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Re: Is It True That When Women Have More Money They No Longer Regard Their Husband by Emma2Seconds: 8:04am On Jul 01, 2022
Indaboski bahose
Re: Is It True That When Women Have More Money They No Longer Regard Their Husband by Datedoboy: 8:41am On Jul 01, 2022
Check most marriages today. Women who have more money than their husbands will disrespect that man and at any slight provocation, will divorce such man.

From my little experience, as a man, if your wife earns more than you, know that you are finished or about to be finished. If she works in an organization, she will respect her boss in the office more than you.

A man will care for a woman until she gets her footing but let her get her footing and you as the man loose your footing and she becomes richer than you, she will start giving you attitude.

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Re: Is It True That When Women Have More Money They No Longer Regard Their Husband by Boomboost(m): 8:52am On Jul 01, 2022
Amotolongbo:
Only an insecure and lazy man would reason like that.

A working wife should bring two things to a reasonable man;

1 financial support in the home
2 A challenge and motivation for a man to work harder to increase his source and level of income


I understand that kind of man won’t like to marry an intelligent lady cos he won’t be able to handle her and think she may be egoistic but a “sit-down-there” kinda woman.

This kinda man will spend all his last kobo on his daughter(s) to be successful in life and be happy that a man isn’t allowing her to utilise the potential she has?

Moreover, don’t some men think of what their daughter(s) will inherit from their mothers after turning their wives to a dummy.

So in 2. you're saying her attitude will be challenging, so the man brings in more money for her and the family?

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Re: Is It True That When Women Have More Money They No Longer Regard Their Husband by averageguy(m): 10:40am On Jul 01, 2022
Two sides to the problem because the Nigerian culture considers men as financial providers

Female side: Some women expect a men to take care of all financial obligations, and get quite a bit selfish. So, they judge the man just by that yardstick.

Male side: Some men don't have much to contribute to a lady's life other than money. Some men also can't deal with a lady who makes more and either won't ask her out or would try to frustrate her life.

Just choose the person with beliefs similar to yours

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Re: Is It True That When Women Have More Money They No Longer Regard Their Husband by Oyiboman69: 11:28am On Jul 01, 2022
Amotolongbo:
Only an insecure and lazy man would reason like that.

A working wife should bring two things to a reasonable man;

1 financial support in the home
2 A challenge and motivation for a man to work harder to increase his source and level of income


I understand that kind of man won’t like to marry an intelligent lady cos he won’t be able to handle her and think she may be egoistic but a “sit-down-there” kinda woman.

This kinda man will spend all his last kobo on his daughter(s) to be successful in life and be happy that a man isn’t allowing her to utilise the potential she has?

Moreover, don’t some men think of what their daughter(s) will inherit from their mothers after turning their wives to a dummy.
mtcheeew!

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Re: Is It True That When Women Have More Money They No Longer Regard Their Husband by yesloaded: 11:32am On Jul 01, 2022
guobe:
I have a very close relation that refused his wife from working because he felt if she starts working and earning well she may nolonger regard him. Is it true that when women start having money they nolonger regard their husband.

Not 100% true
Re: Is It True That When Women Have More Money They No Longer Regard Their Husband by Henix(m): 11:32am On Jul 01, 2022
guobe:
I have a very close relation that refused his wife from working because he felt if she starts working and earning well she may nolonger regard him. Is it true that when women start having money they nolonger regard their husband.

Ask JJC Skillz

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Re: Is It True That When Women Have More Money They No Longer Regard Their Husband by MichaelSokoto(m): 11:33am On Jul 01, 2022
Amotolongbo:
Only an insecure and lazy man would reason like that.

A working wife should bring two things to a reasonable man;

1 financial support in the home
2 A challenge and motivation for a man to work harder to increase his source and level of income


I understand that kind of man won’t like to marry an intelligent lady cos he won’t be able to handle her and think she may be egoistic but a “sit-down-there” kinda woman.

