In the run for paper chasing we had to go a sperate way

akaahs:
Dude was expecting me to borrow him money for his wedding (150k), I gave him 50k and he got angry. He refused picking my calls, I still traveled for 3 hrs for wedding as the best man after organizing all his groom's men only for him to still shoon me. I decided not to do the best man again.
What pain most is, the guy hurriedly set for the wedding because he got the girl pregnant and I was involved in all the stages of the wedding, he never mentioned it, till the wedding day I noticed the girl is pregnant.
I just blocked him in all areas.

You caused it. You should learn confrontational approach with your best friends. Let them know you don't take nonsense from the beginning. Don't pretend or try to be too preventive when dealing with him.

Samuelnze:
Abeg borrow me your boots,i wanna kick some asses.

Take the military one bruv
Aim straight for the testicle
Hit fast, hit hard


Damn... nasty... I’m out of here

I don't have best friend(s)

Curious, is smoking a sin?

VULCAN:
Jesus doesn't do Judgemental.

He is about Love.

That your friend focuses on your weaknesses doesn't mean that God also does.

There is no sin you can commit that Jesus didn't already die for

He cut ties with me. I also felt he was using me.

Damnfailure:
I am a failure too ashamed of my status so I cut all friends .am patiently waiting for my exit from this life.

You shouldn't.


In a way everyone else is also 'waiting'. But why wait doing nothing? Take up a skill and pursue to perfection. Their presence no longer pressures you so you should be freer.

Cheers.

Growth simply caused that

Stayed away from 1 entitled friend....his always expecting from me, dis guy is practically useless in every way

Staying away from dis guy is peace of mind

blue01:
The guy sees himself as the most holy, any other person around him is not holy.

Are u a smoker...?

Why are u angry?

lolss

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Nothing will ever make me give up cuban cigars[/really?]

medropoly:
Just listen to Arrdee lyrics in his song "COME AND GO"

Thank me later

Story of my life

AutoBodyParts:
Nigga wanted to fu*k my EX. Noticed babe was still into me and started bad mouthing me. Told her thing I confided in him. The babe tried to use it and win me back. She sent me screenshots of their chat when I doubted her. I cut him off though we are still cool but no longer best friends.

Mine did this to me twice.

While in University and after graduation.

The girls came back and told me to be carful of him. I confronted the dude,he tried to deny but when I gave him my evidence he said "it's devil's work"

Savagr:
I have no friend Talk more of Best

We are on the same page.

Karrtel:

Swrs it irks me ehnnn, or you'll see some couples "pinching" money just for a wedding, imagine using ur last 200k just to do a wedding just for sake of fulfilling all righteousness....e get one poverty inspired wedding wey my friend force me make we go...the caterer served me and my friend rice and boiled egg, infact she divided the egg between us, I was so disgusted, irritated and sad I just vex leave the wedding, for one week I no gree talk to my friend, all that went thru my mind was how are the couple going to cope from then henceforth

The couples no send you....... That's what they can afford.

Treachery

fabianiyobosa:
Proposed a business, and introduced him to a partner, my so-called best friend went behind me to contact the business partner requesting they do it alone without me, mind you, I was housing the so-called best friend.

That guy can poison u o!! Good u cut him off.

She was busy sleeping around...people thought I was doing same thing with her...I had to leave her...I tried advising her on several occasions...but madam too like pweeq...even on her period

Discovered they are FAIR WEATHER FRIENDS / FrenENEMIES, a.k.a friendlyfoes, a.k.a friendly enemies !
# I'll rather be a LONE RANGER than be with snitches

The first one's nazzy. We grew up almost like twins. I cherished her like my baby sis with no intents to nack or date her. She knew I Have a bae. She wanted us to become besties with benefit. I should nack her buh we shouldn't date. I couldn't. I distanced myself faraway from her.


the second one, JUSTUS. He was my hommie from primary school. When we reached ss3, he became a badass nigurr,he joined cult and wanted me into the cult buh I Had to cut all ties wif him and run 4 my dear lyf

well, mine cut me off because he got filthy rich & felt average niggas like me are beneath his station...At first, I tried to fix things, since we go way back...but it was clear, I was d only one trying and he makes it seem I am disturbing his life.....So I also totally blocked him & deleted him from my life...Don't even know what's he is up to currently

Betrayal.

We were childhood friends

He began to show his true nature after I lost my parents.

I once had a chic I had been toasting, the day we agreed to hang out he made several moves on this babe, she never spoke to me again

I forgave him,

We did some business, he wouldn’t give me my share (8k Naira), I was very broke. He also stated I mind the way I talk to him.

I was depressed, my shop rent was due; no way to raise funds, I had to sell the shop for 200k. I invested the money.

The following year I made millions, I think he heard about me and came back, I forgave him but never forgot.

As he started coming close to me I noticed a strong decline in my personality and business.

I was dropping back to zero, I began to see revelations. I knew something was hunting me. I prayed !

Further revelations came when his cousin exposed him in my presence as an occult man.

I distanced myself, only for him to have a fatal accident and die just 2 weeks later.

There was a time when he loved me so much and could give me his last card, which is why I wouldn’t give up on him. I think he wanted to introduce me to his ways, later on wanted to steal my star !

Life is a mistery, beware of your friends. Man know Thy self !

My business is doing fine now, I’m not where I used to be but I’m fine.

Thanks everyone !

I hate hypocrite people,pretenders

Introduce my work to dis nigga cause is family where involved....told him d way out of it.....snitch went back in my way to do my work...and never talked about it not apologies about till today....nigga telling people I cut him off......

I discovered that folks I could take a bullet for,
would rather PULL THE TRIGGER ON ME!...

Hence, I kept my distance....

# Life lesson 101 - love all, TRUST NONE

She was never a true friend to begin with
She expressed.signs of resentment and jealousy.

Kaiair:
My secondary school friend pressurized me into smoking and drinking then all of a sudden changed his ways one day, plus he turned into a pastor always preaching about how my actions will lead me to hell.....

He began expecting me to do the same, he forgot I told him at the beginning if I ever indulge anything I usually don't go back....my soul is lost already.....and no I have no business with holy people.

I haven't cut off ties with any besties. Sure I have let go of some friends, but definitely not a bestie. You sure this was a BEST FRIEND?

GreatVocalist:

What kind of entitlement mentality is this? Why should anyone go out of their way to please you simply because you attended their wedding? Are you that hungry that you have to go to a wedding just to eat? The success of a marriage is not dependent on how much food served at the wedding ceremony. Y'all should stop making this wedding stuff a big deal. It's just a gathering to celebrate the coming together of two persons. Haba!

Look at the sorta bullshit you're spewing, must two extremely broke people marry?? Haba! Na by force, everytime buhari, buhari.... but most people deliberately bring misfortune and poverty upon themselves

I wouldn't call him a best friend, but more like a close friend.
It was during that endsars saga and this idiot was actually supporting Buhari. Though he is a strong Buhari supporter but after that Lekki shooting, he was still saying Buhari is the best thing after slice bread. I cut him off for life. A decision I regretted not taking earlier. Eno where ever you are, may all the sins of Buhari visit you.

His overzealous and unscrupulous wife