Cypress042:
I pity you op. Just use the sense that your God gave you and be important in life.

You're 19years old and still being entitled to your fathers money haba!

Young man, your father has really tried and trainned you up to this extend, is time to hustle and live like a man you should be.

Stop taking loans go and hustle

Why so stupid?

mpire:



Have you called on Satan to help you? You don't believe in God you said.

Your father earns 500K a month? Didn't you post you don't have rich parent few years ago?

Tales by moonlight...do you want a gold medal for not doing yahoo, who's stopping you?

You Are Observing The Guy Wella

Don't give up to a life of pessimism, tough times never last but only tough people do. Instead of contemplating negativity and revenge while not acquire the mindset of a conqueror. Remember your stay in the home is just for a while and whatever comes your way in life is meant to be a lesson for you to learn one ot two things from that will prepare you for your assignment in life.

Your name is Failure.

Go to a powerful man of God for deliverance.

JBriel:
Start by changing the moniker. You yourself invoked failure, epileptic scenarios and all kinds of I'll luck by such innane actions/identification

how will he change the moniker

Failure44:
I'm in pains and so annoyed.
I can't even boast of 10k in my account,
I'm crippled with debts on loan apps
This ASUU strike has only made my life worse.
The useless man I call a father that earns half a million monthly, spends It on drinking. I vow to make that man suffer at old age and to bury him in a shallow grave.
What did I do in my past life to be born into a broken home?
Where both parents are like cat and dog.
While my mates were learning yahoo, I was reading like a fool preparing for school.
Now I have secured the so called medicine but am suffering in silence while they're buying cars.

Do you know how painful it is to see the same people you were with now buying cars and using the latest phone?
How painful it is to see them spraying money in the club while you're borrowing money from loan apps?
How painful it is too them those you helped now snub your messages?

Now I understand why people commit suicide

You can be who ever you want to be just be determine

Failure44:
I'm in pains and so annoyed.
I can't even boast of 10k in my account,
I'm crippled with debts on loan apps
This ASUU strike has only made my life worse.
The useless man I call a father that earns half a million monthly, spends It on drinking. I vow to make that man suffer at old age and to bury him in a shallow grave.
What did I do in my past life to be born into a broken home?
Where both parents are like cat and dog.
While my mates were learning yahoo, I was reading like a fool preparing for school.
Now I have secured the so called medicine but am suffering in silence while they're buying cars.

Do you know how painful it is to see the same people you were with now buying cars and using the latest phone?
How painful it is to see them spraying money in the club while you're borrowing money from loan apps?
How painful it is too them those you helped now snub your messages?

Now I understand why people commit suicide

My friend your father needs love and help, like you do. Your Father has relational authority over you. If you provoke him and he lays curse on you, that curse is likely to stand. Now take this advice. Love your father, befriend him, respect him honour him and help him. Once you get his attention through love, he will reciprocate and you may be able to encourage to do away with drunkenness. Insulting and disrespecting him because he is a drunk can only push him away further. Honour your father and mother ,that it may be well with you. And for you, you need to he careful and prayerful so that you do not reproduce what you hate now in your family in future. Familiar spirits cause a lot of damage in families.

Cypress042:
I pity you op. Just use the sense that your God gave you and be important in life.

You're 19years old and still being entitled to your fathers money haba!

Young man, your father has really tried and trainned you up to this extend, is time to hustle and live like a man you should be.

Stop taking loans go and hustle

He's 19 for fvck sake and you call it being entitled to his Daddy's money?.. how do you guys reason so shallow.
His father bringing him to this world and sending him to school is the man's responsibility ffs.
Wetin u want make 19 years old Medical student do to keep afloat in his academics. Make 19years old Medical student go dey hustle? U want make dem withdraw am for college be dat na.


Tbvh a lot of dumb responses in the name of wisdom I see nowadays.

Obnoxious2001:
My only advice to op

please which book is this?

Op is still a teenager with a warped brain. Funny how he won’t collect a dime from his mum cos she’s a teacher but expected his dad to give him money cos he earns more. If your dad can’t give you what stopped you from collecting from your mum so it can justify your reason of wanting to spoil her when you finally make it in life and punish your dad in the process? Stop with the double standard shhiit kid.



What made you think your dad will die before you so you can either allow his body to rot away in the morgue or have him buried in a shallow grave? Are you now the modern Nicodemus? Do you now hold knowledge of how the future will look like? What if you die before your wicked and deadbeat dad?

Better stop complaining and get busy with your life. There are cleaning jobs out there, there are tons of menial jobs you can do to fetch you some money out there so quit the self pity and get to work cos nobody owes you nothing in this life.

Allow your deadbeat dad to drink water abi na alcohol and keep cup jare e no easy to earn 500k and if your dad was busy complaining about his dad he won’t be earning such amount

Cypress042:
I pity you op. Just use the sense that your God gave you and be important in life.

