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For me I stay alone and even don't have friends. But any body can be of need. Even the op Nigeria no balance just be mindful of the ppl u let in.

Sucre6:
I love people especially family and friends but I don't know why, but each time i have a visitor, be it my girlfriend, family or friends, when they finally leaves I feel so much relieved and unexplained inner joy, I don't know why

same here.. Sometimes I even stay up all night in anxiety just waiting for them to leave.. But on the other hand there are some female visitors I don't want them to ever leave.. Especially those with soft breast..

Give wetin.Omo I will simply say I nor get.i know how much I gave out last year and if I ask people for money,all of them will be saying they don't have.Make everybody dey he lane abeg.

Mariangeles:
Eschew this mindset.
Give what you can instead.

Memberclub:
Unfortunately I let people stay with me right from uni, Nysc & now. Help anyone if you can

What's unfortunate about that?

Na this kind thing dey vex me the most regarding Nairaland. One sentence alone and the thread don knack front page. Ask the moderator why he moved it and he’ll give a stare of confusion. The children here are so bored they’ll comment on any and everything. Left to me many useless threads will go unnoticed until the quality of topics rise considerably.

Rgade:
What if it’s a sexy lady?

To die don dey hungry this one...

Bigfish121:
Give wetin.Omo I will simply say I nor get.i know how much I gave out last year and if I ask people for money,all of them will be saying they don't have.Make everybody dey he lane abeg.

You don't have to give all the time, and at your own detriment.
Give what you can, when you can.

Story for the gods
Tales from moonlight

cRobo:
During covid, a "distant" friend I came across pleaded with me that he needs a place to put up for 2 - weeks and quite honestly my house was so big big enough to accommodate 5 persons but I love my peace of mind

So I told my friend, 2 - weeks you said right?
He said yes
And he said he will take care of feeding and all his essentials and I said that's fine

I took him to a hotel and paid 2 - weeks for him and he moved into the � hotel


It's a long story (I hate typing)

Lol

All this bad belle advice.

This same OP will accommodate someone in future.

Make una dey say am telling you for there

HUMAN BEINGS....

novia22:
To die don dey hungry this one...

A stranded lady is vulnerable to a great number of evils like rapists, human traffickers, ritualists etc. Especially if said lady is sexually appealing.
I will never hesitate to offer shelter to such vulnerable people, you can give up on humanity but not me.

Stephen2324:
No matter how sad their story is , don't let anybody move into your house.

One day you will be in such position and nature will remind you of your stupidity and ignorance.

You are lucky you are alive, in a place that is not ravaged by war, famine, pestilence and deaths so you have the guts to spill rubbish.
You still have time to change.

Rgade:
A stranded lady is vulnerable to a great number of evils like rapists, human traffickers, ritualists etc. Especially if said lady is sexually appealing.
I will never hesitate to offer shelter to such vulnerable people, you can give up on humanity but not me.

you are housing are because she's a lady not because you care about humanity

Person don do this one strong tin

It mostly ends in regrets and bad bloods except maybe siblings. Cos no matter how much you try and sacrifice, you'll most likely not do enough.

It kills relationships most times, if you can and have the means, please help with the rent and other support you can for the person

praz001:
This post is for me.
I dont know how to send him away. I've got no privacy at all. Its so really bad. A grown up man who only want to stay for a week has now turned to saying for a month plus.


Confused on what to do....

Who is he to you?

Open your mouth and simply ask him to leave within the next one week.

Let's see how it goes from there.

Also don't be friendly with anyone to the point you let them into your house. Except you're sure that they have their own apartment.

Stephen2324:
No matter how sad their story is , don't let anybody move into your house.

I can only allow a single guy, mostly well behaved guy, to stay in my house. Other than that nobody. If u be woman, just forget am, as I de make money I block all woman for my life. Wahala for who get woman as friends

I swear am currently regretting allowing friends to stay with me

fernandoc:
My house is my sanctuary. I have gotten so used to living alone that it scares me that one day I will have to get married and live with another human being. Maybe a much much bigger house will do the trick, where I can have my own private section void of any other human interaction.

And when you start having children?

Seconded.
They'll grow wings and start competing with you.

Pistanthrophobia!

Sermwell:
A very great disservice! I was busy sending 70k to my younger brother every month for the past 1 year because he always complains of hardship to feed his family! I just found out that he has been codedly building four flats storey building, and he's at the roofing level. I'm happy for him though, but he thinks he has been playing me. No wahala

O boy,brothers dey o

smart speech

Stephen2324:
No matter how sad their story is , don't let anybody move into your house.

I love accommodating people but I don't like squatting with people.

novia22:
You like vawulence abi?

Bring it mummy, bring it... I want me some

Bigfish121:
Human beings will actually turn you to a monster.I borrowed a friend 83k to bring back his dead pos business.Anytime I call him to ask for the money,he has refused to pick Mt call.Can you imagine that

Go for his throat and get your money back.

very true one yuseless girl i tried to help showed me shege in the past 3months i just sent her back to the village today

novia22:
My dear I help alot, to a fault even and I will continue to help, but you see my house, my brother fogerrit.
I don't mind paying for hotel bills to save my sanity and if you feel you are too stranded beyond what I have offered to help with, just go to the nearest police station. Police is your friend.

On any universe, I'd rather trust you than the cops. I don't like them at all.

Kudos for continuing to help as you can.

He op may not have any reasons Sha. He saw it on Twitter and decided to bring it here.

abfelicity91:
If you allowed someone into your house and made you regretted doesn't mean there was nobody who was helped in this scenario and turned to a blessing to the the helper...
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Stop it, don't judge everyone based on the experience you had with one and don't assumed everyone will get the same result after going through the same thing..
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Which one be don't allow anyone moved into your home?

Must you write in ENGLISH ?