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1. She could be a virgin and is set on being one until she marries. There is nothing wrong with that. In fact, it is highly commendable. But she could be lying, which is pointless since sooner or later, you'll find out.

2. Why the heck did you think we need this information? As proof she's madly in love with you? Lol. We don see wetin pass this one. E no mean jackshit.

3. A very good thing. You should be happy.

4. The only thing to watch out for. If it's innate, and you find that you're incapable of dealing when she's that way, then end it now.

123guys:
Nairalanders I need advice. I've been dating this girl for more than a year. But I have couple of challenges:

1) She doesn't like to visit me except for a few times. She claims to be a virgin and says I might be tempted. That I need to pay her bride price before we can do all those. At times I wonder if there's something she's hiding.

2) Each time I try to break up, she sheds tears and involves her family members sometimes to beg me.

3) She is a prayerful type (she has MFM background). So, oftentimes she involves me in fasting.

4) She swings mood easily when things are not going on well. This part is really frustrating because she takes everything as fight when this happens. Infact, she hardly takes advice.

I love her but I'm not sure how to deal with those bad sides. Please I need help. I need advice.

You are looking at all these Red Flags right now, and you are still wonderin' what to do next?

Don't worry. Go ahead and marry her. Na for this same nairaland we go still hear your stories that touch.

Nonsense.

I for everybody and I am for no body
Welcome to the beat mugu grade 1

Camelot65:
Sincerely, I can't deal with a lady with mood swings. Nah

If you can't deal, just leave.

I have a friend that does it every time, jeez it's so annoying.

I cannot can

Cypress042:
Op all i can say to you is, go ahead and change a full grown adult if you can.

What your fore fathers couldn't do during their time, you just wake up and think is easy Continue

Lol

A lady told me, i should get her pregnant before she agrees to marry me , What do you think this means? Am even confused. This is my first time hearing such from a lady.

Go ahead and break up with her. Na Olosho girls dey fit people like you

Trust me ,it won't end up well

You might be dealing with a rigid person here, go ahead if you can live with it
Me I can’t that’s why I parted ways with my ex, she is married now with a daughter and I am happy I made the right decision for both of us

123guys:
Nairalanders I need advice. I've been dating this girl for more than a year. But I have couple of challenges:

1) She doesn't like to visit me except for a few times. She claims to be a virgin and says I might be tempted. That I need to pay her bride price before we can do all those. At times I wonder if there's something she's hiding.

2) Each time I try to break up, she sheds tears and involves her family members sometimes to beg me.

3) She is a prayerful type (she has MFM background). So, oftentimes she involves me in fasting.

4) She swings mood easily when things are not going on well. This part is really frustrating because she takes everything as fight when this happens. Infact, she hardly takes advice.

I love her but I'm not sure how to deal with those bad sides. Please I need help. I need advice.

Bro if you don't want to regret your future leave that girl
Because
- she is manipulating you
- she's not a virgin
I had a similar experience in 2019

Emotions will decive you
She and her family may be hiding something bigger than you can handle
Shes clearly not a wife material if shes not understanding in times of financial distress
Please bro im begging you leave her alone please for your own good
Please.

The worst person to take relationship advise from is the person your partner runs to when there's conflict
Friend or family they will always be in her support and nothing good will ever kome out of it. This got me stuk to the toxic girl i was dating for a long time

Please bro run away
Thanks you

toujurs:
A lady told me, i should get her pregnant before she agrees to marry me , What do you think this means? Am even confused. This is my first time hearing such from a lady.

If you love her and are willing to have a child with her, Nwanne enjoy pussy oO
Have warm baths and Bleep the babe well

Any girl I'm not fucking, I don't call it relationship

123guys:
Nairalanders I need advice. I've been dating this girl for more than a year. But I have couple of challenges:

1) She doesn't like to visit me except for a few times. She claims to be a virgin and says I might be tempted. That I need to pay her bride price before we can do all those. At times I wonder if there's something she's hiding.

2) Each time I try to break up, she sheds tears and involves her family members sometimes to beg me.

3) She is a prayerful type (she has MFM background). So, oftentimes she involves me in fasting.

4) She swings mood easily when things are not going on well. This part is really frustrating because she takes everything as fight when this happens. Infact, she hardly takes advice.

I love her but I'm not sure how to deal with those bad sides. Please I need help. I need advice.

guy we are in 2022 u better be wise

How is number 3 an issue??

Please explaim

Run Ooo

123guys:
I'm not saying I want to change her. Just asking what I should do.

especially that number 4 me I no fit oo

123guys:
Nairalanders I need advice. I've been dating this girl for more than a year. But I have couple of challenges:

1) She doesn't like to visit me except for a few times. She claims to be a virgin and says I might be tempted. That I need to pay her bride price before we can do all those. At times I wonder if there's something she's hiding.

2) Each time I try to break up, she sheds tears and involves her family members sometimes to beg me.

3) She is a prayerful type (she has MFM background). So, oftentimes she involves me in fasting.

4) She swings mood easily when things are not going on well. This part is really frustrating because she takes everything as fight when this happens. Infact, she hardly takes advice.

I love her but I'm not sure how to deal with those bad sides. Please I need help. I need advice.

What a dramatic life.

