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DOWN2HeartLoved:
I usually come to nairaland to get advice on business or any other related stuffs am affected with

Currently am in a tight spot, have been dating a lady I met during a trip, after a month, we started chatting and I went to visit her, things were smooth until we have a child, now she's different

The thing am surprised about her is I don't know her family background, only believed what she told me, she's from Auchi and Orogun and the mother lives in Ondo, we have issues I had to move out of my own house for her, the problem is I'm thinking she has children outside, she's always 28 every year, am thinking she's close to 40, why lie about age and many more.

Reasons am baffled, her mother isn't showing any concern.

She has lots of brothers

She always calls me a small boy

She doesn't even care now, even if I die

Problems:- I have invested on this relationship emotionally, physically and even more,

Is she from Benin? She lied too, she has turned my people against me, right now no one reason me seriously again, because everyone is telling me she's a club girl and I need to leave her, she just laughs and blocks anytime I called her, people are telling me she might have built a house with my money elsewhere.

Am shocked this is happening to me.

Run I repeat run, I'm a true redpiller.

DOWN2HeartLoved:
I usually come to nairaland to get advice on business or any other related stuffs am affected with

Currently am in a tight spot, have been dating a lady I met during a trip, after a month, we started chatting and I went to visit her, things were smooth until we have a child, now she's different

The thing am surprised about her is I don't know her family background, only believed what she told me, she's from Auchi and Orogun and the mother lives in Ondo, we have issues I had to move out of my own house for her, the problem is I'm thinking she has children outside, she's always 28 every year, am thinking she's close to 40, why lie about age and many more.

Reasons am baffled, her mother isn't showing any concern.

She has lots of brothers

She always calls me a small boy

She doesn't even care now, even if I die

Problems:- I have invested on this relationship emotionally, physically and even more,

Is she from Benin? She lied too, she has turned my people against me, right now no one reason me seriously again, because everyone is telling me she's a club girl and I need to leave her, she just laughs and blocks anytime I called her, people are telling me she might have built a house with my money elsewhere.

Am shocked this is happening to me.

If you want someone to help u bring her details out... I mean private investigator, u can call me let me link u up

biroo:
I don't get, how do you settle and even have a child with a woman you barely know?

Thank very much for this question..

Na pvssy sweet am

:oh

DOWN2HeartLoved:
She threatened me with Vigilante in the GRA area am living that am frustrating her,what do I do?,I left everything I worked so hard for in the house����

are you in benin?

DOWN2HeartLoved:
I usually come to nairaland to get advice on business or any other related stuffs am affected with

Currently am in a tight spot, have been dating a lady I met during a trip, after a month, we started chatting and I went to visit her, things were smooth until we have a child, now she's different

The thing am surprised about her is I don't know her family background, only believed what she told me, she's from Auchi and Orogun and the mother lives in Ondo, we have issues I had to move out of my own house for her, the problem is I'm thinking she has children outside, she's always 28 every year, am thinking she's close to 40, why lie about age and many more.

Reasons am baffled, her mother isn't showing any concern.

She has lots of brothers

She always calls me a small boy

She doesn't even care now, even if I die

Problems:- I have invested on this relationship emotionally, physically and even more,

Is she from Benin? She lied too, she has turned my people against me, right now no one reason me seriously again, because everyone is telling me she's a club girl and I need to leave her, she just laughs and blocks anytime I called her, people are telling me she might have built a house with my money elsewhere.

Am shocked this is happening to me.

I am from Benin currently in auchi
I can do underground worl for u

If she is truly from auchi or not
If u r serious on finding out if she is frilly from auchi or Benin

If this your story is true,then you need to separate from her but not with her moving with Ur property. She needs to leave. Meet army people,pay them . Gather like six of them. Get a Truck car that will carry her n her loads. Go to Ur house . They should treat her like criminal. Pick all her loAds into the truck and off. Don't worry about what people gonna say. Fear no go let her come bk again. Even the vigilantes , when they hear army ,they will never near. Ur peace of mind matters. Take care of Ur child

DOWN2HeartLoved:
I know it sounds too good to be true,but this lady is saying am not man enough for marriage,I need to go get money for her?,all the money we have been spending is enough to start businesses,yet she collects money baselessly,If am asked to trace her I can't self,I met her in a bedsitter then we moved to Warri, right now people are seeing me as crazy and she as the good person

If na warri u dey, u nor get fear na.... Na we we for area.


Just call me, area go bring her data for u now now even if na north she come from, Dem go trace am go get info about her.
Btw, where for area u dey ?

Seriously,
You have been jazzed!

Or Why would an adult run away from home when nothing absolutely is pursuing him?