You're 19years old and still being entitled to your fathers money haba!

Young man, your father has really tried and trainned you up to this extend, is time to hustle and live like a man you should be.

Stop taking loans go and hustle

A 19 year old medical student should go and hustle when his father earns half a million monthly… Deep down I’m sure you think you just made sense..
I really pity you…

Thespagchef:

Ah brother

wats the ah for?

Fashdeejay:


The mistake being made with this line of reasoning is that you hatred doesn't stop the man from doing what he wants to do, but it limits you from reaching your potential because you are too distracted with hating your father for something he is doing when you can let the hatred go and focus on yourself.
My father eventually understood his mistakes at the end but it was a little bit late to start rectifying most because he had missed out on the time.... But he passed on a happy man with his children around him... That brought me peace. The African mentality as you put it isn't damaged... I will clearly tell you this as someone who has spent time living in the US and in Nigeria, we are better off when it comes to our mentality.... You think the whites don feel entitled? People will mess up and that is only natural, no matter the skin color, no matter their position in your life, even you will mess up when you have your own children, the major thing is being able to accept that you have messed up and you are ready to make amends. Hatred doesn't affect anyone else but the person who is doing the hating... It limits them...
No matter how bad a father is ..... His blood is your blood and if you want to go western about it, then understand the concept of "blood is thicker than water"... My independence was borne out of my drive to do better and be better.... That didn't change his title over me... My father! I picked the aspects of him that made him special and worked on myself not to be like him the way he wasn't.
If the OP is focused on hating rather than doing better he will only end up like his father... So my 2 cents? Let him work toward being better ..... And learn to live and let live.

I get ur message but I hate how people just give advice to the ones from broken homes like it's easy,we make mistakes which is human but some human beings are just pure evil and that is the honest truth.
Someone that was only verbally abused by his father once in a while(though he performs well in the other areas of his child's life) will be advising someone who has been abused sexually,emotionally,verbally and physically almost every day of his life by his or her father,and you want to compare this two people's stories.

Allow him to do what is in his mind, abeg!

Monchengladbach:
Only those that can relate knows how it feel to be deliberately and foolishly abandoned by a father.

Take heart bro, and don't join cultism in school, rather stick to your studies by all means.

Failure44:
I'm in pains and so annoyed.
I can't even boast of 10k in my account,
I'm crippled with debts on loan apps
This ASUU strike has only made my life worse.
The useless man I call a father that earns half a million monthly, spends It on drinking. I vow to make that man suffer at old age and to bury him in a shallow grave.
What did I do in my past life to be born into a broken home?
Where both parents are like cat and dog.
While my mates were learning yahoo, I was reading like a fool preparing for school.
Now I have secured the so called medicine but am suffering in silence while they're buying cars.

Do you know how painful it is to see the same people you were with now buying cars and using the latest phone?
How painful it is to see them spraying money in the club while you're borrowing money from loan apps?
How painful it is too them those you helped now snub your messages?

Now I understand why people commit suicide

I understand your pains bro…

Failure44:

That woman has tried, she'll enjoy the fruit of her labour.
That man has made her suffer, I have still have memories of when I was 10-12 in primary 5.
How that man would fight with her to the extent blood would be on the wall .
How would fight with her naked, threatening to shoot us and kill my brothers in our sleep.

My childhood memories aren't good at all
I'll make sure I take her abroad, The hatred I have for that man and the zeal to make that woman enjoy is what pushes me.

these memories gonna haunt you in the future. you have be strong.

What does this boy want exactly?
I don't understand him.
Is it ur dad that sent ASUU on strike.
Do you want ur father to dash you money while u are out of school?

Demons and scammers plenty for here wey dey ready to advice you.

Raspberries:
Aww... I understand... Believe me...

If he doesn't love you, cut him off!

Your father is irresponsible and toxic... For your mental health, try to live without him...

u don't have sense,the guy is suffering from entitlement mentality, my dad was well to do but as a student I was doing pure water and had a poultry, I didn't need his money. If u commit suicide you're going to hell fire,just know that. If say nothing like hell you'll remember this post when u get there. 19 years and you're giving up on yourself. I was in the wheelchair for 5years and didn't contemplate suicide, u know why?I'm a fighter. There's nothing in this world that can overcome me,that's d right way to think.now am back on my feet,a millionaire with a great family, that's what faith does to you but u have to be a Christian to enjoy the faith am talking about

Failure44:


I'll understand the reason why he did it?
How do you understand your father beating your mother countless times in front of you?
Or trying to kill you and your brothers?
Or breaking house properties
Or threatening not to pay my school fees?
Or embarrassing the family name?

See, I'll work hard to better myself and become a great father for my kids( that's if I get married)
But i swear on my life, that man will see hell from my hand.

