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Re: Ladies: When Your Guy Discovers You Have Cheated, Break Up by SmartyPants(m): 2:16pm On Jul 28, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: I'll take your point on the first example, and maybe the third. However, while those were arguably poor examples of the point, that doesn't invalidate it. Victims get some leeway for lashing out. For example, would you not sympathise with an abused woman who snaps and kills her husband in his sleep? While killing him may not have been necessary for her freedom, one could argue that the trauma provoked a response just as wrong in character but less so in weight. Wouldn't you agree? |
Re: Ladies: When Your Guy Discovers You Have Cheated, Break Up by uptownemmygee(m): 2:18pm On Jul 28, 2022 |
nenyewrites: I dey tell you oo, I no quarrel her, I just lock up I just put her for list of "getting down banny" |
Re: Ladies: When Your Guy Discovers You Have Cheated, Break Up by Triangles1(m): 2:22pm On Jul 28, 2022 |
donaldking100: Baddest. |
Re: Ladies: When Your Guy Discovers You Have Cheated, Break Up by Triangles1(m): 2:24pm On Jul 28, 2022 |
Josbreed: Is good to forgive and forget but on this issue you've done the right thing. Baddest. |
Re: Ladies: When Your Guy Discovers You Have Cheated, Break Up by Triangles1(m): 2:29pm On Jul 28, 2022 |
paulolee: Sharp guy |
Re: Ladies: When Your Guy Discovers You Have Cheated, Break Up by Josbreed: 2:41pm On Jul 28, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: I caught her, forgave her, kpanshing continues. But, you see this ting called luv abi lov abi na love sef, infact, anyone of them sha, e no dey again. For her mind, I am the ONE for her. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies: When Your Guy Discovers You Have Cheated, Break Up by ifinger: 2:48pm On Jul 28, 2022 |
I no get time just FK and drop to the next all of them Na same expecialy mawid women who still cheat u think say Na only u e de give Poename? |
Re: Ladies: When Your Guy Discovers You Have Cheated, Break Up by Kobojunkie: 2:54pm On Jul 28, 2022 |
SmartyPants:1. Your examples do not connect in any way to this. 2. The moment a supposed victims becomes as his oppressor, he ceases to be a victim but just another oppressor in the game. I may emphasize to an extent but that doesn't make her any less of a murder who murdered her victim in his sleep if reasonable doubt cannot be established. 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies: When Your Guy Discovers You Have Cheated, Break Up by Papichulostunne(m): 2:55pm On Jul 28, 2022 |
From this picture, its a clear depiction that she is the one footing the bills.. Its not called cheating.. Rather he caught you with a work colleague or client. |
Re: Ladies: When Your Guy Discovers You Have Cheated, Break Up by Kobojunkie: 2:55pm On Jul 28, 2022 |
Josbreed:You didn't forgive her cause if you did we wouldn't be having this conversation to begin with. Hence the issue. 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies: When Your Guy Discovers You Have Cheated, Break Up by aribisala0(m): 3:03pm On Jul 28, 2022 |
donaldking100:You think you are doing her but she is doing you. Na when market set una go know who carry who come market |
Re: Ladies: When Your Guy Discovers You Have Cheated, Break Up by rossovu: 3:16pm On Jul 28, 2022 |
Josbreed:Far too risky |
Re: Ladies: When Your Guy Discovers You Have Cheated, Break Up by Nobody: 3:17pm On Jul 28, 2022 |
bayulll011:He said the truth. What's wrong with you? |
Re: Ladies: When Your Guy Discovers You Have Cheated, Break Up by Nobody: 3:19pm On Jul 28, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:No body forgives cheating except idiots burn out of ignorance by a dead woman. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies: When Your Guy Discovers You Have Cheated, Break Up by Ishilove: 3:21pm On Jul 28, 2022 |
Josbreed:Free 'kpanshing' until she gives STD |
Re: Ladies: When Your Guy Discovers You Have Cheated, Break Up by naijapikin2(m): 3:37pm On Jul 28, 2022 |
As a man, I can tell you categorically.... You're correct. |