Bottom line;
If she ever lied to you and you caught her then,it's possible your insinuations are 100percent valid.
Go back home and involve your own family too,don't die on a matter your family should collectively fight on your behalf.
Naturally, I can't put up with a lying mouth, male or female

DOWN2HeartLoved:
She threatened me with Vigilante in the GRA area am living that am frustrating her,what do I do?,I left everything I worked so hard for in the house����

All these men who catch feelings at the drop of a hat, I just wonder. Any yeye thing wey resemble woman wey una meet, after small talk, boom attachments are formed and you start catching feelings in the name of relationship.

Una no know say una suppose dey nack/play with anyone wey catch your attention and then keep your safe emotional and physical distance?

DOWN2HeartLoved:
I usually come to nairaland to get advice on business or any other related stuffs am affected with

Currently am in a tight spot, have been dating a lady I met during a trip, after a month, we started chatting and I went to visit her, things were smooth until we have a child, now she's different

The thing am surprised about her is I don't know her family background, only believed what she told me, she's from Auchi and Orogun and the mother lives in Ondo, we have issues I had to move out of my own house for her, the problem is I'm thinking she has children outside, she's always 28 every year, am thinking she's close to 40, why lie about age and many more.

Reasons am baffled, her mother isn't showing any concern.

She has lots of brothers

She always calls me a small boy

She doesn't even care now, even if I die

Problems:- I have invested on this relationship emotionally, physically and even more,

Is she from Benin? She lied too, she has turned my people against me, right now no one reason me seriously again, because everyone is telling me she's a club girl and I need to leave her, she just laughs and blocks anytime I called her, people are telling me she might have built a house with my money elsewhere.

Am shocked this is happening to me.

u av been hypnotized bro

DOWN2HeartLoved:
You don't understand,I still love have if she can come clean to me about the whole truth,but Pride won't make her admits her lies

You're a big fool.

u jumped/swim inside the pusi b4 checking if she's 40 or so ? U should knw how person bweast go look haha!


U still have 80% chance to collect ur things back from her.

Go back to her,tell her u are sorry ,behave like a dunce and wen ur hand Don reach wetin u dey look for


Act like a bouncer

DOWN2HeartLoved:
She threatened me with Vigilante in the GRA area am living that am frustrating her,what do I do?,I left everything I worked so hard for in the house����

Accept your fate n be wise in future

Run for your life

killmods:
You better get up and pull urself out with ur child from that girl. U shouldn't even be entangled with her at all.. I hope the child is even urs. U should have done ur home work. Don't be surprised that girl has families for different men in different cities. Some of them na their way. I wish u goodluck

Best advice. Leave the woman, and count your losses. Carry out DNA test on the girl to determine her paternity.

You made a mistake, everybody does. Forget it and move on with your life.

Maverick777:
You're in warri yeah?
if yes, send me your contact.
If no, ignore.

make sure its a call contact
I don't do WhatsApp

I've called you already
Ignore the aforementioned.

Yes I saved your number

DOWN2HeartLoved:
I usually come to nairaland to get advice on business or any other related stuffs am affected with

Currently am in a tight spot, have been dating a lady I met during a trip, after a month, we started chatting and I went to visit her, things were smooth until we have a child, now she's different

The thing am surprised about her is I don't know her family background, only believed what she told me, she's from Auchi and Orogun and the mother lives in Ondo, we have issues I had to move out of my own house for her, the problem is I'm thinking she has children outside, she's always 28 every year, am thinking she's close to 40, why lie about age and many more.

Reasons am baffled, her mother isn't showing any concern.

She has lots of brothers

She always calls me a small boy

She doesn't even care now, even if I die

Problems:- I have invested on this relationship emotionally, physically and even more,

Is she from Benin? She lied too, she has turned my people against me, right now no one reason me seriously again, because everyone is telling me she's a club girl and I need to leave her, she just laughs and blocks anytime I called her, people are telling me she might have built a house with my money elsewhere.

Am shocked this is happening to me.

U need help and small sense

DOWN2HeartLoved:
I usually come to nairaland to get advice on business or any other related stuffs am affected with

Currently am in a tight spot, have been dating a lady I met during a trip, after a month, we started chatting and I went to visit her, things were smooth until we have a child, now she's different

The thing am surprised about her is I don't know her family background, only believed what she told me, she's from Auchi and Orogun and the mother lives in Ondo, we have issues I had to move out of my own house for her, the problem is I'm thinking she has children outside, she's always 28 every year, am thinking she's close to 40, why lie about age and many more.

Reasons am baffled, her mother isn't showing any concern.

