This is not true..but it's very common...
Some women respect their husband no matter the situation. People tend to change with power and money..so to avoid this from happening, the man should double his hustle so as to retain his position as the head of the family by earning more than the wife.. stopping the wife from working is not the solution. Communication and understanding is key

Eddygourdo:
Yet in those same countries, men also complain of women feeling resentful when they give. How come going Dutch is a term if it is common place. Women are selfish lovers worldwide. The feminist movement is an example of that selfishness. They want the good part but not the bad part. That a woman spends on a man in other climes, doesn't imply she enjoys doing it. if a western woman has to be the breadwinner , while the man lazies about, she becomes the head of the home and will complain when the man slacks around. its what it is sir.

Marriage is not a competition. A man and woman should be equal. If a man becomes the head because he provides then what is wrong with a woman becoming the head when she provides? Men also become disrespectful because they provide same as women. It has nothing to do with gender. If you isolate a girl child from a society and you bring her up to become a giver and not receiver she will grow up to be a giver without feeling like she is helping the other. I repeat it is societal not natural.

guobe:
That's just so pathetic.That means the men are endangered species.

Yes we work, stress and die young.

No be juju be that?

Amotolongbo:
Only an insecure and lazy man would reason like that.

A working wife should bring two things to a reasonable man;

1 financial support in the home
2 A challenge and motivation for a man to work harder to increase his source and level of income


I understand that kind of man won’t like to marry an intelligent lady cos he won’t be able to handle her and think she may be egoistic but a “sit-down-there” kinda woman.

This kinda man will spend all his last kobo on his daughter(s) to be successful in life and be happy that a man isn’t allowing her to utilise the potential she has?

Moreover, don’t some men think of what their daughter(s) will inherit from their mothers after turning their wives to a dummy.

The greatest inheritance a mother can leave for her children is to take good care of them.

It depends on the individual. I know a couple in Kaduna. Wife works with the. Nigeria Shippers Council, husband was managing an event center. We visited the family during the last Christmas holidays when we got to know the husband lost his job since 2020 during the lockdown wahala. Wife had been running the family, paying kids’ fees and even completed the house they were building. They had even moved into the house before Christmas. This woman even gave the husband monthly cash allowance to hang out with his friends so they won’t notice the impact of the job loss on him. We just opened our mouths in awe when the husband told us this. We were actually there to settle some marital issues between the man’s wife’s sister and her husband who is my friend. You never notice any disregard from the wife towards the husband if you were not told and this man hasn’t earned a dime of his own for about two years.

Majesty33:
Mark my words, never be at the mercy of any woman in terms of provision cos they gonna mess u uop and turn the world against you and if she is earning way higher, never ever allow her suit the bill cos neighbours gonna hear about all your little marriage secret. Make her feel her money isnt one bit of importance to u. By this way, u earn maximum respect.

thanks bro.

Yes that's just the gospel truth

Eddygourdo:
Yet in those same countries, men also complain of women feeling resentful when they give. How come going Dutch is a term if it is common place. Women are selfish lovers worldwide. The feminist movement is an example of that selfishness. They want the good part but not the bad part. That a woman spends on a man in other climes, doesn't imply she enjoys doing it. if a western woman has to be the breadwinner , while the man lazies about, she becomes the head of the home and will complain when the man slacks around. its what it is sir.

Are girls born to be raised in the kitchen while boys go out play football and have fun? The society does
this not nature. If you raise your boy child in the kitchen and give your girl child freedom, the table will automatically turn.

That is what happens when you live by submission mantra

RillJ:
As true as that can be, I would certainly my wife to have as much more as legally possible.

Most women do not have regards for their husband one way of the other, and that's irrespective of the financial position.
If the man has more money but not strong (not bully plz) some wives would disregard such a man a million times over
If a man has more money but is impaired or weakened by ailment or age, some wives would go full throttle on disregard drive
If a man has more, is heathy, strong willed and all that, some wives would roughshod in disregarding the hapless husband.

Las las, the wan wey no go regard no go ever regard. She may lie low for a while but sooner than later the true color go show!

Very deep...

There is no 2 ways about it,is worst in nigeria ,to marry already made lady when you don't have as a man is not easy,even your children will later understand mummy is the one paying the bills ,in Northern Nigeria their women preferred to become a 4th wife to a very rich man than to marry from a poor family,a very rich lady in nigeria don't marry they buy husband as soon as she got children from you she may decides to send you away from her house,if I lie check by your self

Typical Nigerians HUSBAND mentality.
If she earns more, logically she ought to up her game and be able to deliver in whatever she does. THIS right here is demanding.
If I was a junior staff earning peanut, my job descriptions might not includes traveling or going to workshops, conferences or seminars. But as a senior staff, I have more than enough TECHNICAL brain exhausting role to play.
The husband should know and acknowledged this fact and fraction a way round it.
Money DOESN'T CHANGE A WOMAN, WORKING TASKS, EXPECTATIONS, BALANCING ROLES etc does!

