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Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Rutheby(f): 11:20am On Jul 31, 2022 |
Be calming down Nozino. The insults on people don dey plenty. I wish you a safe delivery op. 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Lovelydaisies: 11:22am On Jul 31, 2022 |
OP, are you leaving because he lied or because of the child who's been dropped with you or both? Do you still love each other? The OP has made up her mind. I pity the man and the daughter who's caught up in this difficult situation. Let God intervene because words will be flying here and there but what's the best decision? OP, a separation, not divorce, would be best for now until oga shows remorse/apologizes and a working solution has been reached. You don't want to raise your soon-to-be born child outside wedlock. Please, reconsider. Maybe search for agencies that handle such issues. God bless you. |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Nozino: 11:23am On Jul 31, 2022 |
kollinz1234: Her child is perfect and protected. You shouldn’t be saying all this because I’m sure all your children will be still births! 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by meetme01: 11:24am On Jul 31, 2022 |
Nozino: I read all your response to others on this thread and I realised, you are either a family to OP,or you just want to be noticed. Good, we have noticed you. I am a special need individual for 19years doing great things that you will ever imagine. All you stated above, I do it myself. Thanks to my support system who encouraged and stood by me all this years. You don't run from challenges, you stay focused and look for solution(s). That's what am preaching not vengeance like you are doing. 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Uniquekriss(m): 11:25am On Jul 31, 2022 |
H0711:nobody has asked you to raise the child especially in that condition, mandate your man to take her elsewhere and stay where you are, going back to your parents would be more shameful and it would result to u having multiple baby daddies, forgive him for not telling u of his child beforehand, it would have been Okay to leave if u weren't carrying his child. |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by chival(f): 11:25am On Jul 31, 2022 |
H0711:Your husband was wrong to keep such such vital information from you. However, I really don't think this is enough cause for a divorce. You can both come up with tenable solutions for the care of the girl depending on the availability of funds. Her care can be managed by a professional caregiver. Unless you have some other issue with your husband, this isn't enough for a divorce. Modification: Since funds are a problem, giving your husband some space may be the only way out, considering your condition. Return home, get some rest, have your baby and then decide on what to do next. Don't end your marriage in haste though. I wish you the best. |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Nozino: 11:26am On Jul 31, 2022 |
Taigaban: Accepting a 7year old special needs child is one of the problems of marriages? In which state or country? Was your parents marriage marred with this abnormality? 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Ebymyk(m): 11:27am On Jul 31, 2022 |
H0711:yes, i feel your pain... It's not easy... I totally understand with you..just be safe where ever you are... Your family members should be aware of your every move... Please.. For security reasons... You're most welcome, anytime... 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Nobody: 11:27am On Jul 31, 2022 |
BloomingDale:Lol...I see what ur doing. Yea its possible. I have adopted people here as mine even without meeting them ( especially those who can't help themselves) and I keep doing the little I can by keeping them on payroll as best as I can. I no come out talk but they know themselves. Once again I hope and pray u see beyond ur nose. I see ur posts on this topic so I can tell the kind of woman u are. God will help us all.. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Inali: 11:28am On Jul 31, 2022 |
HRHQueenPhil:you're stupid and deluded. As if you will stay if you're in the same situation. The way una dey talk sometimes ehn 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by EgunMogaji2: 11:29am On Jul 31, 2022 |
This pregnancy could have been terminated. I’m not sure why people purposefully bring handicapped children into this already cruel world. 7 Likes 1 Share
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Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Nozino: 11:29am On Jul 31, 2022 |
meetme01: If you like, be a special needs person for 100years. It doesn’t change the fact that the child isn’t her responsibility, she isn’t obligated to do anything for her, and if the reverse was the case, same you would advise her husband to throw her out of the house. 2 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Ukmummy: 11:30am On Jul 31, 2022 |
Pls call mè on 08078321505 or 08023351618 for help. Remaìn in your marriage pĺs. |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by ALLNIGERIANSMAD(m): 11:30am On Jul 31, 2022 |
