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Re: Help! I Am In A Relationship With A Big Manipulative Woman by DOWN2HeartLoved: 8:52pm On Jun 20, 2022 |
Enikeey: She told me that am just wasting my time |
Re: Help! I Am In A Relationship With A Big Manipulative Woman by DOWN2HeartLoved: 8:56pm On Jun 20, 2022 |
Exjoker: When she wants to give birth I took BG risk, she's from Orogun,if anything would have happened to her I would have been held responsible,still yet A point I skipped,why did she say I should say am her brother at the Hospital. Can you believe same thing happened on the Onset of the relationship,I should say am her brother |
Re: Help! I Am In A Relationship With A Big Manipulative Woman by Nobody: 9:04pm On Jun 20, 2022 |
DOWN2HeartLoved: Bro I think you are just wasting your time if you think it will still work. Start making the plans to exit the relationship and start your own life afresh. Even if her mother asks her to be reunited with you, it will still be the same cycle of quarrels and toxicity as una don build this relationship on lies and faulty foundation. 2 Likes |
Re: Help! I Am In A Relationship With A Big Manipulative Woman by abbasajao(m): 9:23pm On Jun 20, 2022 |
Oga. I no read your story. But leave an identified manipulative woman na. Abi dem tie you down? 3 Likes |
Re: Help! I Am In A Relationship With A Big Manipulative Woman by pansophist(m): 9:36pm On Jun 20, 2022 |
My people suffer for lack of knowledge. Hosea 4.6 Normally you should know a woman from all areas before you impregnate or wife her up. Your knowledge about her MUST NOT be based on what she told you, but your real life experience with her. At the very least, you must know her siblings, family background, parents, place of work, age, for a start. Relationship/marriage is a place that men bears most of the liability, same way women does with pregnancy. Men usually will lie to get into a woman's pant, and it's the responsibility of a woman to protect herself. It's same for men. A woman will lie to make you ring her, and it's your responsibility to not allow yourself be used. Now you've entered, but you won't be in this dilemma if you did the right thing from the onset. So before you blame her, I want you to reflect on where you've gone wrong. It takes two to play and it's seems like she is on top of her game, while you're not. Don't be naive bro. I just want to point out the foundational problems that lead you to this mess, and I hope you won't repeat it again if you overcome this. 16 Likes |
Re: Help! I Am In A Relationship With A Big Manipulative Woman by WorldsNumber1: 9:38pm On Jun 20, 2022 |
DOWN2HeartLoved:She might have used kayamata for you abi no be juju be dat? 1 Like |
Re: Help! I Am In A Relationship With A Big Manipulative Woman by Ravenbeast1(m): 9:46pm On Jun 20, 2022 |
OP you wey write this story, read am as one of us, e make sense to you? As you read am so, you happy with the poster? Story looks fabricated sha |
Re: Help! I Am In A Relationship With A Big Manipulative Woman by Nobody: 9:47pm On Jun 20, 2022 |
Ravenbeast1: I don't think it's fabricated because the dude dropped his WhatsApp number out of distress. 4 Likes |
Re: Help! I Am In A Relationship With A Big Manipulative Woman by Nonexisting: 9:48pm On Jun 20, 2022 |
As simp, you deserve whatever you get. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Help! I Am In A Relationship With A Big Manipulative Woman by DOWN2HeartLoved: 11:12pm On Jun 20, 2022 |
Ravenbeast1: How can I come to nairaland to fabricate stories, this is happening to me and the worst part is love still dey, people say I love her too much,why she doesn't love even to admit to others that am her husband 1 Like |
Re: Help! I Am In A Relationship With A Big Manipulative Woman by DOWN2HeartLoved: 11:13pm On Jun 20, 2022 |
WorldsNumber1: Reasons everyone is staying away from me, because they know once I have money even if it's 50K am running heels to go please her 1 Like |
Re: Help! I Am In A Relationship With A Big Manipulative Woman by Kobojunkie: 11:48pm On Jun 20, 2022 |
DOWN2HeartLoved:What exactly is it that is happening to you? You dated her and even had a child with her disregarding her age and background all that while, so why are all those suddenly problems? You say people are telling you she is a club girl, my question to you is, do you have evidence of this behind "people are saying..."? "People are saying" she has a house, do you have evidence of this or are you simply looking for reasons to abandon her and maybe the child? If she blocks your calls the broach the issue and figure out where your relationship is with her that way. All these other childish reasons you offer are just ridiculous to read. 1 Like |
Re: Help! I Am In A Relationship With A Big Manipulative Woman by DOWN2HeartLoved: 11:51pm On Jun 20, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: God help me out, begging now wouldn't it be me lowering myself esteem again to emotional torture and blackmail? |