Funke Is an example of this!!

Amotolongbo:
Only an insecure and lazy man would reason like that.

A working wife should bring two things to a reasonable man;

1 financial support in the home
2 A challenge and motivation for a man to work harder to increase his source and level of income


I understand that kind of man won’t like to marry an intelligent lady cos he won’t be able to handle her and think she may be egoistic but a “sit-down-there” kinda woman.

This kinda man will spend all his last kobo on his daughter(s) to be successful in life and be happy that a man isn’t allowing her to utilise the potential she has?

Moreover, don’t some men think of what their daughter(s) will inherit from their mothers after turning their wives to a dummy.

Mr uninsecure and hard working man would ,how many rich women support their husbands and regard them here in Nigeria?


Please name ten women

Yes now. Women are naturally bossy. Men are the boss naturally but women are bossy.
Men should work and earn enough to be called real masculine men. May God make it easy for us.
https://youtube.com/shorts/W-IauDgovHY

women are generally disrespectful with or without money, those with money just amplified their stupidity to abusive level. This generation of has no regards for men in their life. They are product of "house help up bringing"

Well talk for yourself. My fiance currently earn 3times my salary and she is still loyal to the core. In my own salary, I still fulfil my obligations as a man to assist her not minding that she earn more than me. I still have my full respect doing that. Is only an insecure man will feel that way.

From personal experience,it true. Don't even talk of earning more than you. Talk if once they start earning and no longer depends on you. But it' still doesn't make sense that she should not work. As a man, strive hard,pray harder, get blessed more and more and you will keep calling the shot.

This is the reason,men avoid powerful and successful women like hot coal,though there's nothing wrong in behng successful.but they can't control their ego,they're too egoistic.they are time bombs waiting to explode.That's why 90% of them are single.It reflect in all facet of their lives,Humility only come when old age sets in.

The problem most time is the men... Please if you are a man, I will advice you to remove your eyes from your wife salary(earnings)... No matter what she earns... Always give her money for upkeep and domestic use...
I bet you... She will humbly submit her earnings to you when you face any financial challenge

Depending on the mind set of the woman and her eagle... Still hv loyal woman out there even with dere income and money

The w

guobe:
I have a very close relation that refused his wife from working because he felt if she starts working and earning well she may nolonger regard him. Is it true that when women start having money they nolonger regard their husband.

I don't subscribe to the idea of not allowing your wife working because you are afraid she will become arrogant once she has money.

However, it is a proven fact that men use their money to look for women. A man will suffer to make money only to look for one poor rat somewhere to marry. A rich woman does not use her money to look for men.

I just have to say this... Men you all need to take the redpill. Women are manipulative. Do you know why a lot of women don't like their mother-in-law? The mother sees all of her antics. Men take the mantle take charge of your relationship decide what should and what shouldn't in relationship. Love her but don't be stupid.... let her see you as the guy every bitches wants and be the guy every bitches wants. Simps have given every lady feeling of entitlement be different. Look beyond the hole between her thighs.
JJK Skills got what he deserved, got used and dumped. Never be that guy... look Alpha... talk Alpha... act Alpha

It is a lie

Only an insecure and lazy man would reason like that.

A working wife should bring two things to a reasonable man;

1 financial support in the home
2 A challenge and motivation for a man to work harder to increase his source and level of income


I understand that kind of man won’t like to marry an intelligent lady cos he won’t be able to handle her and think she may be egoistic but a “sit-down-there” kinda woman.

This kinda man will spend all his last kobo on his daughter(s) to be successful in life and be happy that a man isn’t allowing her to utilise the potential she has?

Moreover, don’t some men think of what their daughter(s) will inherit from their mothers after turning their wives to a dummy.

Confirm!

Uzomacharles:
Happens more often especially here in Nigeria

At a % of 90 it is! Women were not designed to be over men in almost every area, so once they do, the certainly misuse it.

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Born2winnx:

u still can't leave that toto bah?

I no dey near her again self..with the pressure on me to get married now eeh, I no need her around me.

kdfinest:

yours was even car but mine then was that she got admission before me, bros no be small thing oo a swear.

Hahaha, wahala something