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Re: Is It True That When Women Have More Money They No Longer Regard Their Husband by Skullano(m): 12:48pm On Jul 01, 2022
InfinityFabric:

With all the information we have in 2022 ?
Use some of that money to buy Rational Male series and you'll understand. Women are the absolute easiest. It took me 3 years+.

I hear you sir
Re: Is It True That When Women Have More Money They No Longer Regard Their Husband by Nobody: 12:48pm On Jul 01, 2022
Amotolongbo:
Only an insecure and lazy man would reason like that.


Moreover, don’t some men think of what their daughter(s) will inherit from their mothers after turning their wives to a dummy.
this thread is not for kids still stealing meat from their mothers pot

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Re: Is It True That When Women Have More Money They No Longer Regard Their Husband by coputa(m): 12:48pm On Jul 01, 2022
legba1:
From personal experience,it true. Don't even talk of earning more than you. Talk if once they start earning and no longer depends on you. But it' still doesn't make sense that she should not work. As a man, strive hard,pray harder, get blessed more and more and you will keep calling the shot.
To be successful is not by your hard work,prayer or because you're a man,it is God grace.God can decide to bless the woman more than the man,which is not bad,it's how the woman manages this blessing that matters.

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Re: Is It True That When Women Have More Money They No Longer Regard Their Husband by Ifabernard(m): 12:48pm On Jul 01, 2022
Na just service my girl friend de do o and they gave her bag of rice, spag, 4 litres of vegetable oil (4) and some other stuffs like that. She lives in my house free cos I have another place I live. I just visit her once in a while. As I enter there house she no de na so I carry one vegetable oil go house. U need to see the insult this babe give me. Even shame catch me sef. Next time I visited the house she don carry the 25kg rice to her friends place so I won't see it. Just fear ladies.

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Re: Is It True That When Women Have More Money They No Longer Regard Their Husband by Skullano(m): 12:48pm On Jul 01, 2022
seanwilliam:
I know 99% won’t agree with you but you’re completely right .



Naturally women are hard to control and they don’t have self control ( biblically)..


Women, who don’t contribute anything to you , wey u Dey feed, cloth, and house self Dey give problem not to talk of the one wey Dey bring the most finance to table ..


Personally,
1. I can not marry a woman that’s richer than me.. never!. Par adventure she gets richer after we get married , then she must abide by my rules or out…

I can’t live in a house my wife owns or pays rent
I can’t use my wife car if I don’t own one
I can’t collect money from my wife to establish business , except it’s loan which I will ensure I pay back on or the stipulated date.
I can’t do joint business with my wife where we contribute 50/50… we must have separate businesses and contribute to family..







Anyway I buy all gift cards and yankee funds( cashapp, greendot, PayPal,zelle, Moneycard skrill,perfect money , Neteller,money gram , western union etc) And WeChat payment all @ your rate . I sell cheap unit /bulk google voice .

Wahala plenty sha
Re: Is It True That When Women Have More Money They No Longer Regard Their Husband by Enumerator(m): 12:49pm On Jul 01, 2022
Confirm!
PerfectStranger:
No matter the number of yards of a wife material she is, once she’s earning more, she’ll start misbehaving. It’s inevitable.
Re: Is It True That When Women Have More Money They No Longer Regard Their Husband by Elidrisy20: 12:50pm On Jul 01, 2022
Na true ooo, to give Epekus too, you must plead
Re: Is It True That When Women Have More Money They No Longer Regard Their Husband by NoToPile: 12:50pm On Jul 01, 2022
All these threads sef

Provide fully - lailai
Wife is working now makes more money - trouble.

I don't even understand what the problem is exactly.

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Re: Is It True That When Women Have More Money They No Longer Regard Their Husband by Silentgroper(m): 12:50pm On Jul 01, 2022
guobe:
I have a very close relation that refused his wife from working because he felt if she starts working and earning well she may nolonger regard him. Is it true that when women start having money they nolonger regard their husband.
That close relation of yours is one of d problem of we 9ja men.. Well different strokes for different folks.

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Re: Is It True That When Women Have More Money They No Longer Regard Their Husband by Achasew(m): 12:50pm On Jul 01, 2022
It’s not true. I don’t see any reason why women’s success should be a threat to men.

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Re: Is It True That When Women Have More Money They No Longer Regard Their Husband by ImaIma1(f): 12:50pm On Jul 01, 2022
So he now owns her life that he can stop her from achieving her own goals and dreams. He's just an insecure bully, and I blame the wife for allowing her husband limit her.

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Re: Is It True That When Women Have More Money They No Longer Regard Their Husband by triplechoice(m): 12:52pm On Jul 01, 2022
guobe:
I have a very close relation that refused his wife from working because he felt if she starts working and earning well she may nolonger regard him. Is it true that when women start having money they nolonger regard their husband.