This kinda man will spend all his last kobo on his daughter(s) to be successful in life and be happy that a man isn’t allowing her to utilise the potential she has?

Moreover, don’t some men think of what their daughter(s) will inherit from their mothers after turning their wives to a dummy.
this is gender inequality.
Boy(s) no dey?

Comrade, I put it 2 u dat u're biased!

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Re: Is It True That When Women Have More Money They No Longer Regard Their Husband by Basiljoe: 11:33am On Jul 01, 2022
Uzomacharles:
Happens more often especially here in Nigeria
Happens everywhere in the world. Hypergamy doesn't care about male idealistic expectations of love.

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Re: Is It True That When Women Have More Money They No Longer Regard Their Husband by kellyaa: 11:34am On Jul 01, 2022
guobe:
I have a very close relation that refused his wife from working because he felt if she starts working and earning well she may nolonger regard him. Is it true that when women start having money they nolonger regard their husband.

Very true.

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Re: Is It True That When Women Have More Money They No Longer Regard Their Husband by MrCover: 11:34am On Jul 01, 2022
Most of the women are like that

Is Saying From His Mind

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Re: Is It True That When Women Have More Money They No Longer Regard Their Husband by xynerise: 11:34am On Jul 01, 2022
They are not programmed to be the head of the family. So if they eventually become the decision maker or bread winner, it only takes the grace of God for them not to explode

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Re: Is It True That When Women Have More Money They No Longer Regard Their Husband by Froshloaded: 11:34am On Jul 01, 2022
It depends..
Re: Is It True That When Women Have More Money They No Longer Regard Their Husband by kellyaa: 11:35am On Jul 01, 2022
Amotolongbo:
Only an insecure and lazy man would reason like that.

A working wife should bring two things to a reasonable man;

1 financial support in the home
2 A challenge and motivation for a man to work harder to increase his source and level of income


Na them

I understand that kind of man won’t like to marry an intelligent lady cos he won’t be able to handle her and think she may be egoistic but a “sit-down-there” kinda woman.

This kinda man will spend all his last kobo on his daughter(s) to be successful in life and be happy that a man isn’t allowing her to utilise the potential she has?

Moreover, don’t some men think of what their daughter(s) will inherit from their mothers after turning their wives to a dummy.

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Re: Is It True That When Women Have More Money They No Longer Regard Their Husband by Harunabisanti(m): 11:35am On Jul 01, 2022
Majority but not all

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Re: Is It True That When Women Have More Money They No Longer Regard Their Husband by Maverick777: 11:35am On Jul 01, 2022
guobe:
I have a very close relation that refused his wife from working because he felt if she starts working and earning well she may nolonger regard him. Is it true that when women start having money they nolonger regard their husband.
In most case YES
Because, Women naturally are Hypergamous in nature, if you know the meaning of this word, you would know what I mean.
Hypergamy is not only about money but truth is when a women earns more than you, the respect diminishes as the days pass.

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Re: Is It True That When Women Have More Money They No Longer Regard Their Husband by Born2winnx: 11:35am On Jul 01, 2022
Skullano:
Car nah wetin my ex girlfriend first me buy cos I was starting my business newly, you need to see how she started misbehaving ooh but I thank God say man don get two ride now and I always give her the papers to renew for me cos she works with revenue office..

Women are wired in a way that am yet to understand sha.
u still can't leave that toto bah?

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Re: Is It True That When Women Have More Money They No Longer Regard Their Husband by Eberex(m): 11:35am On Jul 01, 2022
Not true
My wife doesn't fall in this category, all because of God's spirit that is possessing her.

