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Re: My Ex. And Her Husband Are Now My In-laws. by Highkings23(m): 7:45am On Jul 21, 2022
VeniJu:
This life, just like a fan rotates, can change at any given time.. What would have been a tragic heart break turned out to be a blessing in disguise. I'll be brief with this.

I met my Ex., a beautiful charming and wonderful young girl of 20 in the University. We dated for two years. During this period, I was supporting her in ways I can. (Normal lady's requests)
Later, things became a bit rough and tough. She started acting. I saw the signs from how she responds to my calls, no much visits as she used to, given excuses and all. I pleaded with her to be patient and believe in God for a better change. (Not the APC Change) but she openly told me "I no fit suffer"

I felt bad because like a flash, she seem to have forgotten the good days. And that was it. Two months later, I decided to give love a chance again. I met this beautiful and curvy lady of about 24. I shoot my shot and boom! Were off. Everything a man could ever want was in her. And she was like and Angel because after we started dating, things immediately turned around for the best. As fate would have it, she turned out to be a sister to the man my Ex. ended up with. We got married, and moved to Abuja. Life was sweet with her.. One day, she told me her brother and his wife would be visiting us and I said there's no problem.

Days later, on a weekend, we we're seeing a movie at home when her phone rang. It was her brother and the wife at the gate. She went to usher them in as the gate man instead they should call for confirmation. When they got in, the whole atmosphere changed... Like a dream, I was shocked to see that the wife was my Ex who didn't want to suffer. Apparently life hasn't been good to them and they needed help. I asked them to give us some time to see what we can do... (Honestly, I don't feel like helping) Though my wife is pleading on their behalf.

While I brought this up is to encourage men out there. Do not feel rejected because a woman left you. She might actually be an obstacle to your progress. It might be tough and painful. But see it as a blessing.




I watched the movie too on Africa magic yesterday night
Re: My Ex. And Her Husband Are Now My In-laws. by oyejole(m): 7:47am On Jul 21, 2022
Dollarsea:
Nawa o.. so in the Nigeria you dated and married your wife without knowing her brother all along? Same BIL and his wife (ur ex) didn't attend your wedding too?

I didn't say its Nollywood sha


Ok so you know your girlfriend's siblings and all their BFs and GFs. And when they move from one relationship to another you also dey know.
Re: My Ex. And Her Husband Are Now My In-laws. by Obidatti2023s(m): 7:53am On Jul 21, 2022
VeniJu:
This life, just like a fan rotates, can change at any given time.. What would have been a tragic heart break turned out to be a blessing in disguise. I'll be brief with this.

I met my Ex., a beautiful charming and wonderful young girl of 20 in the University. We dated for two years. During this period, I was supporting her in ways I can. (Normal lady's requests)
Later, things became a bit rough and tough. She started acting. I saw the signs from how she responds to my calls, no much visits as she used to, given excuses and all. I pleaded with her to be patient and believe in God for a better change. (Not the APC Change) but she openly told me "I no fit suffer"

I felt bad because like a flash, she seem to have forgotten the good days. And that was it. Two months later, I decided to give love a chance again. I met this beautiful and curvy lady of about 24. I shoot my shot and boom! Were off. Everything a man could ever want was in her. And she was like and Angel because after we started dating, things immediately turned around for the best. As fate would have it, she turned out to be a sister to the man my Ex. ended up with. We got married, and moved to Abuja. Life was sweet with her.. One day, she told me her brother and his wife would be visiting us and I said there's no problem.

Days later, on a weekend, we we're seeing a movie at home when her phone rang. It was her brother and the wife at the gate. She went to usher them in as the gate man instead they should call for confirmation. When they got in, the whole atmosphere changed... Like a dream, I was shocked to see that the wife was my Ex who didn't want to suffer. Apparently life hasn't been good to them and they needed help. I asked them to give us some time to see what we can do... (Honestly, I don't feel like helping) Though my wife is pleading on their behalf.

While I brought this up is to encourage men out there. Do not feel rejected because a woman left you. She might actually be an obstacle to your progress. It might be tough and painful. But see it as a blessing.

All I can say is pleaseeeeeeee be very careful how you help them.
Re: My Ex. And Her Husband Are Now My In-laws. by chizy32: 8:01am On Jul 21, 2022
see below

Re: My Ex. And Her Husband Are Now My In-laws. by Blackman7: 8:03am On Jul 21, 2022
Your story sounds suspect. Are you saying while dating you never knew her brother or her brother didn't attend his sister's traditional/ white wedding? Story for the gods.

Re: My Ex. And Her Husband Are Now My In-laws. by biafranrealson: 8:22am On Jul 21, 2022
Story story
U did intro , traditional marriage,white marriage and and u never knew all your in-laws ?
Re: My Ex. And Her Husband Are Now My In-laws. by Raychee(f): 8:38am On Jul 21, 2022
Lmao grin. At least try to make the story more believable now. Haba!
Re: My Ex. And Her Husband Are Now My In-laws. by Inosky: 8:41am On Jul 21, 2022
Supper story... Thanks for telling us Nollywood stories.
Re: My Ex. And Her Husband Are Now My In-laws. by adedayourt(m): 8:55am On Jul 21, 2022
She was with you, you started experiencing bad turns, she went and met another man, the man is experiencing same fate.