Re: Ladies: When Your Guy Discovers You Have Cheated, Break Up by SmartyPants(m): 3:46pm On Jul 28, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: We'll have to agree to disagree for the most part, but the bolded is the key! |
Re: Ladies: When Your Guy Discovers You Have Cheated, Break Up by Jobig(m): 3:52pm On Jul 28, 2022 |
What if you know that ur wife cheat |
Re: Ladies: When Your Guy Discovers You Have Cheated, Break Up by Youngpo413: 4:16pm On Jul 28, 2022 |
Ezemann:If I cheat,I won't expect forgiveness if caught....and won't forgive her either... |
Re: Ladies: When Your Guy Discovers You Have Cheated, Break Up by Lovelydaisies: 4:28pm On Jul 28, 2022 |
Jaybuoy: But you aren't obliged to take her back, are you? If your girl cheats on you and you can't handle that, let her go! Vice versa. What's the 'revenge' for, if you value your peace of mind? Sleeping with her and eventually breaking her heart is now revenge? You may not know when you will hit her or kill her out of annoyance, so, discharge the cheat. That's enough punishment. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies: When Your Guy Discovers You Have Cheated, Break Up by Kobojunkie: 5:11pm On Jul 28, 2022 |
nijaomegacode:Well, you are all in the same pudding then with the cheaters since according to you no one forgives. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies: When Your Guy Discovers You Have Cheated, Break Up by Kobojunkie: 5:12pm On Jul 28, 2022 |
SmartyPants:The bolded only matters because we consider her situation however it means absolutely nothing if she is proven just another vicious individual like her oppressor. |
Re: Ladies: When Your Guy Discovers You Have Cheated, Break Up by Jaybuoy: 5:27pm On Jul 28, 2022 |
Lovelydaisies: That's your opinion, though. People deal with pain differently. The moral lesson is, in life, be careful who you offend. Some forgive easily, some others, not so much. 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies: When Your Guy Discovers You Have Cheated, Break Up by ttbaba(m): 5:48pm On Jul 28, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:They are also the product of reality...ask their parenf |
Re: Ladies: When Your Guy Discovers You Have Cheated, Break Up by Kobojunkie: 5:50pm On Jul 28, 2022 |
ttbaba:We are meant to act with wisdom so we break from such cycles. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies: When Your Guy Discovers You Have Cheated, Break Up by advanceDNA: 6:27pm On Jul 28, 2022 |
IamMobisola: Why do women always assume this your statement....begging for forgiveness after cheating is an individual thing.... men do it... Women do it.... Some men forgive.. some dont Some women forgive ..some don't... |
Re: Ladies: When Your Guy Discovers You Have Cheated, Break Up by Heimdal(m): 6:41pm On Jul 28, 2022 |
advanceDNA: Believe whatever you want to believe. I hope you end up with the kind of woman you think you deserve. Shalom. |
Re: Ladies: When Your Guy Discovers You Have Cheated, Break Up by Heimdal(m): 6:43pm On Jul 28, 2022 |
czarr: I don’t know what you are driving at but we all know the topic is specific. Feel free, however, to broaden it and justify your life decisions. |
Re: Ladies: When Your Guy Discovers You Have Cheated, Break Up by LogicBomb8: 6:46pm On Jul 28, 2022 |
Lorechino:who are wa |
Re: Ladies: When Your Guy Discovers You Have Cheated, Break Up by Nonexisting: 6:47pm On Jul 28, 2022 |
Heimdal:My God, na man born this one? 1 Like
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Re: Ladies: When Your Guy Discovers You Have Cheated, Break Up by IamMobisola(f): 6:49pm On Jul 28, 2022 |
advanceDNA: It's not assumption, it's the truth. You probably have been missing tweets on twitter and post here on nairaland about this topic. They say "Men are polygamous in nature", that's the excuse your gender uses to justify them cheating. They said women shouldn't leave their relationships because their men cheat because "men are by nature wired to have more than one woman" but when a woman cheats, she shouldn't be forgiven. And hundreds of comments from yiur gender were in agreement Your gender said this. |
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