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Re: Is It True That When Women Have More Money They No Longer Regard Their Husband by Nobody: 11:36am On Jul 01, 2022
dont know
but as a man never ever allow yourself become a wife
get your own bag - raise a family in your own HOUSE
dont be a maid to any woman - undecided

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Re: Is It True That When Women Have More Money They No Longer Regard Their Husband by Caleb17: 11:36am On Jul 01, 2022
Yes it is true.... All these self acclaimed rich feminists , avoid them

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Re: Is It True That When Women Have More Money They No Longer Regard Their Husband by Antoeni(m): 11:36am On Jul 01, 2022
What of Alakija

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Re: Is It True That When Women Have More Money They No Longer Regard Their Husband by Akwamkpuruamu: 11:36am On Jul 01, 2022
Naija women most specifically.

In all thy gettings, young man: Get money, Get more money, Get plenty Money!!!

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Re: Is It True That When Women Have More Money They No Longer Regard Their Husband by driand(m): 11:36am On Jul 01, 2022
Amotolongbo:
Only an insecure and lazy man would reason like that.

A working wife should bring two things to a reasonable man;

1 financial support in the home
2 A challenge and motivation for a man to work harder to increase his source and level of income


I understand that kind of man won’t like to marry an intelligent lady cos he won’t be able to handle her and think she may be egoistic but a “sit-down-there” kinda woman.

This kinda man will spend all his last kobo on his daughter(s) to be successful in life and be happy that a man isn’t allowing her to utilise the potential she has?

Moreover, don’t some men think of what their daughter(s) will inherit from their mothers after turning their wives to a dummy.
everything you wrote is correct, from your perspective being a lady, from my perspective as a Nigerian man, all you wrote it total nonsense...

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Re: Is It True That When Women Have More Money They No Longer Regard Their Husband by benikad(m): 11:37am On Jul 01, 2022
Not all
Re: Is It True That When Women Have More Money They No Longer Regard Their Husband by Kingsize0001: 11:37am On Jul 01, 2022
Not all but many of them. Just the same way most men make money and lost regards for their wives and even lost regards for their elders. So it depends who you are dealing with.

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Re: Is It True That When Women Have More Money They No Longer Regard Their Husband by Eddygourdo(m): 11:38am On Jul 01, 2022
Women weren't created to give, but rather to receive. This is why when they have to give , they immediately start feeling resentful. Most men don't know where or on what their wives spend their salary on. When you realize this part about women , you will be more tolerable with them. That being said. A man must always work hard. Never relax simply because your wife is providing . Have your own shit you are doing to make a living. Women respect providers, no matter how small you are providing . But once you relax and she is providing , she must have resentment towards you. Women aren't grateful by nature, they don't understand logic as well. that you used to feed her or were nice to her , doesn't mean she will be nice to you. these are more reasons we laugh and men who carry women on their heads. Learn to love women , treat them rightly, understand their shortcomings, but don't carry them on your head. they will disappoint you.

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Re: Is It True That When Women Have More Money They No Longer Regard Their Husband by ahnie: 11:38am On Jul 01, 2022
Abegi
Men una get issues no be small.

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Re: Is It True That When Women Have More Money They No Longer Regard Their Husband by Nobody: 11:38am On Jul 01, 2022
guobe:
I have a very close relation that refused his wife from working because he felt if she starts working and earning well she may nolonger regard him. Is it true that when women start having money they nolonger regard their husband.
It is not true @OP. Most men just fail in the masculinity department and quickly become insecure . In fact insecurity fuels their sexual fantasies.

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Re: Is It True That When Women Have More Money They No Longer Regard Their Husband by rajiedreez: 11:38am On Jul 01, 2022
Most
Re: Is It True That When Women Have More Money They No Longer Regard Their Husband by Hermoso33: 11:38am On Jul 01, 2022
Not just women. When you are financially ok humans tend to have high self esteem.

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Re: Is It True That When Women Have More Money They No Longer Regard Their Husband by Emperor88(m): 11:39am On Jul 01, 2022
guobe:
I have a very close relation that refused his wife from working because he felt if she starts working and earning well she may nolonger regard him. Is it true that when women start having money they nolonger regard their husband.
I don't have a problem with the husband that refuse his wife from working, my problem is with the stup1d wife that agrees to marry someone who will prevent her from working.

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