Not completely true. It depends on the kind of woman.

Money is a powerful force. If you don't know how to control it, then it can make you say and do things you would not normally do, without you fully conscious of what you're doing

People usually say that a man's true character is only known once he becomes empowered financially.

I think your brother knows the kind of person he is married to, but however,he is overreacting. He should allow the woman work and try to find a way to deal with the situation by communicating with the wife about his concerns.

What your brother considers disregard is from his own point of view. The woman may not even see it that way. Her actions may seem disrespectful on the surface, but in her heart she highly regards him, if not why did she agree to marry him in the first place.
Re: Is It True That When Women Have More Money They No Longer Regard Their Husband by dvkot(m): 12:52pm On Jul 01, 2022
I can't even marry a career woman cos she's married to her job first before you the husband, its better you setup a business for your wife or you expand your business and ask her to manage it, is you that pay her bride price and not the other way round

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Re: Is It True That When Women Have More Money They No Longer Regard Their Husband by Eastcoastboy(m): 12:52pm On Jul 01, 2022
Blackdeewhy:
Typical Nigerians HUSBAND mentality.
If she earns more, logically she ought to up her game and be able to deliver in whatever she does. THIS right here is demanding.
If I was a junior staff earning peanut, my job descriptions might not includes traveling or going to workshops, conferences or seminars. But as a senior staff, I have more than enough TECHNICAL brain exhausting role to play.
The husband should know and acknowledged this fact and fraction a way round it.
Money DOESN'T CHANGE A WOMAN, WORKING TASKS, EXPECTATIONS, BALANCING ROLES etc does!

What do you mean by up her game?
Re: Is It True That When Women Have More Money They No Longer Regard Their Husband by opribo(m): 12:53pm On Jul 01, 2022
It is 99% true.
Re: Is It True That When Women Have More Money They No Longer Regard Their Husband by juniorstar(m): 12:54pm On Jul 01, 2022
guobe:
I have a very close relation that refused his wife from working because he felt if she starts working and earning well she may nolonger regard him. Is it true that when women start having money they nolonger regard their husband.
the ppl that have this mindset are those men who are lily livered to woo and marry a woman who is more financially buoyant than them..I love women who are achievers cos I don't settle for less myself but a line should be be drawn. You shouldn't take nonsense. No time for pretence here let her know the real you from the very beginning. And if you started by putting up appearance remember you can't fake it for long you go soon tire and you begin to exhibit traits that you won't be pleased about. Don't be lazy, work your ass off. Love her genuinely and know when the line is getting crossed.

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Re: Is It True That When Women Have More Money They No Longer Regard Their Husband by dvkot(m): 12:55pm On Jul 01, 2022
Ifabernard:
Na just service my girl friend de do o and they gave her bag of rice, spag, 4 litres of vegetable oil (4) and some other stuffs like that. She lives in my house free cos I have another place I live. I just visit her once in a while. As I enter there house she no de na so I carry one vegetable oil go house. U need to see the insult this babe give me. Even shame catch me sef. Next time I visited the house she don carry the 25kg rice to her friends place so I won't see it. Just fear ladies.
i swear bro similar stuff happened to me too these hose ain't loyal
Re: Is It True That When Women Have More Money They No Longer Regard Their Husband by kongobongo: 12:56pm On Jul 01, 2022
It is difficult to accept but it is the truth. Women are differently wired and are easily vulnerable . A woman is often seen behaving differently whenever she starts getting more money than the man. I know of over five women who divorced their husbands after they were converted from contract staff to staff of a multi-national company in Nigeria that increased their monthly salaries to a million naira monthly from monthly pay of 300k ,for each of them with several annual packages. This is the truth. It takes a God fearing and well brought -up woman to still obey and respect the husband even when she is on top. Not all !

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Re: Is It True That When Women Have More Money They No Longer Regard Their Husband by dvkot(m): 12:57pm On Jul 01, 2022
How will you pay bride price and be feeding a woman till you die and she will want to disrespect you in your house? She gats dey joke or bomb dey her head

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Re: Is It True That When Women Have More Money They No Longer Regard Their Husband by Mariangeles(f): 12:59pm On Jul 01, 2022
guobe:
I have a very close relation that refused his wife from working because he felt if she starts working and earning well she may nolonger regard him. Is it true that when women start having money they nolonger regard their husband.

This your "very close relation" better not be a slacker o, and he better not complain while providing for his family. Especially his wife.