Re: Help! I Am In A Relationship With A Big Manipulative Woman by Kobojunkie: 11:57pm On Jun 20, 2022 |
DOWN2HeartLoved:I don't understand. I opened the thread thinking you were caught in an abusive relationship. If you don't want to remain in the relationship, tell her and move on.. |
Re: Help! I Am In A Relationship With A Big Manipulative Woman by Zanzibar1: 12:01am On Jun 21, 2022 |
You are under a spell. You need to consult a Dibia 1 Like |
Re: Help! I Am In A Relationship With A Big Manipulative Woman by Ximenez(m): 12:45am On Jun 21, 2022 |
DOWN2HeartLoved:Please how old are you? You are in your early 20s right? 3 Likes |
Re: Help! I Am In A Relationship With A Big Manipulative Woman by Gaddafih001(m): 5:14am On Jun 21, 2022 |
DOWN2HeartLoved:Just leave with your life. My boss was killed because he wanted to confirm what he was hearing. I ran away from a situation worse than yours even after she had 3 kids and told me to my face that they ain’t mine. Story long abeg but I am 100 % sure it will end your life or end in tears. 11 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Help! I Am In A Relationship With A Big Manipulative Woman by Nobody: 5:41am On Jun 21, 2022 |
OP, your post is funny. |
Re: Help! I Am In A Relationship With A Big Manipulative Woman by DOWN2HeartLoved: 7:13am On Jun 21, 2022 |
Ximenez: Yes 24 1 Like |
Re: Help! I Am In A Relationship With A Big Manipulative Woman by DOWN2HeartLoved: 7:16am On Jun 21, 2022 |
Re: Help! I Am In A Relationship With A Big Manipulative Woman by DOWN2HeartLoved: 7:17am On Jun 21, 2022 |
Gaddafih001: What is all these then?,why pretend at first,why are women so heartless to a loving and caring person? 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help! I Am In A Relationship With A Big Manipulative Woman by DOWN2HeartLoved: 7:18am On Jun 21, 2022 |
Zanzibar1: Spell?? |
Re: Help! I Am In A Relationship With A Big Manipulative Woman by Ximenez(m): 8:35am On Jun 21, 2022 |
DOWN2HeartLoved:Run o |
Re: Help! I Am In A Relationship With A Big Manipulative Woman by Biafranodogwu55: 9:23am On Jun 21, 2022 |
How u want make we take help you know |
Re: Help! I Am In A Relationship With A Big Manipulative Woman by Rickmann: 10:33am On Jun 21, 2022 |
DOWN2HeartLoved: So you met someone and just decided to have a child without marrying her..obviously she manipulated you, else you would have known her background and met her people. |
Re: Help! I Am In A Relationship With A Big Manipulative Woman by Zealag(m): 11:10am On Jun 21, 2022 |
Op you are a BIG FOOL and SIMP 1.If any girl can't be bold to call you her bf instead call you her brother,juz know you are alone in that relationship. 2.Dont keep a woman you love too long in your house without doing atleast introduction in her head. 3.Dont invest so much in a relationship where the two of you are just co-habiting,if she dies in your house at night,you ll rot in jail Lastly leave the damn relationship, she's meant for the street 3 Likes |
Re: Help! I Am In A Relationship With A Big Manipulative Woman by DOWN2HeartLoved: 11:47am On Jun 21, 2022 |
Savourt: Someone said she doesn't love me anymore,she needs to travel,so distance can make her rekindle the love again,but I don't know,is letting to travel good?,or what I personally went to pack somethings at Sapele she said belongs to her, chairs of which she sold,fan,water heater and a big shelf,am I still going to experience all this? |
Re: Help! I Am In A Relationship With A Big Manipulative Woman by SPAMBOX7: 11:54am On Jun 21, 2022 |
Ballzproblemm:Lmafao |
Re: Help! I Am In A Relationship With A Big Manipulative Woman by DOWN2HeartLoved: 11:55am On Jun 21, 2022 |
DOWN2HeartLoved: Am thinking of moving my chairs and the last things I have in the house |
Re: Help! I Am In A Relationship With A Big Manipulative Woman by Albertone(m): 12:19pm On Jun 21, 2022 |
DOWN2HeartLoved: What I'm about to say is the plain truth: She just used you to get pregnant as age is no more on her side. She wanted you to say you're her brother because to her, you are not dating.You are just her sperm donor. Also,she doesn't want people to see her,as old as she is,dating a small boy.[You are the one dating her,she is not dating you]. She used juju to tie you because she wants to have more children with you. She also wants you to keep pleasing her and spending money. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help! I Am In A Relationship With A Big Manipulative Woman by DOWN2HeartLoved: 12:52pm On Jun 21, 2022 |
Albertone: If it's so I think I need to follow advice now 1 Like |
Re: Help! I Am In A Relationship With A Big Manipulative Woman by diogo23: 1:20pm On Jun 21, 2022 |
DOWN2HeartLoved:Keep on talking nonsense until you die, what kind of investment that won't let you think 3 Likes |
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