She must be a bad luck and God might have delivered you from her.
Re: My Ex. And Her Husband Are Now My In-laws. by Cazzim(m): 8:59am On Jul 21, 2022
dollytino4real:
God bless u, pls help dem if u can! because am in dat shoe, my ex has really been supportive in my marriage! Is still dis talk I no wan suffer still happened to me but I ended up the way I am now!! Pls help

why will he help,,, you girls don't deserve help in such situations, that's what fit you girls, u girls don't think about tomorrow thinking life will end one day or things will never change again, any girl that will leave me when things are bad for me is evil and wicked girl, and she don't deserve help

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Re: My Ex. And Her Husband Are Now My In-laws. by Cazzim(m): 9:00am On Jul 21, 2022
olisaEze:
grin

nah shit full there nothing more
Re: My Ex. And Her Husband Are Now My In-laws. by kazyhm(m): 9:04am On Jul 21, 2022
Lol

Those days she behaves as if she has it all figured out........


It is men's world

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Re: My Ex. And Her Husband Are Now My In-laws. by Nobody: 9:07am On Jul 21, 2022
Dollarsea:
Nawa o.. so in the Nigeria you dated and married your wife without knowing her brother all along? Same BIL and his wife (ur ex) didn't attend your wedding too?

I didn't say its Nollywood sha
I wanted to believe the story but logic is needed.
Re: My Ex. And Her Husband Are Now My In-laws. by dollytino4real(f): 9:09am On Jul 21, 2022
Cazzim:


why will he help,,, you girls don't deserve help in such situations, that's what fit you girls, u girls don't think about tomorrow thinking life will end one day or things will never change again, any girl that will leave me when things are bad for me is evil and wicked girl, and she don't deserve help
u are not God, everyone make mistake at one point or the other
Re: My Ex. And Her Husband Are Now My In-laws. by dollytino4real(f): 9:10am On Jul 21, 2022
JONSYN7154:
we learn from experience. Or you don't want to say it here? OK let me used DM.
ok thanks
Re: My Ex. And Her Husband Are Now My In-laws. by dollytino4real(f): 9:11am On Jul 21, 2022
Dorakay93:

So u still dey contact ur ex after marriage??
my ex Na spirit? Is he not human being
Re: My Ex. And Her Husband Are Now My In-laws. by Cazzim(m): 9:12am On Jul 21, 2022
dollytino4real:
u are not God, everyone make mistake at one point or the other

that's not mistake but selfish
Re: My Ex. And Her Husband Are Now My In-laws. by EricZeal(m): 9:14am On Jul 21, 2022
True talk ,great lessons here .
VeniJu:
This life, just like a fan rotates, can change at any given time.. What would have been a tragic heart break turned out to be a blessing in disguise. I'll be brief with this.

I met my Ex., a beautiful charming and wonderful young girl of 20 in the University. We dated for two years. During this period, I was supporting her in ways I can. (Normal lady's requests)
Later, things became a bit rough and tough. She started acting. I saw the signs from how she responds to my calls, no much visits as she used to, given excuses and all. I pleaded with her to be patient and believe in God for a better change. (Not the APC Change) but she openly told me "I no fit suffer"

I felt bad because like a flash, she seem to have forgotten the good days. And that was it. Two months later, I decided to give love a chance again. I met this beautiful and curvy lady of about 24. I shoot my shot and boom! Were off. Everything a man could ever want was in her. And she was like and Angel because after we started dating, things immediately turned around for the best. As fate would have it, she turned out to be a sister to the man my Ex. ended up with. We got married, and moved to Abuja. Life was sweet with her.. One day, she told me her brother and his wife would be visiting us and I said there's no problem.

Days later, on a weekend, we we're seeing a movie at home when her phone rang. It was her brother and the wife at the gate. She went to usher them in as the gate man instead they should call for confirmation. When they got in, the whole atmosphere changed... Like a dream, I was shocked to see that the wife was my Ex who didn't want to suffer. Apparently life hasn't been good to them and they needed help. I asked them to give us some time to see what we can do... (Honestly, I don't feel like helping) Though my wife is pleading on their behalf.

While I brought this up is to encourage men out there. Do not feel rejected because a woman left you. She might actually be an obstacle to your progress. It might be tough and painful. But see it as a blessing.
Re: My Ex. And Her Husband Are Now My In-laws. by dollytino4real(f): 9:15am On Jul 21, 2022
Cazzim:


that's not mistake but selfish

not selfish!!
Re: My Ex. And Her Husband Are Now My In-laws. by Dorakay93(m): 9:19am On Jul 21, 2022
dollytino4real:
my ex Na spirit? Is he not human being
Is your hubby aware of this??
Re: My Ex. And Her Husband Are Now My In-laws. by dollytino4real(f): 9:21am On Jul 21, 2022
Dorakay93:

Is your hubby aware of this??
yes of cause, my ex is married too
Re: My Ex. And Her Husband Are Now My In-laws. by Dorakay93(m): 9:23am On Jul 21, 2022
dollytino4real:
yes of cause, my ex is married too
Me I no go gree ooo.
But if una meet now, somtin fit happen o, grin
Re: My Ex. And Her Husband Are Now My In-laws. by Analyst7: 9:27am On Jul 21, 2022
Dollarsea:
Nawa o.. so in the Nigeria you dated and married your wife without knowing her brother all along? Same BIL and his wife (ur ex) didn't attend your wedding too?