She has lots of brothers

She always calls me a small boy

She doesn't even care now, even if I die

Problems:- I have invested on this relationship emotionally, physically and even more,

Is she from Benin? She lied too, she has turned my people against me, right now no one reason me seriously again, because everyone is telling me she's a club girl and I need to leave her, she just laughs and blocks anytime I called her, people are telling me she might have built a house with my money elsewhere.

Am shocked this is happening to me.

Some people are architect of their problems.
Bros na u cause ur problem by urself
How can u just meet a lady inside bus and just went ahead and marry her like that without even know her background and the kind of person she is, believe me the lady just used u to achieve some aims.
U better let her be and remold ur life.

This your situation get as e be

DOWN2HeartLoved:
I usually come to nairaland to get advice on business or any other related stuffs am affected with

Currently am in a tight spot, have been dating a lady I met during a trip, after a month, we started chatting and I went to visit her, things were smooth until we have a child, now she's different

The thing am surprised about her is I don't know her family background, only believed what she told me, she's from Auchi and Orogun and the mother lives in Ondo, we have issues I had to move out of my own house for her, the problem is I'm thinking she has children outside, she's always 28 every year, am thinking she's close to 40, why lie about age and many more.

Reasons am baffled, her mother isn't showing any concern.

She has lots of brothers

She always calls me a small boy

She doesn't even care now, even if I die

Problems:- I have invested on this relationship emotionally, physically and even more,

Is she from Benin? She lied too, she has turned my people against me, right now no one reason me seriously again, because everyone is telling me she's a club girl and I need to leave her, she just laughs and blocks anytime I called her, people are telling me she might have built a house with my money elsewhere.

Am shocked this is happening to me.

How old are you?

Mumu write up.

Another SIMP

Oponu omo ale jatijati

Fourwinds:
Thank very much for this question..

Na pvssy sweet am

hmm, him never see anything yet.

Rent another apartment very far away from where you presently live. And it should be in a secured estate. Move away with your properties when she is not around. If possible, take the child and give to your parents. If you move away and leave the child with her, you may never see that child again.

But if the child is with your parents, she will look for you. And your parents will ask her to go and call her parents before she can be allowed to either see the child or have custody of it.

Bros you sure say no be your picture dem find inside on pineapple wey dey sea?

Because how be say na now your eye clear, especially when you comot for your own house?

Charly68:
She is your baby mama so to say and that has not translated to marriage.. relocate and leave her to live her life.. keep a tab on her because of your child and don't ever allow any woman to destroy your peace.. Be the man and stop all this weakling tendency .

Of which I have done

DOWN2HeartLoved:
I usually come to nairaland to get advice on business or any other related stuffs am affected with

Currently am in a tight spot, have been dating a lady I met during a trip, after a month, we started chatting and I went to visit her, things were smooth until we have a child, now she's different

The thing am surprised about her is I don't know her family background, only believed what she told me, she's from Auchi and Orogun and the mother lives in Ondo, we have issues I had to move out of my own house for her, the problem is I'm thinking she has children outside, she's always 28 every year, am thinking she's close to 40, why lie about age and many more.

Reasons am baffled, her mother isn't showing any concern.

She has lots of brothers

She always calls me a small boy

She doesn't even care now, even if I die

Problems:- I have invested on this relationship emotionally, physically and even more,

Is she from Benin? She lied too, she has turned my people against me, right now no one reason me seriously again, because everyone is telling me she's a club girl and I need to leave her, she just laughs and blocks anytime I called her, people are telling me she might have built a house with my money elsewhere.

Am shocked this is happening to me.

Lol...oga u don go buy container market. Na senior aunty be that oo!

Hope u never marry am properly?
Run if u never marry am o! Na so my brother take excape one 2 yrs ago.

crappy story

I am not shocked this happened to you. You married or hooked yourself up with someone without knowing Her background. Her people, Her origin, her friends. We’re you guys in a cave , or in the wilderness?

I am shocked you don’t know exactly what to do. So because you have invested so much in the relationship you want to hold on to invest even more of your peace of mind, mental health and self esteem in what is obviously a toxic union?

Better come to your senses and get the hell out of there to start rebuilding your life. Just make sure you take care of your child, one way or another.

Best of luck. You’re going to need it.

membranus:
Best advice. Leave the woman, and count your losses. Carry out DNA test on the girl to determine her paternity.

You made a mistake, everybody does. Forget it and move on with your life.

Bros nor be my problem oo.. I'm not the Op

I laughed at the part where you asked “is she from Benin “ bros na you Dey date her… how you want make we take know?







Las las i no get any advice for you…I no Dey advice person on relationship matters!
Na just wetin funny me I talk.

WatchYourSix:
Did u say u have to leave your house??


What i dont get is how people get this weak

You never jam