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I Am Married But Need A Companion by Threesha(op): 6:23am On Jul 02, 2022
From DM
Please don't crucify her

I am a Christian and a faithful woman who unfortunately got married to a womaniser. I never enjoyed him once because he prefers to use his free time outside the home with either single girls or married women. I think is case is somehow spiritual (he needs serious prayers). He even resorts to violence when I accused him of cheating, I mean he has started beating me because of other women!He doesn't pay attention to me nor even touch me for weeks. To even pay a simple complement is wahala.

Now I'm bored with it all. I need a friend of the opposite sex not for sexual intimacy nor for extra marital affair but someone I can talk to, turn to for companionship, somebody I can call and he will be there when he wanders away. Somebody I can look up to. Do you understand? I'm talking about a kind of relationship that existed between Jonathan and David. Do you know why? I dint want to develop hypertention thinking about him and his escapades.

Or is there anything wrong with a married woman having a male friend especially if you married a man who is highly irresponsible and doesn't have time for you? I wouldn't have been looking for somebody like that if i had married a decent man. Most times I am lonely even when he is around his presence doesn't make much impact because he is either watching TV or playing with his phones.
Re: I Am Married But Need A Companion by Mophor: 6:27am On Jul 02, 2022
Issokay!!!
Re: I Am Married But Need A Companion by FERNANDEZISBACK: 6:27am On Jul 02, 2022
File for a divorce and then ya can do whatever you want..
Re: I Am Married But Need A Companion by ibechris(m):
Re: I Am Married But Need A Companion by Threesha(op): 6:31am On Jul 02, 2022
ibechris:
How do I reach her.
Send me a DM
Re: I Am Married But Need A Companion by DonBenny77(m): 6:33am On Jul 02, 2022
Tell me story.....
But ya'll dated
Re: I Am Married But Need A Companion by Moh247: 6:38am On Jul 02, 2022
FERNANDEZISBACK:
File for a divorce and then ya can do whatever you want..
Simple as ABC...

The relationship isn't serving its main purpose of companionship, no more trust, or Harmony she can as well stop pretending as a good Christian and move on to someone else out of the billions of people we have on earth .. good morning
Re: I Am Married But Need A Companion by FERNANDEZISBACK: 6:39am On Jul 02, 2022
Moh247:
Simple as ABC...

The relationship isn't serving its main purpose of companionship, no more trust, or Harmony she can as well stop pretending as a good Christian and move on to someone else out of the billions of people we have on earth .. good morning
Exactly..and this is what most persons go through in Dem marriage.. cry
How are ya?
Re: I Am Married But Need A Companion by ibechris(m):
smiley wink
Re: I Am Married But Need A Companion by FERNANDEZISBACK: 6:48am On Jul 02, 2022
ibechris:
Reach me through
Ibeneme83@gmail.com
Go to bed if you can't send a mail..you are telling her to reach you like she's the one who need a companion..

You asked how you could reach the lady in question and you telling her to reach ya.. like WTF? undecided
Re: I Am Married But Need A Companion by ibechris(m): 6:51am On Jul 02, 2022
FERNANDEZISBACK:
Go to bed if you can't send a mail..you are telling her to reach you like she's the one who need a companion..

You asked how you could reach the lady in question and you telling her to reach ya.. like WTF? undecided
Well that is your opinion.
Re: I Am Married But Need A Companion by Toktee(m): 7:02am On Jul 02, 2022
Threesha:
From DM
Please don't crucify her
But why are you women like this?

Something happen to you yet you are pretending as if it's someone's story.

Well, both of you have cheating elements,I do not believe ur story until we hear from the man.
Re: I Am Married But Need A Companion by SpyAC(m): 7:09am On Jul 02, 2022
Threesha:
From DM
Please don't crucify her
if need one, you can count on me to be there for you
Re: I Am Married But Need A Companion by Blakjewelry(m): 7:11am On Jul 02, 2022
Not advisable in her state, this is more like a case of gas looking for spark
Re: I Am Married But Need A Companion by HarunaWest(m): 7:21am On Jul 02, 2022
Threesha:
From DM
Please don't crucify her
Threesha so you are now doing match making?.Na money ah dey find abeg. I am a legit counsellor. Companionship doesn't come free.
Re: I Am Married But Need A Companion by Kingnelson9: 7:22am On Jul 02, 2022
You want to add more troubles to your home instead you will be seeking for solutions.
Very wrong...
Re: I Am Married But Need A Companion by spice123(m): 7:24am On Jul 02, 2022
Threesha:
From DM
Please don't crucify her

I sent you an email.
Re: I Am Married But Need A Companion by AgentGoat: 7:30am On Jul 02, 2022
When the man finally find out you have started your own cheating escapades. You know what will happen to you right?

pummelling of your face beyond recognition.

