₦airaland Forum

xynerise:
So we should lock ourselves in the closet to cry why you ladies open your wide mouth to cry Abi?

EmekaBlue:
Women and money
Money controls that specie

Money is their true god

Wallade:
Well, naturally money has pride and that applies to both men and women. Do you wonder why you behave differently when you have no money compared to when you have money. There is a confidence and arrogance that overrides your normal reasoning when you have money. Same happens to women.

However, it is not enough reason to stop your wife from working or earning more than you. You only have to find the best possible ways to manage her excesses and shortcomings.

However, if the disrespect, arrogance and pride becomes persistent and unbearable. Get help from marriage counselors, family or religious leaders; better still get a separation or divorce before you beat somebody.

Mariangeles:
Yes na.

bonnyhope:
Men re passing through alot of emotional trauma that they cannot disclose to the public

TolaniLuv:
Funke Is an example of this!!

coputa:
This is the reason,men avoid powerful and successful women like hot coal,though there's nothing wrong in behng successful.but they can't control their ego,they're too egoistic.they are time bombs waiting to explode.That's why 90% of them are single.It reflect in all facet of their lives,Humility only come when old age sets in.

Trailblazer93:
I just have to say this... Men you all need to take the redpill. Women are manipulative. Do you know why a lot of women don't like their mother-in-law? The mother sees all of her antics. Men take the mantle take charge of your relationship decide what should and what shouldn't in relationship. Love her but don't be stupid.... let her see you as the guy every bitches wants and be the guy every bitches wants. Simps have given every lady feeling of entitlement be different. Look beyond the hole between her thighs.
[b]JJK Skills got what he deserved, got used and dumped. [/b]Never be that guy... look Alpha... talk Alpha... act Alpha

nokspos:
No two ways about it. once she earn more, your days in the relationship or marriage is numbered, you will just be co parents that lives together. the only way out is to work harder to earn more. The funny thing is that women don't even know them self , they will argue this and even when their changes is obvious to them , they will still argue that they didn't change , it was you that changed.

guobe:
I have a very close relation that refused his wife from working because he felt if she starts working and earning well she may nolonger regard him. Is it true that when women start having money they nolonger regard their husband.

Ten06:
Not all cases, but it is very true.
They will start by disrespecting the man.
There is one house wife in my area who is currently dating a yahoo boy, she has packed out of her husband house and the yahoo boy has bought a car for her.
The funny this obout the issue is that she packed out of the house with 5 months pregnancy

judedwriter:
Only very few women respect their husbands if they are richer than them.

God fearing women.

PerfectStranger:
No matter the number of yards of a wife material she is, once she’s earning more, she’ll start misbehaving. It’s inevitable.

Amotolongbo:
Only an insecure and lazy man would reason like that.

A working wife should bring two things to a reasonable man;

1 financial support in the home
2 A challenge and motivation for a man to work harder to increase his source and level of income


I understand that kind of man won’t like to marry an intelligent lady cos he won’t be able to handle her and think she may be egoistic but a “sit-down-there” kinda woman.

This kinda man will spend all his last kobo on his daughter(s) to be successful in life and be happy that a man isn’t allowing her to utilise the potential she has?

Moreover, don’t some men think of what their daughter(s) will inherit from their mothers after turning their wives to a dummy.

bukatyne:
I don't think Funke said the submissive stuff; I don't even think she has said anything sef.

It was one blogger who asked why JJC Skills wasn't submissive when he was living in Funke's house.

The gist is that they were both cheating and JJC Skills was squandering their joint account. I think it is the squandering of the joint account that scattered everything.

Ephemmm:
Your assertion is the exact reason why I always maintain that the word 'Love' is fake, and this is one of the reasons why a man with real and deeper sense of reasoning will find it difficult to believe in anything called 'marriage'.

If marriage is a matter of 'he who pays the piper dictates the tune', then the society needs 'deed of agreement' between young couples and not 'marriage' where useless vows which are susceptible to selfish conditions are being exchanged.

Cutehector:
God knows its difficult for a woman to be submissive, that is why he commanded wives to be submissive to their husbands

God knows its difficult for a man to love his wife singly, that is why he commanded husbands to love their wives just as christ loved the church.

When you understand this, you'll find peace.

Mariangeles:
How would she know his true intentions, when some men can be cunning!?

One lady that brought her issue here said her newly married husband demanded that she quit her "80k job".
Now, do you think they had that "agreement" before they were married?
I thought that was very selfish and inconsiderate of the so-called "newly married husband"

Ifabernard:
Na just service my girl friend de do o and they gave her bag of rice, spag, 4 litres of vegetable oil (4) and some other stuffs like that. She lives in my house free cos I have another place I live. I just visit her once in a while. As I enter there house she no de na so I carry one vegetable oil go house. U need to see the insult this babe give me. Even shame catch me sef. Next time I visited the house she don carry the 25kg rice to her friends place so I won't see it. Just fear ladies.

Ifabernard:
Na just service my girl friend de do o and they gave her bag of rice, spag, 4 litres of vegetable oil (4) and some other stuffs like that. She lives in my house free cos I have another place I live. I just visit her once in a while. As I enter there house she no de na so I carry one vegetable oil go house. U need to see the insult this babe give me. Even shame catch me sef. Next time I visited the house she don carry the 25kg rice to her friends place so I won't see it. Just fear ladies.

Successlane:
@ ....' I still fulfil my obligations as a man ....'

That's just your saving grace.

petroldollar:
which business are you into? Just curious.

Mariangeles:
You sure say no be you come start to dey feel intimidated because she first you buy car?

You sef check naa; women go always dey how them dey, whether them get money or not.
Na situation dey determine how man go interpret the attitude of him woman.

Kanipe you been get car, shey you for no feel say na her car make her "misbehave"?

BRATISLAVA:
If we ask the woman in your life what she thinks of you, since you say that you are better off than her financially, we will get to realize you are the same as your ex and misbehave, but can't seem to stand it when it's a woman doing what you do to you.

The forum full of the most lopsided threads and observations in the region.

Munzy14:


The way some ladies place high value on material things baffles me.

Now I don't want to imagine the torture she gets emotionally when you call her to renew your license..lmao.