Wo! Oun fun ara e lo ma pada beg his wife to work lai pe.
Ara ma so fun. cheesy
Re: Is It True That When Women Have More Money They No Longer Regard Their Husband by Funflipper: 1:00pm On Jul 01, 2022
FORWARDEVERLY:



That your relation is wise..

Really? That is the dumbest thing i have heard in my entire life.
Re: Is It True That When Women Have More Money They No Longer Regard Their Husband by Mariangeles(f): 1:01pm On Jul 01, 2022
FORWARDEVERLY:



That your relation is wise..

Ko wise kankan!
Re: Is It True That When Women Have More Money They No Longer Regard Their Husband by bluefilm: 1:02pm On Jul 01, 2022
guobe:
I have a very close relation that refused his wife from working because he felt if she starts working and earning well she may nolonger regard him. Is it true that when women start having money they nolonger regard their husband.

Very very true.

That could have been the main reason why our ancestors relegated women to be in the submission role.

Very very wise men they were.

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Re: Is It True That When Women Have More Money They No Longer Regard Their Husband by JovialJune(f): 1:02pm On Jul 01, 2022
All of una go continue to dey wail till infinity grin

I love the way the tide is changing fast, even in Nigeria, it is no more "siddon dey look am", it is now "you do anyhow, you see anyhow" kiss

It is only a lazy fool that will want to be a full-time house wife in this 21st century of rapid changes going on every day,

And as for you men that think you can cage another human because of marriage, I laugh, if any man thinks he can or has successfully accomplished that, he has sown a seed of rebellion that will manifest when he least expected kiss

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Re: Is It True That When Women Have More Money They No Longer Regard Their Husband by Funflipper: 1:03pm On Jul 01, 2022
opribo:
It is 99% true.

It is not. Any man with such mentality is weak.

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Re: Is It True That When Women Have More Money They No Longer Regard Their Husband by Neoteny7: 1:03pm On Jul 01, 2022
Happens even when they don't have shishi.

Nigerian women are the worst.

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Re: Is It True That When Women Have More Money They No Longer Regard Their Husband by Successlane: 1:05pm On Jul 01, 2022
PeterObi4LP:
Well talk for yourself. My fiance currently earn 3times my salary and she is still loyal to the core. In my own salary, I still fulfil my obligations as a man to assist her not minding that she earn more than me. I still have my full respect doing that. Is only an insecure man will feel that way.

@ ....' I still fulfil my obligations as a man ....'

That's just your saving grace.

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Re: Is It True That When Women Have More Money They No Longer Regard Their Husband by TheGift: 1:06pm On Jul 01, 2022
guobe:
I have a very close relation that refused his wife from working because he felt if she starts working and earning well she may nolonger regard him. Is it true that when women start having money they nolonger regard their husband.

Please tell your friend:

He is foolish for wanting to control a Woman by not allowing Her earn. The quality of your family, life and that of your children will be worse than it could be.

It is foolish to think in this day and age, you need money to make YOUR Woman regard you. Women are working more and making more money than in the days of our fathers and grand fathers.

It will take more than money to hold a Woman down. As long as you are taking care of your responsibilities as a Man, you can only be disregarded when you don’t regard yourself.

And if it bothers you so much that your Wife is making more than you, why don’t you simply hustle to up your game and make much more. After all, you are the Man who can do better than any Woman.

You do not elevate yourself by putting another person (especially your wife) down.

If you don’t want your wife to earn, go and look for a young clueless 18+ year old in the village that doesn’t have a mind of their own.

Good luck.
Re: Is It True That When Women Have More Money They No Longer Regard Their Husband by Nobody: 1:06pm On Jul 01, 2022
guobe:
I have a very close relation that refused his wife from working because he felt if she starts working and earning well she may nolonger regard him. Is it true that when women start having money they nolonger regard their husband.

In this Nigeria, a man is telling his wife not to work?

Right.

Ask him how they and their children will survive on one income. In this Buhari economy.

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Re: Is It True That When Women Have More Money They No Longer Regard Their Husband by Otasikwe(m): 1:08pm On Jul 01, 2022
So na now u come know

Re: Is It True That When Women Have More Money They No Longer Regard Their Husband by Mariangeles(f): 1:09pm On Jul 01, 2022
Skullano:
Car nah wetin my ex girlfriend first me buy cos I was starting my business newly, you need to see how she started misbehaving ooh but I thank God say man don get two ride now and I always give her the papers to renew for me cos she works with revenue office..

Women are wired in a way that am yet to understand sha.

You sure say no be you come start to dey feel intimidated because she first you buy car?

You sef check naa; women go always dey how them dey, whether them get money or not.
Na situation dey determine how man go interpret the attitude of him woman.

Kanipe you been get car, shey you for feel say na her car make her "misbehave"?

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