I didn't say its Nollywood sha
He might know the brother now but won’t know who the brother is dating
Re: My Ex. And Her Husband Are Now My In-laws. by dollytino4real(f): 9:30am On Jul 21, 2022
Dorakay93:

Me I no go gree ooo.
But if una meet now, somtin fit happen o, grin
no, my ex is a devoted Christian,
Re: My Ex. And Her Husband Are Now My In-laws. by VeniJu: 9:38am On Jul 21, 2022
Dollarsea:
Nawa o.. so in the Nigeria you dated and married your wife without knowing her brother all along? Same BIL and his wife (ur ex) didn't attend your wedding too?

I didn't say its Nollywood sha

I knew his brother during the marriage rites and all. But didn't know my Ex. Would end up with him.
Re: My Ex. And Her Husband Are Now My In-laws. by Successlane: 9:51am On Jul 21, 2022
VeniJu:
This life, just like a fan rotates, can change at any given time.. What would have been a tragic heart break turned out to be a blessing in disguise. I'll be brief with this.

I met my Ex., a beautiful charming and wonderful young girl of 20 in the University. We dated for two years. During this period, I was supporting her in ways I can. (Normal lady's requests)
Later, things became a bit rough and tough. She started acting. I saw the signs from how she responds to my calls, no much visits as she used to, given excuses and all. I pleaded with her to be patient and believe in God for a better change. (Not the APC Change) but she openly told me "I no fit suffer"

I felt bad because like a flash, she seem to have forgotten the good days. And that was it. Two months later, I decided to give love a chance again. I met this beautiful and curvy lady of about 24. I shoot my shot and boom! Were off. Everything a man could ever want was in her. And she was like and Angel because after we started dating, things immediately turned around for the best. As fate would have it, she turned out to be a sister to the man my Ex. ended up with. We got married, and moved to Abuja. Life was sweet with her.. One day, she told me her brother and his wife would be visiting us and I said there's no problem.

Days later, on a weekend, we we're seeing a movie at home when her phone rang. It was her brother and the wife at the gate. She went to usher them in as the gate man instead they should call for confirmation. When they got in, the whole atmosphere changed... Like a dream, I was shocked to see that the wife was my Ex who didn't want to suffer. Apparently life hasn't been good to them and they needed help. I asked them to give us some time to see what we can do... (Honestly, I don't feel like helping) Though my wife is pleading on their behalf.

While I brought this up is to encourage men out there. Do not feel rejected because a woman left you. She might actually be an obstacle to your progress. It might be tough and painful. But see it as a blessing.

Just read this,
It has MADE my day;.
Good morning.
Re: My Ex. And Her Husband Are Now My In-laws. by VeniJu: 9:54am On Jul 21, 2022
Yankee101:
1. Is this a real story?
2. If true, how come you don’t know who your wife’s bro married?
Long stretch

Yes. It is. How do I would or would have expected that my Ex would end up with my brother in law? And for those asking, I ended up marrying before my Ex.
Re: My Ex. And Her Husband Are Now My In-laws. by Cazzim(m): 9:56am On Jul 21, 2022
dollytino4real:
not selfish!!

u where greedy and not patient now see the punishment, God no de sleep oo
Re: My Ex. And Her Husband Are Now My In-laws. by JONSYN7154: 10:00am On Jul 21, 2022
dollytino4real:
ok thanks
have sent the DM already
Re: My Ex. And Her Husband Are Now My In-laws. by VeniJu: 10:07am On Jul 21, 2022
Brightoalo:


So in the same Apc regime you still made it ? Yet you said not like Apc change ? You’re such a confuse lying guy.

So during your marriage ceremony your wife’s brother and the wife did not attended ?

Very funny how some if you can't comprehend. It isn't about my brother in law. How would i know my Ex. Would end up marrying him?
Re: My Ex. And Her Husband Are Now My In-laws. by ekeneewere(m): 10:09am On Jul 21, 2022
Dollarsea:
Nawa o.. so in the Nigeria you dated and married your wife without knowing her brother all along? Same BIL and his wife (ur ex) didn't attend your wedding too?

I didn't say its Nollywood sha

2 Chilled bottles of Trophy beer for you..
Na for Nollywwod such things dey happen

story story, story

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Re: My Ex. And Her Husband Are Now My In-laws. by ekeneewere(m): 10:12am On Jul 21, 2022
VeniJu:


Very funny how some if you can't comprehend. It isn't about my brother in law. How would i know my Ex. Would end up marrying him?


Brightoalo:


So in the same Apc regime you still made it ? Yet you said not like Apc change ? You’re such a confuse lying guy.

So during your marriage ceremony your wife’s brother and the wife did not attended ?

story story

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