Do I hear u say u love her? Man no dey supposed love woman, in short love between human relationship doesn't exist. Women have two most hidden characteristics ; not being loyal and manipulative. Go find urself a working class lady with money and class wetin u wan use mountain on fire background do abi u wan open ur own ministry ni. Remember, men are the prize so go fine beta girl go help u change ur oil on a regular. Peace out!

123guys:
Nairalanders I need advice. I've been dating this girl for more than a year. But I have couple of challenges:

1) She doesn't like to visit me except for a few times. She claims to be a virgin and says I might be tempted. That I need to pay her bride price before we can do all those. At times I wonder if there's something she's hiding.

2) Each time I try to break up, she sheds tears and involves her family members sometimes to beg me.

3) She is a prayerful type (she has MFM background). So, oftentimes she involves me in fasting.

4) She swings mood easily when things are not going on well. This part is really frustrating because she takes everything as fight when this happens. Infact, she hardly takes advice.

I love her but I'm not sure how to deal with those bad sides. Please I need help. I need advice.

Everything seems good until no 4 and maybe no . There might be a tendency for manipulation bt I'm not totally sure.

4 creates the red flag that triggers 2b. Going to MFM or being a Christian doesn't automatically mean Everything about her attitude is clear and good. Infact i think that when u should be more careful cos some church people can pretend to be nice.

123guys:
Nairalanders I need advice. I've been dating this girl for more than a year. But I have couple of challenges:

1) She doesn't like to visit me except for a few times. She claims to be a virgin and says I might be tempted. That I need to pay her bride price before we can do all those. At times I wonder if there's something she's hiding.

2) Each time I try to break up, she sheds tears and involves her family members sometimes to beg me.

3) She is a prayerful type (she has MFM background). So, oftentimes she involves me in fasting.

4) She swings mood easily when things are not going on well. This part is really frustrating because she takes everything as fight when this happens. Infact, she hardly takes advice.

I love her but I'm not sure how to deal with those bad sides. Please I need help. I need advice.

if you can date a girl for one year without seeing her pant and bra that is a big shiny waving red flag

123guys:
Nairalanders I need advice. I've been dating this girl for more than a year. But I have couple of challenges:

1) She doesn't like to visit me except for a few times. She claims to be a virgin and says I might be tempted. That I need to pay her bride price before we can do all those. At times I wonder if there's something she's hiding.

2) Each time I try to break up, she sheds tears and involves her family members sometimes to beg me.

3) She is a prayerful type (she has MFM background). So, oftentimes she involves me in fasting.

4) She swings mood easily when things are not going on well. This part is really frustrating because she takes everything as fight when this happens. Infact, she hardly takes advice.

I love her but I'm not sure how to deal with those bad sides. Please I need help. I need advice.

a broken relationship is better than living in heal as marriage or broken marriage bro Wise up and know what you want

Thank God am not ur mate

She only have 1 bad habit which is the last in your list. I don't think you really know the difference between good and bad...

123guys:
Nairalanders I need advice. I've been dating this girl for more than a year. But I have couple of challenges:

1) She doesn't like to visit me except for a few times. She claims to be a virgin and says I might be tempted. That I need to pay her bride price before we can do all those. At times I wonder if there's something she's hiding.

2) Each time I try to break up, she sheds tears and involves her family members sometimes to beg me.

3) She is a prayerful type (she has MFM background). So, oftentimes she involves me in fasting.

4) She swings mood easily when things are not going on well. This part is really frustrating because she takes everything as fight when this happens. Infact, she hardly takes advice.

I love her but I'm not sure how to deal with those bad sides. Please I need help. I need advice.

BobbyZrealist:
You are dating a "Sociopath".

From your explanation though,but I am not categorically saying so......

You're emphatically saying so

EmmyDJourno:
If you love her and are willing to have a child with her, Nwanne enjoy pussy oO
Have warm baths and Bleep the babe well

Love her keh, i don't. And i can't even marry her. She is too selfish. Selfishness is a huge turn off for me.

I am even afraid to have sex with her, she said she doesn't want rubber, i feel she is looking for who to tie down by force, and she looks like someone that has done hook up before, she is pretty, very pretty. She might even be looking for who to give h.i.v to, who knows .

She some how has this slight toxic behaviour, she displays sometimes, she said her last boyfriend. Told the whole street guys, that he bleeped her. And it really got to her, when her brother told her. It did render her bitter.

123guys:
Lol... Not really. I insulted her mother for raising her in this way and the mother started telling me some things I don't understand.

Not that I don't have other girls. But I like her good sides. I wish the other ones too can copy it.

So you have other girls and you come here to cry a river

How spell toxic girlfriend without spelling toxic girlfriend.

My brother run.

Ask google for advice. Pla whatever advice google gives, please take. Gooduck.

toujurs:
Love her keh, i don't. And i can't even marry her. She is too selfish. Selfishness is a huge turn off for me.

I am even afraid to have sex with her, she said she doesn't want rubber, i feel she is looking for who to tie down by force, and she looks like someone that has done hook up before, she is pretty, very pretty. She might even be looking for who to give h.i.v to, who knows .

She some how has this slight toxic behaviour, she displays sometimes, she said her last boyfriend. Told the whole street guys, that he bleeped her. And it really got to her, when her brother told her. It did render her bitter.

Are you the op?

Badgers14:
Are you the op?

Not at all.