Park your load and leave is the best thing for you.
Re: I Am Married But Need A Companion by xedyl(m): 7:32am On Jul 02, 2022
It rains everywhere. Your kids are your companion.
Re: I Am Married But Need A Companion by Emibolt: 7:43am On Jul 02, 2022
You are looking for an opposite sex companion aside ur husband?
Someone dat will be dey for u anytime and no sex involved?
E be like sey u go like to dey sell Akara without grinding beans for the Akara. If u wan to cheat, cheat and stop forming one kaain saint.
Re: I Am Married But Need A Companion by Threesha(op): 8:05am On Jul 02, 2022
HarunaWest:
Threesha so you are now doing match making?.Na money ah dey find abeg. I am a legit counsellor. Companionship doesn't come free.
Yes and I have my own channel. Join my Telegram Channel by DMing me.
Re: I Am Married But Need A Companion by Threesha(op): 8:07am On Jul 02, 2022
Toktee:
But why are you women like this?

Something happen to you yet you are pretending as if it's someone's story.

Well, both of you have cheating elements,I do not believe ur story until we hear from the man.
uta not my story I am sex therapist, relationship expert/counsellor and a matchmaker
Re: I Am Married But Need A Companion by talk2hb1(m): 8:44am On Jul 02, 2022
So She Wants a BroZoned Bro,
What does the Bro stand to Gain?
Re: I Am Married But Need A Companion by Channah1(f): 9:14am On Jul 02, 2022
On the grounds of infidelity, shes free to divorce him but I'll advise she remainns unmarried especially as she claims to be a good Christian because anything short of that will be tantamount to adultery and wouldn't give a good report about her spiritual life.

So, if it's to have fun she's seeking advice or another male company, then it's rubbish!

Man Shall not live by sex alone.
This generation too like sex. Tufia!
Re: I Am Married But Need A Companion by Nobody: 10:40am On Jul 02, 2022
Ask for the man's side of this same story now and hear a completely different scenario. Believe the lying snake gender people at your own peril.
Re: I Am Married But Need A Companion by Princeaniemeka: 11:02am On Jul 02, 2022
[quote author=Threesha post=114340877]From DM
Please don't crucify her


And you think it's possible for you to get any reasonable response from this forum?

If you are serious, talk to your family (Mother/father) about the situation. And yes, if you get what you are asking for, definitely you must be emotionally attached both sexually and forth. So take your matter home and pray for Gods intervention. Shalom
Re: I Am Married But Need A Companion by coputa(m): 11:40am On Jul 02, 2022
Threesha:
uta not my story I am sex therapist, relationship expert/counsellor and a matchmaker
If you are indeed a counsellor and a relationship expert,you should have dissuaded a married woman who want to lean and cry on the shoulder of another man.
Re: I Am Married But Need A Companion by Bright4luv3000: 11:52am On Jul 02, 2022
Threesha:
From DM
Please don't crucify her
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Re: I Am Married But Need A Companion by InfinityFabric: 12:03pm On Jul 02, 2022
The woman is already cheating, she's just looking rationalization and that's why she started with "man bad".

When woman say things like this, they're long gone.

From streets you emerge and unto the streets you shall return
Re: I Am Married But Need A Companion by Sammy101111(m): 12:12pm On Jul 02, 2022
Okay and no billing
I can’t take care another man wife oh
Re: I Am Married But Need A Companion by Acidbath: 1:03pm On Jul 02, 2022
Threesha:
From DM
Please don't crucify her


Now I'm bored with it all. I need a friend of the opposite sex not for sexual intimacy nor for extra marital affair but someone I can talk to, turn to for companionship, somebody I can call and he will be there when he wanders away. Somebody I can look up to. Do you understand? I'm talking about a kind of relationship that existed between Jonathan and David. Do you know why? I dint want to develop hypertention thinking about him and his escapades.
This woman is lying to herself. If she wants a Jonathan and David type of companionship, then why not request for a female friend?

Companionship with a male will always turn sexual no matter what and this woman knows it.

She had better seek divorce if she wants that rest of mind.

Negroes don't do companionship till they are old and useless to themselves and needing someone to clean their sh1t...that's when you see them using the word 'companionship' when infact, they want a maid.
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