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Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by toprated: 9:22am On Jul 31, 2022 |
What are you waiting for? Do that ASAP 2 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Lekmanz87(m): 9:22am On Jul 31, 2022 |
H0711: Well apology on his behalf for not telling you about the child and her condition too,guess his dishonesty is from being scared of losing you though but I would suggest you guys can get a maid specially for the child atleast to save cost and since his not financially bouyant to take her to the home of children with disabilities…don’t lose your marriage because of this and I sincerely understand and appreciate your efforts too but you can always work a way out though 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by zinaunreal(m): 9:22am On Jul 31, 2022 |
H0711: This one strong oh. Such children need carers or specialists not you 3 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by generalwo(m): 9:23am On Jul 31, 2022 |
HRHQueenPhil:.. Bros which kind Maid dey collect 200k to tKe care of pikin?? How many bank managers dey collect 200k per month Or u no see say na 200k monthly she talk say maid wan collect?? |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by backnbeta(f): 9:23am On Jul 31, 2022 |
H0711:There are some NGOs taking care of PWD, you and your husband should shop for one around you. If you live in Ibadan, I know of Jesus Kids Academy for children with Autism. I understand it's not your problem, really...but you can still help her find a home. Best of luck. 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by H0711(f): 9:25am On Jul 31, 2022 |
Cutehector: Being a Christian doesn't mean I have to be an hyprocrite and carry a burden which I didn't agree with which might make me to develop some health issues like blood pressure and depression later on. If you care enough come and carry the cross on our behalf . Are you not a Christian too? 17 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by hush15: 9:25am On Jul 31, 2022 |
H0711: I ain't judging but you know that's not true. If you can't endure thus child, I doubt if you will be able to cope should the table turns. I pray for you and your husband never to have such again cos that will be serious. Neway, here is my 2cents. Go to Google and look for organizations, I mean NGOs that support children with such to solicit for help. Be it local or international. Never get tired of it till help comes. You seek assistance whether church or corporate organizations cos many people with choldren that celebral palsy are out there and funny enough, they support each other. You might just be lucky to get attention and exposure from one. Moreover, you get more info on how to handle the situation better. Running away won't solve the problem. |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Jannyfranc: 9:26am On Jul 31, 2022 |
Go and register her in school for needy.You visit and send her items.Is not enough to leave your marriage. |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Hideko0: 9:26am On Jul 31, 2022 |
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Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Nobody: 9:26am On Jul 31, 2022 |
Drfernandez: Fixed. 4 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Mcleo007(m): 9:27am On Jul 31, 2022 |
You can leave, the marriage was built in lies. However, also note that with you pregnant and having a child soon, you already have become a baby mama and your chances at remarrying becomes slim. |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Sophyeasy(f): 9:27am On Jul 31, 2022 |
I doubt if there's any marriage btw you after all[color=#770077][/color] H0711: 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by zedegit: 9:28am On Jul 31, 2022 |
HRHQueenPhil: Lol. Lift the child in prayers. I think there must be a way to detect children with celebral palsy in order to do the needful before they are born or immediately at birth. Truly it's not worth it because such children rarely live beyond 15 years even they do, it's waste of resources and one's sanity is at stake. |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by maasoap(m): 9:28am On Jul 31, 2022 |
JONNYSPUTE: Lol, you tried but failed my friend. The kid's mother dropped her off, saying she's tired. Why trying now to emotionally and psychologicaly blackmail this innocent woman here? If she gives birth to a specially challenged kid tomorrow, that will be her own problem too. Everyone with her own cup of tea. I pity the man sha, I hope he doesn't end his own life the way this thing is going for him 8 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Olayetan(m): 9:28am On Jul 31, 2022 |
Leaving is a hard decision and staying isn't easy as well, you're 7 months gone and this alone is enough reason why it's not advisable to leave, I will advise you to stay a little and study how things turn out, if it's beyond what you can endure, you can then decide to leave but leaving now is kinda too soon and early considering your current situation. Just tell your husband to get someone to look after the child as its going to be a huge burden on you to look after her with your current condition, I guess talking to your husband and coming to a solution should be your priority RN... Marriages this days is for the grace, the earlier everyone realized Marriages isn't for everyone the better for everyone... |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by advanceDNA: 9:29am On Jul 31, 2022 |