Nozino:the one in your womb will come worse than your step wife as you claim, you are a useless woman that's why you won't have a stable Life, before you marry, you think marriage is bed of roses, small challenge you want to run and you expect me to be begging you to stay to completely destroy that innocent man abi? Thunder fire you |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by latolz: 11:30am On Jul 31, 2022 |
My dear, you should not face this burden while pregnant.. Not good for you and could be dangerous... Please kindly leave... The mental torture is too much and to be honest you can never trust him again.. |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by ALLNIGERIANSMAD(m): 11:31am On Jul 31, 2022 |
delishpot:you stink |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Nozino: 11:31am On Jul 31, 2022 |
victorazy: It is flimsy because you haven’t cared for a child. You dn pack 7years old shit before? Someone that can’t communicate? How she wan take dy carry her waka? Do you know what special needs is? You’re mad sir. May God allow you experience it. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by BloomingDale(f): 11:32am On Jul 31, 2022 |
ugolightswel1: Oga, the husband dumped a special needs child on a 7 month pregnant lady. An assistant ke? The child needs a minimum of 2 assistants. One to be taking care of her during the day and the other one at night. That is why everyone is running away from the child. Even her husband ran away from the first wife due to the child, but luckily the ex wife traced him. The man only earns 15k per month. 3 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Mrpojj(m): 11:32am On Jul 31, 2022 |
H0711:He shouldn't transfer such burden to you 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Reference(m): 11:33am On Jul 31, 2022 |
EgunMogaji2: It is possible that the husband's meagre means could not afford proper prenatals to check what was in the offing. 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Nozino: 11:34am On Jul 31, 2022 |
TheFacelessMan: They should send the child to live with you for two months to see how easy it is to deal with a special needs child. I’m not even factoring the betrayal and breach of trust. But no issues, your daughter will experience the same in their marriages. 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by H0711(f): 11:35am On Jul 31, 2022 |
Uniquekriss: You are trying to manipulate me it will not work in Jesus name. If you care enough come and join him so you can help him to take care of the child. I bet you will not even stay for 10 mins you will run and go back to where you came from 2 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by BloomingDale(f): 11:36am On Jul 31, 2022 |
killmods: Oga, don’t judge me. I’m just telling it like how it is. I also spend millions yearly taking care of other people kids. Anyone can do that if they have the money, so nothing special about it. This is a special needs child. The child needs round the clock care, at least a minimum of 2 assistants specialized in caring for disabled children, and you want a 7 month old pregnant woman to carry such a heavy burden. Oga, you are simply just a wicked man with no respect for women. 5 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by H0711(f): 11:37am On Jul 31, 2022 |
latolz: Thank you I am at my brother place . I will not go back there again. I am staying here until thrusday when I will leave for the village 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Nozino: 11:37am On Jul 31, 2022 |
ALLNIGERIANSMAD: All your children will be still births. Tears will never finish from your home. 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Nobody: 11:39am On Jul 31, 2022 |
BloomingDale:Now I'm wicked? Does she have to be the one to attend to the special needs child herself? They can both compromise and make provisions or seek outside help together. U telling her to run away from her union u are kind shebi? Keep exposing urself. I have nothing else to say to a woman like u. 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Reference(m): 11:40am On Jul 31, 2022 |
H0711: So sorry about your situation. 2 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Nozino: 11:40am On Jul 31, 2022 |
generalwo: Thank you very much for this advice. But as you read OP is 7months pregnant and can’t really take care of her rn. Can you please accommodate her?? Look for a maid and I will pay 25k/month while OP puts to bed and nurses her baby. Please, like the good Christian you are, do it Nna. 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by kollinz1234(m): 11:41am On Jul 31, 2022 |
Nozino:you will soon learn how to read, understand and write so that you won't be placing unnecessary courses on your head and that of your generation. |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by TheFacelessMan: 11:43am On Jul 31, 2022 |
kollinz1234: The Nozino guy is jobless. Written more than 10 comments on the issue. Probably has siblings cursed with cerebral palsy. See his obvious lack of hometraining. 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by BloomingDale(f): 11:44am On Jul 31, 2022 |
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