couldn't ask me cos we weren't talking at the moment. I let it go. A week after, I instinctively snooped through her account again and saw another inflow of #10,000 from the same ex. This time, I sarcastically asked if she was stranded again. Could this mean they are back? Should I just move on?. We've been together well over two years and half and I love her a lot.

I'll appreciate your responses and advise.

Warm Regards.

- Yomi

Let girls be girls.

Focus on your life.

HarunaWest:
Yomi. I was a banker like you in the past. Stop snooping through a customers account. If fraud were to occur in that account, I am very sure you are aware the auditors will check whoever logged into that account. Thats by the way. Well its obvious you lady friend still has an attachment with her ex. The fact that she still collects money from him means that they still talk alot.Sit her down and ask her what she wants in life? Cheers.

Waste of time and effort!! After sitting her down, they’ll end it with sex, OP will suck buubs and forget everything!

Oga carry your mumu girl talks comot for here. Simplified man everywhere

You said u still loves her . Wake up man;
Think ; I mean leave her for like 1 week and think thoroughly about the relationship definitely you'll come back to ur senses

Hi. I did with CSMS and not Finacle. However I totally appreciate your response. Thanks a lot bro.

HarunaWest:
Yomi. I was a banker like you in the past. Stop snooping through a customers account. If fraud were to occur in that account, I am very sure you are aware the auditors will check whoever logged into that account. Thats by the way. Well its obvious you lady friend still has an attachment with her ex. The fact that she still collects money from him means that they still talk alot. Sit her down and ask her what she wants in life? Cheers.

Every time, this type of lamentation always ends with "I love her a lot". Which is very irritating to hear, She is your gf so ofcourse we know you care about her...you may not realise this but you only use the "I love her a lot" to manipulate us into considering your feelings in our advice, you want us to convince you that it's not as bad as you think and you have no cause for alarm.

You better get out of that relationship with your dignity intact.

It seems men still don’t understand women! Abi we should create school to educate you guys?

A woman that is still in touch with her, no amount of talks can make her stop talking to the ex. The more you are trying to stop her, the more shes seeing reasons to continue the communication! The moment you sense the communication is a threat and you bring it to her notice, if She doesn’t stop, just ghost the said lady. No explanation.

YommyOG:
I work in a commercial bank as a full-time employee. My gf used to live here in Ib where I live too. She has recently been posted to Lagos State for her Youth Service. Sometime ago, she's asked me to help her work on a reversal. A few days later, I checked her account to see if funds have been reversed but I saw an inflow of #8,000 from her ex. I confronted her about it and her excuse was she was stranded and she couldn't ask me cos we weren't talking at the moment. I let it go. A week after, I instinctively snooped through her account again and saw another inflow of #10,000 from the same ex. This time, I sarcastically asked if she was stranded again. Could this mean they are back? Should I just move on?. She has called me broke to my face a couple of times (I'm in some debt I'm trying to pay off and currently going through other quarter-life crises). We've been together well over two years and half and I love her a lot.

I'll appreciate your responses and advise.

Warm Regards.

na fuq naija men suppose to they fuq ,cause almost all naija babes they into runs

I'm a lady and without being sentimental
If I should find out you still see your ex, I don't think I'll be able to continue that relationship.

My ex most times chat me up, and I make sure I keep reminding him we can't get back because I am now with someone.
Good and fine,I am meant to block him but I see no sense in doing that because to me it looks childish BUT that doesn't mean I should be foolish.

Stop bothering yourself over a lady you are not married to yet. No matter what you do for them, they must cheat. Cheating is in their DNA.

He is a broke guy methinks.

Justkatty:
I'm a lady and without being sentimental
If I should find out you still see your ex, I don't think I'll be able to continue that relationship.

My ex most times chat me up, and I make sure I keep reminding him we can't get back because I am now with someone.
Good and fine,I am meant to block him but I see no sense in doing that because to me it looks childish BUT that doesn't mean I should be foolish.

Gee64:
He is a broke guy methinks.

No he's not
Atleast he lives comfortable.

Pls ask yourself if men give financial help to ladies (let alone an ex) without getting anything in return! If you gf is serving in d same state where her ex lives, guy they just made u a side guy!

They do bro. They both live in Ajah.

Rhozabeth:
Pls ask yourself if men give financial help to ladies (let alone an ex) without getting anything in return! If you gf is serving in d same state where her ex lives, guy they just made u a side guy!

Move as quick as possible.....
Drop the emotions fast,blow some AZ with whiskey.
Sit down and reminisce where you are and where you want to be.

A b***h is a b***h,you can't make a wh*re a house wife.

YommyOG:
I work in a commercial bank as a full-time employee. My gf used to live here in Ib where I live too. She has recently been posted to Lagos State for her Youth Service. Sometime ago, she's asked me to help her work on a reversal. A few days later, I checked her account to see if funds have been reversed but I saw an inflow of #8,000 from her ex. I confronted her about it and her excuse was she was stranded and she couldn't ask me cos we weren't talking at the moment. I let it go. A week after, I instinctively snooped through her account again and saw another inflow of #10,000 from the same ex. This time, I sarcastically asked if she was stranded again. Could this mean they are back? Should I just move on?. She has called me broke to my face a couple of times (I'm in some debt I'm trying to pay off and currently going through other quarter-life crises). We've been together well over two years and half and I love her a lot.

I'll appreciate your responses and advise.

Warm Regards.

- Yomi

bros try check yourself out, there some girls like this that if they enter someone life everything will turn upside down, better for you to love on because if she is a good girl she will not call you broke.

YommyOG:
They do bro. They both live in Ajah.

Lobatan

YommyOG:
She has called me broke to my face a couple of times (I'm in some debt I'm trying to pay off and currently going through other quarter-life crises). We've been together well over two years and half and I love her a lot.

Any guy that's broke and is out there looking for one illusionary true love is suffering from misplaced priorities syndrome.

Regarding if you should move on, pls don't. Move on only when you've been served chilled breakfast with some dessert on top.

YommyOG:
I work in a commercial bank as a full-time employee. My gf used to live here in Ib where I live too. She has recently been posted to Lagos State for her Youth Service. Sometime ago, she's asked me to help her work on a reversal. A few days later, I checked her account to see if funds have been reversed but I saw an inflow of #8,000 from her ex. I confronted her about it and her excuse was she was stranded and she couldn't ask me cos we weren't talking at the moment. I let it go. A week after, I instinctively snooped through her account again and saw another inflow of #10,000 from the same ex. This time, I sarcastically asked if she was stranded again. Could this mean they are back? Should I just move on?. She has called me broke to my face a couple of times (I'm in some debt I'm trying to pay off and currently going through other quarter-life crises). We've been together well over two years and half and I love her a lot.

I'll appreciate your responses and advise.

Warm Regards.

- Yomi

Oga, no guy be father Christmas for this present-day Nigeria, they could actually be seeing each other. Besides , a girl who could look you in the face and call you a broke guy,doesn't deserve you ok.. so pls...MOVE ON.

Honest advice from a brother..

Mumu raise to power 4

Broke girl wey..

1 him papa no fit cater for,

2. dey beg ex for money,

3. Still dey serve, never dey feed herself

4, never begin make her own money

5. Dey her whoring phase and whoring it ti the high heavens..

Dey broke shame man like you wey dey feed himself, dey pay rent, dey take care of him bills..

And you're feeling bad?


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