backnbeta: It's not abroad ooo...there is no free NGO in Nigeria that will collect kids from you for free without agreement of monthly upkeep.. If you dont come back they will just use the child for ritual for the highest bidder The lady has said the man doesnt have the money...meaning he will still come and tell the poor wife to be packing shít and carrying the child to bathroom to bathe for the rest of her marriage...... . the mother of the child should come and carry her baby....she did the dumping out of jealousy to chase the woman out because the man didn't marry her....some women dey crazeeee 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by H0711(f): 9:29am On Jul 31, 2022 |
Mcleo007: Being a single mother is not a death sentence . I prefer that chance to be reduce like you think than staying in an unhappy place raising someone else responsibility which might cause me to develop some health issues. 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by philbad(m): 9:29am On Jul 31, 2022 |
I know what you are passing through, there are other homes for the impaired and this kind of kid, find out and put her there take care of the marriage 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by MediMedi(m): 9:30am On Jul 31, 2022 |
poor girl, you're leaving cause you have seen the said man broke and can't cartel for your expenses. bad wife |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by koyeni(m): 9:30am On Jul 31, 2022 |
Steep:What of in a case where wife decides to leave...no adultery, no maltreatment or abuse...is the Christian man free to remarry? |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by delishpot: 9:30am On Jul 31, 2022 |
kollinz1234: Yes. Asking her to leave a union built on lies is better than asking her to live a life of burden fuelled by your cursing an unborn baby bacause you dont like the mother's choice. Only a very dark hearted person will indirectly curse an unborn baby tufiakwa. The church is evil no wonder Jesus said judgement will start from there. My life is what your ancestors dreamed about but have not achieved even in your generation. I NEVER said you should share my opinion that is how you evil people always grab at straws to justify your wickedness. You have killed and done worse evil in your lifetime compared to her choice of leaving a marriage due to lies. Yet no one has threatened your unborn children. Solution is simple, since you are so godly take the child and reap the reward you so want her to reap. Or did your bible tell you not to do good to those you aren't related by blood with? Teach this woman going astary by your judgement a lesson by example. I am sure she wouldn't mind. OP, YOU WILL DELIVER A HEALTHY BABY AND DO IT SAFELY. 14 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by jogsman01(m): 9:30am On Jul 31, 2022 |
Jovialjune1:so, for your mind, it's in the interest of the child's mother to give birth to her with the disability? Life and everything in it is in 2 phases darling. |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Lekmanz87(m): 9:30am On Jul 31, 2022 |
generalwo: Oga try to read and understand before commenting… 10 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Nobody: 9:30am On Jul 31, 2022 |
GraciousVictor: Fixed. 4 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by zedegit: 9:31am On Jul 31, 2022 |
H0711: He can't afford #25 000 monthly? How is he providing for the family or did you pay his groom price? |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by phemmyfour: 9:32am On Jul 31, 2022 |
H0711:It's not even about the condition of the child but the fact that he can hide such huge secret from you. Do you know what else is hidden from you. Separate from him, it's not worth it 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Nobody: 9:32am On Jul 31, 2022 |
jogsman01: Why not wish a disability child for yourself since life and everything in it is in 2 phases, darling. 5 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Haayaoba: 9:32am On Jul 31, 2022 |
You can reach out to Adoca home
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Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by H0711(f): 9:33am On Jul 31, 2022 |
MediMedi: No problem only God knows the truth if i am a bad wife or not . ask one your sister come and replace me to help him take care of the child 10 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by maasoap(m): 9:33am On Jul 31, 2022 |
Olayetan: This is not about her marriage to her husband, just happened that someone else's problem was dumped on her laps. She didn't see it coming, she was "ambushed". It's just too much for her and for anyone for that matter. Haba! 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by max83: 9:33am On Jul 31, 2022 |
OP, you and hubby can take the child to a Cerebral Palsy centre in Laokwe, Lagos if you stay in Lagos. Use google map to trace address. Affected children admission to the centre is free. Its an NGO. Have a discuss with the MD. I advise you stay with your husband if you truely love him. No one is completely perfect. 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by zedegit: 9:34am On Jul 31, 2022 |
Richy4: This got me. Nigerian government has enough problem of its own nah. |
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