justli:
When a friend of mine met his wife, he was a taxi driver and she works with an insurance company , driving her own car and living quite comfortably.

Since she likes the guy and a being a born again, she gave him an order:
" I don't know how you are going to do it, but you must be the head of the family and that means you have to start making real money "

Well, to cut a long story short, today he is a billionaire with multiple estates in Abuja and doesn't joke with his wife.

It's natural for a woman to want to be looked after. If you reverse the order, in which case she makes the provision and you tell her thank you, over time, your authority in the house is going to wane and hers will increase.

YemiBoss:
This is the most accurate and perfect explanation to this debate✅

Munzy14:

Very obvious..few with fear of God will manage to hold themselves, though they will still make that humiliating side talks ones in a while.

Uzomacharles:
Happens more often especially here in Nigeria

Datedoboy:
Check most marriages today. Women who have more money than their husbands will disrespect that man and at any slight provocation, will divorce such man.

From my little experience, as a man, if your wife earns more than you, know that you are finished or about to be finished. If she works in an organization, she will respect her boss in the office more than you.

A man will care for a woman until she gets her footing but let her get her footing and you as the man loose your footing and she becomes richer than you, she will start giving you attitude.

ahnie:

Bukatyne just corrected me,that it was a blogger that said so.

guobe:
I have a very close relation that refused his wife from working because he felt if she starts working and earning well she may nolonger regard him. Is it true that when women start having money they nolonger regard their husband.

Skullano:


I don't read meaning to it self, I give her works from my guys too cos I no get time to plenty talk again.

dosage150:
I dey see shege now

OvertheTop:


They will Turn him to House Boy....Sending him Demeaning Errands.

Funflipper:


It is not. Any man with such mentality is weak.

Munzy14:

A case of telling her see what you miss...

We live in a world many ladies place value on material stuffs more than on humans..

Good you are in cool business terms with her sha..Regardless.

guobe:
I have a very close relation that refused his wife from working because he felt if she starts working and earning well she may nolonger regard him. Is it true that when women start having money they nolonger regard their husband.

Skullano:
Car nah wetin my ex girlfriend first me buy cos I was starting my business newly, you need to see how she started misbehaving ooh but I thank God say man don get two ride now and I always give her the papers to renew for me cos she works with revenue office..

Women are wired in a way that am yet to understand sha.

Skullano:
Car nah wetin my ex girlfriend first me buy cos I was starting my business newly, you need to see how she started misbehaving ooh but I thank God say man don get two ride now and I always give her the papers to renew for me cos she works with revenue office..

Women are wired in a way that am yet to understand sha.

nokspos:
No two ways about it. once she earn more, your days in the relationship or marriage is numbered, you will just be co parents that lives together. the only way out is to work harder to earn more. The funny thing is that women don't even know them self , they will argue this and even when their changes is obvious to them , they will still argue that they didn't change , it was you that changed.

guobe:
That's just so pathetic.That means the men are endangered species.

Maverick777:

In most case YES
Because, Women naturally are Hypergamous in nature, if you know the meaning of this word, you would know what I mean.
Hypergamy is not only about money but truth is when a women earns more than you, the respect diminishes as the days pass.

Eberex:
Not true
My wife doesn't fall in this category, all because of God's spirit that is possessing her.

AheadMarket:

Everybody has the right to place value on anything. Face your front.

Eddygourdo:
Women weren't created to give, but rather to receive. This is why when they have to give , they immediately start feeling resentful. Most men don't know where or on what their wives spend their salary on. When you realize this part about women , you will be more tolerable with them. That being said. A man must always work hard. Never relax simply because your wife is providing . Have your own shit you are doing to make a living. Women respect providers, no matter how small you are providing . But once you relax and she is providing , she must have resentment towards you. Women aren't grateful by nature, they don't understand logic as well. that you used to feed her or were nice to her , doesn't mean she will be nice to you. these are more reasons we laugh and men who carry women on their heads. Learn to love women , treat them rightly, understand their shortcomings, but don't carry them on your head. they will disappoint you.