If you think mikel did his father badly, that man hasn't seen anything.
A shallow grave is where he'll land

I'm sorry to say this but you have a very shallow and negative mindset that needs to be changed before it changes you. Do you know you're actually threatening someone's life here? And your father for that matter. If you dislike what he's doing, go easy and also work on being a better and more disciplined person than spewing anger and bitterness

Failure44:

That woman has tried, she'll enjoy the fruit of her labour.
That man has made her suffer, I have still have memories of when I was 10-12 in primary 5.
How that man would fight with her to the extent blood would be on the wall .
How would fight with her naked, threatening to shoot us and kill my brothers in our sleep.

My childhood memories aren't good at all
I'll make sure I take her abroad, The hatred I have for that man and the zeal to make that woman enjoy is what pushes me.

Let me tell you young lad, you can never succeed with unforgiveness deep buried in you. You'll only end up as a bitter soul and you'll entend it to others. Forgive your dad and pray for him. Make peace and be happy with him. Hating him won't change your but the loving him regardless of how he's treated you guys can.

Is this a poem or a prose?

Failure44:
I'm in pains and so annoyed.
I can't even boast of 10k in my account,
I'm crippled with debts on loan apps
This ASUU strike has only made my life worse.
The useless man I call a father that earns half a million monthly, spends It on drinking. I vow to make that man suffer at old age and to bury him in a shallow grave.
What did I do in my past life to be born into a broken home?
Where both parents are like cat and dog.
While my mates were learning yahoo, I was reading like a fool preparing for school.
Now I have secured the so called medicine but am suffering in silence while they're buying cars.

Do you know how painful it is to see the same people you were with now buying cars and using the latest phone?
How painful it is to see them spraying money in the club while you're borrowing money from loan apps?
How painful it is too them those you helped now snub your messages?

Now I understand why people commit suicide

Commit suicide and save us the stress. Dingbag!

Failure44:

I'll make that man suffer mehn, the amount of hatred I have for him is unmatched.

He'll suffer, when he dies, I'll bury him in a shallow grave or let him rotten in the mortuary

You might even die before your father Sha, I hope you know that??

Failure44:


I'll understand the reason why he did it?
How do you understand your father beating your mother countless times in front of you?
Or trying to kill you and your brothers?
Or breaking house properties
Or threatening not to pay my school fees?
Or embarrassing the family name?

See, I'll work hard to better myself and become a great father for my kids( that's if I get married)
But i swear on my life, that man will see hell from my hand.

If you think mikel did his father badly, that man hasn't seen anything.
A shallow grave is where he'll land

So sorry about what u are going through

my question is where did u learn that mikel is not treating his father well?

Fashdeejay:


No matter what your father does, you are a product of his sperm upgraded. Focus the energy you are using to hate to become better than he is.... I do not support any father no being a good father but you'll realize more when you are old enough, you'll understand the reason why he is like this.... My dad once said to me and I quote him 'my father didnt do it for me, so why should I do it for you?' .... I became independent from my early teens, working and hustling, my mom tried her best and supported me with prayers.... But one thing I did was take care of them both.... Irrespective of the pain my dad put me through, I spent on him well before he died and he was appreciative of it. Don't be like your father.... Let the hate dissipate and love him irrespective and instead of burning all that energy hating, channel it into making your own greatness ..... The true victory in such battles is when you show him you are better by having him learn from you... Sometimes na bad situation dey jingah growth....

All this motivation no dey move if you've not experience stuffs like this first hand. I've been there so I know what I mean...
We're talking about the real deal you're motivating.

If you motivate am who go pay him school fees when the time come.. ABI motivation go pay am?

You lot should face the reality of the situation abeg.

Cypress042:
I pity you op. Just use the sense that your God gave you and be important in life.

You're 19years old and still being entitled to your fathers money haba!

Young man, your father has really tried and trainned you up to this extend, is time to hustle and live like a man you should be.

Stop taking loans go and hustle

You expect a 19year in this regime to pay his fees through medical school all by himself??
If you haven't nothing to say I'd advise you shut the f****k up

So who tell say if you learn yahoo, you go ja money?

With this kind of mindset, are sure u won't do worse things than that your father whom you hate with passion.

Sell that man give one ritualist for Ondo

adonisgold:


You no get even half grain of sense.

Look at this bast @rd.

God will not only punish your father for your ill fate. God will punish will punish this our government too. They're the major cause of your problem. They keep you away from school and can't even provide a good legal base for you sue your father.

What a failure.

But brother never give up. Nah who give up carry last. If there's something I like about Okonkwo in THINGS FALL APART by Chinua Achebe, it was his dire zeal not to become like his father the coward.

Never fail because your father did. Look at his mistakes and modify from there.

Failure44:

What can I do?
I'm not financially independent, I tried learning forex but I don't have the capital to bear the losses.
I don't have a skill because I spent all my time trying to gain admission to study medicine.

Now I'm in 200 level waiting for ASUU